#trigger_

[kangpingyu]

O!NEW!EVOLUTION! IV 1.12.2024

[kimyoonmiauthor]

"You shouldn't put _this trigger_ in fiction *at all*" Censor before publishing discourse.

So, People of Color people aren't allowed to write about racism?

Women aren't allowed to talk about sexual assault, feminism?

Victims of r* aren't allowed to talk about it from their PoV and should leave it to people who've never, ever gone through it?

Men can't talk about how they too have gone through it and sort it in a social justice way and talk about the patriarchy is a way that goes deeper than the basic white feminism of Barbie?

People who know what *abuse actually feels like and would like to advocate against it* aren't allowed to talk about abuse?

When people talk about sex in YA, often the discourse isn't about writing safer sex and consent at all, but "should you write about sex with teens"

But this creates severe issues.

Look, I as one of the fundamentally token red shirts on this planet, queer, PoC, NB not a woman, but often have to fake it for the doctor's office because they won't let me check off NB and give me the form for that, with a history of abuse, history of institutionalization, want to fucking transform my shitty crap into diamonds by transforming my trauma into social justice awareness.

When you say, but you shouldn't write it into books at all, that means you silence the people who have gone through it, and need to talk about it, and wish to make the world a better place.

And sometimes the veneer of fiction is what people need in order to do that.

The reason, as many, many Science Fiction, Fantasy, and Horror authors have said their genre is one of the best ass places for talking about social issues is because of that ability to create distance from the issue and then dissect the hell out of it. This way it's not because I am left and live in this country... tory, whig, democrat, etc. It's these are the issues at stake, this is how it actually feels as this person going through this thing. This is why you exactly shouldn't do it, because it fucks with your head exactly this way long term.

But if you start labeling the issue in an exact way with the modern/contemporary terms from our world, people will start flipping out, but fiction gives the author super powers to say, this is what transformation of this AWFUL TERRIBLE thing looks like. And maybe this is why it's hard and this is how to do it.

Fiction can divide things into questions.

Instead of the discourse being, should teens have sex *in fiction*. I think the discourse should be, why aren't more writers writing like Norma Klein who was absolutely frank about birth control methods, what consent and safer sex was, and the results of (for her time period) a sexually abusive person that didn't get to go to jail, and marry his teen victim. And instead the reviews of her book are... OMG, she's soooo frank about sex I'm blushing.

Nyahh, you should read her because she's frank about sex, she's doing anti-body shaming initiatives, spends a fair amount of time comparing television to reality, talking about pubic hair as a natural thing, and combating TV images, and the "perfect" body through talking about sex. Maybe more romance could do that?

This guy doesn't have the 10 inch scholong all night long. But is kind, caring, knows what else to do in the interim during his refractory period? Did Norma Klein do that? Absolutely. She talked frankly about sex in order to push sex education. I got things in her 1960's written book that my sex education teachers failed to teach me, like anti-body shaming. Pubic hair is natural. (Romance is far, far from reality, I get that, but still... if you're going to blush at the word penis and think you can't possibly use it in a romance book in a frank discussion, then maybe you should reevaluate a bit. And I do wish Romance books went over consent too and made consent super sexy by having those frank consent discussion and making it oohhh I can't wait until we get through this discussion to *try* that, but we have to wait and oh my god, I didn't know that about you, I'm glad I get to *try* that. Make consent sexy. Make BDSM negotiations sexy. Make the how, "Would you like that?" OMG yes. sexy.).

The fact an ace is writing this about consent, safer sex and trying to ask people to not do body shaming isn't lost on me. But seriously. Also, I'm not sex repulsed, just on the indifferent scale. And aces can be sex positive.

Maybe in order to get queer joy, you need a bit of trauma up front so people know what the issues are. Maybe to get social justice in this area, you need to be able to talk about what people have to think about in order to go through transition and why people might opt out of it and how that too can be queer joy.

In order to transform the shit of the world, people should censor shit like happy slave gets with their master. YES. That probably should not be shared. Write it, keep it to yourself. OMG Nazis were good actually. Write it, don't share it with the general public.

But for the gnarly, for the honestly tricky, for the things that could be made into social justice, let it be written. Own voices preferred, but don't make them write it. But don't censor them either.

If a person who has gone through rape wants to write about rape and how horrific it is, then yes, let them write it. (BTW, I'm saying this as a person who knows what it's like and NO it's not "that's why you are ace, then." I was ace long before then. I was having ace-like thoughts at 5. Some people do, and that's fine. But don't paint everyone with the same brush.) But keep their feet to the fire and make sure they write it in a way that doesn't glorify it, doesn't make it feel "right" and aims it towards social justice. Then trigger warning.

"Precious" does have sexual abuse, rape and all of that, but if you get through that story and the difficulty, she transforms her shit into something positive. And it's an argument against rape, no matter what the book challenger thought. (OMG sex scenes and it's sexy? WTF is wrong with you, dude. Go see a therapist.)

