3bookworm

[3bookworm]

i don’t know how to explain to you people that no matter what a country’s government is like i do not and will not support the US indiscriminately bombing that country’s civilians and i don’t know why that’s a controversial take tbh

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Speaking as a survivor of child sex abuse: the world would be a lot better if yall spent less time talking about the ways in which pedophiles should be punished and more time supporting survivors and preventing abuse

I get it, punishment can feel cathartic. I’ve certainly spent time imagining all the ways in which my own abuser might be punished. But ultimately, him dying, or being jailed, or publicly shamed, isn’t actually going to help me nor will it stop more kids from getting hurt in the future.

I don’t want more prisoners. I want free therapy with trauma informed counselors. I want better sex education for young children that teaches them about consent and body autonomy. And I want a society in which I can openly discuss my trauma, or at least as openly as yall discuss the evils of pedophiles

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i saw a girl on tiktok who put her salt lamp in the dishwasher and didn’t realize it would dissolve, and it’s been on my mind for like 3 days

[3bookworm]

Thank you for openly supporting detransitioners we get a whole bunch of unwarranted shit from the community even though most of us are not bigots. The way that my irl community cut me off, proceeded to share my story on 4tran4 and gendercynical (for some reason?? Even though I openly stated I’m still queer and not binary??) and call me a ‘trender’… yeah. The isolation gets to me sometimes and I hate the shame and stigma and disdain some lgbt people have for us so it makes me very happy to see solidarity 💟

I'll always support people's ability to do what they want with their body, whether to transition or detransition. So long as they're showing me and others I love the same respect.

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This is one of those true, declassified government things that always sounds made up but one of the things Henry Kissinger did with his career was use the CIA to help turn small, prosperous socialist nations into fascist dictatorships just to keep those nations powerless and possibly to keep socialist systems *looking* doomed and futile to the American public, like maybe just to scare Americans out of demanding better infrastructure or universal income. Yes it sounds like an insane conspiracy theory a maniac would invent. It also happened multiple times and several generations of people around the world are still living in misery because of it.

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My very first isat fanart redraw! (original)

[3bookworm]

Ok, loves, so we've all got the message that joking about suicide is bad for your mental health. Now we need to get on "joking that the planet/all of humanity has no future is bad for societal health/encouraging resistance to bad shit."

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if you're hosting a pride event where you're hanging a ton of queer pride flags consider hanging an intersex flag 🙏

my city has an event called family pride and it has a fence lined with at least 20 flags. the intersex flag is never one of them. it makes me so sad. they have every letter in the acronym besides intersex and two spirit

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like at this point if I see you hating on men whether cis trans or otherwise I'm just gonna block you cuz why the fuck do you think hating on someone on the basis of their gender identity is progressive.

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waffle puppy loves you back! 🧇🧡

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The next person to quote a trans man specific post and drop the 'trans' is getting murdered.

'trans men can be victims of horrific levels of misogynistic violence in the trans community. In fact there are entire trafficking rings and systems dedicated to this exploitation of ftm bodies and labour'

'haha right men are the victims of misogyny in the queer community'

I will fucking kill you.

[3bookworm]

Landlord wants the grass cut in the middle of a heat wave ohh my god THE GRASS KEEPS THINGS COOL

our yard has more fireflies out of the entire neighborhood, it attracts flycatchers and several insectivorous species I fucking hate lawn culture so much

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Non passing trans men don't benefit from misogyny whatsoever, besides possibly on the internet. If they are seen as a woman in someone's eyes, especially legally, they do not benefit from it. If you are not seen as a man by society, regardless of if you are or not, you do not benefit from misogyny.

It's that fuckin simple.

[3bookworm]

if you unironically use TMA/TME labels: blocked

if you refer to trans men as "birthday boys": blocked

if you say men and masculinity are inherently violent: mega blocked!!!

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Let’s all light a candle and pour one out for all the trans men who never got to figure out they’re men because they were raised to believe they couldn’t ever be anything other than a wife and a mother and if they ever left the church that all their friends and family go to then they’ll burn in hell for all of eternity. May the names engraved on their tombstones fade to nothing and the dresses they were buried in disintegrate.

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Hello gay people in my phone