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[studyblr-perhaps]

A tangent from my studyblr posts but as much as I love being born in the generation I am, I sometimes yearn for the time my mother describes as her childhood, but simply in terms of nature. How there used to be snow in her yard, being a village in the Himalayas, how you could see mountains and mountains, vast and magestic. I only remember bits and pieces from my memory as a child of how gorgeous they used to look.

Now because of global warming and pollution you can't see anything except for the closest mountain, and it hasn't snowed there since she was a teen. And it's just so sad, how we've lost the beauty of nature in the name of development. Now that I wish to go to Europe and settle there, objectively better in terms of seeing nature, hearing the news of natural disasters and global warming causing an issue even there makes all my motivation to do better drown. What if I cannot experience nature the way I want to even there? What if I am never destined to be able to look at the blue sky, clouds, trees and mountains?

[unreal-unearthed]

his voice oh my god… i am a wreck. this needed warning.

his vocal delivery here… something about it. idk it’s hard to explain but it just feels very soft and like a warm hug like a hot cup of tea like a big fluffy blanket.

actually i feel like a little girl again falling asleep listening to disney princess movies on my hot pink cd player because the kinda swaying of the music made me feel safe. and this kinda has that swaying slow quiet these really romantic strings in the background. i think it’s the strings that’s getting me i actually feel so emotional over this what the hell this is embarrassing. i’m sorry guys i wanted to write a somewhat normal post about his voice but it’s playing in the background while im writing and i just feel so overcome by emotion for some reason.

i’m actually crying what the hell. he means so much to me… hearing his voice just then… i feel just so comforted i know that might sound stupid idk. this is just really bringing all these feelings out.

this song is just for some reason really taking me back to being a little girl and all i wanted to do was listen to music and dance and be a princess. and it’s the voice of the artist that means just absolutely everything to me. that is already so calming and safe to me. it’s like i’ve almost heard it before it’s so weird it sounds so familiar and calming

god i love hozier. so much. ❤️‍🩹 that’s all for now forcing myself to shut up

[satanfemme]

an illustration from my current horror zine WIP. the subject matter of this feels a bit trite to me, but honestly that works in favor of the larger themes of the work. and I like how the lighting in this image came out.

[cartelheir]

:///// the monthly urge to revamp really hitting me rn

[wereh0gz]

Random weird thing I've been seeing recently that's kinda bothered me a bit but I've seen a couple sonic gijinkas with light skin and with that I've seen a few posts being like "sonic isn't white!!"

But. I don't think anyone's explicitly said he was??

Like. Mixed ppl exist. Hispanic/Latino ppl with light skin exist (like me). Asian ppl exist also. Black ppl can have lighter skin too. Like literally any poc can be a wide range of skin tones. Just bc they're pale doesn't mean they're White

It's probably mostly just jokes and I'm overreacting a little bit but y'know it just looks like ppl are assuming he's Just White when the artists don't say otherwise even tho that might not actually be the artists' intent. Unless there's something I'm missing here and someone's making posts saying he Is white or some shit idk lmao

[pandakong]

How's your dog doing? You said she wasn't doing to well a while ago

Well, her hotspot where she was biting finally healed up, so she's out of the Cone of Shame, but she might vomit every couple or few weeks... We've known a while tho a few of her enzyme or whatever levels related to a few organs weren't great, so sort of figuring out what we're gonna do in the future. Thanks

[studentbyday]

What i wish studying felt like...

What it actually feels like (to me):

*Chopin's coda from ballade no 1 plays in the background (in my head) and i scream internally bc that feeling of going crazy from stress/overwhelm is what i feel 😭😖*

2 and a half weeks...i can do this....i can do this...and then i'm gonna take a break from ALL studying, including self-studying, until September bc i think if i continue to push myself further i'm gonna burn out and not have enough time to recover 😵‍💫

[astrologydray]

How each sign acts after a breakup💔💔😭😭

Aries — “I’m fine. NEXT.”

Breakup Mode: Impulsive rebounder. Might post thirst traps 10 mins later.

Vibe: Rage gym sessions, blocking you without warning, pretending they never loved you (but secretly did).

Catchphrase: “I don’t chase, I replace.”

Taurus — “I’m not okay… but I’ll act like I am until I actually am.”

Breakup Mode: Stays in bed, eats comfort food, replays convos for weeks.

Vibe: Extremely loyal even post-breakup. Won’t let go fast, but once they do? It’s DONE forever.

