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Avoid Emotional Attachment With Manipulators

Anything you do is wrong with the manipulator. Any battle you had is your fault. Being tampered with will wreck havoc on your feelings. You go from crying to being furious and feeling bad and worthless. You are sorry because you did not stand up for yourself. You are ashamed of letting them get over you again. Your feelings are most stable when you leave a manipulator.

Life is a journey that is adventurous. Along the way, at various times, many people come to give us company for a certain period of time and go after playing their roles in our lives. The coming and going of the people in themselves is no problem, but the problems occur when you become emotionally attached to the people and feel powerless, tense and worried when the relationship ends with an emotional manipulator in particular. Therefore, if you want to stay satisfied and make strides in life, then as early as possible, you need to resolve emotional attachment.

There is no question that the driving force for you to step down in the chosen direction is certain individuals. But when you are away from them, you should be careful not to get distracted. You need to make judicious use of relationships. Be linked and take care of individuals with the disconnected approach to build a trust worthy environment. You should not be dependent on those people for your growth. Leaving behind the memories of the past, you need to refocus on your path.

Emotional attachment handling measures the level of maturity and seriousness of your journey to the chosen route. The time that you spend with the people enjoy with them. Learn from them, love them and take care of them. But do not make sticks for them to walk. Most of the time, people normally fear losing someone because of their inability to step on in life alone. So you don't need to resolve emotional attachment anymore if you dare to walk alone on the chosen path.

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Betting on yourself

Take a gamble on the one thing in life that you can control-YOURSELF. Too many individuals limit themselves to consider only external factors when it comes to making difficult decisions. The financial and relationship implications of a situation are considered by them. Yet they fail to acknowledge the impact on their personal satisfaction and sense of self worth that their choice would have. As a consequence while they should be taking risks on themselves, they take chances on other individuals. So they wonder why they are wretched.

You put yourself at the hands of the people, when you take chances on external individuals and things. This makes you vulnerable to coercion and juicy. You should take your own chances. Don't ask questions like, "Who is the better person to side with in any difficult situations you are facing?" Or "Which is more likely to be a successful option?"

Ask instead, what do I want the most to do? and then go and do it.

For eg., if you are faced with the chance to start your own company or stay at the same dead end job, don't stay at the job.

Don't stay when there are just marginally unhappy relationships. You are betting on external factors when you do this. THIS IS ALWAYS AN ERROR.

BETTING ON YOURSELF IS SAFER APPROACH.

You will never regret making bets on yourself. Of course you will have to take full responsibility for any errors you make. You will have to keep yourself at a higher level. You will be entirely accountable for your own victories. You will keep rising and reaching higher and higher levels of performance.

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Stop Being A Child

Suppose you are fooled once by another person; shame on that person. If you get fooled ten times by others you are an idiot. Avoid having manipulators to walk all over you. Avoid being a punching bag. Nobody feels bad for you, and you just embarrass yourself. Have enough self consciousness and self respect to say no to people who are dishonest.

You can't walk around life blaming the concerns on other people. You can't just stroll through life unaware of individuals trying to deceive you.

Yes they are negative and deceptive individuals. These people will try to use. That doesn't mean to say, that you get a free pass to make errors and be used.

Without your consent, no one can control you. You are accountable for your own wins and shortcomings. If you are out-strategized by others----------------------- It is your responsibility, not theirs.

BE RESPONSIBLE.

Learn from your mistakes. Don't continue to trust the same slippery person over and over again. Slice them loose. Remove your life from them. Limit yourself to being surrounded by like-minded people who are not going to use you.

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Keep Taking New Opportunities

The universe wants you to put all your eggs in one basket. You are advised to lock yourself into a lease, a car payment, a single office work, on and on, by everyone and all around you. They want you to stay for the rest of your life, stag down to a single chance.

Being optimistic is also looked down on nowadays. It is also seen that hunger is a sign of weakness. Why can't you satisfy yourself with you've got? Why would you be so greedy? When you show a desire for more, this is what manipulative individuals would ask you.

They are going to call you greedy, arrogant, prideful. They are going to make you feel cold and uncomfortable like your heartless and inhumane. The truth of the matter is that they want you to remain in the same job and live for the rest of your life in the same place. They want you to remain dependent on them and the processes they govern. The only way to remain independent is to actively search out new opportunities and build them.

Continue to apply for new jobs, start new companies, continue to develop new relationships and keep seeking new experiences.

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Stop compromising

Guilt is an emotion that is pointless. But it's a good weapon. Guilt is one of the weapons that can be used against you by manipulative individuals. They are going to make you feel bad for past defeats and minor mistakes, or they going to make you feel guilty for being over confident and prideful. They will use it against you every time you are feeling satisfied or sure about yourself.

No one should ever feel too good; they will say about themselves.

Another tool that is used by manipulators against you is doubt. They will work to instill within you a sense of self doubt - doubt about your skills and your worth.

