#words of affirmation. quality time. gifts. acts of service. physical touch

[theambitiouswoman]

The best way to treat yourself is to treat yourself in your love language. So for example, If your love language is acts of service, try doing small, intentional things that make your life easier because you deserve to feel supported by you. This is one of the ways you will feel most fulfilled. Also remember that we teach people how to treat us, by how we treat ourselves

Acts of service: Cleaning your space, prepping your meals, planning your week, booking needed appointments, taking your vitamins, setting reminders, doing what you said you would do

Quality time: Take walks, sit in silence, read a book you love, journal, turning off your phone, making time just for you

Receiving gifts: Buy yourself flowers, order your favorite food, invest in things that are meaningful to you, wear something special just because, gift yourself something thoughtful

Words of affirmation: Write yourself a love note, say nice things in the mirror, make a gratitude list, read affirmations daily, celebrate yourself

Physical touch: Apply body oil, yoga or stretching, warm baths, gua sha or face roller, hug yourself, get a massage

love yourself, you deserve it 🤍

[sft-chrries]

hashiras’ love language

pairings: g. himejima, t. uzui, g. tomioka, o. iguro, s. shinazugawa, k. rengoku, m. kanroji, s. kocho, m. tokito x gn!reader (separately)

warning: self harm (obanai), insecurities? (mitsuri)

g. himejima ˗ˋˏ ♡ ˎˊ˗ words of affirmation

gyomei loves your voice especially when you encourage him to something it makes his heart race

he loves to hear you sing or hum.

he is a good listener in general so he will listen to you talk to him whether is a rant or a random thought

t. uzui ˗ˋˏ ♡ ˎˊ˗ receiving gifts (giving)

tengen loves giving you and his other wives gifts

got home from a mission? you four would have a gift

going out for a festival? he would buy you four something

he loves the expression on your face when he gives you something

g. tomioka ˗ˋˏ ♡ ˎˊ˗ quality time

giyuu loves spending time with you

if he doesn’t have a mission you two would have your late night walks

if he ever gets injured during a mission, he would run to you instead of going to the butterfly estate

whenever you're bored, you enjoy making paper origami or flower crowns with him. sometimes, it's just you doing the crafting while he admires you

o. iguro ˗ˋˏ ♡ ˎˊ˗ quality time

just like giyuu, he would run to you when he has a wound

sometimes he would do it just to see you

due to his difficulty with expressing himself verbally, he sometimes resorts to hurting himself rather than asking you

until you asked him because a certain hashira said that he likes you

one thing you both love to do is go on dates together

s. shinazugawa ˗ˋˏ ♡ ˎˊ˗ physical touch

he loves it when you trace his scars with your finger

whenever you two are in public his hand would be on you waist or holding your hand

when you two are cuddling he would hold your hand kiss it

k. rengoku ˗ˋˏ ♡ ˎˊ˗ quality time

he loves to spend his time talking to you

i just like to believe that he has a lot of tea to say at the end of his shift

he'd be like “did you know that there was a little girl who stole from the food stall?”

or “i saw a cat jumped off the tree”

it could be a big thing or a little thing he would say it to you while spending time with him.

he will probably wake you up because he remembered something he forgot to tell you

m. kanroji ˗ˋˏ ♡ ˎˊ˗ words of affirmation

mitsuri likes it when you compliment her, especially the things she feels insecure about.

every time you say that her muscles are cool, she looks like she’s going to explode.

if you write her a note and put it in her bento box, she’ll keep it and best believe she has a whole box full of your notes and yes she reads them every chance she gets

s. kocho ˗ˋˏ ♡ ˎˊ˗ act of service

when you notice that she has been yawning you would make her a cup of coffee and just stay with her

you would stock up with her favorite foods

you would do her meals yourself and not call for aoi to help you

she would fall in love with you again if you said “ill help you with that”

m. tokito ˗ˋˏ ♡ ˎˊ˗ quality time

due to his bad short memory loss(?) he wants to spend time with you so that he doesn’t forget you

when are spending time together you two are either sleeping, making paper origami, or making flower crowns

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[internetladyfables]

What do you think hugo’s love languages are?

I’m willing to bet that acts of service and/or quality time are at least some of them but his emotionally touch starved ass probably wants or needs more

I see him as a gentleman, so acts of service is natural to him: he's eager to help his beloved one with everyday tasks and errands, preparing a meal or drink, opening doors, fixing your clothes, etc.

Gift giving. I mean, he's rich so he can afford anything you want, not because he feels obligated, but because he wants to and this how he shows his love.

Quality time. He's a busy man, so he values every minute spent with you. Even if you just sitting in the same, both busy with your own stuff, the feeling of being with you, being present with you, stealing glances when you're not watching.

What he wants, but hardly admits:

Words of affirmation. We all know that a tough life he had, he craves reassurance. Hearing you say that he’s good, wanted, not a burden? Hearing you praising his strength and intelligence? Hearing you complimenting his appearance, clothes, eyes? It will boost his ego, lift his spirits, serve as a reminder that he's loved.

Physical touch. It follows from the previous point. He wants to be held, having your fingers run through his hair, your hands cupping his cheeks and you peppering his face with kisses.

Gifts. Not that he needs or demands them. He just likes to collect things, and gifts from you — especially if they're hand-made, one of the kind — are precious to him and touch his heart.