Catchphrase: “You lost something solid.”

Gemini — “Anyway… what’s your friend’s @?”

Breakup Mode: Laughs through the pain, avoids emotions, posts cryptic tweets.

Vibe: Flirty on the TL, partying with a new circle, emotionally detached—until 3AM hits.

Catchphrase: “I moved on. Emotionally? Eh…”

Cancer — “I just wanted to be loved…”

Breakup Mode: Cries for 48 hours straight or longer, clings to memories, emotional breakdowns to music.

Vibe: Emotional rollercoaster, might text you and block you within 5 minutes.

Catchphrase: “Did you ever really love me?”

Leo — “You’ll miss this glow.”

Breakup Mode: Dramatic AF. Deletes all your pics, then posts fire selfies to remind you what you lost.

Vibe: Public healing with private pain. Will use their heartbreak to fuel a glow-up.

Catchphrase: “Now I’m the main character again.”

Virgo — “I analyzed every part of that breakup and yep, it was your fault.”

Breakup Mode: Overthinks EVERYTHING. Makes lists of red flags. Mentally edits you out of their life.

Vibe: Cold exterior, hurting inside. Lowkey stalks your socials anonymously.

Catchphrase: “I should’ve left first.”

Libra — “I hate being single… but I look good doing it.”

Breakup Mode: Hops into a new situationship, avoids feeling anything real.

Vibe: Flirty, smiley, but secretly spiraling when alone. Will miss the aesthetic of love.

Catchphrase: “Let’s just be friends…” (but not really)

Scorpio — “You broke my heart? I’ll haunt your life.”

Breakup Mode: Deletes you, blocks you, curses you in their journal. Might spy from a burner.

Vibe: Deeply wounded but won’t show it. Revenge glow-up and coming.

Catchphrase: “You’ll regret this. Forever.”

Sagittarius — “Breakup? Nah, I’m on a flight to Bali.”

Breakup Mode: Laughs, travels, distracts. Acts unfazed—but that pain hits randomly at 2AM.

Vibe: Fun, detached, but avoids true healing for a while.

Catchphrase: “On to the next adventure!”

Capricorn — “This is just a temporary setback in my life plan.”

Breakup Mode: Cold and focused. Buries pain under work and glow-ups.

Vibe: Doesn’t show emotion. Hopes you see them thriving and regret it.

Catchphrase: “I have bigger goals than heartbreak.”

Aquarius — “Did we even date?”

Breakup Mode: Emotionally numb. Avoids talking about it. Quietly spiraling in their head.

Vibe: Posts deep quotes, acts like it’s fine, detaches HARD.

Catchphrase: “I’ve transcended feelings.”

Pisces — “This is my heartbreak era. Let me suffer in peace.”

Breakup Mode: Cries to playlists, romanticizes the pain, writes poetry. Might hit you up months later.

Vibe: Feels everything deeply but still holds hope. Escapes into fantasy.

Catchphrase: “We were twin flames though…”

[pigeonpeach]

Genshin men as cats!

Prompt: the genshin men are temporarily turned into cats for one day and you as their lover must take care of them and make sure they stay safe

A/n: idk what happened but apparently half of the post got deleted? I’ll have to rewrite it later ;(

Ayato

Oh he’s not happy. He’s probably a shorthaired white cat in terms of appearance. But he is quite annoyed with this predicament. No one is allowed to tell anyone that the Yashiro Commissioner is suddenly a cat. But being a cat is nice. He can lounge and nap all day. He’s probably demanding of attention though. He simply must have your eyes on him. He adores being brushes so lovingly too. Maybe he should have you brush his hair when he’s back to normal.

Al Haitham

Virtually no change. He may still try to read though he won’t be able to turn the pages as easily. He doesn’t mind a few pats but he mostly prefers to be left alone in the nice warm sun to nap the day away. He’s definitely a grey tabby.

Kaveh

He is so distraught! He meows a storm in fustration as he finds he is completely incapable of finishing his projects! You simply must take care of him! You need to have him strapped in like a baby carrier on your chest because he’s just so clingy. He needs constant reassurance and attention. He’s so needy but so cute. Probably a cute little cream colored kitty.

Kaeya

He is also probably a bit annoyed. While yes he gets a complete day off, he can’t do much as a cat. So he’ll probably try to find some entertainment if you don’t keep him thoroughly entertained. He will find a way to sneak out and go play with Klee or annoy Diluc if you don’t keep him in your grasp at all times.

