#trigger warning assault

[parakleticknight]

Me: no I don't think I've ever been with a chaser or ever really been SA'ed. Like I've been uncomfortable during s*x but like nothing big.

Also me: if anyone touches me while I'm drunk I'll cry. Why? So this one time-

[todomemolesta18]

I read this manhwa name Get Schooled this manhwa spreading message of anti bullying. They dealt with overt bullying so the story goes with these two teacher coming to a school where someone get bullied. Unlike with helluva boss the female character is not treated badly same with helluva boss, however they still being done really dirty. This manhwa have implicit bias toward feminist movement, black african people and dark skin people. Another thing they arc where they painted feminism movement as this radical ideology where anyone who disagree with them is being mistreated, another arc the idol arc so we have idol who is a bully. Can you guess what is her punishment?

Being assaulted by adult man being called a bitch by her own boss who is an adult too

Tell me is that a punishment or just sadistic suffering? This idol is a bully but they just only touch surface level the reason why she become a bully. She was being body shamed by a her trainer who's an adult woman. I see people praising the man who assaulted her as their crush, they finding it atractive. Then there another chapter where they redeemed a pimp who sold teenage girl to older man she being redeemed

Wtf is wrong with this manga 😟 Misoginia I guess...

And people PRAISED IT? Eh, being in Helluva Boss, where they say shit about sexual abuse and sexual workers, this doesnt surprise me.

Still, it sucks.

[deliciousrebeltrashchronicals]

Nah but when I was assaulted in my own bed in the middle of the night by a strange man, after the yelling and the screaming and the throwing of punches the guy ran out. and me, working on pure instinct ran out into the pitch darkness to chase after him.

later que everyone (cops included) asking me

“Why the FUCK would you do that?”

And man, the above post kinda covers it. Like. In that moment there was no thought process other than what I imagine horses feel when confronted with a dingo “idk why but I gotta stomp this mother fucker”

Was it smart to run out into the dark as fuck bush after my attacker? No. Probably not.

But for fucks sake I got one punch in and I wanted to land more idk.

Dude probably thought I was easy prey, but I’m just like if I am going down you’re fucking going down with me. Bet.

When you encounter a wild animal in nature, it's good to bear in mind that a predator can be negotiated with. They don't want to attack unless they're sure they can take you down without risking injury on themselves - a predator that can't hunt won't eat, so going for a risky kill is usually not worth it. A prey animal, however, has nothing to lose. If you spook that thing, it will decide it's best to sell its life dearly and be determined to take you down with it.

This also applies in traffic. A pedestrian is a prey animal. Sure, if I'm walking somewhere and you decide it's a good idea to spook me for no reason, you can try speeding at me as fast as the law allows and screech to a halt at the last possible second. But if the weather is wet and you make me slip while crossing the road, bear in mind that I am carrying a long umbrella with a spike at the end. And if I lose my balance, I might take support of it and land spike first. And the spike might not land on the ground, but the nearest solid surface. While I don't know if my bodyweight is enough to make the umbrella tip puncture the hood of a car, I guess we'll get to find out together.

Spook prey animals at your own risk. Once death is on the line, I've got nothing more to lose.

[tls12lessthan3]

thinking about orvs metatextual engagement with its genre and specifically how that interacts with its women again. kim dokja is a self insert for the reader - what he thinks is largely meant to represent what we think, especially in the beginning before sing shong really fleshes out his character. kim dokja sees the world through tropes, directly acknowledging the genre around him and the cliches we expect e.g. the overpowered mc, the scheming villain, the beautiful heroine.

but a major part of his arc is deconstructing this reductionist view of the world in a way that parallels the author's deconstruction of the genre, and that plays really well with the way orv writes women. yoo sangah is perhaps the best exanple - shes introduced as the heroine, a one-dimensional pretty girl who in any other novel would become kim dokja's love interest. but the authors allow her to be her own character, directly challenging the stereotype of the heroine and calling attention to the genre's typical lack of depth for such a character. i think this undercurrent plays in the background often but really comes to the forefront when yoo sangah reminds kim dokja of her putting pepper in their bosses' coffee, a memory kim dokja had supressed because it didn't fit with the pretty girl persona he made for her.

i interpret that moment as yoo sangah pushing her way out of the mold of heroine often found in these stories, demanding a depth be added to her character, asking kim dokja - and thus the reader - to see her in her entirety, to see the heroine archetype for what she could be. orv is at all times in conversation with its genre, and its simultaneous writing of female characters with agency and depth and acknowledgement of the tropes these women are expected to fulfill is undeniably a part of that. and its a part i enjoy. most of the time.

[anartisticalniche]

yeah i agree when that part rolled up i swear i legit felt SO MUCH fear for him

please never do that again smg4

significant TW but I felt like this needed to be said related to the new episode

ngl as someone who has trauma related to assault the scene where Peter was being weird with 3 near the end of today’s ep triggered the absolute fuck out of me and I hope they never do any moments like that ever again, most of the episode was great but that part really shook me up /srs

[marvelsgirl616]

What the actual fuck…🙄🤢 Istg people like this pathetic excuse of a person is the reason I hate being in this fandom

I agree with dawginson here… and if they decide to do anything visual I think maybe one shot of mark crying and then fade to black with the screams would be enough to imply what’s happening without being too unnecessarily graphic

[irlangelsdiary]

Facts about intrafamiliar sexual abuse, COCSA, and CSA.

• COCSA can happen with children of any age, but potential incidents can increase as children enter puberty and adolescence.

• 40% of Children who were sexually abused the perpetrator was older and or more powerful

• 5% of children have been affected by sibling sexual abuse.

• It is one of the lowest disclosed forms of sexual abuse, meaning the statistics around this are likely to be higher.

• More than 90% of abusers are people children know, love and trust.

• 30-40% of victims are abused by a family member.

[angelicwh0r3]

I wish I've never been touched without my consent, I feel like I've lost parts of myself that have been touched and I will never win them back

[chryblossomjjk]