#sick url too op

[olderthannetfic]

I wish there was a way to exclude OP and reblogger URL's from the blacklist for text in a post body.

I blacklisted "autistic" because I just got sick of the way Tumblr talks about it; I'm autistic but I just do not identify with the popular characterisaton at all, and half of the "helpful" posts are the opposite of helpful, and the ones that are are things I already know and do.

But then I had to unblock it because TONS of people have usernames like autistic-blorbo-name and I lost way too much fandom content and cute animal pictures to that blacklist.

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[gojoest]

I have so many thoughts about creep! bf gojo. Mainly bc he probably didn't get a lot of normal interactions as a kid, either he was being praised for being 'the chosen one' or left completely to his own devices. and so his sense of decency and normalcy are skewed so far off. He does what he wants and can't see the reason why that would be seen negatively, he loves you and he's clingy n e way, creep! bf gojo steals your underwear 100% -🦅

oh god….you really know your way to get to me, don’t you………..bc yes. yes, you are so correct . oh my god. i’ve talked about this before here and there but yes. i think satoru was very neglected growing up despite being born as a boy with a spark incomparable to any other, a special boy. the first descendant in the gojo clan in 400 years to inherit both limitless & six eyes.

and i think, even when he was little, a lot of people feared him bc of that. and naturally, the care and affection people usually show to a child provoked by the internal need to protect such a small being, that very sense to love and shield what needs to be loved and shielded, dulled before the eyes of fear. this, and the envy of prying eyes and all who wanted him gone before he fully blossomed into something bigger, sow the seeds of loneliness in him. he was an outcast, and not because he was looked down on but because he was looked up on, too much at that.

i don’t think he was ever truly loved, even by his parents actually. maybe they loved him to some extent. but not because he was their blood and a beloved symbol of their love. what made their chest swell was rather pride than love. and they were not proud of him, they were proud of themselves for bringing such a special boy to existence.

i don’t believe he was ever genuinely looked after and cared for. what people around him looked after was the shell of a boy that carried the innate techniques derived from the gojo clan. nobody knew what his favorite color was, what his favorite food was, what he loved doing outside of training sessions. i don’t think he knew himself tbf bc it’s hard to shape your own understanding of the world and what’s precious while growing up when you’ve never witnessed it with your own eyes, when no one has ever shown it to you what it means to love and favor something. bc children take inspiration from those around them. and i don’t think he had anyone around him to look up to and be inspired from.

i remember reading a post connecting the lack of presence in the sense of support and source of inspiration in satoru’s life to how it affected the way he carries himself later in life in the sense of, let’s say, fashion. i don’t remember the url of the op i am so sorry but god damn, they were so right. bc if you look closely you will notice that most characters in jjk have their own style, a specific physical trait unique only to them, whether a hairstyle or a fashion sense or whatever. but saotur? except for the blindfold, he’s got nothing. right? and the blindfold he wears is not for the sake of being eccentric or unique, it’s not for the sake of creating a trademark on his end. it once again comes down to his technique. 

so yea for someone like satoru, who’s never had a normal human connection in his life before, love is very likely to border with obsession. and like, i don’t think he is completely unaware of the feeling “love” but it’s one thing to know of it through books, movies or whatsoever and another to live and actually experience it firsthand. so when he loves, it’s raw, it’s inexperienced, it’s limitless (hehe see what i did there). there is no moral compass, there is no stop sign for him—he’s going to be weird. he’s going to cross certain boundaries. he’s going to disregard your personal space. but it’s not because he’s an actual sick freak just for the sake of it, it’s because he loves you with all the pent up loneliness in him and now that he’s tasted love and knows how good it feels, he doesn’t want to lose it.

p.s.: yes, he’s a pathological panty stealer

[transmasc-wizard]

I saw your tags on the "most played video game hours" post about just starting to be a Gamer this year, and now I'm curious. What are your favorite games? I know you mentioned Hollow Knight, but what else? Are you a platformer person, or is Hollow Knight an exception to a pattern?

I'm just curious bc most of my friends or acquaintances are very big RPG people, like Dragon Age or BG3 (which tracks since most of my friends are also dnd/ttrpg people), and/or life sim (stardew valley, the sims, fields of mistria, etc.) people. There are a couple outliers though, like the DM of my Curse of Strahd game who's really into Hollow Knight, and two of the players in our Sat/Sun group who are huge horror game fans (Dead By Daylight, the new Silent Hill 2 remake, Resident Evil, that sort of thing).

And since I know your tastes kinda span all three of those things (you mentioned Hollow Knight, you play dnd, and you're a horror fan), where your gaming niche is. If it's one of the things I've brought up or if it's something totally different. (Mine is super specifically turn-based combat RPGs, either story-based, or roguelikes/lites. BG3, P:WotR, Slay the Spire, Wildermyth, etc.) It's okay if you don't think you have a niche yet, or even you never think you'll develop one, I'm just curious. I don't know that many writeblr people who do much gaming.

OH, and I wanted to mention the game I just bought on Wednesday, because it seems like something that might interest you/just has a cool concept in general. It's called Elsinore, and it's sort of like a mix of a visual novel and also a Sims game, but it's based on Hamlet, and you play as Ophelia, and it's a timeloop that you slowly learn more about after dying over and over (you are doomed by the narrative after all) until you eventually reach an "ending". I have yet to play it, but I've heard very good things, and I'm super excited to get into it when I'm in the mood for a game that requires a little more thinking than my combat-heavy RPGs. The art style is gorgeous, and Ophelia's design is a Black woman, and she looks stunning.

Okay, that's enough of a mega-ramble from me, hahaha. It's after midnight and I'm just getting over being sick, so I'm making even less sense than usual. I'm just nosy.

As per usual, ignore the main url, this is Morri @six-improbable-things / @memento-morri-writes (oh how I regret making these two sideblogs, since I really like keeping my blogs and social circles separate, but alas, it's been years, and I'm too entrenched and stubborn to make a new account and move over all my stuff.)