The general aim is to throw you off balance and make you guess yourself second. This way manipulators gain control. They persuade you to compromise on your beliefs, your goals and yourself, and their impact becomes greater.

Avoid feeling guilty and avoid self - doubting.

You do not owe anyone anything when it comes to your own life. You deserve to make yourself feel comfortable and to be proud of your achievements. You deserve to have good sense of trust and self confidence in what you do.

If you compromise it is road to self destruction.

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Don't pretend to blend in

Try to reinvent yourself. A misconception is a notion, that continuity is somehow virtuous or tied to achievement.

Manipulative people want you to be consistent in order to drive their agendas forward, so they can count on you.

For eg., everyday at 9 am, they want you to wake up and work for them for the minimum wage. They want you to come home and clean the house on time to make them feel good about themselves.

Lines of assembly are consistent. The prison will be constant. Consistency is how you are maintained in a box by manipulators. It's how you are dominated by them. The only way to stop being exploited is by constantly going against all the constraints that others are trying to set for you.

Avoid trying to fit yourself in. Work to stand out instead. Act in every possible way to be different and never remain the same for too long.

Personal growth requires a lack of continuity, by definition.

What is necessary is:-

Constant Change

Constant reinvention

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Trust your Judgement

You know better than anyone else what's best for your life. So many individuals go around asking for the advice of other people on everything.

Q.1 What am I supposed to make of my life?

Q.2 What good am I at?

Q.3 Who am I?

=> To describe yourself, stop searching for other individuals!

=> Define yourself and trust yourself!

What distinguishes winners from losers? Is not the ability to listen to other people's belief; it is the ability to listen to the beliefs of one's own. You prevent deceptive people from influencing your life. By forming your own values and holding on to them firmly.

Your conviction will serve as a blockade in this manner, keeping manipulators of stress eyes out of your way.

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Call them out on their behavior

Manipulators are always hard to confront but covert manipulators are the worst. When confronted, they will remain cool as a cucumber and yet rigid and unbending. When you begin to spot their flawed logic, you might start to get frustrated.

If you continue to argue with them, it will be hard for you not to raise your voice a bit. You will start to look like the irrational one, and they will try to take back control based on their "Maturity" in remaining calm.

Its tempting to defend yourself and try to get the other person to see what's really going on. But a true manipulator is not going to change their tune, and the more you give in to that temptation to defend yourself, the more they will continue twisting your words.

It won't be long before you find yourself trapped in that distorted web of lies and false perceptions. If you are in a situation with a true manipulator, your two goals for any confrontation that occurs should be to diffuse and exit, whether that means exiting the current conversation or existing the friendship.

Avoid insults, arguments, losing your temper, accusing the other person of manipulation, or getting overly emotional. When you speak stick to statements that are truthful, objective and peaceful.

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Steer clear whenever possible

The behavior of a manipulator usually varies depending on the situation they are in. For instance, a manipulator could speak rudely to one person and act politely towards another the next moment.

When you notice such extremes frequently in an individual, it would be advisable to stay away from them. Don't interact with this individual unless you really have to. This will protect you from being a victim of manipulation.

One way to detect a manipulator is to see if a person acts with different faces in front of other people and in different situations while all of us have a degree of this type of social differentiation, some psychological manipulators tend to habitually dwell in extremes, being highly polite to one individual and completely rude to another or totally helpless one moment and fiercely aggressive the next.

When you observe this type of behavior from an individual on a regular basis, keep a healthy distance, and avoid engaging with the person unless you absolutely have to.

The reasons for chronic psychological manipulation are complex and deep seated. It is not your job to change or save them.

If they were someone you got advice from, recognize that their advice isn't something you need in your life. If they continue to offer it, you can thank them for it and then silently discard it.

Be as subtle as you can when setting these boundaries, and don't tell the other person that you are setting them. Creating this change on your end is going to require some energy, and when you anger other person in the process, you will have to handle their reaction on top of that.

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Strategies to eliminate manipulative people from your life

(1) Don't fall into their trap

Most of us come across situations when others try to control our emotions, perceptions or behavior and take advantage for their own benefit. If we fail to realize the real motive, the person controls you psychologically and you get into the trap. This emotional manipulation sometimes costs you a lot when you make some important decisions under the influence of another person and realize it later when it is too late.

When a relationship sounds too good to be true, you must be aware. They shower love, praise, appreciation, compliments, and affection on you. You feel as if you are living your dream where everything seems perfect. They give you no reasons to complain. You simply find no faults in them.

Even if something goes wrong, they may start crying or feeling sorry. You may even become the victim of intense sex and get the feeling of a fairy tale love.

It is the result when the relationship actually started off with love bombing, and all of a sudden, you start feeling neglected. You get appreciation, gifts and praise but only rarely. You feel as if you are losing your grip, or they have someone else in their life. The moment you make up your mind to move on, you get another gift from them. You find it difficult to make up your mind.