[bloodandiron-if]

What are the ROs love languages?

⚠️ LENGTHY CONTENT INCOMING ⚠️

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OPERATIVE D-6

Physical Touch (only with the MC)

D-6 shows love by staying close to you.

They’ll rest a hand on your knee when you’re tense. Brush your hair back from your face after a fight. Patch you up slowly and carefully, potentially having their fingers linger where they probably shouldn’t.

They don’t speak much—but their touch says: “I’m still here—and I’m not going anywhere.” And in private, when they’re sure your both alone and safe, they’ll cling themselves against your side—burying into your body like it’s home. (in correlation to the big spoon/little spoon ask)

A single touch from them means more than a thousand words.

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DETECTIVE JUNO REYES

Acts of Service

Juno protects you before you know you’re in danger.

Fixes your clothes. Sharpens your knife. Makes the hard calls so you don’t have to. They don’t say “I love you,” they say “I’ll handle it.”

If you’re bleeding, they’re already kneeling. If you’re breaking, they’ll carry your guilt like it’s their own. That’s how they love—by shouldering what you shouldn’t ever have to.

“You don’t owe me anything. This is just what you do—for the person you care for.”

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NICO/NIA RUSSO

Quality Time

Russo shows love by sticking around when no one else does.

They’ll loiter at your side after shifts, flick pizza crusts at you from across the counter—and if you smoke—drag you out for a smoke break you didn’t ask for.

They don’t always talk about it, but they choose you—over and over again. When they could be anywhere, they’re next to you, grinning like it’s a joke.

“I don’t do people who waste my time. You? You’re different. You’re real.”

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KIERAN/KIERA MYLES

Gift Giving

Myles leaves things behind without fanfare.

A rare book slid into your bag. A replacement weapon where your old one broke. A custom jacket with hidden armor, tailored to your frame.

They give you pieces of the world they move through—dangerous, expensive and intentional. Every gift whispers, “I see you,” and every one of them has a purpose you didn’t realize you needed.

“It’s not sentiment. It’s precision. And you’re worth it.”

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ALEX/ALEXI MONROE

Physical Touch

Monroe is all hands, all warmth, all soft little touches that come out of nowhere.

They don’t even think about it most of the time—hooking their pinky around yours while you’re standing, brushing their thumb over your knuckles when you’re not looking. Kisses? Always spontaneous, soft, and a little rushed—like they just remembered how much they missed you. And they always kiss you like they mean it.

When you’re busy doing something else, they’ll just… drape themselves over you. Full body weight, like a cat that’s decided this is where they live now.

Nose buried in your neck, arms loose around your waist, barely any space between you. They don’t say it—but that’s the point.

“You don’t have to say anything. I’m right here. That’s enough, isn’t it?”

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ROWAN/RHEA CARTER

Words of Affirmation

Carter doesn’t love silently.

They speak to you with unbridled purpose, as if every word contains a strong sense of importance—with that little hint of danger. They will let you know when you are brave—when you are kind—when you aren't fine, but you keep trying.

They never try to sugarcoat anything they say because they always express exactly what they mean—even if it's embarrassing to hear at times. They address the version of yourself that you don't believe is worth saving—and call it absolutely beautiful.

Carter is every right righteous, and a figure capable of changing everything. Their words become armour around your ribs, instilling a hidden faith in you that you had no idea would’ve existed without them.

“You’re still here. After everything. That matters more than you think.”

[iwakuraz]

the question of 'whats your love language' confuses me sooo much and idk why. sometimes whenever I take those dumb uquizzes if I get that question I'll always click off cuz like.. dude I don't know. I genuinely have no clue what I've ever done for anyone to express love that's not something I'd notice

[wxsteriawishes]

sylus' love languages languages

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content: references made to sex, no actual sexually explicit content, use of pet names (sweetie, kitten)

G (giving)

R (receiving)

gifts (G)

with so much money, it's easy for sylus to spoil you. often, he'll buy things that catch his eye because "they reminded me of you." he loves bringing home new clothes for you to wear, to try on for him. he'll sit down and watch you put on a show for him, even if you initially feel overwhelmed by all his presents. he adores it. he adores the look on your face when you're so torn between gratitude and refusal. because how could you take so much from him? he'll remind you that the dirty work he has to do every day is worth it when he gets to spend his money on you. he tells you he'd feel insulted, offended, if you refused any of his gifts. "you don't like them, sweetie? what's wrong?" he'll drape you with jewelry -- gold, silver, and encrusted with gems. real ones, of course. he loves imagining how a necklace would look wrapped around your neck, thinking of your surprise when he'd come home to show you. he goes out of his way to buy you things from your hometown or from foreign cities, things you'd never find in linkon city. he'll buy you a bouquet of flowers, triple the size of your head. he'll keep note of things that catch your eye in stores, then act innocent when they appear in a pretty box on your nightstand. sometimes, it's an addiction. more for him than it is for you. "what do you want? just name it and i'll get it for you. just talk to me, sweetie." he'll find a way to get anything that your heart desires, all to keep you happy. he can't help it. he needs to keep showering you with presents. he needs to see you sparkling like his personal, pretty treasure.

