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Loved ones of psychotic people should know that they aren’t medically and emotionally responsible for natural things our disorder does.
The best thing you can do is be a good, mindful friend.
The number one way we lose friends is people getting overwhelmed by the task of “fixing us” or “getting us better”, and then they get frustrated and burdened, feeling prompted to leave for “not being good enough”.
The chances of a complete recovery from a psychotic disorder and all its symptoms aided by nothing but a medically unorthodox best friend is slim to none.



There are levels of how much you can help someone: and being said, there are some scenarios where you literally just cannot talk someone down. Some levels of breakdowns just can’t be helped by you unless you’re carrying Ativan.




We don’t hate you. Some of us are paranoid, but we literally will not hate you if you can’t fix our psychosis. No one can. Doctors usually can’t even do that.

(What we will not do)

Moral of the story, we’re just glad you’re here. We don’t want you to fix us. We’re glad you’re worried, but the only thing we depend on you for is kindness, slight accommodation and memes.

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Reblog if you are ASEXUAL, SUPPORT ASEXUALS, or really really want to WEAR A REALLY FANCY BLACK CAPE
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Im trying to prove a point to my mum
Repost if school has caused:
Anxiety Depression Suicidal thoughts Social anxiety Eating disorders Self harm Stress
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Welp, time to crawl underneath my desk and cry. Wish me luck buckaroos, time to let all of my emotions unfurl. :)
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tips on how to cope with having your period
unfortunately, periods happen for a lot of people. it’s not a fun time, so here are some ways to help 💕 (note- people of any gender may experience the dreadful once a month scourge - always remember to respect a person’s gender identity!)
so, on to the tips to get through this yucky time!
🍼if you’re feeling sad or anxious, put on your favorite cartoon or movie! it’s okay to stay in bed some days in your pajamas- enjoy a movie day! 🍿
🦄 use a warm compress/heating pad! they make hot water bottles for this purpose (please be careful with hot water and objects!), heating pads, and there are even microwaveable stuffies to keep you warm, like this one here! 🥰
🍼get some fresh air! i know it can be hard to get out of bed, but even just opening your window, stepping onto a balcony or into your backyard to get a breath of fresh air & sunlight can help so much! ☀️
🦄 i know dysphoria can be even worse during your period. remind yourself (feel free to put it in writing if you want to!) that your gender identity is 100% valid, and that you are amazing and strong. your body & its functions do not dictate your gender. ✨
🍼enjoy your favorite snacks and drinks! this post is all about helping yourself feel better, so if you feel like having a candy bar, or a cup of warm milk, go for it! if you enjoy it and it’s not harmful, enjoy! 🍫
🦄 take a nap! snuggle up in bed with your favorite soft blankets, pillows, and stuffies! being in a soft, warm environment and getting some shut eye really helps! 🛏
🍼 feel free to vent to a trusted friend, a family member, or even your stuffies! your stuffies are your friends too and will be there for you no matter what, and they don’t want to see you sad! if you need to cry or shout, there’s no shame in that! 🧸
🦄 take a warm shower. you don’t necessarily have to focus specifically on washing, but just feeling the hot water and breathing in steam can be relaxing! 🛁
🍼 if depression or other mental illnesses are amplified by being on your period, remember that it won’t last forever. i know it sounds cliché, but it’ll get better. just do your best to hang in there, i know you can do it! 🐱
good luck friends, and remember that this yucky time won’t last forever 💕
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Damn that's actually so sad-
please dont go, i love you so.
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That moment when you watch one of your favourite youtubers play a war game (Hell Let Loose, german wehrmacht vs american military) with three buddies and suddenly notice its really easy to see them as Jeremy Blaire, Rick Trager, Waylon Park and Eddie Gluskin playing the game with teamspeak and all xD
Pure perfection.
It's in german though, before you ask 🙈
Best parts imo:
Jeremy: *explains the mission, being the team leader*
Trager: *super loud through the earphones* "SiR, dO wE hAvE iNfOrMaTiOn On ThE eNeMiEs PoSiTiOn?"
Blaire: *wincing* "Dude! Hang on... That was hella loud..."
Trager: "...SoRrY! "
Blaire: "So we'll be heading to the left-"
Waylon: "I didn't get that, Sir Leutnant?!"
Blaire: "LEEEEEFT!!"
Trager: "Permission to take a short brake?!"
Blaire: "A brake?! A Murkoff soldier doesn't do brakes! You think we're picking pretty flowers here, or what?!"
Trager: *berely supressing his laughter* "You're right Sir! I'm dirt! Lower than dirt!"
Blaire: "No man, no! You're a good soldier! ...But breaks are a no-no."
Blaire: "Enemy fire! Get down!"
Waylon: "It's muddy here, commander, it's muddy!"
Trager: "Pull yourself together, soldier!" *slaps the back of his head*
Blaire: "After me, guys, we'll go into that trench for now! Trager, status report!"
*gets shot and acts it out with a dramatic, gurgling scream*
Trager: "No enemies in sight, sorry!"
Blaire: *continues to yell dying sounds into the mic*
Waylon, the medic: "Leutnant!! Stay calm, stay calm!!"
Blaire: "PAAAAAAAAAAAARRRK!!!"
Waylon: "I'll patch you up!!"
Blaire: "COVER FIRE, COVER FIRE!!! "
Waylon: "Here, take a Tylenol! I can help you, just stay still!" *blocks the doorway stuck in the healing animation*
Blaire: "GLUSKIN, GET YOURSELF TO SAFETY, WE HAVE TO MOVE INSIDE; PARK, MOVE INSIDE!!!
Waylon: *still stuck in the animation*
Blaire: "IIIINSIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIDE!!!"
Waylon: *finally moves to let the others in*
Blaire: "YOU FUCKING! DUMBASS!!!"
Waylon: "...I just wanted to help you!"