In one such situation, they try to get control over you. To your amazement, in most cases, it works. You even get closer to them.

After sporadic reinforcement, people mostly succeed in controlling their victim. When you fight back or demand an explanation, they may stop behaving in the same manner. The reason is that they actually get complete control over you now, so they say goodbye to the sporadic reinforcement. They may use superficial sympathy and burst into crocodile tears.

You end up trusting them eventually and even doubt whether you heard right.

Manipulative people always have a self - serving bias, and they hardly care for the other person's feelings. They have a motive to seek out people who validate them and make them feel even superior

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Unleash the power within

Protecting yourself from emotional manipulation. If you align yourself with the cosmos success comes easy. Tampering is futile at the end of the day.

Manipulations may help bring about a short - term benefit but will inevitably lead to repercussions in the long run because the cosmos appose manipulation.

But if we go with the cosmic flow instead, we will gravitate more or less effortlessly toward our goal.

In the scheme of things, we just have to know our role and let it play out.

That is why Jesus said, that as the light as feather in his cross.

This means, of course, surrendering a lot of wishes and aspirations that are not part of our cameo, but our celestial intent typically turns out to be much more grandiose than our little selfish ambitions.

Once you let manipulative people in your life, they can be extremely hard to get rid of.

The key is having enough confidence in yourself to give manipulative people the boot as you spot them.

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Designated for different roles

We are all God's workmanship, created for good works. But not all are called to the same assignment. Some teach, others organize, write, mentor, provide or counsel.

Some are visible on platforms, while others serve quietly in homes. Yet each role is sacred. There is no task too small or too grand when it is done for God's glory.

He has designed you according to His divine plan. Don't compare or despair. Simply be faithful, trusting that your part in his plan matters deeply.

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Date:- 26/05/2025

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A Mustard Seed

A mustard seed - tiny, easily overlooked, yet destined for remarkable growth. God delights in using what the world sees as weak to display His glory.

You may feel small or insignificant - like a mustard seed. But the almighty empowers you. He makes you grow great. In His hands even the smallest seed becomes a sheltering tree that brings hope and healing to others.

Aashish Manohar

Date:- 26/05/2025

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DNA Test PROVES Man Isn't The Father But He Still Has To Pay Child Support

The woman (Maria) in question who got in contact with the victim (Brett) is outrageously low as in character wise! I have to admit it even though I myself want to experience true love someday which of course I want to safeguard it with my utmost genuine contribution as in Emotionally, Physically, Financially and most importantly Spiritually but for the only one who deserves it and not some highly calculative and manipulative and someone who perfectly portrays the character in the Bible "Delilah". Both the woman in the Bible and the woman in the video are nowhere different! Delilah basically sold her partner "Samson" for a bag of coins and the woman named "Maria" did the same but in different manner! She used someone else's baby/child to bag in easy money and freely humiliate an innocent man and his family and friends! But as one knows that God's justice may at times comes late but it still does and when it does the wicked and evil repulsive people like Maria who shamelessly used her own child as a tool to get easy money but that very baby became her downfall! She must be out of her mind but if I have to take a guess I think she doesn't have one, she is one of the most foolish people on the planet earth! Who thought that for life she and her true biological father of her child would get away so easily! Sooner or later the truth of the matter does eventually comes out and I am genuinely happy that the man named "Brett" can now be tension free and most importantly be freed from the clutches of the Evil Woman! Praise be to Lord the Father in Heaven who looks over his creation!

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Expressing Gratitude

Dear Madam/Sir,

It has indeed been an honor being a student being a student in DJMC (Diploma in Journalism and Mass Communication) , BAOU (Babasaheb Ambedkar Open University) Rajkot for the year 2024-2025.

I am thankful for your invaluable support and the learning experiences. I have gained at every step of my course.

The study material provided was excellent and easy to understand.

Each one of your staff members teaching and non teaching are supportive.

I am now better equipped to pursue my career goals and contribute to society.

Yours Faithfully,

Aashish Manohar

Enrollment Number: 224000504365

Date: 28th April 2025

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Dr. Babasaheb Ambedkar Open University is a public institution of higher learning in Ahmedabad, Gujarat, India. It provides a variety of certificate courses, Diploma and degree programs through distance education mode, and other flexible mediums for its students. It is named after B. R. Ambedkar, the architect of the Indian Constitution.

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The new concept of open education came into existence with the establishment of the Indira Gandhi National Open University. The university offers 38 programs.

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Centre for Equal Opportunities and Inclusive Education

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Centre for Holistic Development of Women

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Grievance Redressal programme

Scheduled Caste/Scheduled Tribe Cell

Students Cell

Sexual Harassment Cell

Statistical Cell

Single Window Cell

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School of Humanities & Social Sciences

School of Commerce and Management

School of Education Distance Education & Education Technology

School of Computer Science

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