words of affirmation (R)

he'll never say it, but part of him craves it. your words heal him. when you tell him how kind he is, how pure of a soul he has, despite what scraps the world has given him. when you remind him how much you love him, verbally expressing it, looking him in the eye as you say it. his shoulders start to droop, relaxing in your presence. he relies on your praises after a long day, after he's dirtied his hands, yet again. he's getting numb to the danger and you tell him how worried you get. it pulls him back to reality. even if he lost himself, you tell him you'd always pull him back. he believes you. even if you sometimes doubted your strength, he feels so comforted by you. you start leaving him notes everywhere. on a little box of food you packed for him, hidden in his helmet, tucked into his favorite jacket, he finds these scattered pieces of love you leave for him. he can't understand it. he could feel like the world's against him, but you still find a way to anchor him. even when you're not there, you find a way to keep him steady and he loves you for it. he gets so used to your voice. he saves your voice messages, listens quietly when you're singing in the shower, and if you ever gave him the silent treatment? he'd lose his goddamn mind, he'd go insane trying to get you to speak to him again, even if you screamed at him, he just wanted one word. he'd settle for anything. he'd apologize for things he's done, things he hasn't done, "tell me how much you hate me, sweetie, just tell me something."

physical touch (R + G)

yes, he loves touching on you. but he loves it even more when you initiate the experience. he loves knowing you want it just as much as he does. he loves knowing you're just as lovesick as he is. especially in the earlier stages of your relationship, the only times he'll initiate anything is to tease you, to rile you up. he's scared of pressuring you into doing anything he doesn't want to. he doesn't want to force anything onto you. but that means he'll always reciprocate. even when he's in a mood, when he's frustrated or tired, he's always ready to please. if you're down? he's been down since yesterday. when you accompany him to a meeting and you grab onto his arm, like an anchor, he lets you. it feeds his ego, that you feel safer with him, safer around him. like nothing could hurt you in his arms. you told him once how untouchable you felt when he cuddled you in bed. when, before you fell asleep, you mumbled into his chest how secure you felt. it made his heart swell, it made him feel like a good man. that he is able to provide you the feeling of safety and security you deserve. when he's upset with you and you slip your hand into his, he can't help but embrace it. when you squeeze his palm, he can't help but mirror the action. and on the tense nights, he knows you want him. he can easily see your desires, he just loves seeing you taking the action to back it up. and sylus is nothing if not adaptable. he'll cater to your needs he loves seeing you take whatever it is that you want, even if that happens to be him. especially if it happens to be him.

acts of service (G)

it's not an outstanding trait of his, but he'll always do the little things. he'll open doors for you, pull your chair out, walk on the outer side of the sidewalk, hold an umbrella for you when it's raining. but one thing he'll go out of his way to go, without fail, is to help you get dressed. he'll help you choose the right outfit, slipping you into your undergarments and the rest of your clothes the second you step out the shower. he'll zip up the back of your dress, tie the bow in your hair, get on his knees to fit your shoes on. you glance at yourself in the mirror, checking every angle of your makeup and hair, as he admires your reflection. holding your waist, his chest to your back, he takes the moment to pull out new presents for you. he shows you a new pair of garnet earrings, the same shade as his eye, taking it upon himself to adorn you with his gifts. you'll protest, feeling shy under his attention, but he takes his time. "you look absolutely breathtaking, kitten," he purrs in your ear. his long fingers fixing the clasp of the velvet choker at your nape, his cold palm adjusting rings glinting at your knuckles. he unboxes a new perfume, fruity but heady. a bottle in the shape of a cherry, dark crimson and evergreen. the scent is cherry wine. he plants a kiss at each pressure point of your body, spraying the fragrance all over your skin, as if gift-wrapping you.

quality time (G)

actually, it's not the biggest thing on his mind. he has other ways to better show you how much he loves you and cares for you. especially since your sleep schedules only slightly overlap. especially since you're busy at work as a hunter, and he is busy keeping the N109 Zone in check. however. he sees quality time as the segue into other love languages. he's grown to like parallel play. while you're trying to focus on your work, he's assembling a gun right beside you. he watches, amused, as you try to keep your eyes from wandering to him. he waits patiently, glancing to your bouncing leg, you chewing on your lip absentmindedly, not paying attention to the documents in front of you. he loves spending time with you to shower you with attention. he loves staring at your lips until you flush. he loves dragging his gaze down your body, watching goosebumps rise on your skin. he loves going on a walk with you, always half of a step behind you to make sure you're always in his line of sight. he loves taking you out to expensive restaurants, buying things that catch your eye at jewelry auctions. and he loves telling you how busy he is, and then immediately clearing his entire day's schedule the second you ask for a moment of his time. he wants you to know you're the center of his world. he can tell it can overwhelm you sometimes, the feel of his attention, his energy, all focused onto you sometimes too much. but he can't help crowding into your personal space anyway, fitting himself into your daily schedule until you both can't imagine life without one another. because you had somehow meddled your way into his life so easily, so effortlessly, it was only fair for him to do the same.

[bloomness]

⋆˚࿔ love languages

the main forms of love languages the mha boys show toward you and how!