(this might take the cake for the longest, most rambling ask I've ever sent in my life, which is saying something. I'm so very sorry.)

hello I spent all day watching vox machina for the first time with my girlfriend so i am only now getting to this

so Hollow Knight is currently my favourite game, as my hours indicate, and i do like the platform elements. currently the only other platformer I've played is celeste, which I'm like... 4 levels into out of 9? and I like it. and then not a platformer but one of my favourite games is Omori as well, which... probably tracks with who I am as a person.

but primarily I actually like playing survival horror co-ops with my friends :) we play lethal company a TON together, modded and unmodded, and we just yesterday spent almost 5 hours playing Nuclear Nightmare. I'd say that's the gaming experience I look forward to most. I like the combination of horror built worlds and incredibly silly times with friends. (I also play, like, roblox. with them. but that's not for the *game* it's just for the *friends* while survival horror games are For The Game.)

that visual novel sounds rlly interesting !! the only visual novels I've played are doki doki literature club, good lord everyone at my high school reunion is a trans man and they're all hot, and life after magic (wildly different vibes lol). so I don't have much of a VN like niche or anything yet, but elsinore sounds interesting and I am adding it to my video game wishlist :)

[beperoncin]

ok i had a sick ass dream and i think it should go here

so

first thing i remember is i was playing a roblox game and it told me to reach the bottom of the map so i did that and got scared because it was super dark but i saw another person there but the dream ended a few seconds after

and then i was playing phobias and i went onto this new fear they added and it was creepy. like you played as a nurse and you had to treat a case of mass hysteria but i liked it. also the patients said things like "my bones hurt" and "eat me"

and then i was at school again and i was doing my finals but i was so stressed and i cried a couple times but then i found out i didn't need to do some of the exams because i did so good in the respective classes

so i went home and logged on tumblr and went through rockin's blog for things to reblog and saw someone who made more lemoncino content but it was like. kinda sexual?? like idk what it exactly said but i think it was lemon and peperoncino and a couple more cookies recreating the "lemme smash" meme and i liked it so i went to ops blog and he was cool and he was a selfshipper and we became mutuals soon after

then i went on to youtube and watched some omori stuff :D

and the last part of the dream was me making a cookie run oc. her name is nyquil cookie she's apparently related to dr bones she's a nurse too and she's a HUGE lemon x peperoncino shipper. to a point where she made a blog with the url of www.lemoncino.yaoi and apparently lemon cookie found that website and posted the "WHO POSTED MY NUDES ON TWITTER.COM" meme

[pitohuimaki]

in all honesty, i started this account as a silly little sideblog wayyy back in 2020, where i made one shitpost in january and then didn't use this blog again until april.

back then, this was a yujikiri-centred blog, and i would post literally anything that i thought people wanted to see from me. i was coming from another sao blog that had just over 10k followers (rest in scavenge toad meat spaghetti, never forgetti </3) and i thought that if i didn't get at least a thousand by the end of the year, i'd failed.

i had to take a break in march of 2021 after falling out with someone in my personal life that i'd met through the sao fandom. i felt sick even trying to make sao stuff, and this blog became sporadically-updated for the following year.

the first progressive movie came out in december of 2021, and i cosplayed asuna! my mother and i made the cosplay together, and i wore it to the movie! that's also the night i met one of my best friends, who helped me fall in love with sao and remember how fucking nice the good parts of the fandom can be.

by the time i came back in full swing in february 2022, you guys became SUCH an incredible force of love, appreciation and creative input. we had some incredible times that year, and it made coming back to sao feel so much lighter and less daunting. i started writing again, i started cosplaying again, i fell for sao again. thanks to you guys <3

in october of 2022, i got my elucidator tattoo! I've wanted to get it since i was 16, and then suddenly it was real and on my body, and i get to keep a piece of sao with me forever (and i will eventually be getting pitohui this year, too). what else happened in October 2022? well, taylor swift released midnights... oh! and i got surgery that very same day! i couldn't breathe for like 2 weeks, anything touching my chest made me gag, and post-op depression hit me like a tonne of bricks, but hoo boy did we get some high quality posts from it.

we had a good run in 2022 and again briefly in 2023 where i was probably one of the most popular sao blogs on here, from which joyous times we birthed spicy micheal (thanks to @sapphieissleepy <3) and then welcomed his lady friend and their spice rack. we were having so many discussions so often, it's to this day the most fun i've ever felt in this fandom (or any fandom) and i'm forever grateful for having the honour of it happening on my blog <3

in 2023, i started cosplaying... of... a different... variety... on a website... that's not youtube... and it's orange... and you guys have made me feel more fuckin grounded and normal through that than anything else lol. you guys keep me extremely grounded and grateful, and when you (lovingly and jokingly) poke fun at me, my awkwardness, or my weird horny Work Followers, it reminds me how lucky i am to have this space and my work space, because i get to experience the fandom in such different ways.

i changed my url last year! it was absolutely not under the best circumstances (still lowkey salty about the fact i even felt the need to lol) but it feels like a new era for the blog. this is the only url a lot of you have known me as! hi! hope you've enjoyed my small walk down memory lane for a second!

at some point in 2024, i made the decision that if someone is going to thirst over quinella (while ignoring her actions, or dismissing and diminishing what she had done to eugeo), then i was going to JOKINGLY AND SARCASTICALLY thirst over sugou. this ended predictably, and now in 2025, i have made a moodboard for our married life together and lana del rey was in my top artists in my spotify wrapped. oh dear.

there were also a lot of shitty things that happened (*cough cough* end of 2023 *cough cough*) that i don't want to mention here, but you guys have been so so extremely loving and wonderful, and you've made me genuinely thrilled to be alive. getting to talk to you guys is the highlight of my day sometimes.

in the five years since i made this blog, i've entirely changed as a person. i've gone from being a shy, reclusive loner who wrote fanfiction as a way to cope with stress isolation, and who never planned to make it to my 20s... to someone who loves waking up in the morning most days, who gets excited to go to the gym, who has made so many wonderful friends and connections through sao, who loves my job more than anything, and who has regular readers of my fanfics - something i could only dream of years ago.

and, for the people who followed me for ggo or sao abridged: welcome! this is a small taste of what happens here! i hope we'll get to make a whole lot more chaos together!

WE MADE IT

[kakyoinryoko]

i should break out murolo again soon tbh i just figured i’d start by going back to my usual. i still fully intend on swapping back and forth like i’m playing hot potato with myself though

[kyra45]

I got an ask from the blog hologramconnoisseurr claiming to have a sick cat the ask is identical to the other cat scam asks but I found the original facebook post and that og post has a gofundme as the primary way of raising funds (which that blog didn't link or mention at all) and the paypal for the blog is different than the facebook posters paypal (theirs ends in 859 while the real persons ends in 85) They're also impersonating the fb op by using their real name on here, which is absolutely wild. After I messaged them asking about all that they blocked me & they blocked someone else that confronted them for being a scammer then altered their user name to not be associated with the post I made about them scamming. They've already duped ppl into donating on here too

The scammer always changes urls once caught, and they always impersonate someone and people don’t like to investigate further before they donate. But thanks for finding them! I always suggest answering their asks publicly so I can find it easier rather than taking a screenshot because the ask won’t show up if you search it otherwise.

