#this is the sort of validation I need
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these are the murderbot artworks Tommy Arnold did for the Subterranean Press omnibus editions of the series, and a photo of Kevin R. Free, who narrates the murderbot audiobooks. when fans complain about the casting for the tv show, there is a very real basis for it in these past official/canonical aspects of the book series
#the murderbot diaries#tmbd#murderbot show#like. it is completely normal and wonderful to headcanon a character#who doesn’t have an in-text description#as a person of color in fanworks and such#im not criticizing that or saying that sort of fandom-wide design decision is an invalid base for an argument against the casting#i just feel the need to point out that there is very real and apparent subtext in these aspects of the series#that have suggested murderbot is brown#even if these things didn’t exist. i still think you could make valid arguments about the merit of having an actor of color in this role#i just really want to emphasize that there is a canonical basis for the common fan perception of mb as a poc#sorry if im over-explaining my point#im just really put off by the casting of a blonde white man as mb#i also want to be clear im not trying to like. lambast the show or get it cancelled or anything#creative decisions were made. things are set in stone already. whatever#i personally already dislike it very much and am not looking forward to it#im just trying to like. explain why im so pissed about this ig#💫
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man I wish they [spoiler?]
#i think everything id complain about for not being there has a valid reason for not being included#doom wings growing feathered in super form as a sort of ascension from demon to angel.....do you see my vision#this is not satisfying yet i need to draw winged shadow again#i filled entire sketchbook page with just him last night#you can see im hyped. and big sucker for wings#sonic#shadow the hedgehog#sonic x shadow generations#wings
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wrestling fic writers!!
i have decided to be the change i wanna see, so lets do a nice little thing for each other, as a community full of incredible and talented writers. yes this is writer specific only, but thats cause thats where the main problem of people not interacting with creative works lies in this fandom as far as i can tell and have seen people talking about it especially in the last couple of months
if you read this, please add links to your written works. it can be just a single fic youre really proud of, your writing blog, your writing tag, your ao3 account, anything where your works can be found
and if you leave your link here, PLEASE check out someone else that has left their works, and interact with them. leave them a comment, even just a kudos, REBLOG their fic, etc. interacting is the keyword i want to emphasize here, along with building a sort of a masterpost of where to find people writing in this fandom
and if you are not a writer, youre still highly encouraged to interact with this post and share it and show love to the writers in this fandom, obviously!! i think that should go without saying, but adding it in anyways
a bit more about my vision and resources and such under the read more, but thats the gist of it. happy linking and please be kind and supportive to each other!! 💜
nobody is too big or too small to add their things on this list. if you write and post anything in this fandom whatsoever, be it fics or drabbles or headcanons, any companies or any kind of ships or reader inserts or any content whatsoever no matter how 'dead dove dont eat' or hell even if its just meta, we welcome all here and nobody can say that one thing is less valid than another. just please tag your content accordingly, especially if theres content warnings, and feel free to mention what you write, who you write, any info you wish to leave that would help people before they click on your links. but even so, that should not and hopefully will not deter people from interacting, no matter what it is. someones trash is another ones treasure, i promise you
and unless the amount gets really overwhelming, im personally going to be checking out everyone that leaves something here. unless it squeaks me out, but even then, i'll spread the word. and i just wish as many people as possible will do the same, and not just use this as a potential board to only get eyes on their stuff. ofc thats also the point, but you should give as much, if not more, than you get. we need to be kind and supportive of one another (besides, from personal experience, if you show love to someone else, they are more likely to do it back than without you taking the first step, so... pay it forward)
as for resources, heres a few links that should be helpful in leaving comments and feedback. of course everyone does their own thing and no comment is too big or too small to leave, but for those who need them. if you have anything you'd like added to this list, dont hesitate to get in touch or drop it in the post yourself!!