— includes: kirishima, kaminari, sero, & shinsou (in that order)

contains: f!reader strongly implied, feminine compliments used, established relationship, baby, girlfriend, my girl used, fluff fluff fluff, denkis is a little suggestive

authors note: this is like my head canons but in drabble format hehe! sorry shinsou's is short i'm still trying to figure out his charater ;(

⋆˚࿔ e.kirishima - shows his love by overwhelming you with care

acts of service

eijiro's main love language is absolutely 100% doing acts of service for you all the time.

he’s holding the door open for you one second and running to pull out your seat the next, grinning like a dork.

he doesn’t want you to lift a single finger doing something that he can do for you.

it’s the small things: picking up the mail, buying your favorite snacks, giving you neck messages, taking out the trash, carrying you from one room to another when you don’t wanna get up.

he thinks you’re the best therefore you deserve the best.

he feels like SUCH a man when he can fix something for you.

words of affirmation

eiji also really loves to receive words of affirmation

even after fighting in a war, eijiro still feels himself having a low esteem.

though your encouraging words mean so much to him. you make him feel like he’s a capable hero. you spend hours in bed tangled up together. you hold him as you tell him how amazing he is. how he’s a strong hero, a great person, the perfect partner.

he’d get overwhelmed and cries as you shower him with love. just knowing that you think so highly of him makes him feel worthy. you definitely healed the little middle school kirishima in his heart.

eijiro might as well be a package deal because he is also amazing at giving words of affirmation. the most supportive boyfriend you could ever find.

goes in the mall dressing room with you to see you try on new outfits, he's paying (ofc). “i love that color on you baby.”

don’t even get me started with him dressing you.. flushing your shoulders with kissing as he fixes the strap of your top, every touch making you feel euphoric.

kneeling down to put your shoes on, kissing along your leg as he does. “so beautiful.” he praises the ground you walk on.

when eijiro notices that you’re doing good with work he makes sure to let you know! two big thumbs on the side of his face “doing amazing, beautiful!” and makes kissy faces towards you.

⋆˚࿔ d.kaminari - shows his love by never letting you go (literally)

physical touch

you and denki are constantly found with your hands, legs, (or both) tangled together.

chilling with bakusqaud? feet are kicking each other from across the couch. studying a case file? nope, denki can’t focus until his head is in your lap. completely drunk and dancing at a party? denki’s pressed up against you with his hand ghosting over your ass, letting everyone know you didn’t come here alone.

there’s not a single second of the day when his hands don’t snake their way onto your waist or lower hip, doesn’t matter if you're at home, work, or anywhere else.

because of his touchy tendencies, you two are always showing pda and he loves it.

denki SWEARS he’s trying his best to be respectful in public, but he can’t help but get addicted to the look on other guys faces when they see you leaning up to kiss him. hes so so proud that you choose to be with him.

but don’t be fooled by the lust! denki can be romantic too; though he's forever a dork.

he likes poking at ur sides when he’s teasing you. he kisses your face over and over again when you’re annoyed (until you smile a little).

gift giving

poor denki could be dirt broke, but when you come out of the dressing room wearing a top that perfectly hugs your figure his mouth drops, and his money goes poof.

“it’s so good, let’s get it yeah?” (hes gonna cry to his empty wallet when he gets home)

this prompts a lot of shopping dates which leads to a LOT of matching accessories. matching hats, hoodies, jewelry.

he has a ring with your initial on it he never takes off.

+ plus

denki has u as his lock screen and gives you (his phone) a kiss every morning he can’t sleep by your side.

would tweet: “just fell down to my knees in a walmart parking lot cus my girlfriend hasn’t texted back it been 30 mintues what do i do 💔”

has you and him as his profile picture on instagram and has a highlight of you titled: “my wife (BACK OFF)”

⋆˚࿔ h.sero - shows his love by showing you off

physical touch

he grew up with parents who never left the honeymoon phase, so he knows what it’s like to feel so much love and he knows how to show it. (he also grew up with two younger sisters and an older sister and they made sure he knew the standard!)

so hanta is a romantic confirmed!!

he’ll buy you a big bouquet of flowers. buys you gifts, even for small anniversaries/celebrations. slow dances with you in your living room. prepares a warm bath for you when you're stressed.

and although he’s more mature than denki, hanta still pretty immature. so, he’ll jump at you any opportunity to get his hands on you.

hanta loves when you two are hanging out with friends, sitting on bakugos couch, and he has the chance to wrap his arm around the top of the couch. he possessively hovers his hand over your shoulder, pulling you closer to him whenever someone looks your way.

hanta is taller than you and always uses this to his advantage. squeezing your face when you look up at him. leaning down to give you kisses. holding your side to guide you through crowds.

occasionally, you’ll let him pick you up from your armpits like a cat and dangle you. you don’t know why he likes this; he just does.

words of affirmation

now one of hanta's best qualities is definitely his confidence and the way he talks to you confirms that.

he reassures you without even meaning to. hanta can tell when your down and easily finds the perfect comment that makes your cheeks flush pink and your dopamine levels boost. “look at that,” he practically purrs when you finish an assignment “done already cariño? making me look bad.” he laughs, not caring who hears him.

(quick mention that he also loves to make you laugh; he prides himself in it actually)

showing you off, showing you off, showing you off. everyone knows who the pro-hero cellophane is dating, it's hard not to.

“yeah that’s my girl.” he says it stern, with a smirk on his face. it drives you INSANE.