Unfortunately the scammer always blocks people who call them out or even asks a question; They don’t like it when someone confronts them. They will lie to people to make money. They even might go around telling people their not scamming and claim tneir a relative of the owner.

But! It’s usually easier to warn anyone sharing the post on anon by explaining the scam and giving links to the sources.

[fatalism-and-villainy]

if you're comfortable talking about it, can you elaborate (maybe in a very general sense) on how those posts are messing up their discussion of the nb experience? I'm curious and I also don't want to make the same kind of mistakes.

Sure, I don't mind explaining further. I don't think I can do so in a general sense, though - being on Pillowfort has made me much more inclined towards using specific examples. I think that's not really the done thing on tumblr, both because it's hard to link to things here when URLs can change, and because it's tacitly considered against etiquette (or, least, I know I instinctively flinch away from doing so). But I think a lot of discussions would be less inflammatory here if people were more specific about what they were complaining about, and I think this is a topic that benefits from close reading some examples, because a lot of it is subtle stuff in the wording that betrays a lot of broader and more pernicious assumptions.

So I'm not including these examples to chastise anyone, I'm just using them because they're useful illustrations of a bigger problem.

My post that prompted this, for context:

I have seen two posts in the last few days that conflate how nonbinary people get read by others with nonbinary people’s own personal relationship to gender and the nonbinary label. I’m so so sick of this.

Alright, post #1 (and I did find a thread where some people were pointing out some of the same issues I have with it, but I saw it reblogged with this addition on its own, so it's worth pointing out). OP's post:

if you call a nonbinary person cis bc they don't perform androgyny to a level you approve of i'm omw with a big hammer to shatter your kneecaps

Note the "perform androgyny to a level you approve of" phrasing - this is about others' perception of nonbinary people and of what constitutes androgyny. Now look at this addition:

This is incredibly important to remember. Nonbinary isnt just a middle ground or a third gender. Its not being in the binary. Thats it. That means something different to every nb person. So maybe someone does lean a bit more into their assigned gender at birth, they’re still nonbinary and calling them cis just because they arent preforming for you is transphobic- Yes even if you are trans too.

I agree that nonbinary people can have some kind of identification with their assigned gender, and that this doesn't negate their being nonbinary or trans - but, crucially, that's a different topic from what the OP was about. The OP was about how people look to others, and how they meet others' standards for what a nonbinary person should look like.

And what counts as "performing" androgyny is not only very subjective, individually and subculturally, but also full of double standards. There are people who would consider simply having visible breasts, or not trying to hide my body shape, as "presenting" as a woman, or not being androgynous, even if my clothes or hairstyle would be read as "masculine" on a cis man. (Side note: the way I often wear my hair is something I've mainly seen on men, and some nonbinary people as well, but because it's long on the top a lot of people would think "feminine". The gendering of hair is weird.) Similarly, I like wearing brightly coloured lipstick. This isn't because my identity is at all "feminine" or aligned with womanhood - I just like bright colours on my lips 😂. Additionally, there are nonbinary people who might get read as "androgynous", or whose gender might be harder to visually sort into a binary category, who do, in fact, feel some affiliation with their assigned gender. These are separable categories.

While the addition is alright on its own as an observation, I think adding it here actually undermines the point of the OP. The original post argues that others' perceptions are not the determiner of whether someone else "counts" as trans, and the addition, even while in agreement that nonbinary people who aren't "androgynous enough" count as trans... also falls into using others' perceptions as a determiner of another's identity.

The second post is here:

even spicier take: “non-binary” means a thousand different things to a thousand different people and therefore anyone of any sexuality could theoretically be attracted to a non-binary person in some capacity, so if you’re gay and someone you’re attracted to says, “i’m non-binary,” you don’t actually have to redefine your entire identity, you can just drink a cup of sleepytime tea and go right on being gay and into non-binary people.

So, this starts out with "nonbinary means a thousand different things to a thousand different people", which leads me to think that this is about relationship compatibility - i.e., that there are nonbinary people whose personal version of "nonbinary" doesn't preclude gay relationships or gay-identified partners. But the following statement implies a slightly different angle - "therefore anyone of any sexuality could theoretically be attracted to a nonbinary person in some capacity." The "therefore" doesn't follow for me, because "being attracted to someone" is very different from relationship compatibility, and doesn't have anything to do with how a nonbinary person self-identifies or wants to be socially positioned.

I think this sort of confusion is part of what makes a lot of conversations about "attraction to nonbinary people" so fraught - because there are several different scenarios implied in how this post is written. Are we talking about the possibility of a gay person actually forging a relationship with a nonbinary person? Are we talking about seeing someone in passing that you think is attractive who turns out to be nonbinary? The phrasing "if... someone you're attracted to says, 'i'm nonbinary'" implies this is a scenario in which the attraction started before learning that person's gender. But is this just a passing crush, or someone you happened to notice, or is it meant to be someone you're already in a relationship with? Because those are two different scenarios! If we're talking about the possibility of a gay person having a relationship with a nonbinary person, then what being nonbinary "means" to that person is relevant. But if we're talking about a gay person just being attracted in passing to a person who turns out to be nonbinary, then the attraction itself does not say anything about, or having anything to do with, that nonbinary person's self-conception.

Look, here's the thing. It's pretty inevitable that we all visually misclassify people from time to time, even cis people. Attraction is also internal and does not affect the other person at all. I don't think the possibility that someone you happen to find attractive might not actually be your preferred gender, or might potentially find your attraction distressing, need be a source of scrupulosity - just pay attention to their signals in your actual interactions with them and treat them how they've implied or explicitly stated they'd like to be classed. Similarly, I think sexual orientation is about patterns and general trends, and one person falling outside that pattern doesn't necessitate changing one's identity. But that says fuck-all about the identity or feelings of the nonbinary person in question. The idea that it does has the (probably unintentional) implication that a gay woman finding me attractive means that I must be "woman-aligned" or comfortable being classed that way in relationships, which is not at all the case.

