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[adhbabey]

overemphasizing any type of trans person has the capacity to be misogynistic is gunna make you sound like a transphobe just like overemphasizing that gay people have the capacity to be child predators makes you sound like a homophobe.

It ain't rocket science.

[adhbabey]

“trans people in sports is such a complex issue” it really isn’t. make the sports skills-based instead of segregated by gender. “ohhh but so many people’s lives depend on their sports for scholarships” okay then let’s make university universally funded so people don’t have to worry about paying for it based on how well they can throw a ball. how are you not keeping up

[adhbabey]

quaker oats is disgusting and I will go out of my way to never eat anything made by them again. they kept at least one factory so disgusting that when the FDA said Hey you need to actually follow health regulations (in response to a MASSIVE fucking recall due to contamination that made a ton of people sick, and anecdotally myself and several people I know got sick from food that was NOT recalled) they said actually it would be too hard to follow health regulations and SHUT THE FACTORY DOWN INSTEAD

AND THEY TARGET SO MANY OF THEIR PRODUCTS AT CHILDREN

[adhbabey]

-deep breath-

A 'no questions asked' food pantry means no questions asked.

When we're stocking our pantry, we are not looking at a person's clothes or their accessories or what kind of car they drove there in. We are HAPPY to see it BEING USED AT ALL.

I don't know anyone's situation. Maybe they got that designer bag at a thrift shop. Maybe its a knockoff. Maybe it was a gift. Maybe they got it when they had money and now they don't have money. Maybe they're getting stuff for a friend.

Maybe they have plenty of money, don't need to be taking stuff from the pantry, but they are anyway because we said-

NO QUESTIONS ASKED.

Do you know what happens when someone takes from our pantry when they don't need it? We're down one item. But maybe they tell someone that the pantry is there. Or maybe they come back to it when they need it. Or maybe they throw a dollar in the donation box. Or maybe they put an item on the shelf. Or maybe they come to our food drive.

WE DONT CARE.

We don't care who used it.

We care that it was used.

Im not a cop. Don't make me do cop stuff, I wont do it.

[adhbabey]

Long live Pride 🏳️‍🌈🫶

[adhbabey]

Queer people that gatekeep queerness weird me out. Queerness is NOT a mutually exclusive thing, it is inclusive. Kicking out asexuals, trans people & other queer people (bi/pan etc) as well is not being inclusive, it’s being oppressive and ignorant.

[adhbabey]

💛🤍💜🖤

Live!! If you are non-binary you must live!! You must show others, show yourself that it's okay, that's it's possible, that its worthwhile, that it is the best thing to live!! You are non-binary and you are alive, isn't that amazing? Live, Live, LIVE!!

💛🤍💜🖤

[adhbabey]

Part of why you are lovable is because you're nonbinary.

Your perspectives, particular style, the way you carry yourself, and more are what draw people to you.

Being nonbinary touches on everything you do, and it's a quality to be proud of.

[adhbabey]

This one goes to all trans nonbinary/genderqueer ppl whose identity is constantly erased and put into boxes labelled transfem/transmasc, etc, even by other queer ppl

I love you agender, maverique, neutrois, transneutral, abinary, gendervoid, androgynous, genderfluid, demigender, unlabeled/any other identity that is completely outside of the binary and/or genderless

Pls stay strong, don't let anyone define you

I know there are more labels and that some ppl might use mixed ones like transneumasc. Feel free to interact if this post is relatable to your experience

[adhbabey]

You're still nonbinary even if you prefer gendered pronouns like she or he.

Being nonbinary is not always about pursuing some sort of neutrality. It's about finding the truest version of yourself and living.

[adhbabey]

Sometimes somebody is nonbinary and they're just a normal guy without gender. And sometimes someone is nonbinary and they're someone whose deeply uncomfortable with being either gender so they need to transition to something else. And sometimes someone is nonbinary because they hate gender and want to kill it. And sometimes someone is nonbinary in an otherworldly and eldrich way like an android or a fallen angel and it makes people think they're cool. And sometimes someone is nonbinary in a whimsical and magical way like a faerie and it makes people think they're cute and charming. And sometimes those are all different people and they're that way forever. And sometimes someone is many of those at once or at diffrent times. And that's just how being nonbinary is.

[adhbabey]

It's okay to want to be androgynous as a non-binary person

It's okay to like androgyny as a non-binary person

It's okay to owe yourself androgyny as a non-binary person

It's okay to transition to androgyny as a non-binary person

It's okay to be transandrogynous

It's okay to love mixing masculinity and femininity into androgyny as a non-binary person

It's okay for your enbiness to be androgynous

It's okay to love being androgynous as a non-binary person

It's okay to want to have a mixed hormonal profile as a non-binary person

It's okay to want salmactive bottom surgery procedures a non-binary person

It's okay to not be white, or assigned a certain gender at birth and want to be androgynous as a non-binary person

If anything it's beautiful. It's wonderful. It's awesome.