⋆˚࿔ shinsou - shows his love by keeping you around

quailty time

it took a while for hitoshi to open up but when he did it was overwhelming for him. he thought wouldn’t be able to express his love for you. he soon realized just being in your presence was enough.

you love spending quality time with hitoshi. it doesn’t matter what you're doing, he wants to be there. doing chores together, planning your monthly schedules together, talking walks together.

hitoshi loves to hear you talk and learn more about you but he just loves to hear you laugh.

he likes teasing you like there’s no tomorrow with stupid jokes and stupider insults just to see you laugh over and over again.

physical touch

but once hitoshi gets comfortable, once he gets confident: he also gets cocky and handsy.

comes up to you and whispers in your ear, “come on, can you do it for me, baby?”

favorite cuddle positions is spooning and honestly doesn’t mind whose big or little spoon.

he holds you by the waist as he looks up with you with those eyes.

hitoshi is a jealous guy. he knows you’re fun to be around, he knows you have friends, and he knows it’s wrong to think this, but he hates not being with you.

but he also knows that when you get home, you’ll lay in his arms again and it’ll be alright so he’s patient until he can hold you again.

holding you from behind when you’re leaving to go out with coworkers. he’s kissing your cheek, “‘m gonna miss you. be safe,” gripping onto you like there’s no tomorrow.

once hitoshi learns to love you he never lets you go.

+ plus

he found that he likes to share his clothes with you and finds it funny that you practically drown in his hoodies.

when you give his hoodie back, he puts it on and smiles as the smell of your perfume fills merges into his skin.

[angelscometrue]

dead boy detectives big 5 and their love language:

1) Edwin is "Act of service". Charles going to hell to save him means SO MUCH he has to tell Charles he is in love with him. He tells the cat king "all you are to me is THIS" (pointing to the bracelet) and only changes his mind when the cat king gives him a flower and offers his sorrys for nikos death.

2) Charles is "words of affirmation": when he is at his lowest at the end of episode 5 what makses him feel better and gets him out of his head are Edwin words "you Charles Rowland are the best person i know".

3) Crystal is "quality time": ignored by her parents all Crystal wants is people spending time with her, talking with her making her feel part of something special. When she lost her powers she is scared Charles and Edwin wont consider her "helpful" for the agency and stop spend time with her. Chose to stay at the end of the season because spending time with the boys (helping people) makes her feel good.

4) Niko is "gift (receiving / giving)": when she gives the red rock to Edwin to "give him courage". Buys Crystal the token to try and get rid of David. Prepares a whole date for Jenny and Maxime. Niko values gifts with deep meanings... and her "life" is literally saved by the bear figurine that was gifted to her.

5) the cat king is "physical touch": he is a creature of desire, tells Edwin joking if he "Needs a hug?" . In every interaction with Edwin he touches him (fixes Edwin jacket, takes a hold of his wrist, is always in his personal space).

[angelsheartts]

𝜗𝜚 LOVE LANGUAGE ! ~

#pairing : venti, albedo, kaeya, diluc, aether, bennett, razor, mika, x gn reader.

#cw : none, it’s pure fluff.

#note: this is my first time posting on tumblr, if there are any grammatical mistakes my bad 'cause english isn’t my first language so yeah. If someone is interested my requests are open!!

࿔ ˚. VENTI .

words of affirmation are definitely his love language!! he would sing songs to you, especially if he's drunk at Angel's Share, making you leave the tavern from embarrassment and making him follow you like a puppy. he would also braid your hair by putting flowers in it while reciting the love poems he wrote about you.

࿔ ˚. ALBEDO .

giving gifts is his love language; he would probably, no, he has a sketchbook full of sketches of you, and he will definitely gift them to you, his beloved s/o! it‘s an easy way to show you his affection when his words aren’t enought to express his feelings.

࿔ ˚. KAEYA .

physical touch; he would love to show you off in a nonverbal form, such as holding your waist or teasing you with his cold hands. this guy would be extra cuddly if you started stroking his hair or if you burried your face into his chest while cuddling.

࿔ ˚. DILUC .

physical touch would be his love language. i think he’s a little shy about his feelings and he would probably get teased because of that (specially from kaeya), so he has other ways to show you his affection by being a gentleman !! he would press kisses along your knuckles; he would also surprise you with flowers and brush your hair behind your ear before he starts kissing every single part of your face.

࿔ ˚. AETHER .

words of affirmation. we all know he’s quite popular so there will be times where you are going to be jealous but i can assure you he would never do anything like that! he loves you too much and will always tell you such sweet things when you both are on an adventure or when you’re braiding his hair. he will also talk to you about how much he wants you to meet his sister. that’s literally all the evidence you need to know that he’s head over heels for you!!

࿔ ˚. BENNETT .

quality time is his love language; he appreciates that you still go with him on adventures, even though of his bad luck. adventures with him always end up 'bad' in the way that it’s not the way he planned it, but you just laugh, telling him that it was one of the best, most memorable, and amazing adventures you had!!

࿔ ˚. RAZOR .

physical touch or acts of service, i’m 100% sure about that, he literally lives with wolves, so he would nuzzle your nose, would hunt things for you just so you give him a head pat, and at first he would lick your face, making you go red like a tomato, so you started telling him to give you kisses instead of just licking your face lmao.