Like, the separate implications the wording here in this post are all points I agree with: some nonbinary people find "gay" as an identity or social position to be compatible with their conception of themselves, and being mistaken about someone's gender or having an exception to your general pattern of attraction doesn't necessitate an identity crisis. But is it clear how treating one of those things as naturally flowing from the other has troubling implications? Nonbinary people vary widely in how we want to be classed, or feel comfortable being classed, in the context of relationships. But other people's involuntary feelings of attraction are absolutely not a comment on that. And treating them as if they are is incredibly harmful.

[murfeelee]

Simblr Asks - TS3

Saw these questions by Teauke on my dash, and y’all know I love talking/ranting about The Sims; let’s go! ^0^

1. how big is your mods folder?

That’s my mods folder with only mods/hacks/overrides; no CAS or build/buy CC installed. It’s a miracle that nothing conflicts, at least not as far as I can tell.

2. how would you describe your style? A sporadic mix of tv/gaming fandom-inspired conversions and recreations, of mostly fanciful and/or cultural themes & genres.

3. What is your favorite challenge? I’m a builder at heart, so I love recreating lots and interiors. Challenges where we find IRL rooms/scenes and remake them in TS3 are always the most fun for me.

4. do you make cc? if so, what kind? I make fanciful & cultural custom content (occult, sci-fi, boho, etc). I make CAS CC sometimes, but I prefer making buy/build CC.

5. what type of cc do you hoard? Not everything, but a lot. As creators retire and links die, I’m even more paranoid than I already was that CC will no longer be available anywhere.

6. what default eyes and skin do you use? I don’t use default-replacement skintones, but I do use Buhudain’s You Are Real mod.

As for eye defaults, I absolutely love Moonskin’s Shiny Glass replacements.

7. how many urls have you had, and what are the meanings behind them? All of my simming URLs on MTS, TSR, the officials, and Tumblr are some variation of my first name, Murfee Lee. Because yes, I am that darn creative.

8. who is your favorite gameplay blog? 9. who is your favorite storytelling blog? Ugh, there are too many good ones out there.

10. who is your favorite cc creator? All of my favorite creators retired years ago: DyM/Hekate999 (fantasy build/buy), Parsimonious (everything), Luna (everything build/buy), Qingshuangtongzi (Asian everything), Amethyst (Asian CAS), Art-Sims (CAS everything), etc. I swear, the day Sandy/ATS3 (everything build/buy) retires is the day I’m having a panic attack.

11. how do you edit your photos? Badly. Tweak the brightness & contrast and call it a effing day.

12. what is the last screenshot you took? It’s a surprise.

13. what do you do when you are unmotivated? I am never “unmotivated,” so much as I am distracted. I think the reason I’ve simmed so long is strictly because I’m always inspired by fandoms. If I get distracted by a tv/game, it becomes my next muse (aka current obsession). It’s not that I get unmotivated to finish the old stuff I pretty much abandon, it’s just that there aren’t enough hours in the day for me to do everything I want. Sometimes I return to older saves/gameplay. Most times I don’t though--unless someone messages me wanting to see it again (and that’s effing rare). 

14. who is your current favorite sim? Sakura and Nasir are my alltime favorite sims. But I must admit that I patted myself on the back pretty dang hard when I created Tsukihime-Sama for my Moon Medicine gameplay. I love every sim I made for that gameplay (which I really need to finish one day, ugh), but my Lunar Moth Goddess? 👌

15. who is your current favorite sim that is not by you? Every sim that @obscurus-noctem​​ is out here sacrificing goats in order to create. It’s just disgusting how pretty everything on their blog is. Those mersims? Those graphics? That editing? Makes me effing sick. 

16. recreate someone else’s sim in your style. I think I saw a challenge like this a few months/years ago, but never did it. But I DID do the Picrew version.

17. do you talk about sims with people in real life? One of my professors plays SimCity. Naturally, we bonded over how wack EA is. ^_^

18. how many of the packs do you own? All of them, except the Stuff Packs. Barring Fast Lane and Movie Stuff, none of the other SPs are worth the price; it’s just build/buy/CAS CC any MaxisMatch creator.could make for free. I’ve always felt that way about SPs, which is why I never bothered with them in TS1 or TS2 either. I will say though, that TS4′s SPs are something else entirely, which brings me to #24 (see below).

19. how many posts do you have on your blog currently? 2764. JESUS.

20. how many drafts do you have on your blog currently? 363. U_U And most of those are CC sets & gameplay posts I never finished.  

21. how many posts are in your queue currently? It’s a secret. ^_^

22. have you ever moved blogs? Never. I never even changed my theme or URL.

23. are you in any sims related discord servers? Yes, the Creators Cave, but I effing hate Discord; it’s just a royal pain to navigate, IMO.

24. what are your thoughts on the most recent pack? (paranormal) Speaking of Stuff Packs!

RANT ALERT!

If anything, TS4′s SPs are doing way too much (adding new gameplay, careers, lifestates/NPCs, lots, etc!? WUT.) Or rather, its EPs aren’t doing nearly enough. I love that TS4′s SPs add meaningful content. But if they’re raising their bar, that means the Expansion Packs need to rise by the same degree, to stay relevant, if anything.

But EA, in their infinite ineptitude, seems to be scaling back with their EPs! Cutting what should be 1 cohesive EP into multiple SPs & GPs piecemeals the content and cheats people out of money, by having us pay more for less! The TS4 SPs do a lot, yes, but now let’s talk about the Paranormal SP for example:

Paranormal Stuff does perhaps the most any SP in The Sims 1/2/3/4 ever has, and has by far the most worth for its money...but at a dire cost:

- the career only has 5 levels instead of 10 (thus being nowhere as deep as TS3′s combination of the Ambition EP’s Ghost Hunter and the Store’s crystal ball--which links with the Supernatural EP’s Spellcasting skill)

the crystal ball is a 1-trick pony

unlocking Bonehilda is tied to grinding skill/career levels, only for her to do EFF ALL once she finally arrives (and her face looks like melted cookie dough WTF)

most of the gameplay is tied to the pack’s new lot/venue

and the ghosts are still meh

So rather than TS4 having an actual Supernatural EP, instead it has the ok-but-disappointing Realm of Magic Game Pack (which I’ve already ranted about), the watered-down Paranormal Stuff Pack, and the INCREDIBLY OP Vampires Game Pack (which I’ve salivated over). That’s already $40--the cost of TS3′s Supernatural Expansion Pack, mind you--but with the glaringly absent inclusion of Fairies, Werewolves, AND Zombies. O_O WHAT THE HELL, EA. To get the full Supernatural experience in TS4 is gonna end up running people not $40, but perhaps DOUBLE, if werewolves & fairies get their own GPs (unless EA waters them down in SPs, which would still be anywhere from $50-60). EA is robbing people blind.