Neuvillette

He is very confused but also curious. On one hand this form is verrrry different than he’s ever had before but its also very beneficial to him. People are far less intimidated and strangely he enjoys being coddled and pet more than he would. Of course miss Furina is teasing the crap out of him but he doesn’t really care. Sitting on your lap, small and warm. Its such a unique experience he will probably never have again.

Wriothesley

Once the dust settles he’s quite relaxed. This is temporary so might as well enjoy it. Sigewinnie has become very attached to him as she constantly makes sure he’s okay. But in particular he loves being held by you. He’s used to being the big strong man who lifts you all the time etc etc. its nice actually being the reverse here. He gets fed special fish from the cafeteria and gets to spend his day in your arms! The perfect break for him! He’s almost sad it’s temporary but he knows he can’t stay like this forever.

Childe

Oh he’s mad! Even when it’s confirmed to be temporary, he is annoyed! How can he improve his fighting skills if he’s a kitty! Sure he’s a adorable little kitty of course but he looks like a baby! Oh his ego is in shatters. It’s unfortunate too because it wasn’t even around his family so he could play with his little brother at least. He’s practically quarantined to keep him safe. He can’t go on kitty adventures. Therefore YOU must make it up to him. He spends his time sulking and trying to play with anything he can. Dangling uniform piece? New toy! Someone’s foot? New toy! He bites! He meows! He hardly naps. He does love cuddling with you though. Still he’s a ball of energy and he cannot simply sit still for long! No doubt will his office be trashed. You’re making him clean it up once he’s back.

Thoma

Stressed! So stressed! He has so many chores! He cannot hold a broom with two paws! You have to make arrangements for him to have the day off which was hard because everyone was upset by his sudden cancellation. Even so he tries to help. He tries to drag the broom but it doesn’t do anything unfortunately. Oh he feels so useless. You must pamper him. Lavish him with kisses and gentle praise. Call him the cutest little kitty in the world! Oh he’s such a affectionate boy too. He acts like a cat with separation anxiety almost. He cannot sleep if you’re not there with him. Therefore you end up spending the day with him, trying to dissuade him from trying to clean a mess and just making it worse, distracting him with a warm blanket and pets.

Zhongli

He probably did so on purpose actually. Perhaps he was a bit bored and decided to spend the day exploring Liyue from a different perspective. It was quite fun for him actually. He watched as people came over to pet him. Unfortunately they also tried to feed him seafood which wasn’t too good. But after the long day he returned home to see you panicked as to where he could be. He decided to come on over to you, still in his cat form, and distract you. It worked as he helped you relax.

You werent too amused when you found out that cat that broke in was him.

Pantalone

He is quite annoyed. Angry in a more agitated way. Don’t mess up his fur! Pet him properly! Don’t ignore him now! He is a demanding little feline. He is not content unless you are entirely focused on him. He even wants you to break up the fish ro serve to him. He isn’t going to eat like a animal! Oh but he is such s cute kitty. Entirely black with big expressive yellow eyes. Oh you can’t help but comply and spoil him a little more! And he has such lovely fur! He does like hearing your gentle praises as you pet him. He never knew how lovely it felt to be small, sleeping on a nice warm lap, being gently brushed, and told sweet little compliments. He may actually want to do this again sometime.

Diluc

Biggest drama king! How can he protect you or Mondstadt like this! Therefore you cannot leave his sight or he’s convinced you will immediately die. You must stay with him so he can protect you? He is a very warm kitty though so it feels nice to snuggle with him. His fur is a bit messy so you’ll have to brush it. Despite him trying to stay vigilant he ends up falling asleep quickly.

[parampampitto-ghost]

Good afternoon everyone, I think it's already clear what we're going to talk about.

today that conflict with Justin Taylor (Swiss) came up again I feel very sorry for Justin because he was showered with many negative comments and today I want to express my point of view and my guesses. You can judge me but this is my personal opinion and I hope that there will be people who are interested in this and it is really important

As many know, on October 18, 2024, a girl who attended Justin's solo concert in MARCH! posted a photo and signed it that Justin harassed her. First he put his hand under her vest, then on her buttocks, and soon on her chest.

Justin himself apologized twice, and said that he was very tired, and besides, the incident happened several months ago, which he might not remember.

After a while I found a lot of information about that girl, that she was about 15 years old, although the entrance is strictly 18 years old. But she was with her friend who was 18 at the time. As I had not heard, she forged a passport to get into the concert, which is already illegal.

and if this did happen, then why didn’t she tell on the very first day?