101 comment starters
ao3 floating comment box
kudos html
dont know how to comment? easy solutions
a quick hot guide to commenting (by yours truly)
an overall guide to appreciating fanfic writers
and just in general.. leave people comments. leave them asks about their projects. just go over and gush about their work. i know it sounds embarrassing but writers love nothing more than to hear that someone likes what they are doing. if you find a fic that hasnt been updated in forever, comment on it. it might just be the spark the author needs to continue. while kudos and likes are nice, and just as valuable to some, its definitely in the words the people leave for them that matter the most. im not saying this to put pressure on anyone, its just how it is, and i feel like unless people are writers themselves, and even then sometimes, thats just hard to grasp, especially if the writer is a smaller and less popular one who doesnt get a lot of traffic in the first place
i think thats all. just be nice and considered to everyone, reblog peoples works, this post with others add ons and so forth. and if i find anyone talking shit here or at other writers for something they share, you'll be blocked and im probably taking your kneecaps. be fucking nice. we are all struggling here and we need to stick together
happy sharing and commenting 💜💜
#wrestling fanfiction#wrestling fic#aew fanfic#aew fanfiction#wwe fanfiction#wwe fanfic#i hope this make some sort of coherent sense#despite being a writer im really bad at words lmao#i also dont know what to tag this with without clogging main tags so im going to trust moots to get this going first#just. this is a topic im passionate about. i love writing i love writers and having seen the wrestling fandom as of late really struggling#with this. we need to do something. even a little bit helps. actually get people leaving feedback and commenting again#supporting each other. we can do this together#dont let dreams be dreams lets fucking do this#just be nice and help each other out#im gonna stop now before i get overly emotional. if theres any questions let me know tho i think i got the main parts pretty clear here#again moots. im trusting you to get this started. im not gonna add my own shit here immediately this isnt about me#this is about the community as a whole#i also hope nobody is afraid of adding themselves here. you are all valid and worth the attention no matter what#just remember to also give if you leave something here. look at the previous links. look in the notes to find more people#okay thats it i need to make dinner now#lets just be kind and support one another. promise me that 💜#night is an absolute mess on main
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purely fanon jason vent below so feel free to ignore
every other fic in the jason todd tag whether its romantic or platonic or whatever just has to include something about the no kill rule or him giving up killing like is it not enough ! have we not hashed out this argument enough already ! can I not read some jason content without having to be randomly bombarded by the morality police and how “oh jasons not killed anyone for x amount of months thats great! we knew u could do it jay”
and I wish I was just joking like I really do but I have scoured the tag almost from top to bottom and it always, without a doubt, has to come up at some point. its his fucking defining character trait apparently. mind u he’s not even the only dc character that kills but yall just won’t let it go! I do not need jason giving up his stance on killing to be written out for me to be able enjoy content about him
and whether its included so that his relationships with other characters can be viewed as ‘realistic’ is just so. what does it matter. its already fan-fiction who the hell cares about justifying the universe that you’re choosing to write him in
#jason todd#dc#red hood#dcu#pls do not interact if u have issues with jasons stance on vigilantism or whatever bc this is rlly not my point#idc whether u hate him for it or not to each their own#I just wish it wasn’t treated as some sort of stain on his character that needs to be addressed in every fic he appears in or else he —#cant be liked or something#like thats a topic that has to be addressed for my love of jason todd and his character and the love other charas have for him to be valid#its giving ‘jason u cannot be loved the way that u are’#and this reiterates the point I made in a previous post about how ppl genuinely dont know how to perceive this conflict and its resolution#the other way around#and how bc of that its always jason who has to be portrayed as making amends or taking a knee#there are so many interesting facets to jason todd so why does it always have to circle back to this one thing#why is it that hes one of the only charas ive seen where a certain plot point can never be looked past when enjoying him in fandom#fanart