25. how many hours have you played sims? I have no idea, no doubt thousands.

26. if you play gameplay, do you play with mods? See #1 above

27. what’s the farthest you’ve gotten in a challenge? See #3 above.

Thanks for reading!

[rpbetter]

Thanks for your thoughts. Nope, I don't have another problem with the psa. It's the subtle word choice pretty much, but nothing else. I don't mind if people use me as a meme farm, so when I see psas like that or comments like that, I get upset because I associate it with people who make other blanket assumptions about all rpers, I have it linked in my head with people going around saying "rp is a hobby not a jobby" and making other assumptions about how all rpers do their thing.

Thank you for answering those questions!

The assumptive quality of the RPC can seriously be annoying as hell, especially if you're in the minority on any particular issue. When that's the case, the PSAs are so rarely geared toward you and any issues you might be experiencing that it's legitimately upsetting. I absolutely feel you on that!

I mean, obviously. Obviously lol I do. It couldn't be much clearer that I have a serious issue with the constant bombardment of PSAs insisting that we normalize shitty behaviors that are the damn norm, that we're all just losers RPing on tumblr so no one should be anxious about anything ever (instead of, you know, maybe trying to legitimately boost people's confidence, radical thought), or that anything that isn't being hostile to oneself is being hostile to everyone else.

I think the issue is that, while there is obviously a majority set of takes/issues/experiences (though, those, too, absolutely can skew toward one's particular RP corner and style), there's no way to address every instance and variable of an issue. Particularly not when anything other one paragraph is too lengthy for a lot of people here to engage with in a meaningful way.

So, I know I have to frequently ask, "is this a legitimate or hostile sort of blank-statement, or is it just addressing the majority experience? If it's the latter, is it genuinely enough of a problem to address?"

Like, did they mean that this is an experience most RPers have, or did they mean this is the only experience/is the correct and only way to do things? And that's not always answerable, of course, but when I feel like it is, it's usually found on OP's blog and RPC itself.

If OP has expressed things that are not the majority experience, expressed that they do not agree with blanket-statements, and doesn't imply with every rule, PSA, point on the DNI, and so on that to approach and proceed with RP in a way they do not is to commit some manner of terrible IRL crime? It's almost certainly that they were just expressing a majority experience and nothing more.

And in this case, yeah, as I'm sure you've noticed from being on the opposite side of this, it is the majority experience. I don't recall ever seeing very many RPers who do not espouse having an issue with having their memes and aesthetics reblogged without some manner of (rules specified if they're not a dick) interaction/relationship with the other mun. (Such as "mutuals are okay to reblog" or "I expect reblog karma and practice it.")

I don't know if there has been an influx of newer RPers or those who have migrated from more relaxed areas of the RPC, but recently, there really has been an increase in at least my corners of muns being used as resource blogs when they do not wish to be. They've all expressed in their rules their particular boundaries for that, have made overall posts politely but firmly asking that people who do not write with them and haven't even read their rules not do this, and have gone directly to the worst offenders to ask them to stop. And it continues to happen. So, I imagine that is why you might be seeing an influx of PSAs about the matter in response.

For anyone watching this conversation that might not understand why some muns are so against this, some reasons are:

clogging up their notifications

the aesthetic was their picture, edit, quote, etc. and not meant to be shared off their blog/only by the partner(s) tagged in it

when you reblog from someone, their URL is obviously attached, spreading them to another dash full of people - they might like you, but not want some of your mutuals following to their blog

their muse doesn't get much interaction, but other muns keep reblogging memes/aesthetics from them when they won't write with them or send anything in

they feel used for the above reason or any variety of other reasons

I'm really sure you know that, Anon, but I think it's important that we all understand where we're coming from because there are so many different preferences and experiences. It's really not good enough to just feel like everyone can do whatever they want, so long as it isn't harassing anyone else/they're being respectful of others. Because can feel that way all we want to while still getting upset when we lack the understanding of preferences that are extremely different, or even in opposition to our own.

We can't effectively respect each other without that sort of understanding of even the things that annoy us, you know? So, I try to promote that understanding and explain things for people who might simply see this on their dash.

Like the "hobby not jobby" thing! I don't get that, I think it has some concerning IRL connotations people are not recognizing, and it's a great way to treat other muns like shit while justifying the behavior. It's in opposition to what I do not because it exists, but rather, because it is weaponized in order to excuse bad behavior and vilify muns who do not engage with the hobby in this way. It doesn't have to exist in hostile opposition to how I enjoy RP, the use of it has made it this way, is what I'm saying.

But I understand where it came from and what it means for the more rational, adult muns here who feel this way. To them, it's just that this is an ultra casual hobby. The way I engage with RP is like a full contact sport lol it requires a lot of effort and engagement, and the effort and engagement is fun. They way they engage with RP is an act of disengaging, it is more like what watching TV is for me - they're just here for some light, quick entertainment.

Understanding this difference is understanding that not everyone who feels so casually about RP is a jackass insisting that everyone else better feel the same way, that their way is the only correct and good way. I'm still not interested in writing with them, it's far too different for that to work out, but it allows for delineating who is enjoyable on my dash/OOC that is into casual RP and who needs to stay behind a block somewhere because they think anyone who has RP as a primary hobby is trying to ruin it for them somehow, attacking them by existing, and the following list of terrible things as a person.

I think that all problems in the RPC could be drastically mitigated by a combination of understanding and mutual respect. People who are alright with others treating them like a meme resource absolutely can and should interact with people who don't feel that way without a problem, for example - all that takes is being aware of your mutual's rules and respecting them.

Damn near 100% of the PSAs out there honestly should not ever have to exist, they come down to the same factors of just exercising some easy respect for each other.

Again, the trouble often comes in at those very differing factors we need to be mindful of. When we feel like the weird one out in the RPC constantly, whether something is actually othering us or not, it starts to feel like it is. We start finding reasons and evidence, and much of the time, at least among those whose first inclination isn't to label OP as various terrible shit as a person, that takes the form of "not everyone."

Well, of course, not everyone! But unfortunately, when we are of the minority opinion/experience, we sometimes have to just realize that very thing. It isn't personal, and that while someone has caused issues coming from this side with that difference, we are not for our mutuals, so this isn't about us. We're actually doing the thing the PSA is speaking of by not pushing our preferences on others. If that PSA is just speaking from a place of the majority experience and nothing more, we're just annoyed with it for that reason and nothing else when it comes right down to it. We're just kind of sick of being in the minority opinion on this issue, and now are geared to feel like we're being hounded by most PSAs.