Trager: "Cadet Park, what's the matter with you?!"
Blaire: "Alright, Trager, place a proximity mine at the door!"
Trager: "What?!"
Blaire: "MIIIIIIINEEE!!! AT THE DOOOOOOOR!!!
Trager: "I have no mines!"
Blaire: "AAAAAAAAAAAARGH!!!!!" *machineguns the others avatar down in a fit of rage*
-skip-
Blaire: *calmly* "...One Tylenol for Rick, please."
Gluskin: *gets shot* Uuurgh!
Blaire: "Get him up again! Park, go get Gluskin back up!"
Waylon: *his avatar crouches over Eddies in the animation* "So... One nutella bread... One jar of marmelade..."
Blaire: "Your ass is sitting on Gluskins face!"
Eddie: *is abruptly back up, which makes his avatar glitch out beneath Waylons, crawling on its stomach*
Blaire: "...Holy shit."
Blaire: "Alright, we'll stalk further forward and we will flank them! Move! Trager, Gluskin, around that shack from the left!"
*gets shot* "...Gaaaah!! Trager!!!"
Trager: "I'm not the medic! I'm not the medic!!"
Blaire: "MY ASS!! "
Trager: "PARK, WHERE THE HELL ARE YOU?!"
Blaire: "...Better stay down, Rick!"
Trager: *promptly gets shot*
Blaire: *chuckles lightly* "...Park! Park, stay down!"
Waylon: "I'm coming, Sir!"
(In the ruin of a house)
Blaire: "We will fucking hold this spot! Return fire now!"
Waylon: "I got the MP!"
Blaire: "Great! Put the MP at the window! I'll mark the target! Now! ....GIVE 'EM HELL, PARK!!"
Waylon: *fires for a few seconds, then gets a headshot*
Blaire: *starts laughing almost hysterically and shrilly at the sight* "...MEDIC!! Rick! Go become a medic!" *shoots Trager* "Now, return fire, guys, I want to hear something!"
Trager: *kneeling next to Waylon to heal him* "Alright-y... One Tylenol in your face."
Blaire: *sees a big projectile hit the wall next to him in a fireball* "WOAH! Holy fucking-! "
Eddie: "That's a tank, guys!"
Blair: "...It was somehow getting so warm at my ass just now!"
Waylon: "I need cover fire!" *sees Blaire get shot this time and laughs manically*
Trager: "I gotchu! One Tylenol- into your veins!"
Blaire: "Thanks."
Trager: *gets shot out of the blue*
Eddie: "...Someone's crawling around here!"
Trager: *lying on the floor* "Eeuuurgh... I'm bleeding out! Guuuuh!"
Blaire: *cackles* "Rick's down! ...I'll release you!" *shoots him*
Trager: "Oh look-y here, I'm back again!"
*artillery makes everyone exept Blaire explode*
Blaire: *a short moment of surprise, then he cackles uncontrollably and shrilly*
*the second projectile is his own avatars death*
😂 And other adventures
(Part 2: https://erdediekatze.tumblr.com/post/636243234453176320/you-cant-be-fucking-seri)
https://youtu.be/jqmm1xG2HcM
In case y'all want to enjoy the original soundscape xD
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Tips for Caregivers
🧸 Ask your age regressor lots of questions about their favourite things
🍼 Be genuinely curious about what your age regressor is up to and express an eagerness to be involved
🧺 Speak in a soft, warm tone
🧸 Call your age regressor their favourite nicknames
🍼 Stay near by to keep a watch over your age regressor and to be able to be interactive and supportive
🧺 Show you care about your age regressor's safety and so for example hold their hand or buckle them into the car
🧸 Make decisions for your age regressor e.g. ordering for them or picking out their outfits
🍼 Always make your age regressor feel loved whether this be through verbal reassurance or lots of affection such as head kisses and cuddles
🧺 Suggest your age regressor go get their sippy cup or snack bowl for you to do refills
🧸 If your age regressor is showing excitement towards something then get excited with them
🍼 Know all your age regressor's favourites and remember their stuffies' names
🧺 Praise is very key so always let your age regressor know when they are doing a good job or compliment their work, art etc
🧸 Small things really matter to age regressors and so small gestures are really appreciated e.g. sending messages when you are thinking about them
🍼 Ask your age regressor about their day and how they are feeling
🧺 It sounds simple but actually treat your age regressor as the age they regress to and make sure to act around them as you would someone who is actually that age
🧸 Keep your promises especially pinky promises
🍼 Give out rewards but also discuss suitable punishments that your age regressor is comfortable with
🧺 Make your age regressor tasty foods suited to their regressed age e.g. finger foods or general children meals
🧸 Choose a cute film that your age regressor enjoys when they are regressed and recommend you watch it together
🍼 Send your age regressor recordings of your voice so they can listen back to it when they are missing you or need comforting
🧺 Encourage your age regressor to use a regression journal because this allows them to let out their feelings but also express their creative side
🧸 Give your age regressor some rules and/or chores to make sure they are carrying out all necessary daily activities
🍼 Create some daily routines for your age regressor to follow e.g. morning/bedtime routines
🧺 Try using the Three Special Questions Before Bed system by asking 1) What was your favourite part of the day? 2) What was your least favourite part of the day? 3) What are you looking forward to tomorrow?
(^ idea by @princess-of-crayons)
🧸 Always be sfw when your age regressor is regressed including no swear words
🍼 Make sure your age regressor has completed all self-care tasks e.g. eaten veggies, taken meds, stayed hydrated, completed personal hygiene
🧺 Get your age regressor to make wish lists because this allows you to learn about your age regressor's favourite things and also when you want to surprise them you can buy some things from the list
🧸 Always make sure that pacis, bottles and cutlery are washed and cleaned
🍼 Surprises are the best whether it's a new stuffie or a trip out
🧺 Set your age regressor some fun worksheets to complete
🧸 Always have things on hand for when things go wrong e.g. character plasters for ouchies, small teddy for if your age regressor gets upset
🍼 Honestly just express love, care and interest for your age regressor as much as possible
🧺 And finally... age regressors need lots of attention! I cannot stress the importance of this point enough