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the relationship between rye and emmrich is that if emmrich ever told rye that he's a damn fine watcher, rye would immediately burst into helpless inconsolable tears and have to be coaxed down from it for an hour with hot tea and gentle voices and kind patient back pats before he could be what passes for normal on the surface again
#so far emmrich hasn't because he sort of assumed it went without saying. we're colleagues and peers here!#I respect your work tremendously and look forward to what you'll come up with in the rest of your hopefully long career my friend!#but once he realizes the yawning abyss that is rye's need#for approval and validation after a whole life of being the necropolis' resident underachieving fuckup kid.#he will be mercilessly kind about it and rye will be *toast* for a little while. just teartracks of eyeliner down his cheeks 4 days#draped like a floppy ragged old coat over the safe unflinching hatstand that is lucanis dellamorte when he's needed to keep upright#dragon age#dragon age: the veilguard#dragon age: the veilguard spoilers#dragon age spoilers#oc: Ellaryen Ingellvar#emmrich volkarin#american masc rook sounds SO young and vulnerable whenever they talk to emmrich about helping out with necromancy#there's one part in emmrich's loyalty quest where they say '...can I help?' in such a VOICE they're just a little guy who wants to HELP
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I've been seeing a lot of posts lately in which the op will complain that people are wildly mischaracterizing their favorite characters.
I feel like it bears reminding that "as long as you can back up your arguments with evidence, there can be multiple, and even conflicting, valid interpretations of the same text" and "just because the interpretation is valid, does not mean you have to internalize it into your understanding of the text" coexist.
#'Valid' in the literary sense.#Obligatory: not all interpretations are valid. People will just make things up. Many people have no media literacy.#*But just because you do not like an interpretation does not automatically make it invalid.*#I will be the first to say that fanon interpretations tend to lean more towards 'invalid'.#Or at the very least. The foundation might be valid and then it stretches it into less valid territory.#I've noticed this is often due to some sort of build-up effect. Take one aspect of a character and stretch it to an extreme.#Or seriously downplay other aspects of a character. Help you if someone has a favorite food.#This is not a Tumblr or shipping exclusive problem either. We are not throwing stones in glass houses. More like.#If you are in a fandom and you are trying to fill an emotional or artistic need you are coming at interpretations more heavily biased.#But so is the op who is complaining. In many such cases I often notice that the person making such posts#is not free from the same accusation that they are dishing out.#They just are upset that the more popular biased interpretation is not the one they are more comfortable with.#I would recommend trying to keep different minds when interacting with the source material vs when interacting with the fandom itself.#Just to prevent yourself from remembering The Text as shadow dolls playing make believe on cave walls.#Meanwhile please just block people who annoy you. Cherish the one life you are given.
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people joke about fandom shippers creating entire relationship dynamics out of two guys standing next to each other but have y’all ever seen fandom claim a ship has no chemistry and when you actually see this ship in canon it’s like, Fireworks
#especially when in tandem with hate of another ship that keeps posing itself as a rival of sorts#like dude you dont have to lie lift up your ships since when did we need canon to validate us#txt#i was lowkey thinking of laios and marcille as a romantic ship. like i wouldn’t say they have fireworks that’s generally speaking#but to say they have no chemistry is just Wrong. to say they do doesnt take away from falin and marcille i prommy#like it’s there man i kinda get it after reading the thang. none of it took from the yuri tho sooo what’s the ish#im ambivalent bc im 28 and it aint that serious. i just can read and analyze said words lol
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A tangent from the tags of my previous Pharma post (and I just thought about this so bear w/ me if it's hastily reasoned) is that the Autobots being generally sanctimonious is actually sort of a reason why I find a lot of IDW Optimus interpretations to miss the mark, specifically the accusations of calling him stuff like self-righteous, caring more about principles than people, etc. And I know that sounds really ironic, but out of every Autobot (and almost every character period), Optimus is one of the few people who has a very forgiving/humanistic perspective on life or at least has a political approach of "if we don't stop fucking fighting we're going to be at war forever and eventually just kill ourselves."