It's not an easy thing to get over or work with, it's not even something that gets to be faultless, but it definitely makes the experience less irritating when we can get to a point of stepping back and analyzing the situation without those emotions intensely in play. Seriously, if I allowed the issues I have with most PSAs out there to be evident by reblogging them with refutations or anger? That's all I'd spend my time doing, that'd be my hobby and not actual RP...and I'd absolutely be the most hated and blocked mun on tumblr in short order no matter how valid my points were. (And, I think, with good reason, I really do not support reblogging that sort of thing with negative commentary.)

What helps? Make your own positive PSA about your experience! Make one of those "reblog if" posts, I have never seen one that says "reblog if...you are alright with your mutuals reblogging memes and aesthetics from you without reblog karma."

I'm being dead serious, I encourage you to do that! It's great when you're of the minority opinion and do something like that because you can literally see not only that you're not alone at all but also that it's made other people feel seen. If you do that, let me know, I'll reblog it, even.

[kirby-the-gorb]

reply roundup!

we have a new image description for printer fight [here] from @kissryuwuji​!

we have patron drawings for [lukeperiodsun] and [fleurdelis]!

I also drew more [kirblita], and [observe] got over a thousand notes :0

also reminder that this month’s [sticker club] design is up, you have 9 more days to sign up on patreon!

on [sick]:

@annann157 said: feel better! im rooting for you

thank you <3 I actually am feeling a little better, although of course it’s a whole Process

there were many exuberant people on [observe] which was fun but my absolute favorite comment is:

@shortkingkirk said: !!!! behold...... A Man....

this made me laugh :’)

on [chess]:

@sooptea said: me back in 5th grade

god bless any child with the fortitude to learn chess, I Was Not One Of Them lol (my brother was. he tried his best to enlighten me.)

on [dress]:

@jeaniechibi said: LOOKING FANCY AND CUTE 💖💖💖 great color coordination!!

kirby loves to dress up in pretty colors! (thank you :> )

on [printer]:

@kissryuwuji said: op noooo that sucks... ur ink is unsalvageable .... my condolences.... also thank u for noticing i did go thru a dif url LOL hope uve been doing well and that ur problem gets resolved!!

I think you mentioned it in your blog description for a little bit, otherwise I may not have noticed XD (obviously this url change is easier for me to recognize lol, I always wonder if I should update retroactive tags for a blog when they change urls.) and it did finally cooperate with me!

on [hug]:

@dragonsandmollusks said: kirby may be small and have no arms but I like to think kirby has wonderful hugging abilities

he’s so soft and round.... the best for hugging......

from the ask box:

anonymous said: Hi I just wanted to tell you that your blog and your doodles of Kirby bring me so much joy. Thank you for doodling them. They're always a big highlight when I see them on my dash. 💜

hi, thank you so much <3 I’m so glad they bring you joy, they make me happy too.

[rouge-the-bat]

yk what's personally disturbing to me... policing who people reblog from. example: Person A has a ship or headcanon or fandom or what the fuck ever that Person B dislikes. Person C reblogs regulary (or even just once) from Person A, without rbing the content B hates. Person B decides that is callout worthy. The reason this sucks (aside from obvious reasons) is like... you don't know why someone follows someone else. For me, I sometimes reblog from ppl I don't like just bc I'm hate scrolling 1/2

duudee yeah im so sick of ppl assuming that you support like everything someone does just bc u reblogged from them or follow them. like even if you follow someone, it doesnt mean youre buds, it doesnt mean you know everything they say or do even if they post it- because its not like people are gonna see EVERY single post someone makes ??? (unless theyre like a fave blog or something and keep updated, but thats not the usual case) and you dont have to agree with every single one of someones stances to follow them. some people *GASP* Dont care about sitting exclusively in echo chambers for their own views.

and you could just see a post from ur recommends that you reblog or smthn and you dont look at any other posts from op, so its not like you even know anything about them besides The One Post. or someone just has a lot of posts that tend to circulate in your corner of the internet bc of the ppl u follow, even though you dont follow the op directly. and most often for me i dont even recognize that may be happening bc i rarely notice urls when im looking at posts.

people tend to do this with celebrities too, like i get that some people be like way too deep stanning famous actors or musicians or w/e but for me personally idk jack shit about celebrities im a fan of. and i dont even really consider myself a "fan" of celebrities, but more a fan of their content, and that really only applies to musicians bc i dont get invested in like, particular actors content. i just listen to peoples music, but i see so often ppl treat that as endorsing everything the maker has done even though 1. idk shit about them 2. im usually not even giving them money, its really rare for me to actually buy music. majority of the time i legit cant even tell you someones name or what they look like, unless their music is under their name instead of a band title and their face have been on their albums or something. like THAT is how much i literally do not get invested into celebrities. this is a bit offtopic tho lol but its kinda relevant so i wanted to say the tangent

also like. 99.99% of the ppl i encounter on here are complete strangers. idk everything about them and i honestly dont WANT to know??? most of these people are completely insignificant to me, we are just people passing each other on the street, maybe ive passed them a few times in this town, who knows! i see they have a cute hat on and move on, not remembering or knowing anything about them. im not gonna practically reasearch every person i encounter on here just to interact

[oisky-poisky]

~tag me~

rules - answer these 30 questions and tag 20 people you'd like to get to know better

tagged by - @primaryass

name/nickname - Well oiskypoisky is my nickname, or OP

gender - i guess a woman.

star sign - libra

height - 5′10 or 1,77m 

time - 10:36pm

birthday - october 3rd

favorite bands - too hard cause too many. in this second: top, depeche mode, R.E.M., Lunar vacation and jst a bunch of other mainstream crap

favorite solo artists - idk. snail mail, halsey for sure, but so much indie pop stuff. aurora is also dope.

song stuck in my head -  Sick and tired my Anastacia

last movie i watched - Klaus hahaha. the netlfix christmas movie, watched it today.

last show i watched - I jump around quite a lot but actually watched: Avatar

when did i create this blog - i don’t fucking know. sometime as a teen i think.

what i post - tlou stuff, whatever i like in the moment that’s why my blog is called how it’s called.

other blogs - just this one!

last thing i googled - i googled sam riegel hahaha. love critical role.

do i get asks - no.

why i chose my url - cause it’s my nickname that my parents call me. I was obsessed with Noah’s island as child.

following - if you think i’m gonna look that up you don’t know me. but not a lot.

followers - see above.

average hours of sleep - next question!

lucky number - 7. cause of dumb math reasons i thought about in the ninth grade and i think about it still at least once a week.

instruments - I’ve played the concert flute (that sideways situation) since i was nine.

what am i wearing - pj pants and a grey hoodie, again it’s nighttime.

dream trip - maybe norway. but i like home.

favorite food - thai basil chicken made by my best friend.

nationality - german.

last book i read - I’m reading “the long way to a small, angry planet” by becky chambers right now. before that i reread harry potter.

top 3 fictional worlds i'd like to live in - Harry Potter but with diversity (can’t live without other gays), spirited away or actually the world of the book i’m reading. it’s really cool.

favorite color - probably blue cause i like the ocean and i also hate the ocean. It’s a complicated relationship.

thank you for reading if anyone cared.

