#syscourse positivity

[agressivelypositive]

HEY ENDOS 😡😡😡 YOU ARE REAL AND VALID 🔥🔥🔥 AND YOU HAVE JUST AS MUCH OF A RIGHT TO CALL YOURSELVES SYSTEMS AS TRAUMAGENS 💥💥💥 STAY MAD 😼😼😼

[pos-syscourse]

Sometimes you do gotta do that thing that is detrimental to your health. Self care is sometimes harmful, and yes it’s confusing, but needed.

It’s helped me to think of juggling balls, only some are rubber and some are glass. I can let the rubber ones fall — I’d prefer not to, because they bounce everywhere and make a mess, but they’re harmless, but they can fall. The glass ones can’t — they’ll shatter and break, and that’ll hurt me a lot more than rubber.

Remember: you can let the rubber ball fall. You can go one day without brushing your teeth. You can go one night with a bad sleep schedule. You can do something that means you “dropped the ball.”

Especially if it means preventing a glass ball from falling.

[angelgutz-sys]

Hourly reminder that willogenics are valid! Traumawillos are valid! Willoendos are valid! Mixed origin willos are valid! Willomates are completely real!

[cambriancrew]

Syscourse break! A positivity post!

What's something you like about your system or one of your systemmates?

I'll start.

Jas fronted for a few hours today, including for our drive to work. She listened to her usual, 90s boy bands. And for the whole fifteen minute drive, she sung her heart out.

She has a really soft singing voice even when she's trying to sing loudly. And it's a beautiful voice, with little of our natural waver or off key wobbling. We really like her singing voice!

[cavityinmybrain]

i wanted to try to get some positivity going in the syscourse tags today because it is a headache to look at (as usual).

whats something you’ve accomplished recently that makes you feel proud? it can be as big or as small as you need it to be, even just waking up today is an accomplishment to be proud of!!

i’ll start: i’ve recently been able to talk about experiences within my system to people other than my therapist without Gatekeeper shutting it down by triggering a fear response! this is a really big accomplishment for me given two years ago i couldn’t talk about it at all with anyone :)

[syscourse-nonquestions]

question number 6:

what is your collective hyperfixation

[ecos-syscourse]

uhh

the two main of us who post here's favorite band/artists are Cheap Perfume and NayutalieN!! :D

yeah!

also here's a crab

Asian shore crab

[seasidewanderers]

wishing you all a good time these holidays. merry christmas or yule to those who celebrate! to those who don't, happy anniversary to the launching of the james webb space telescope! 🎉

stay safe these festivities. take breaks, breathe, avoid syscourse if you can. I understand for some syscourse is the only outlet they have! I understand it can be liberating and feels good in the moment, but today try to find something else, something that's not people constantly arguing. play some videogames! drink ten gallons of lemonade (tasty!) dance, have some fun! drink if you're of drinking age!

[snezhnayan-nights]

I hope people remember that they themself and others have lives beyond the screen. Whatever you or they post doesn't reflect their entire life or what they do for a living. Especially with how syscourse or online spaces in general makes us too angry and think everyone who participates in it are "Ooh chronically online, don't have a life, go touch grass".

These people you disagree with, these people you incredibly dislike, are people like you too. They're obviously a little different, with their own knick knacks and quirks, but they're people.

Please take a moment to just pull away from the screen and just think a bit, especially when you're getting a bit too mean in your wording or getting too riled up.

Maybe also check if you need anything done today :] Have a good day

[agressivelypositive]

WILLOGENIC PLURALITY IS ⛓️🔥 METAL AS FUCK 🧨💣 like you MADE ANOTHER BEING IN YOUR HEAD?? you looked WITHIN YOURSELF and committed an act of DIVINE CREATION?? you and yours have the RIGHT to be in plural spaces, you've fucking EARNED IT 🐺💯

[plain text: willogenic plurality is ⛓️🔥 metal as fuck 🧨💣 Like you made another being in your head? You looked within yourself and committed an act of divine creation? You and yours have the right to be in plural spaces, you’ve fucking earned it 🐺💯 end PT]

[pos-syscourse]

I’ve been angry lately.

Here’s a trick I learned from my therapist today. It’s a sort of gradual tension-release cycle. It’s stopped me from hurting myself already today.

You tense your fingers. That’s an easy one. You make a fist and clench it — not tight enough to hurt yourself, but fairly tight. Tight enough to shake.

You breathe in. Hold it. 5 seconds. Let it out, and as you do, unclench your hands.

Then your toes. Then calves. Then thighs. Then chest. Then shoulders.

Let it all out. Let the tension go.

And then, please, log off. Don’t let that tension rise again immediately. Just… rest.

[angelgutz-sys]

anyways to keep myself from crashing out or going insane!!

friendly reminder all system origins are valid, motherfuckers!

thats willos! that's traumagens! endos! all of you!!

[sysmedsaresexist]

Remember to take care of yourselves

Sometimes, when friends say you should step back, it's because they care, and they're seeing something you're not

People are notoriously bad at judging their own behavior and mental state

Sometimes you need help, and it's okay to accept

Sometimes you need a break, and it's okay to take one

Sometimes you just need to step back, remove yourself completely, and look at the situation, and yourself, critically

Mental health breaks should be encouraged, they should be rewards for tasks that drain you or getting through situations that have left you stressed

It's okay to just take some time to sort yourself out

Always take care of yourself, first and foremost

Remember that you matter, and that things will always be better when you're ready to come back

You can only come out stronger if you stop along the way to treat your wounds

[starlight-chickens]

what syscourse stances would various cat breeds have?

I think calico cats would be pro-endogenic. and then orange cats would be anti-endogenic, and tuxedo cats neutral.

I think my mother's cat specifically would be a parogenic system, too.

[syscourse-nonquestions]

question number 1:

whats your favourite type of cheese?

[hypnotic-syscourse-and-stuff]

Saw another anti post. You know what that means!

I LOVE ALL OF YOU SYSTEMS OUT THERE (PLATONICALLY). NOW GO DRINK WATER AND HAVE A BEAUTIFUL NIGHT/DAY