He very explicitly wanted a diplomatic end to the war and not a military victory/conquest. He extended multiple offers to Megatron personally to work together and end the war (Autocracy trilogy, which was pre/early war, and Chaos Theory, which was late/end war, so from this we can assume Optimus' stance was consistent the whole time). When ppl hated him so bad they rioted he removed himself from the planet rather than argue or fight to justify why his actions were the best he could do. Sandstorm starts murdering Decepticons and Optimus solves the murders and then throws Sandstorm in prison bc sparing one of his Autobots the consequences of his actions is less important to Optimus than keeping the peace and making sure anyone who threatens to ignite wartime hostilities is punished for it. There are multiple characters throughout the series that other people give up on as too far gone or too cowardly/evil/damaged to be worth helping where Optimus alone is the person who says "I think they can get better/they did bad things but they're still people" such as the Dynobots, Blurr, Prowl (despite how OP's patience with him hung by a thread by the end of it), Shockwave, and, yknow, fucking Megatron of all people.
And on top of that Optimus' internal thoughts most of the time revolve around feelings of guilt, responsibility, anger, hopelessness/barely hanging on to his ideals, and so on. Bro regularly has thoughts about how the entire Autobot-Decepticon war was his fault and is depressed to the point the thought of dying/martyring himself makes him feel relieved. So like. Idk guys I don't think those are the personality traits/actions of a self-righteous person who thinks he's correct about everything and everyone who opposes him or fails his moral standards is just evil or whatever.
#squiggposting#idw op love#it's one of those things where i'm very nitpicky about idw optimus characterizations yknow#bc there are many times where like there are seeds of valid criticisms or interesting ideas in fanon#but they fall short of being insightful or interesting to me bc they fundamentally don't understand idw op#be it out of ignorance of canon or like tweaking his characterization to fit whatever story they want to tell personally#which like that's how fanon works it's not like i'm railing against alternate character interpretations#it's just that that's AN INTERPRETATION of idw op but it isn't actually idw op to me#in order to criticize something you have to understand it and ime most people don't understand idw op#or at the very least if you characterize idw op as self righteous he's self righteous in a very specific way that isn't like. overtly evil#i think the problem is a lot of ppl write idw op as selfrighteous either out of ignorance or out of some sort of moral grandstanding#neither of which are correct bc OP is very aware of his fallibility + judges ppl but is also incredibly forgiving/open to redemption#i'd need to review canon but like. idw op is self righteous in that he decides what the best thing to do is and then does it#whether other ppl like it or not. so it's more about his relationship w authority and power than it is 'oh he's judgemental and ignorant'
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Me too the fuck
#art you guys#oh the casting director needs a RAISE for this JAJAJAJAJA So cinema#can imagine the person recording the DR like no Angela dw stay there the angle’s perf#kinda valid ngl if Brooklyn went around eating MY charcouterie board I would also break down#I love this season bc I can’t tell who is going to win and they truly said expect the unexpected with this cast I fear!#bb26#I feel like as of now Tkor may be in the best spot? Joseph is also sort of save depending on who wins hoh#but if Tucker barrels comps till the end he has the highest shot with f2#big brother#Angela
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Sometimes I feel like I should get an award for Not Saying Anything because sometimes it is very difficult and hard to Not Say Something.
Sometimes I have the urge to Say Something About Not Saying Anything which inevitably defeats the purpose of Not Saying Anything in the first place beyond patting myself on the back for Not Saying Anything, like I'm standing up and going 'Yes, yes that's right, I did not get involved in a petty and stupid argument, please clap for me. I held my tongue and just moved on, aren't I wise and brilliant?'
Of course, getting an award for it and being recognised for Not Saying Anything also defeats the purpose of Not Saying Anything, which is that frankly, I don't need to get involved, my opinion doesn't have to be heard on everything, and I'm generally happier that way.