In the photo we don't see Jatti's hand, but from the position of his shoulder we can tell that his hand is near her shoulder.

Because of this incident that surfaced a few months later, and started a little over a year ago - Justin had to leave the stage in the group "Ghost" it is unknown whether it is temporary or he was excluded. but I hope that people will understand me and also support Jutty

Let me remind you that Jutti was tired at the end of the evening and could not remember everyone, besides there were a lot of people there and it is unrealistic to remember everyone

And I am very annoyed by the fact that many people on Twitter started to offend Justin without really understanding it. I personally saw how they sent him away, cursed him, and told how sincerely they hated him. I will be very interested in their reaction if Jutti turns out to be right. They will either delete the posts or will try to justify themselves.

Therefore, before you offend people on social networks, especially in this situation where little is known yet - This is not normal and completely wrong, understand this!

thank you for your attention!

[givemethelovebitxx]

250527 10:00 AM~ so i decided to start a blog!! not for an audience, really.. it's for future olivia to reflect on. i'm currenty sat in starbucks writing my rough draft for my first post. the chaotic yelling of names and chatter makes me feel more productive and motivated.

i've always loved journaling but i wanted to digitalize my interest in a way that will last. truthfully, i've been meaning to do this for years. i just wasn't sure where i should begin? i'm using tumblr as my host since i don't want to financially commit to something i might be too lazy to continue. it's funny though, this tumblr is my old simblr account.

my first posts dated back to over a decade ago when i lived vicariously through my pixel people. these days, i don't find the time or motivation. i was on here religiously uploading files for download from my own game and reblogging custom content that i was obsessed with. i even made memes from screenshots from my gameplay with the corniest captions. those were some of the first posts i deleted before deciding to clear everything lol

my drink just arrived! it's my first time trying out their pink drink despite all it's hype. i'm trying to get something different everytime i come here until i burn through my giftcards. i also grabbed a package of madeleine cakes. they were one of my favorite treats growing up and i always find myself feeling intense nostalgia with just one whiff. the drink - just alright. it's served in a real glass, which surprised me. it tastes similar to the dragonfruit refresher though. i probably won't order it again.

i have to leave in about an hour and a half. just enough time to write freely with no edits or filters. :) later today i'm getting two new tattoos! or technically it's three? i'm getting a small crescent moon on the left side of my neck and two twin tattoos on the backs of my elbows. on the left will read "love myself today", the right "let you go today". both of these are pieces i've wanted for years, i just didn't want to make the financial commitment. it's funny how something permanent can ease a temporary feeling of sadness. my last tattoo was only several days ago on the 23rd. that day and experience has now been shadowed by someone else so today is a day for reclamation.

~ pause break to text jp and megan. also, i've been eyeing the new samo ondoh summer collection. they keep dropping new colors that i love, especially the powder, but not in the size or styles i need. i'm determined to get a new bag before my next semester - one large enough to carry around my 16". i'm going to use my awardco to treat myself because if not now, when? lol ~

now back to the 23rd. i got this beautiful bow piece done on the inside of my right arm. it's been healing nicely despite it only being four days. afterwards, i went to hang out with the guy i had been talking to. then come saturday and i'm blocked everywhere. he was one of four people i regularly text: my mom, my boss, meghan, and him. now it's three :p at first, i thought it was bad reception from my job - my text following up about dinner the proceeding evening not going through. i pulled up instagram and it confirmed what i didn't want to believe.

i had spent the rest of the day with him after my tattoo until i had to go home because i had work the following day - the day he blocked me everywhere. we laughed, kissed, cuddled, fell asleep, and watched detroiters together. he told me that he liked me and that he was glad i had stayed over as long as i did. he even invited me to extend my stay and play poker with him and his friends but i couldn't because of work. would it have changed the end result had i stayed longer or would my feelings built up more for the same ending? unless i'm delusional, and maybe i am for putting this much thought into it, there were no tells or signs in that moment. so tell me why you ran from me?

when we were cuddling, i had this weird thought. maybe it's women's intuition lol but i imagined that the moment was too good to be true. i had a sinking feeling he would ghost me or change his mind. again, there were no tells - just my brain telling me to overthink. but it was right. how strange is that..