࿔ ˚. MIKA .

mika's love languague would be quality time; he loves spending time with you, and he loves when you both cuddle, but he’s just too shy to make the first move! he loves your presence, and by wanting to spend time with him, it makes his heart all flustered. At the end of your hangouts, though, he would be the one to give you a kiss or hold your hand.

[ohitsjae]

Skz as love languages...(Pt2)

tags: Stray Kids, Stray Kids x gn! reader, sfw

summary: Skz as what love languages they could have (Maknae line)

(Part 1 with the Hyung line can be found Here)

Hanji

His main love language is a Physical Touch. We've all seen what a cuddle bug he can be so I definitely think he's always in contact with you - he wants to hold your hand whenever you guys are walking or driving anywhere, cuddles up to you on the sofa when it's movie night and if you're cooking or washing up or even just stood in place somewhere he'll come up and give you a back hug. Also sometimes if your stood talking to a friend/family/one of the members he'll come up and wiggle his way into your arms to get a hug whilst you talk. The other members just smile and laugh now because they're so used to this, watching Sung get his 'daily dose of cuddles' whilst you sway softly with him. He always offers you a hug or a shoulder to lean on (literally and metaphorically) when you've had a bad day and when he stays round yours he won't go to sleep until your in bed because he needs to wrap around you like a koala on order to sleep.

In turn, you always offer him your hand if you notice him feeling anxious/sad/just a bit down, giving each other piggybacks when you get tired on dates and having tickle wars/play fights all the time. Putting your feet on his lap when you guys are sat down, playing with his hair if he sits down on the floor in front of you and kissing his forehead or giving him a little head scritch when you walk past him when he's sat at his desk/in the studio. When he goes on tour, you two swap hoodies so that you can still get a 'hug' from each other even though you're miles apart, having him leave some of his cologne/perfume behind, and giving him some of yours, so you can spray it on the hoodie or a blanket and feel closer to each other. (When he gets off tour the first thing he does is turn up at your apartment and just hugs you for a solid 5 minutes)

His second love language is Quality Time. He just wants to be with you! Whether watching a film or going on a date he wants to spend time with you - as far as he's concerned there's always something new to learn about you and he wants to know Everything that makes you You. Video calls where he's in the studio and you're at home, knowing each other's schedules off by heart because you're both memorised when you can meet up again and just loving each other and wanting to keep each other company regardless of whether it's for a date or running errands.

Lixie

Giving/Receiving Gifts! He loves seeing you smile, and whenever he sees something that reminds him of you, he buys it! Whether it's your favourite chocolate or a designer necklace, he'll get it for you. When he's on tour he'll get you a little souvenir from each stop and each one has to be different from the last, he also tries to get sweets/chocolate native to each country at every stop and buys things off of your wishlist after each concert just because he can. Turning up at your apartment smiling because he found something and 'you just need to have it right now!' he's almost shaking with the excitement he gets from seeing you open the presents he gets you. Getting all flustered and blushy when you love it even though you always tell him that and give him a hug and kiss in thanks, but each time he gets you something feels like the first time he presented you with a present.

You're always looking out for merch from his favourite groups/games/films and trying to find jewellery that you'll think he'll like. You get shy giving him presents so you always make it a little scavenger hunt! Going to his dorm when you know he's out on schedule and leaving post-it notes with clues and hiding the gifts across his dorm and your apartment. Conspiring with the other members to find out things that he wants but won't buy for himself to surprise him with, having his sisters send over sweets/chocolate/food from Australia when you know he's feeling homesick and buying him oversized hoodies (only because you plan to steal them when he goes on tour!)

The second one I think is Words of Affirmation. Always calling each other pet names - sometimes sweet pet names other times it's just really silly, like you can't just say 'light of my life' it has to be more like 'light of my life, apple of my eye, my heart's desire, my one and only' etc and you'll keep going until you make the other laugh. Telling each other that you love them all the time, he always compliments your skills/knowledge of your favourite hobby and you always cheer when he's dancing. Texting each other reminders that you think they're amazing, that they're loved and sending each other cute memes.

Minnie

For Seungmin, I think the first one is Acts of Service. Making you a drink in the mornings/evenings, ordering takeout for when you guys are staying in, paying for the meal when you guys go out and replenishing your stock of your favourite food so you don't run out without saying anything. Your favourite hoodie of his always seems to be 'accidentally' left at your place whenever he's on tour or has a long schedule that means he can't visit as often, when he stays round your apartment your phone is always charged even if you know you fell asleep before plugging it in and your plants and/or pets always get a bit of extra food/water (you catch him watering the plants exactly one (1) time and it's adorable, he's crouched down with a little jug and talking to them - you catch him feeding your pet/s once as well and he's again all sweeting petting them as he puts the food down murmuring to them about how they need to let you rest as he makes sure they're all eating well - you have many photos ....and at least one video of it and you rewatch them whenever hes away/you're feeling down)

In return, you try and always turn up at the company in his free spots with a coffee and snack so that he's got something to eat before practice, battle the ticketing sites to get both of you seats to the next baseball game when you're both free because you know he won't get them himself because he's busy/forgets due to schedules and you often go round to his dorm to quickly restock his favourite coffee (neither of you realise that the other is replenishing their favourite things and the other members are both in awe and completely over how oblivious you both are considering that you're both meant to be intelligent individuals lolol).