You are not doing the community a disservice. You are making waves, when the world tells you to look more binary, you are choosing to subvert that because that's what is right for you. In the slew of "you don't HAVE to be androgynous" (look different, stand out, be visibly nonbinary in society), you are not dragging the community down by wanting to be different to the status quo. You deserve representation, you deserve to feel safe, you deserve to feel love, both self love and any other love you desire in life. Your androgyny, your striving for it, your androgynous desire is important and should not be ignored. It should be celebrated as part of your enbiness, as part of you 💛🤍💜🖤

[adhbabey]

You deserve a good life.

Society may have treated you poorly, but that doesn't mean you've earned it.

You are valued and needed by us all.

[adhbabey]

[adhbabey]

QUEER PEOPLE WON'T ALWAYS AGREE!! THAT'S OKAY!! I don't always like or enjoy things that other queer people like and do. But it does not mean that I have any right to kick them out of this community. I am no queer god, I can't just yeet people from the space if I'm not a fan of them. I have to suck it up, and so do you.

Im so sad the queer community is always so divided. It's the lesbophobia, then it's the biphobia, then it's the bi/pan discourse when yall are supposed to be both mspec. Then it's the aphobia, like man, how many do we have to say it? It's still queer even if you don't like anybody. And then it's the transphobia, drop the T? Really?? Then, it's inter-trans discourse like transmedicalism, transmisogyny, transandrophobia/transmisandry, all of those are equally bad!!! They really are!!! And then you get to folks like me, who have to deal with enbyphobia/exorsexism, like buddy, pal, there's no right or wrong way do to gender, there really isn't and you better shut the fuck up already. AND THEN THERE'S EVEN MORE!!! Intersexism!!! Intersex isn't inherently queer, but for many, it is very queer!! And for people to go on and say that doesn't matter is incredibly appalling. Intersex people are having it really bad right now, and nobody is willing to listen!!

So, let's stop. Let's stop alllllllll of this. Queer discourse is ALWAYS stupid!! There are even things I did not mention here. There's no wrong way to be, so SUCK IT UP!!! And be more fucking accepting. HOLY SHIT.

[adhbabey]

Im so sad the queer community is always so divided. It's the lesbophobia, then it's the biphobia, then it's the bi/pan discourse when yall are supposed to be both mspec. Then it's the aphobia, like man, how many do we have to say it? It's still queer even if you don't like anybody. And then it's the transphobia, drop the T? Really?? Then, it's inter-trans discourse like transmedicalism, transmisogyny, transandrophobia/transmisandry, all of those are equally bad!!! They really are!!! And then you get to folks like me, who have to deal with enbyphobia/exorsexism, like buddy, pal, there's no right or wrong way do to gender, there really isn't and you better shut the fuck up already. AND THEN THERE'S EVEN MORE!!! Intersexism!!! Intersex isn't inherently queer, but for many, it is very queer!! And for people to go on and say that doesn't matter is incredibly appalling. Intersex people are having it really bad right now, and nobody is willing to listen!!

So, let's stop. Let's stop alllllllll of this. Queer discourse is ALWAYS stupid!! There are even things I did not mention here. There's no wrong way to be, so SUCK IT UP!!! And be more fucking accepting. HOLY SHIT.

[adhbabey]

For everyone saying to stop using this extension, you're right. But you wouldn't believe the amount of people who have liked and reblogged my post who were intersex, transmasc, transfemmes who defend those people, people with it/its pronouns, who were all marked as red, to which I marked as t-friendly (green).

I'm doing my part to try to fix it, even if it won't help, I made this post in hopes to keep others aware about this issue and spread positivity and love to those directly affected.

I want to stay in this space to continue to fight and advocate for others who had harm done onto them, by lateral aggressors and actual transphobes. I could stop using this, or I could continue to bring awareness to those affected by this massive extension.

I'm not gonna stop until people are able to voice themselves freely again, without the fear of being silenced. (i.e. being marked as red/transphobic when they're literally trans, nonbinary or intersex)

happy pride month to every trans and intersex person marked red by shinigami eyes. and a reminder to everyone who still has the extension, always check to see if the person marked red is actually just an innocent trans/nonbinary or intersex person. if they're actually a trans person or an intersex person, and not a hateful bigot, mark them as t friendly, so you dont end up seeing them later as bad.

And a friendly reminder that if I do reblog from people marked as red, double check to see if they are an innocent person, instead of assuming people are reblogging from bigots.

I see this happen more and more. Towards multigender people, towards trans men, towards intersex people, etc. It keeps happening. So look out for your community, and think about whether or not you want to keep this extension. It clearly is made by really biased people, and directs harm towards innocents.

So happy pride to every queer innocent/advocate who is labeled as bad by this extension, and if you have any better trans friendly extensions, let me know. We should not be having to see queer people put into the crossfire.