But for a moment... just for a moment. My soul yearns for someone to pat me on the head and say 'Good job not adding your unnecessary commentary on a thing.'
#penkind rambles#i am aware that in making this post i am sort of Saying Something About Not Saying Anything#but i am saying it very vaguely and not directed at any specific instance of situations where I should Not Say Anything#I'm sure plenty of people have had this feeling too#i'm 90% sure there's an XKCD about it#it just amuses me that a part of my brain goes 'But I want validation about not needing validation!!!'
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A Hypothetical Conversation with Anti-Shippers.
I know I've stayed kinda silent on this, but ugh. I wish I could have an actual academic adult conversation with these Anits.
My background: I have a bachelor's degree in English. I've been analyzing literature for most of my life. I've been a proshipper before I even knew it was a term.
I would pose these questions.
Do you enjoy horror movies or horror related games and media? Well, then you must be a murderer because you enjoy that media. Right?
Do you enjoy violent videos games? FPS games? Something like GTA or COD? Then you would steal a car in real life because you did it in the video game and enjoyed it.
You'd shoot someone in real life then because you enjoyed it while play Apex or COD or Valorant, etc.
I have been gaming since I was 11. I enjoy FPS games. Apex and Valorant.
The thought of being in the presence of an actual gun makes me nervous, anxious, and uneasy. The thought of touching one actually makes me want to vomit.
Your brain can distinguish the difference between fiction and reality. When I view proship media, my brain understands it's not real.
If you put actual CSAM in front of me, I would be revolted.
Now, if YOU can not distinguish the difference between fiction and reality, that's on you. Maybe consider your thoughts. Compare your fictional interests to your real-life interests. Do some self reflection.
Because there are some people who enjoy FPS games and would shoot someone. But the game is not what triggered them to do that. It was a tendency they already had.
This is the same with pedophilia. Which is a mental illness that people actually suffer from. We have thrown this term and other terms like CSAM around without being mindful of the weight and meaning they hold.
Pedophilia is wrong, and they are hiding and prey in all spaces. Online and in person.
Proshipping does not equal Pedophilia.
Proshippers hold understanding for others' interests and likes. I don't enjoy every ship that comes across my tl but I'm not going to tell anyone how to live their life.
Proshipping hurts no one.
One last question, don't y'all have anything better to do than harass people. Do you have a job, friends, a life? You must live a miserable life, always policing people on how to enjoy things. I can't imagine putting all my energy into hate.
I support you not liking all ships. I do not support your censorship, bullying, and harassment of people just trying to enjoy their time in their fandom.
(Alright, I think that's everything I wanted to chat about. If any Antis would actually like to have an adult chat, I'm up for it. I'll treat you with respect as long as you treat me with respect. We may never agree, but maybe we can understand each other more.)
#op is a proshipper#proshippers are valid#proshipper#i really just needed to get this out of my head and into words on some sort of page
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it's so crazy to be in a really healthy relationship but still have emotional problems because every time i want to catastrophize about things with my girlfriend i'm like "buddy that doesn't even make any sense are you sure that's not your brain problems 🤨"
#like in a weird way when are extremely anxious being in a bad relationship is sort of validating#because you're like well i HAVE to be vigilant about the problems! to protect myself!#which makes it hard to work on those reflexive fears because you're like well the worst has happened before so i'm right actually#i realize i'm not breaking new ground by being like dysfunctional dynamics make you reach for maladaptive behaviors to cope#but it just feels nice to be able to put them down and be like maybe i don't need these anymore#and to know that if people are shitty to me i don't have to learn ways to work around it i can just stop keeping them close most of the time#who knew that you could learn and grow as a person and be happy even#personal nonsense
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Haiii tumblr ^^ im doing this over on twitter, on an alt account I want to get genuine insight on some things, so Proshippers, please interact with this - why do you consider yourself proship? Moreover, to those who like / defend the problematic aspects (i.e incest, laaarrge agegap, etc), why is that? i wont ask you to delve into any past trauma. I'm not gonna attack, or call you names or something - it's always been something I can't wrap my brain around, and I want to know genuine reasons as to why one may do. (edit: thanks to those correcting me on it not being a verb!! I've seeing people say they proship, and do it. i've edited it to correct my wording and added a bit more.)