I’m not gonna tag anyone cause i don’t even know that many people. Anyone who wants to do it can do it.

[pxppinmolly-archived]

So I deleted the original post last night because I did make it when I was emotionally compromised, tired, and having a complete meltdown because I finally reached my limit.

But I am now awake after some sleep and talking with a handful of my friends, and I am going to address this. Because I know you’re stalking my blog. Either be it one person or a couple of you. As well as wanting to address to my followers the situation and just. Speak.

My submissions are turned off and will most likely remained turned off, as well as my DMs being to ‘mutuals only’.

The reason for this is last night I got a submission of someone flipping me off and giving some weird. Death threat to someone. I can’t even say who because it was rather vague. I also got a weird DM trying to paint one of my closest RP partners as some toxic person with some obvious lie. Both were very much trollish, seeing as the grammatical errors were. Astounding and incomprehensible, but it’s fucking annoying in the first place.

I’ve gotten handful of anons that are obviously stalking my blog and trying to bring up the tiniest things to harass me or paint badly about me, for example shaming me for reblogging Hazbin art where OP was apparently a minor, another anon telling me that it isn’t surprising no one wants to interact with me because I “block people for ships” (which is not true.) and that I’m too selective and some other nonsense. I’ve gotten anons trying to start things with me and argue and harass me over things I said made me uncomfortable.

I know I am also being talked about by this community, ether close to being name dropped or have been name dropped. The amount of people who have me blocked and even the lossing of some precious mutuals the last month or so have been lowkey pretty devastating.

All of this because, of what I can only assume is the causation because of correlation AS WELL as in most of these cases of my harassment have been flat out said it’s because of this,

Is because I mentioned I am uncomfortable with people erasing canon sexualities for ships and don’t wish to interact with those people.

I never attacked anyone. I never harassed anyone or even name dropped anyone. I stated my opinion and for it I am constantly being harassed and villainized.

And I’m absolutely sick and tired of it.

This is a fandom full of adults. Why can’t we be mature? My opinion isn’t stopping you from doing anything. My mere existence isn’t oppressing you. I’m not saying anything rude about anyone to anybody.

Lately I’ve tried to steer away from this drama. I want to move on. It’s been like a month. I want to just write with my friends and have fun here.

But I continue to be harassed and feeling paranoid that I’m being hate stalked now and people going around spreading lies and fabrications about me.

It’s hurtful and stresses me out.

I just want to write here. I want to make friends and write. Have fun. Do my thing. But for some reason a handful of people in this RPC don’t want me to.

If you want to try and bully me off Tumblr, it isn’t going to work. I’m still gonna be here and I refuse to be bullied out of here.

I just want this shit to stop.

Just block me and leave me alone. Blacklist my URL if you have to. Just keep my name out of your mouth and stay off my blog.

Stop being so petty and rude and just. Cruel. Absolutely cruel. We’re adults. This RPC is full of adults. Try and please act like one.

Thank you.

[tearfullypink]

Eh I just wanted to hear more of your take on it tbh. It was kind of dumb to assume it was op lol. Sorry. And yeah I think it is kinda weird to see peeps draw him skinny. I was just thinking it was another situation where people attacked each other over harmless art. I do agree about the character design part, lol. Kinda odd to change him so drastically. I'm just kind of sick at this point of people attacking each other. I apologize for forming an incoherent argument, aha 😅

ya alright then, ur valid! we all say a lot of bullshit on tumblr (me included lawl), so i understand u! but i wasn't rlly attacking this person, it was just kinda funny and kinda insulting. i get liking a certain style, but its just...odd to me ig

and yea me too?? i hate fandom discourse lmao. i was around for the whole zamii incident's aftermath (if u don't know what that is then search up 'steven universe zamii") and it was bullshit. not gonna be someone to start smth like that

just...comments like that reallly lean into the fatphobia territory, even if they don't mean to :// you can disagree, but that's what i see. again, i wasn't attacking anyone, and i would have understood ur reaction if i dropped their url or was overly aggressive. smth. but i wasn't, so its just chill

[rpbetter]

Hey there, check out this pinned post first!

Thanks for visiting Roleplay Better, where I believe that you can fucking do better! That kind of language, however, is why it is important for you to read this post before proceeding.

This blog and its posts are meant for an adult RPing audience; be over legal, adult age in the USA, 18+. Do not interact by submitting, asking, reblogging, commenting, or liking unless you are over eighteen years of age. By interacting with RPB or me, Vespertine, you are assumed to be following this rule. If you are breaking this rule, you will be blocked.

I have that rule because this blog can/will/does address topics inappropriate for a younger audience. Those can include, but are not limited to:

not safe for work - violence, injury, sexual language, smut, substance use

“dark topics” and themes like violence, unhealthy relationships, mental illness, trauma, graphic injury, dubious consent, substance use, and so forth addressed realistically

foul, sexual, and otherwise “Adult” language

 unpopular opinions and approaches about writing, RP, fandoms

“negativity” since literally anything can be, and my whole point here isn’t about holding back; it is likely that, at some point, in some post or another, a shoe will fit you-you need to be mature enough to handle that without taking it as a personal attack on you

images and links that may contain things inappropriate for a younger audience

this blog is founded upon the idea that fiction has reflections in reality, but that fiction does not utterly equate to reality. You should write with realism, your characters should be people in their own right, and you should absolutely be addressing many popular topics responsibly, which is to say realistically. I do not support or otherwise condone purity culture, so while realism is a big deal here, fiction = reality arguments are a no

seriously, you have no idea how fucking salty I am! I try to be fair, reasonable, and mellow with everyone, but it can and does come out.

