#this is a real problem

[blondiedae]

i need a new completed jeno smau because i’m constantly checking the like 5 in progress ones i’m reading for updates and i just want to binge

[xjustkay]

3/4 of the way through book two and on some kandreil shit already

[bunnygirl678]

I'm gonna do a call out post, there is this user on ao3 who is superrrr problematic!

And I can't keep quiet about it anymore. Everyone should go bully her because she deserves it. Her behavior is absolutely disgusting, and I worry that other people will think that the things she does and posts are okay if we allow it to continue!

As a fandom we need to work together to keep these kinds of creeps out of reach.

A few things this horrible person does: (WARNING SENSITIVE INDIVIDUALS DO NOT READ!!!!!!!! THE PERSON DESCRIBED IS A MONSTER!!!!)

-Posts new WIPs before finishing current ones

-Lies about how many stories she is working on, including starting new WIPs after promising she was going to finish all of the ones she had open

-Literally forgets about open stories for months, how freaking rude is that! Like people are waiting on them to update!!

-No schedule to her postings, one day she'll post like 4 new chapters for various fics, a one shot, and a new WIP and then not be seen for a months, ummmmm wow horrible i know

-Makes promises in notes about when she'll post certain things and then doesn't follow through! Like i saw a post saying she had an omegaverse she'd be posting in October, she didn't post it until APRIL!! What a dirty liar!

-UGH and if you leave a comment on her fic theres only a 50/50 chance she EVER replies (even if she read it and kicked her feet and squealed like a 5 year old, she's soooooo forgetful!)

-she comments and leaves kudos on other people's work, ummmmm that is such a creepy thing, like no, you aren't supposed to interact with anyone else, ewwwwwyyyyy

-and worst of all! She keeps posting stuff!

WE NEED TO STOP HER! I know this is out of character for me, but we can't sit by and idly allow this type of behavior, by not saying something we are actively encouraging it!

The user is bunnygirl678 and she needs to be stopped

yes this is obviously a joke, this is tongue-in-cheek, i felt like being a little silly ect ect ect but for real sorry for not having any type of posting schedule and just thowing things out when inspiration comes lol, keep writing friends!

[violntfemme]

ill be like "oh lets look at amrev fanart!!" and get mad whenever someone is a better artist than me

[theflashesoflove]

i haven’t finished the third chapter yet but i already have a gif in mind that i want to use when i post it. the problem is that i can’t find the exact gif i need. i’m very close to teaching myself how to make gifs so that i can have this little detail

[marginal-notes]

You know what’s a weird question to think about.

How the hell do you build defensive walls when your enemy can walk up them.

Do you try like. To turn your building into a porcupine? Have ways to pressure plate your wall to try catapulting someone off with extreme prejudice?? Straight up design explosive walls????

Why would any important building or defensive fortification in Naruto have straight, smooth exterior surfaces???

Gravity is a suggestion to these people.

[kensatou]

(✿◕‿◕) die (ꈍ ꒳ ꈍ✿)

[shigure]

this post was about transmisogynist hate mobs online. you are all so fucking stupid i'm sorry. i don't even have anything else to say honestly just play proverbs of hell

[jailforwriter]

Getting inspired to write is actually really easy! All you need to do is be the busiest you've ever been in your entire life and as far away from a computer as humanly possible. Hope this helps 🥰

[degenerateshinji]

free my boy he did it all but i forgive him

[prlssprfctn]

Jason: Bruce used to say that I have this unhealthy habit of considering older women my mother figures and automatically agreeing with anything they say.

Talia: Beloved was not wrong. Honestly, you should focus more on your personal goals and not attach to women who show you even an ounce of kindness. Be colder.

Jason: Hey, good advice, mom.

Talia: ...Jason—

[jq37]

I still find it funny that one of the questions of The Last Stand exam was translating "Pedo Mellon a Minno" to "Speak friend and enter", something virtually impossible to do without outside knowledge of Lord of the Rings. Brennan was like, "I am entirely confident one of my nerd ass friends (Siobhan) will have this locked and loaded." And he was right.

[lapzoli]

I lost the video but recently someone said “y’all want iconic 2000s pop stars again but can’t even handle Sabrina Carpenter” and I think that sums up roughly what’s going on

[rookamell]

This might be a very controversial take but Sybil being fat with no hair and Adora being weird about golems and Granny being old and a virgin and Magrat being ugly and Agnes being fat and Nanny being Nanny and Cheery existing does more for feminism than 90% of intentionally "feminist" media produced in the past 5-10 years actually

[inkskinned]

you tried everything. you tried relationship check-ins and using positive thinking. you tried modelling healthy coping strategies and printing out pages of cognitive behavioral therapy tricks. you tried relationship podcasts and audiobooks and posts on instagram. you tried steamrolling your own emotions and making yourself into a fractal of a person. you tried ripping out your own hair and you tried to feed from your own stomach. you tried setting boundaries - and when that failed, you tried to be okay with broken boundaries.

you tried explaining, over and over and over. you tried long-winded texts that delicately apologized and took accountability; you tried short and earnest apologies that directly confronted the issue. you tried letting them apologize first - and when that didn't work at all, you tried to delicately explain you needed their apology.

you tried, because you really thought they could change. sometimes, if you caught them in the right moment - they even seemed willing. they would nod and agree to try therapy (eventually) or try calming techniques (eventually) or try safe communication practices (eventually) or try -

and you feel like a fool, because you gave them so much grace about it, and that's how things got so bad for so long. you were being patient and kind and willing. you gave them time. you promised yourself that next week, they'd be better. next week, they'd be the partner you needed. next week, they'd be there for you. they'd finally see all the effort and love and trying! and as some kind of divine reward, why, they'd finally -

the whole time your boundaries shifted and swam. since you were being patient with them, you started taking barely-there token actions as being "enough." okay, they didn't really apologize, but even the use of the words "i'm sorry" was enough! okay, they didn't support you through grief, but afterwards they seemed guilty about that and offered to buy you sushi. wasn't that all good enough? isn't love about growth and bringing the other person up with you?

so when you finally broke about this and finally decided to run: well, you had expected to be ruined. you had cried in the shower picturing it. and instead. instead. you were suddenly, coldly, wildly - done.

[stinkybrowndogs]

I mean I get that’s it’s not the only contributing factor, but I’m curious exactly how much of the shelter dog over-population problem is actually due to poor dog ownership/management vs the housing crisis and economical stress. I’d be willing to bet by investing in social programs that give people the resources they need to care for their pets (cough cough affordable and free housing cough cough) that the amount of pets in shelters would dramatically drop. We can all sit here pointing fingers and screaming at each other until we are blue in the face, but if the owners basic needs are not being met, how can we hold them to a basic standard for their pets?