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[meanbitchydyke]

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Hi hi! I'm Cat, a 29-year-old non-binary (TME) butch lesbian. I use they/them, he/him, ze/zir, fae/faer, and ey/em pronouns. I'm white, mentally ill, AuDHD, and physically disabled. I use a cane and a wheelchair. I am on testosterone and I have had top surgery and a hysterectomy. I am a trauma survivor and I talk about it sometimes.

Before following me, I'd appreciate if you read my about page, and I ask that you read my DNI, linked here and posted below this preamble in the readmore.

My activity is pretty sporadic depending on school and dealing with my disabilities, and I don't run this blog on a queue - most of the stuff I reblog tends to be time sensitive.

Please don't hesitate to ask me if you need something tagged! I would rather know to tag something appropriately than have anything I post or reblog upset someone needlessly.

Thank you for reading! If you could like this post or send me an ask to let me know you've read it and my DNI, I would appreciate it! It's by no means required though.

Also, because my description cuts off on some devices, I will put here that the credit for my icon goes to bisexualdimitri. The flag used is the autistic lesbian pride flag, and the character is Rika from Pokemon Scarlet and Violet.

DNI below the cut.

None of the following criteria are up for debate. Do not send me messages trying to argue with me about them. Just block me and move on.

DNI/people I block on sight:

people who interact positively with girl-effigy (fka girlrats). I will update her url here if I ever catch wind of her changing it. It is extremely important that people who interact with her do not interact with me. You can ask me why OFF ANON.

LGBT-phobes (especially transmisogynists)

misogynists

white supremacists (includes anti-BLM and pro-colonialism)

antisemites and islamophobes

zionists

ableists

anti-abortion rights activists

Republicans/conservatives/“centrists”

MRAs/anti-feminists/transandrophobia “truthers”

fatphobes/pro-ana/pro-mia/weight loss blogs

antivaxxers

abuse/incest/SA apologists (includes pro-shippers)

pansexuals who spout “hearts not parts” nonsense (the tl;dr is it’s homophobic, biphobic, and transphobic)

bi/pan “lesbians” and their supporters

people who use the q slur to describe all lgbt people, to describe cishets at all, or to describe specific lgbt people who have not agreed to have the q slur used for them

endogenic “systems” and their supporters

hates dogs, cats, or kids (not a moral reason, just an “I don’t need that negativity in my life” sort of thing)

JKR apologists

people who hide behind one marginalized aspect of their identity to excuse their bigotry toward others (“I can say racist things because I’m gay” etc etc)

people who have ever been fascists (I don’t care if you’ve been “reformed”, I don’t fucking want someone with that kind of history interacting with me)

Can interact but don’t follow if:

You are under 18 (do not interact with posts I have tagged “nsft” under any circumstances, you will be blocked)

Can follow, but I probably won’t follow back if:

You are under 21

You type mostly in all caps (I can’t read it very well and I feel like I’m getting yelled at)

You type mostly in colored text (I can’t read that very well either)

You are a cishet

[mlemplus]

Quick reminder that:

Pan* people aren't indecisive

Bi* people aren't indecisive

Poly* people aren't indecisive

Polyam* people aren't indecisive

Pan* people aren't sex tools

Bi* people aren't sex tools

Poly* people aren't sex tools

Polyam* people aren't sex tools

* = sexual/romantic

[mlemplus]

[A picture of a short clip from The Brockway Record. "February a short month but a gay one" is written in caps.]

The Brockway Record, Pennsylvania, February 3, 1933

[mlemplus]

Hey... nonbinary people? All of them? I have a gift.

💙💛💙💜💜💚💕💘💖💘💖❤💓💜💙🖤💙🖤💙💜💚💘💖❤💖❤💗💗💙💝💟💞💟💝❣💝❣💝💞💙💖💘💖❤💗❤❤💖🖤💟🖤❣🖤💙💗💘💗❤🖤💘💗💖❤💗💙🖤❣💝💝

[mlemplus]

You are perfect.

'Perfect' can be taken as flawless, but I do not believe that, dear. You are perfect in the sense that you are willing to be alive, holding onto your flaws, and being yourself.

You are perfect.

As in you're still trying to be yourself and refine your kindness. I love you.

[mlemplus]

You are never making anything weird by being yourself.

[mlemplus]

[A picture stating "Recovery Is a Process".]

[mlemplus]

Hhhhey so uhhh. Nonbinary people who are going through transphobia are amazing and I love them

[mlemplus]

You can label men as boys. You're not a pedophile by saying you like boys.

[mlemplus]

[Pictures with a light blue to light pink gradient with text.

"Trans men are allowed to show emotion"

"Trans men are allowed to cry"

"Trans boys are allowed to show emotion"

"Trans boys are allowed to cry"

"Emotion is a perfectly normal part of existence"

"There is nothing wrong with having emotions".]

[mlemplus]

Straight, lesbian, trans, straight, pan, genderfluid mlm, genderfluid : transman-nonbinary gay

hey if ur lgbtq rb this with all ur past labels nd the one u use now

i’ll go first straight, bi, pan, demi, then lesbian

[mlemplus]

Hey

if your gay say hey