The second one is Quality Time. Planning around your schedules to meet up or video call even if it's only for 10 minutes, sitting next to each other whilst you both get work done and trying to make time to play games together whether that's board games, card games or computer games just doing something fun together to unwind from busy days. Coming home and just finding him watching TV in your apartment 'because it's closer to the company' (it is Not it is in fact 20 minutes in the wrong direction but let him have the excuse and cuddle him whilst watching crap TV shows lolol).

Innie

I think this might surprise people but I think Words of Affirmation. He's might get shy and blushy and flustered but despite all that, he's always complimenting you and praising your skills and knowledge. Sending texts telling you he absolutely adores you, calling you pet names and basically just everything he feels to awkward to say to your face, sometimes it's even little clips from skz's romance songs that remind him of you.

In turn, you (after a long conversation about what you're both comfy with) are always telling him you love him, sending him loads of praise and 'i love you memes' whenever he posts a new song and just generally calling him cute nicknames and telling him that he's amazing at what he does and that he makes you feel so loved and cared for (and also teasing him because whenever you say anything like this to him his ears go bright red and he gets all flustered with that shy smile he always does) because you know no matter how much he blushes or complains he does actually like hearing all of these things.

I think the other one is Gifts. Especially when he's really busy or on tour, the two of you make sure that if the other has talked about having a long day or are feeling stressed you get them a little gift. For him, you like sending takeout to his hotel for him or sending something he mentioned wanting to the venue (because those are the only set addresses you have for him when he's on tour) and for you, he sends flowers and orders your favourite dessert for you. He sends you little postcards and keyrings from each stop on the tour. When he's not on tour, it's not unusual for you two to meet up and both of you have a present for the other! He loves buying you jewellery and decorations for your apartment and you love getting him clothes and new skincare things to try.

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[harpershigh]

Acts of service? Words of affirmation? No, Jaheira's love language is a secret, third thing: death threats to anyone who wrongs you while simultaneously yelling at you for 45 minutes straight because she's worried about your wellbeing.

[whereshallweend]

acts of service is the softest and most tender of love languages

[sincerely-astra]

☁️Ride The Cyclone: Love Languages and general x reader headcanons☁️

Ocean O’Connell Rosenberg

Giving: Acts of service

Receiving: Physical touch

Okay, so she does get onto you if you don’t have your assignments in on time, but she will help you with any homework you may have.

Her hand literally has to be on you at all times, either holding yours, playing with your hair, or having your face in her palms, she just loves being able to hold you.

She will never stop begging suggesting you to join the chamber choir. At first she wanted you to be in it to add more skills to your college resume, but eventually figured out that she really wanted you there because she just always wants to be near you…

Noel Gruber

Giving: Words of affirmations

Receiving: Words of affirmations

Poems? Poems. You have at least two boxes filled to the brim with poems and songs this boy has wrote about you.

Your date nights are actually top tier, he isn’t the most romantic boy in town for no reason. Home cooked meals, jazz in the background, candles on every surface, he goes all out on every date for you.

Every time you guys have movie night, trust that he will be bringing the most obscure foreign films for you both to watch.

Mischa Bachinski

Giving: Quality time

Receiving: Words of affirmations

He definitely has your name in his contacts saved as like, “Darling”,”Baby”, and any other Ukrainian nickname he can think of.

He actually gets surprisingly shy when asking you to do stuff with him, like holding hands, so you have to initiate most contact.

If you don’t speak Ukrainian, he finds it kind of funny to just start randomly speaking in Ukrainian mid-sentence to see your confusion.

Ricky Potts

Giving: Quality time

Receiving: Quality time

You will have a Zolarian OC, no ifs or buts about it.

If you let him, he will be more than happy to just ramble in ASL for as long as he can and he loves to listen to your ramblings as well. He loves to learn and listen to your passions!

His cats absolutely adore you, even ones that are a bit more wary of people other than the Potts seem to warm up to you quickly. This does mean that you will have cat hair all over you when you leave their house though- (Hopefully, you aren’t also allergic…)

Jane Doe

Giving: Quality time

Receiving: Physical Touch

Hand holding. (That’s it, that’s the headcanon)

Do you like trinkets? Cause girl will give you trinkets, you will have so many pretty rocks that she’s found on the side of the road and bird feathers that she’s found in the yard. Anything that reminds her of you (so basically everything-) will be in your hands at the end of the day.

Her favorite dates are the ones where you just sit around, no talking or doing anything in particular, just chilling and enjoying each other’s company.

Constance Blackwood

Giving: Gift giving

Receiving: Quality time

She kind of stalls when letting you meet her parents…, but after realizing how well you got along with them, she regrets waiting for so long.

Constance is the best cuddler in the world, she’s so soft and will always ask before touching you. Also she brings snacks, so you guys won’t have to get up later.

Please, reassure her that whatever she decides to do with her life is fine!! :( She gets so stressed out about it.

A/N - I have been trying to repress my love for Ride The Cyclone for far too long and the demons finally got me… 🥲

[zolaliz]

Natsu uprooting the Sakura tree for Lucy while she was sick was textually romantic and I don’t take second opinions

[nianeyemystic]

💕 LOVE ASTROLOGY GAME 💕

Tell me your Venus and Moon sign & I'll tell you your love languages , based on my observations.

