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if you've came to this blog from a mispost on my rp blog tonganpriiide i do apologise. this blog is incredibly close to my heart at the moment due to people coming to me about things that have happened with k*cy and kelsey has warmed my heart and to know i'm not the only one who has dealt with both of their shit.

do not think any different of me for helping out cait with something like this and i really hope you understand

-- kay <3

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what if we also compiled a list of fcs that should be banned?

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this is the finn balor that most people are getting pestered by. basically saying "don't bring up that this person has manipulated and emotionally abused you. she's just having fun."

I’m just gonna make a big ass post about the roleplay community. Wrestling roleplay community to be exact. Listen. If someone was toxic to you, don’t fucking go and ruin their fun. I had a toxic roleplayer before, who controlled me, told me not to roleplay with people because she didn’t like them because she felt like they were gonna take me from her. But you don’t see me going around saying to watch out for her because she’s toxic and controlling don’t roleplay with her, no, that’s ruining her fun, and that’s not what the roleplay is about ruining someone’s fun all because of an experience I had with her. So literally we all need to cut this whole kiddie drama all because everyone has a bad experience with a roleplayer. You shouldn’t be bringing them up, leave them in the past and alone. Also, don’t be picking on people you never even roleplayed with and you’ve never even ploted with, don’t accuse them that just because they write smut they right smut 24/7, I’m sorry to be writing this long ass thing, but it needs to be said. I’m tired of losing roleplay partners because of people who don’t know how to be an adult and just leave a person alone just because they had a bad experience with that person. So this is just a post basically saying stop the drama, leave them be, and get on with your life. Also don’t be stalking that roleplayer you’ve had problems with just to pick on them and running to a gossip blog and hidding behind anon, because that just shows what kind of person you actual are. That is it of my rant. I don’t care if you guys reblog and like this. Just thought I get it off of my chest.

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considering everyone else is talking about she who must not be named. i guessed it was time to share mine and a friends story with kacy. my story is not as serious as others, but i feel like i want to share it anyway

there’s transphobia mentions

also, thank you to cait and the others coming forward. if it wan’t for you, i wouldn’t have done this.

<3 kay

i was in bandom with a friend who will be known in this as s. it’s where we first met as roleplayers and really where our friendship flourished. our rpg was a great place, until i made the mistake of plotting with kacy. our characters were going to be relationship based, and i wasn’t exactly sold on the plot that she was giving me. i never said that i would do it straight away, i wanted to work into it, and began to plot with s . our plot from that roleplay is still going on to this day, but when kacy found out. i began to get questioned by so many people. certain people using transphobic insults to get me to communicate with her characters. i didn’t do my character chat on my blogs. still don’t to this day in bandom, so rph and aol was where i could normally be found. i started talking to kacy on my own blog, and that’s when a lot of stuff began kicking off

kacy began to talk about how s had been talking shit about me. this was an immediate red flag for me as i knew s didn’t talk to her. she has her reasons for not communicating with kacy and it’s not my place to talk about it. myself and s always talked. our friendship had bloomed to where it was 24/7 talking to each other, and as i was transitioning, she was the nicest person to talk to about all of it. i didn’t question it, because i wanted to see where it went, and that was probably the dumbest idea i could’ve done. she became way more posessive when s had to take a hiatus. i was made to feel uncomfortable for even wondering how my friend was doing. s came back and gave me screencaps of a group of messages where kacy's tone seemed sharp

i confronted kacy almost immediately. it wasn’t cool, and i wasn’t accepting someone going out of their way to make my friend feel like shit. i was blocked, as was s. i'm very happy in the rpg i'm in at the moment and have made wonderful friends who deserve the world

myself and s are still friends too! which is great. i'm done hiding, and even though this was a while ago, the whole rpc needs to know just how toxic she is.

if you want to talk to me personally, my rp blog is tonganpriiide and youre welcome to im me.

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reuploaded as a detail was in there that shouldn’t have been. please dont trust kacy

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I've been thinking about writing this for a while, but after getting back from a break from the fandom, I feel like I need to to warn people, because I know this person is still around.

Please be careful of a writer by the name is Kayla, Kacy, Kay. She goes by so many names I've lost count. (There's another Kay in the community who is over at no mercy who is absolutely lovely and isn't this person I can assure you) This person usually plays Bayley or Cathy Kelley

So we're gonna start where It all began with me and her I guess. I was in SuperkickHQ. I think that's what it's called at least where I originally played Matt Jackson. He hit it off with her Bayley and then unfortunately, I had to take a break for mental health reasons and we lost contact. Flash forward a month or so in bandom, and she showed up there with Bayley and a group of other wrestlers. We found out that we know each other and started talking again, eventually jumping back into WWE rp.

I moved Matt into what was TakeoverHQ and that's where it got a whole lot worse.

People had warned me that she was very controlling when it came to shipping, but i thought I'd give her the benefit of the doubt and explain to her that i played Matt as a flirt. That was a part of his secret and she seemed to understand.

Then when he started flirting with someone else, I began receiving a lot of messages about how she didn't have friends and how she's glad she had me --- which made me feel incredibly guilty about shipping with someone else. I'm that kind of person. My partners always go before me. But I continued on anyway and logged on one day with a spam of messages from her that all included stuff like "lol so have you just forgotten about me" and things like that and a message from my new friend asking if I knew who could've been sending her shit.

We all knew instantly who it was, but decided to tell the mods and just move on with things. It felt right and i never heard from her again. Maimly because she latched onto a lot of different roleplayers who all feel the same about her now.

That she manipulated and controlled them.

I'm not the only person that this kind of thing has happened to either. She's known to send anons to people she doesn't like, stalk other RP partners and even bully people out of groups.

It's not fair and i'm tired of seeing people defend her or excuse what she's done because they can.

If I can get into my Matt blog, I'll be happy to printscreem things if needed.

And if you have any proof, feel free to reblog and add onto this.