why do people say things they don't mean? especially when feelings get involved.. was it intentional? or just careless? it almost feels like it was on purpose. it hurts more than i expected. i've been ghosted before but it never registered. i usually don't let my feelings for people blossom quickly enough to miss someone when they check out. this time was different. maybe there was something about the way he kissed me. it made me feel better - like someone really liked me, really cared about me. its nice to feel wanted. it makes you forget the things you hate about yourself. now it's gone.

my last experience dating was when i had recently turned 19. it's something i don't talk about because it still gets me worked up. i thought i was the one in control but girls in my position never really are, not then. and definitely not by people who are that much older than them.

i've built walls and opted out of trying to date or pass my time with talking stages. just trying to dodge feelings from others before they grew out of control. i never want to mislead someone into falling for a version of me that i'm not ready to be. maybe it's a survival instinct now or maybe it's just me sabotaging anything that might get too close to my heart.

this time felt different so i let it slip through the cracks. i told myself that i wouldn't. now i'm left feeling a bit hollow and echoing with curiousity.. i just want to go back and try and mend whatever i broke. would i have been able to make it any better though? i told him i was being nervous. i guess i held important information from my past that could have salvaged things had i been more open. talking about it still brings tears to my eyes though. i'm not ready to open up and i don't think i should have to. i didn't mean to murder the moments we spent together. i'm telling myself i'm better off alone but i haven't felt the same since.

i've tried to meet new people but i've been cold. my heart is looking the other way. just waiting for a message that isn't coming. it's pathetic - i would fold immediately.

anyway, megan introduced me to the pattern. i've been checking it everyday. it's funny how i've never cared for astrology. i never thought the stars could define me or have anything to say. but this app??? it's unnervingly accurate to my life. you know how people say that if you say things outloud, advertisers will give you ads for it? that's how i feel about this app - it's eavesdropping on my thoughts!

every notification and update to my daily feed has felt like a mirror. especially when it talks about relationships in terms of idealizing new people and having a hard time letting go. it has also clocked me on my longing for a new career. it's been less than a month since using it but it's already called me out more times than i can count.

is this how it starts? you go from being a complete skeptic to blaming saturn entering aries for your moodswings. i hope i don't become that person but there's something alluring about letting the celestial band in the sky in. even just a little bit.

[holly-poly]

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[sanemisstalker]

Hey guys vent post up and coming lol //// little life update. Nothing extreme just wanted to like, speak for a moment.

I had like, an 4-8k douma fanfic that tumblr deleted so, I'm a little miffed (I greatly dislike tumblrs drafts) but its kind of fine because it was super self destructive and probably no good for internet consumption (I go to him when I'm sad, arguably to a harmful degree. It was really hot though) but it was really well written so that kinda blows.

Um, two, I will get to your requests, I swear! I have a ton of drafts saved for a couple of different asks (looking at you, lesbian in my inbox that really wants me to write mitsuri porn). All of ur asks r really good, and I giggle and kick my feet everytime i read one.

My temporary no writing is because my ex boyfriend is over, and if I'm on my phone he'll feel ignored (I am still chronically in love with him even if he's emotionally negligent, so the past three days have honestly just been torture because of like... everything about him) so I have tried to only write during the night time, but I'm usually so worn out by then that I will just knock out before I get the chance to finish anything.

You will probably get birthday smut from me around my actual birthday- idk who yet. We'll have to see. In a very douma mood rn though.

Every bit of emotional reprieve for my situation with my ex was in that fanfiction (I spent 6 hours writing it this morning before I slept, but I'm trying to have a good birthday party and not start it by crying over something so small, it is what it is). My actual birthday is later in the week but college starts back then so-

If things get a little slow that's why. I am a working college student, sanemisstalker lore drop ig. I literally only want to write demon slayer smut though, considering it's the only thing bringing me joy rn, but hey, most of us have a 9-5. I have to feed my 3 kids (my roomates)

Also, I just got into jjk (the pacing is a mess) and i really want to fuck this guy so do with that what you will. He's sexy. Mad sexy. So I might start writing for jjk? No promises.

[sadie-wolfdawn]

these astride updates r so insane. the ceo is like "I drew some art" and then the programmers have a mental breakdown. (thats an over dramatization- the programmers are hopeful but like.... its a bit grim)

Some excerpts from the dev update posted by their main / original dev -

"I’ve never felt more comfortable with the project than I am now. There’s proper logging, error handling, and a step-by-step connection procedure to hook into. With proper packages for each part of the code, we are able to get a nice flat foundation to build the game upon. With the new programmer, we’re also able to cover more ground at the same time so I’m no longer the bottleneck when it comes to programming."