#proship#proship positivity#proship please interact#like.#genuinely i want to know.#im not like “oh i want to get into proshipping n need to know if my reasons valid”#think of it like an interview of sorts
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margaret atwood, alias grace; slightly modified to say 'her' instead of 'his.'
#NO ONE EVER TELLS YOU THAT BRAVERY FEELS LIKE FEAR: musings.#ooc post.#am i going to tag this as a self-promo? maybeee maybe not because i technically just made it as an edit so... yeah-#i guess i'll just tag it as that for now LOL but as the little tag i put at the end says this quote was written by margaret atwood-#so it's not mine! though i thought it was PERFECT for anastasiy once i found it and thus... here we are 👀#but yes as one may be able to gather the silhouetted figure that is hugging ana kind of awkwardly in the picture is supposed to be manja#as she is her own deity and/or goddess of death within her own respective pantheon. BUT there are some context clues-#in here asto how complicated their relationship really is even though some people would probably take one look at manja then ana#and think that manja absolutely took advantage of anastasiy's position to fulfill her own needs + yeah... i ain't denying that.#she was VERY wrong to see an opportunity to place one of her UHHH. 'problems' on someone else and do it especially-#considering it involves killing people so ☠️ buttt ana also can't help but be slightly in awe of manja at the same time and sort of wants#her approval if that makes any sense and/or her validation. i think partially BC he tried talking to the christian god and had no material-#evidence that he was ever going to answer his prayers so he turned to manja kind of expecting the same thing but she actually-#striked a deal with him even if it was a WACK as hell deal. so like just a forewarning ana's desire to get validation from manja-#or do things for manja in hopes that she will keep the same attitude about him that she had in the first place which is that she liked him-#BC he doesn't want for the one time his prayers got answered to somehow be ruined is unhealthy.#but ana also doesn't really care that she used him BC he also used her to save his daughter so like... in the doctor's mind-#they're not really 'even' per-say but they have formed this mutual agreement amongst themselves that they each had-#something each other wanted + otherwise they would've likely never met. but yeahhh anyways that's enough of me rambling LOL
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as much as it frustrates me, it makes a lot of sense that a good chunk of my ocd rituals/behaviors are more prevalent before bed. i've had horrible sleep anxiety for as long as i can remember and the compulsions are my brain's attempt at self soothing
#my therapist says i need to be kinder to myself. recognizing why i do the things that make me mad at myself helps#just because its irrational doesnt mean it isnt a valid emotion/experience#(i say rocking back and forth)#honestly it even makes sense in the aspect of my osdd and having to rely on myself for protection#but thats a conversation for my therapist and not my blog on tumblr dot com#sam.txt#diary blogging#< new tag to help me sort through my emotion dumps i do on here
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i was just reading a fic and i swear to god they literally fucking wrote “its giving gay fr” in the middle of the chapter. it wasnt even dialogue. some people on ao3 belong on wattpad.
#thats it im giving up on finding an amazing byler fic#if you do your filters and then sort by hits theyre alright… nothing incredible tho imo#but when you sort by most recent thats when youre like OH!!! you are twelve!! i am reading a twelve year olds work!!!#at least i HOPE so cuz thats the only valid explanation#also they tainted the goldfinch fandom ever since the movie came out all the fics are shitty crossovers with all finns characters#how do you read a pulitzer prize winning book about artheft and think you know what this needs? richie tozier#if nobody got me i know snowbaz fandom got me#ao3#do i tag byler….. i feel like some of them would bully me#nah
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