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Rules For Littles
Here are some rules for littles without a caregiver or you can give your little as a cg.
1. No sweets pat 8pm 2. No cursing 3. Use your manners 4. Bedtime is 11pm (or whatever time works best for you, but having a set bedtime is important!) 5. Get at least 8 hours of sleep 6. No caffeine past 8pm (or at least 2 hours before you go to bed) 7. Talk to someone if something if wrong 8. Don’t lie to cg (if you have one) 9. Always eat when you’re hungry if you can 10. Drink lots of water! At least 2 bottles a day. 11. Do all your homework 12. Be nice to yourself 13. Be nice to others 14. Always have your comfort items for when you may need them 15. Tell someone if someone is bothering you.

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Men should take more lewds.
Not dick pics. There are so many beautiful parts of the human body that aren't genitals. Legs, butts, chest, arms, tummies, hips, shoulders...there's so much to feel sensual about!
Not even to send to anyone, I want men to just take photos for themselves. Just because it's validating. Just because they thought they looked good that day. To let their masculinity be something other than fragile. I want to see more men feeling sexy, striking a pose, and feeling good about their bodies in all the ways they've been robbed of.
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hewwo :3 i thought it would be nice to share sum things that like and help me when I'm regressed <333
snacks/foods
✨goldfish crackers
🍼shapes or normal mac n cheese
✨dino or normal chicken nuggets
🍼apple sauce
✨grapes
🍼chocolate milk
✨angel milk (warm milk with sugar and vanilla extract)
🍼juice (apple, orange, grape)
activities
🧮cartoons(SpongeBob, 2000's blues clues)
🧸movies(Home)
🧮coloring in kid coloring books (they're simple and are usually really cute)
🧸cuddles (with stuffies or with bubba)
🧮scrolling through the agere tag on tumblr
🧸watching agere tik tok compilations on YouTube
items that help
🐶paci's (pacifiers)
🧃teethers
🐶 sippy cups
🧃stuffies/things to hold
🐶 sensory items like rattles
🧃comfy clothes like pajama pants, sweatpants, shorts, no pants at all, and big shirt
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