This blog tags for common, major triggers, but it is not for those easily triggered or particularly sensitive. By proceeding, you take responsibility for yourself...like a mature adult. I expect you to utilize blacklist, unfollow, and block. Tag format is simple, it is literally just the word in most cases, with “cw” and “tw” added to particularly common things. Example, a post containing a breakdown of forms of dubcon will be tagged #dubcon #dubious consent. If that was specifically of a sexual nature, since tumblr is unfriendly to using Not Safe For Work now, I will be using #notsafe for sexual topics. In the event that this needs to change, it will be posted about, the previous tag left intact, so that you may update your blacklist.

You are always welcome to send me an ask or private message requesting a particular trigger be tagged for you. I try to check blogs I see following, especially if I follow back, so that I can tag what you require. However, I’m a person, I’m an ND, ill, busy person though, I do make mistakes!

If you find yourself desirous of telling me to tag in a hateful way, don’t. You will not be responded to with an apology and kindness. Do not be rude, it’s uncalled for when informing someone of a problem or making a request.

I will run the blog largely on a queue, and will not be following many people back. This is not personal! I just like to try to provide content at many different times, have a life elsewhere, and I am so happy that you love your fandom, but it might not be something I’ve enough interest in to have on my dash.

Don’t tumblr message me. Use the inbox or submit.

Due to recent events, I am changing this rule. It’s hard for me to receive messages unexpectedly, and I hate to imply that I’ll be able to get to these quicker because it isn’t the truth. Quicker, better responses come from the inbox. However, there have been too many incidents lately in which people needed to speak privately and had to make that a request. If you’re having a problem and need to vent, request sensitive advice, etc.? It’s alright, go ahead and drop me a PM, y’all. I’ll get back to you as soon as I am able. Please, do not be angry with me if I respond to inbox things or my queue is running! You’re important to me, I just might not have the requisite social cognition and energy you deserve at that time.

Aggressive inbox messages will be responded to in kind. I don’t care if you are on anon or not, if you haven’t an ounce of polite communication skills, I won’t have them either. This is not a “we don’t publish anon hate” blog.

I highly encourage asks and submissions on any and all RP topics, and it’s perfectly alright to be salty as fuck in them, you can totally vent here, but don’t take out your frustration on me or be demanding of me. I am always happy to help with information, advice, or just a response to your venting-it’s important to know someone is listening. However, it may take me a few days to a week to get to you, be patient. 

If you are going to vent, leave out usernames. This isn’t a callout or burnbook blog. It’s fine to state characters and fandoms, but if this becomes a problem, it’ll have to change. I don’t want this becoming a salt blog for one or two fandoms I very likely can’t even stand. Practice the fine art of alluding to things, its good experience for your writing! Besides, RPC problems are RPC problems, I promise. It might feel like it’s just your fandom, but there is something relatable in all corners.

I will not overly police comments. Keep the slurs and shit out of it, though. If there is an issue going on pertaining to a serious instance of hate speech, or behavior I, personally, deem as too inappropriate and/or immature to be taking place on my post, I will step in. Otherwise, I expect everyone to be adults in the comments and reblogs too. If you want to argue with each other, that’s your business. If you want to argue with me, I’m not sorry in advance.

Addition to the above: this is not a blog in which it will be tolerated that commentators or those submitting with the URLS are targeted for callouts, shaming, or other instances of bullying. No, I cannot make those people stop bothering you by blocking them, but the least I can do is address that by shutting down their access to this blog and it’s posts by blocking on the URLs I have for them. And I will. Fuck that “we can’t be responsible for” shit. It’s my blog, it’s my content I’m putting out there, I’m not going to just ignore shit like what went down over on COAR, thanks. Not. Cool.

This is definitely not a place for:

people who think giving muses labels, including top/bottom “dynamics,” is a good substitute for character traits, personality, and development

those with no reading comprehension skills

folks dependent upon aesthetics and aesthetics-based purple prose as filler for actual writing

anti-original character/just wants to fuck a FC or canon character club, get the fuck out immediately

y’all who see writing as an obstacle to getting down to action, be that smut, drama, or fight scenes...it’s literally a writing hobby

politics, any manner of phobe or ism, violent/non-inclusive feminists, purity/rpc/fandom/content police of any manner, and exactly any manner of racism, sexism, or religious intolerance - I give not a shit if it’s popular to hate the straights, for example, I neither believe in nor tolerate reactionary classifying of any group as blanket-statement evil

people who are going to tack onto my posts shit like, “it’s okay, OP, you can say x character.” Trust me, if I were talking about one character, I fucking would name drop them, don’t bring me into your fandom drama, I doubt I know or want to know who that anime guy is who looks like 12 other anime guys to me.

About Vespertine

You can call me that, Vespertine. I’d rather you didn’t go with Vesper, but as it is unfortunately so likely to happen, I won’t feed you to the dogs over it either. RPB Mun is also acceptable.

I’m alright with either she/her or he/him, they/them is also fine. Apparently, that was big enough clue-in for the poor reading comp crowd, so while I feel it is not of importance, I’m nonbinary, yes.

Late 30′s, chronically ill but still working adult with neurodivergence. I’m both busy and Busy, and always sick. This limits my brain power and ability to be here. I have an active RP blog that I won’t be sharing to keep responsible distance. That is always going to be my priority, it is my primary hobby.

Please, don’t tumblr message me totally random things if we don’t have that kind of relationship! I’m too ill and busy, and it really fucks my nerves to have a bunch of messages/have to suddenly interact socially with people. Don’t do it. Use my inbox, use the submit, comment on posts. I cannot do random messages of “hey” and so forth.

I only do written RP, don’t expect me to understand much of anything from tabletop. I’ve RPed for the last 23 years consistently, on every platform from AOL chats to forums to messengers and here. I also don’t do RP in discord, so I’m sorry, but I can’t advise you much on anything with a word count, except to stop it for serious RP. Other than that, I promise you that I’ve seen the trends, the drama, the fandoms. I can give a lot of advice and perspective on a wide range of topics, situations, and characters! When I don’t have a clue at all, I’ll try to do enough research to give you an answer.

Do I come off as a horrible, strict asshole? I do! I’m not going to say that I am just a shy bean who is more scared of you than you are me. I’m not. I’m honestly feral, but have common decency, compassion, and sense. All of which are lacking in the general RPC. So, if you can inbox/common/otherwise interact with anyone else on this site, you can totally handle me!

Honesty and openness are policies.

And in the spirit of that, I repeat; you can fucking do better, tumblr RPC!