"The first version on Steam was a compromise update because so many people wanted to escape the containment of the fences around the arena, so I deleted a single fence and “hacked” in a way to stick the player on top of the terrain. Looked absolutely bonkers insane but it was meant to be a temporary solution until we got the physics sorted out."

"We also want to make it in combination with a larger menu update later, but we might add in a temporary solution before that. The current menu setup is something I hacked together with my limited Unity Canvas and UX design skills, so I’m looking forward to a proper menu pass."

[sir-fenris]

God... it's been a week already :') I have so many notifications, so much stuff to catch up with...

I'm still not feeling well. It's a mental ilness making my routine so, so much harder, and it's making me feel ill too, besides my own chronic illness and another temporary condition, and besides the fact that life sucks right now, so... yeah. Fuck. Everything is... ugh. So much bad stuff all at the same time.

Will try to slowly get back here on Tumblr. Probably more silent reblogging and just liking for a while. Might help me feel a bit better.

Thank you to everyone who answered my post before <3 I'm trying to be okay, and I appreciate the kind words.

I'm taking care of myself as much as I can while being with no emotional support system besides my weekly therapist.

Again, I'm not in the rightest state of mind to decide if this is too much exposure or not. Will probably delete this all later, but... yeah. Put this out there feels right now, so it's fine for noe I guess

[thesnarkerramblings]

Think Before You Post

On social media, one has the chance to express themselves to anyone they wish. If you post something publicly, just about everyone can see it. 

This can include your friends, family, colleagues, and strangers. It can even include your enemies. You might be able to get away with deleting something within a few seconds or a bit longer if you’re obscure. But keep it longer, and someone could very well screenshot what you posted. 

As a result, it’s very important to think rationally before you post on the Internet. Otherwise, you might end up royally screwing yourself over.

Is It True?

For obvious jokes and fiction, you can skip over this one. They’re not meant to express the truth. Otherwise, read on.

It’s crucial to actually spread facts when one tries to spread factual information. This doubly goes for if serious accusations are being levied. So make sure to fact-check yourself before posting.

Ask yourself these questions:

-Are there other reliable and transparent sources corroborating your news?

-Is the media (videos, photos, etc.) you’re using as proof legitimate if it’s being used?

-How long ago were your sources posted? Are they outdated?

Is It Helpful?

Again, skip over this if you’re writing a lighthearted post not intended for self-improvement or mental health purposes.

When you attempt to spread information or give advice, it should ideally aid someone. For information, it should be factual and enjoyable to read at the very least for someone. For advice, it should help someone improve life.

Also consider how it helps yourself. Maybe it feels cathartic to post. Perhaps the resulting engagement gives you a temporary ego-boost. 

Is It Illegal?

It’s very important not to break the law on social media. Jail isn’t fun and neither is a boring court case or paying fines.

This boils down to a few things. Don’t dox people’s personal information. Do not make a sophisticated murder plan on the Internet. Really, don’t threaten violence or blackmail over petty Internet feuds. Avoid abusing people. And of course, don’t be a creep holding onto CP and/or grooming minors.

A lot of legal laws also align with basic moral principles. Many legal systems are pretty mediocre - if not terrible. However, being complicit often doesn’t hurt others. If it does - risk the consequences or don’t get caught.

Is It Necessary?

This is somewhat related to the second principle.

Don’t take the heading too literally. The world will not end if you avoid posting whatever it is you’re planning to post.

That being said, is your desired post something you need to get off your mind? Will it provide good food for the algorithm to keep you getting recommended? Could other people be in active danger if a certain vile person dastardly deeds aren’t made known?

If your post isn’t needed per se under these criteria, that’s fine. Maybe you’ll cringe when looking back a few years later. But your cringe may be another’s fun.

Is It Kind?

This is a near-absolute which should be kept in mind before posting on social media.

Don’t be a jerk. There’s no need to harass or treat people like garbage. Remember your tone indicators if a statement could be taken as rude otherwise. There’s almost always someone else on the other side of the screen.

There is the occasional exception of legitimately bad people like abusers and sex pests. In those cases, don’t treat them with kitty gloves. Direct your kindness towards the victims instead.

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If you consider these factors before posting in a place where you might never be able to completely take your post back, you should be good to go! Hopefully.

Any other thoughts on this? Let me know in the comments!

Medium version: https://medium.com/@SnarkyLisa/think-before-you-post-4d3aeadf4680