What better way to make the book banners win than to let people who went through horrible traumatic shit never to make it to the bookshelf by shaming them for talking about it and transform their stories of horror into social justice gold?

There's quite a difference, though, when you're glorifying racism as a good thing.

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[skybluelatte]

Song Rec

🎧 ONEWE - Trigger_

[bytheanchorarchived]

for @vcrlac on her birthday!!  Happy Birthday Talia!!

                                     Jonathan Morgenstern  ✚   Jace Herondale

                                 Baby I'm preying on you tonight, hunt you down, eat you alive                                   Maybe you think you that can hide, I can smell your scent for miles

                                                    [ I can still hear you making that sound ]

[mynameiguess]

Okay I just took the time to listen to onewe’s newest album and it is amazing (as expected)onewe really is one of Those bands who’s got no bad songs, 10/10 one of the best albums of the year for me, and it only just begun, that’s the power they hold

but to be fair I’m pretty sure yonghoon could sing about literally anything and I would be close to tears, that’s the hold this band got on me

[thepancakelady]

tagged by @gaym3bo1 to do the 10 on repeat spotify playlist songs on shuffle tag ages ago but it's better late than never

i feel like this wild mix of songs fits me very well

[we-survive-endlessly]

Onewe’s Planet 9: Voyager! It was probably my favorite album of last year (Apocalypse Whenever by Bad Suns a close second)!

(omg u should totally rank Apocalypse Whenever too i would love to scream abt that one with someone!)

Oooh okay! I loved Onewe’s album a lot and relistened to it to try to decide the order 😅

1) Montage_ (the harmonized high note at the end scratches my brain just right and that guitar omg)

2) Universe_ (this song brings me so much comfort and the vocals are CRAZY)

3) Orbit_

4) Trigger_

5) Envision_

6) From_

And of course I’ll give Apocalypse Whenever a listen, I love new music! ~ Overall I think their music is really fun, and their harmonies are great!

1) Heaven Is A Place In My Head (this feels like it would be perfect on a driving/road-trip playlist)

2) Symphony Of Lights (aw a sweet song)

3) Grace (I Think I’m In Love Again)

4) When The World Was Mine

5) Passerby

6) Silently Screaming

7) Electric Circus

8) Life Was Easier When I Only Cared About Me

9) Baby Blue Shades

10) Nightclub (Waiting For You)

11) Summer Lightning

12) Apocalypse Whenever

13) Wishing Fountains

[yonghoontual]

Yonghoontual's favorite Releases of 2022 Part 3

Now it's time for the beloved b-sides. Doing things a bit different for this one because I have way too many favs: Every artist is only gonna be on this list once (which is very hard for me lmao). Instead I'm going to put the other contenders for a place on this list by the same artist in brackets at the end of every placing. Ok, let's do it!

Trigger_ by Onewe (Orbit_)

The Game by Pentagon (Sparkling Night)

In My Dreams by Red Velvet (Bye Bye)

Cool (Your Rainbow) by Nmixx

Royal by Ive (My Satisfaction)

Blue Flame by Le Sserafim (Impurities)

Tell Me by Fifty Fifty

Moon Prism by Rocket Punch

Escape Room by fromis_9

Locked Inside a Door by Dreamcatcher

Villain by Girls Generation

Basics by Twice

Same Same by Stayc (Young Luv)

Snowy by Itzy

i by Lightsum

Pretty Psycho by Purple Kiss

overlap (1/1) by Billlie

Shelter by E'LAST (Nightmare)

Natural by Pixy

Night Fog by Highlight

Eden by Oh my Girl

Drown in Love by Cix

Break Down by Kard

La Luna by Ichillin'

The Song of Dann (Promise) by Kingdom (Appetite)

Dance with me by BTOB

Oscar by Apink Chobom

Change by g-idle

Love Love Love by Viviz

Stawberry Cake by Xdinary Heroes

[jojoroxye]

Favorite K-songs of 2022

I chose 35 songs, in no particular order, all of them are korean songs but not all of them are kpop per se :

Just Breath - JinJin&Rocky

Play - Yuju

Decanting - Suho

Blow - Jackson Wang

Same Scent - ONEUS

Nocturnal animals (Feat. Zior Park) - ZICO

Undo - Heize

Natural - PIXY

The Story - Kang Daniel

MANIAC - Stray Kids 

RING ma Bell - Billlie

Universe_ - ONEWE

Trigger_ - ONEWE

Somebody! - Loco & Hwasa

Shutdown (ft. Seori) - Moonbyul

Pink Cloud - Wheein

IMAGE (5_52 am) (Prod. JUNGKEY) - Solar

Tomboy - (G)I-DLE

DARK (X-file) - (G)I-DLE

Anywhere But Home - Seulgi

Dead Man Runnin' - Seulgi

MOOD - DPR Ian

Pretty Psycho - Purple Kiss

Love Is Dead - Purple Kiss

Ready 2 Go - Jiselle

Closer - Girls' Generation

Can't Control Myself - Taeyeon

Toddler - Taeyeon

ZIP - BoA

Do Me Right  - GEMINI

RUSH - THE FIX

WHEN I MOVE - KARA

Alive - VICTON

Still Life - RM

The Cure - KANGTA · BoA · U-KNOW · LEETEUK · TAEYEON · ONEW · SUHO · IRENE · TAEYONG · MARK · KUN · KARINA

[bowieisworried]