The five love languages are

• Acts of Service ❥

• Physical Touch❥

• Words of Affirmation ❥

• Quality Time ❥

• Receiving Gifts ❥

[numinously-yours]

Free Tarot Reading; Pick a Card/Goddess: Your person's love language

For our second May reading, we are looking at your person's love language. It is up to you if you use a person you know or if you want to channel your future partner. The reading includes:

Your person's love language (Acts of Service, Physical Touch, Quality Time, Receiving/Giving Gifts, and Words of Affirmation)

How they show their love to others

How they best receive love from others

Two key words/themes of their love language

There are four groups to choose from, each associated with a different Roman or Greek Goddess.

Group 1: Minerva

Group 2: Vesta

Group 3: Philotes

Group 4: Pasithea

Choose your group and see your reading below. Feel free to reblog or reply with your group choice and your own love language! My love language is words of affirmations <3

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Group 1: Minerva

Love Language – Six of Pentacles rev.

Giving & Receiving Gifts

Ways they show love – Ace of Cups

As we connect the Ace of Cups with the love language receiving gifts, I can tell your person really loves giving. This might be obvious because of the name of the love language, but it’s like they can’t relax until they give the people they love something. There is definite creative energy so a lot of the gifts they enjoy giving others are self-created. They might paint, write poetry, crochet, etc. They often come up with an idea and think “This person would LOVE something like this” and they go for it.  This person could see something at the store, too, and have an intense need to buy it because they thought of someone when they saw it. For this person, the love is really coming from thinking of others’ joy rather than the physical gift.

Ways they receive love –The Hermit

Just as their gifts come from a place of understanding their loved ones, your person feels most loved when they can tell someone put thought into the gifts they give to them. Your person cares less about the monetary value of gifts and more about the sentiment. Maybe you know their favorite color so you wrote them a note with a pen that has that color ink. Maybe you bought them a book about Italy because they mentioned in passing that they always wanted to learn more or visit. The idea that someone is truly listening to them makes them feel more special than anything.

Group 2: Vesta

Love Language – Seven of Pentacles & The Star

Acts of Service

Ways they show love – Two of Pentacles rev.

If your person sees an opportunity to help, they do it. It never crosses their mind if they’re busy, supposed to be working on something for themselves, or if they don’t have the energy. When they see someone they love in need, they feel a sense of responsibility. They don’t want their loved ones to feel overwhelmed so they take the burden off their shoulders for them. I will say, they get a little over invested sometimes and other aspects of their life can be put on the backburner. They are never expectant of anything in return. They do it because it feels right.

Ways they receive love – Four of Wands rev. & The Hanged Man rev.

This part is interesting because they don’t necessarily need others to do things for them to feel appreciated. However, when someone does something without asking, knowing that it will make the day a little easier, it fills their heart with love. Because they overexert themselves for others, the idea that someone simply sees their stress without it being directly communicated takes a huge weight off their shoulders (that, sometimes, they don’t even realize they have).  Additionally, when someone straight up tells them to slow down and take time for themselves, they feel a sense of ease run through them. Again, it’s the idea of being seen and someone taking care of them. It is an act of service in and of itself to tell this person to take a breath.

Group 3: Philotes

Love Language – Two & Three of Wands

Quality Time

Ways they show love – Judgement & The World (20 & 21)

The word “quality” is the part of this love language that is really standing out. Both in these two cards and with the two & three of wands. The idea of investing in something, someone, or someplace is what radiates love through your person. Listening is a huge aspect of how your person shows their love to others. When they get with those they love, they make it a point to put down distractions and get into the heart of the conversation. They are happy to strategize with anyone who needs it. They are there to affirm when needed. Or they are there simply as a sounding board. This person wants to make the best of every interaction. They’re frequently thinking of how an experience will elevate their life and the life of who they’re with.  

Ways they receive love – The Emperor

This person feels most loved when someone makes a pointed effort to be present in their time together. Someone who is a reciprocal participant in the conversation or activity. They love someone who makes them think outside the box. It shows them in its own way that the person they’re talking to has taken information to heart. They also love someone who will create plans of actions with them. Not only is the planning session quality time, but you’re sketching out a specific time TO have quality interactions with them.  

Group 4: Pasithea

Love Language – Three of Swords

Words of Affirmation

Ways they show love – The World rev.

Your person shows their love by reminding others’ of the bright side of every situation. They have a way of bringing closure to negative thoughts. The feelings may not go away completely, but your person can always be relied on to be a reminder that life is wonderful, even when it feels most awful. Your person is a great cheerleader, too. If their loved ones have an idea, are starting a project, or have completed a goal they are there the whole way to encourage and then congratulate. They never let their loved ones go a day without knowing they’re loved and appreciated.

Ways they receive love – Two of Pentacles rev.

Your person is likely an overthinker and the way that they feel loved is when someone reminds them that everything is going to be okay. Simply hearing those words can slow down soo many of their racing thoughts. The song “Intrusive Thoughts” by Lola Young just came on my spotify at this portion and it feels like perfect timing. Even though this person is great at helping others see the bright side, sometimes they can’t do it for themselves. When someone else does this for them, they feel more at peace. If there is a cheerleader for them when they start a new project, that also helps them feel loved. Just knowing there is someone there to say “Hey, you’re doing great!” makes their days a bit brighter.