MID-YEAR CHECK-IN ⊕ TOP SONGS OF THE FIRST HALF OF 2022

Tagged by @kingleedo who I can always rely on to drag me back into cc things

Top songs (in no order) ▶ Yeowoobi [Onew] • Drowning in the Rain [RAVI] • trigger_[ONEWE] • skinz [OnlyOneOf] • DEEP [HYO] • X-Ray [GHOST9] • UP [Bang Yongguk]

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[possession1981-moving]

What are your songs that end with a four?

omg okay let’s go

4. criminal by taemin

14. just me and you by taemin

24. heart burn by sunmi

34. c.o.d.e by the boyz

44. better and better by woodz

54. rollercoaster by dkb

64. salty by the boyz

74. closer by the boyz

84. the stealer by the boyz

94. trigger_ by onewe

spotty 100 ask game

[bytheanchorarchived]

cw: child abuse

this has been in my head for a while now, so i decided i wanted to make this post. 

all of this last year, but specially these last days, i have been slowly learning about all of the different specific ways in which i suffered childhood abuse and neglect, and all of the many, many ways it screwed up my life, my sense of self, and my self image. and how it caused me quite a few very real impairments, that then were only exacerbated when they were blamed back on me, and i was made to believe i somehow didn’t do my best on purpose, because i was a bad child, and a bad person. 

it took me 26 years to even start to believe that what had been done to me was, in fact, abuse, and not something i just deserved because something was wrong with me. you know what gave me that first spark of wanting to maybe believe it, even a little while before i started on therapy, and that gave me strength, and helped me understand what i was learning through it? jace herondale. 

jace helped me understand, handle, and accept, all the many subtle ways in which i was neglected, manipulated, abused and plain expected to be an adult before i had any conditions to be one. jace helped me deal with understanding how hard it is to accept what’s happened when it’s done to you by people you love, and that in their way, love you back, and how it is to accept that you BOTH hate and love them. and jace made start to think about the way he saw himself, and the way the fandom saw him, and how he was anything BUT what he thought he was, and how angry it made me that he, and so many others in his and our real life, would think he was indeed bad, broken, and unfixable. and the angrier i felt, the more a little, very little, thought, started to occur to me, that if i was so willing to fight for him, and to see how good he truly was, why wasn’t i willing to even give myself the benefit of the doubt? 

jace has been with me through this journey, and through a flurry of pain, confusion, and trying to come to terms with the fact that i’d spent my whole life blaming myself for what had been done to me, so fiercely, that when someone finally pointed it out to me four years ago, i didn’t believe them. but i believed jace’s journey, and i believed in him. because it’s ONE thing to have someone point that out to you, that you think can’t possibly know what your life really is like, and it’s another to see it written down in words that finally make sense of those loose puzzle pieces in your head, and resonate with you so much, you can no longer deny them.

and the sole reason i am making this post, and writing all of this down, is to ask you, beg you, to please, please, do not erase jace’s abuse journey from him. 

much like me, i KNOW there are others who this character has helped the same, and others that it might help still, and it’d break my heart if someone’s so tenuous willingness to start to believe in themselves, and on what was done to them, was snuffed out, because they were made to feel that they were relating to a character that had never actually been through all of those things at all, and it was all just in their heads. don’t. i know it might feel like text interpretation to you, and like it doesn’t really matter, but trust me, it does. jace herondale matters for many reasons, but ALSO, for this one. he mattered to me, and i just KNOW he can help so many others yet, if they just get a chance to let him. 

trust me, there is more than enough lack of validation in most of the lives of people that have had similar stories to mine, and when you erase that part of him, you might just be making someone doubt that little spark, and take away their hope that they are NOT unfixable, and that they are not to BLAME, and that they are not destined to live their lives this way. that it CAN get better. 

maybe i would still be at this point of my journey without jace, perhaps i would, but the truth is, it’d have been a lot goddamn harder without him. and that is why i’m here posting this, right now, because i don’t want anyone else whom he might help, to have to go the journey without him, and without another source of hope, whatever that may be. even if it is a character in a fantasy book.

[kpopmultifan]

ONEWE has released the MV for “Universe,” the title track of their 2nd mini-album “ Planet Nine: Voyager.”

[highlight medley]

1. Universe_ 2. Envision_ 3. Montage_ 4. Trigger_ 5. Orbit_ 6. From_

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