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aetherviber · 3 years ago

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this is gonna sound like a shitpost but the best advice i have if youre consistently coming off wrong is to start talking like an elcor

you will feel like a dumdum at first, but once you get used to it youll realize that telling people what kind of thing you're about to say ahead of time flattens their anxiety a huge amount

ive been starting every question with "question:" for awhile now and i almost never get people reading too much into what i mean anymore

it seems super dumb, but "what are your plans tomorrow?" gets people asking me what i have planned despite me obviously being in the process of figuring that out, whereas "question: what are your plans tomorrow?" gets me a quick rundown of their schedule, followed by "why?"

it also makes it really easy to work tone indicators into your verbal speech. if you're always saying "question: [your question here]?" then no one blinks when you say "genuine question: [question that could read as sarcastic]?"

it also gets you out of your own way for any types of things you struggle to say. "can you make sure to do the dishes before you go to bed?" feels like an argument waiting to happen, but "request: can you make sure to do the dishes before you go to bed?" gets the words flowing on a neutral word while making it clear that you're not looking for a fight

so yeah. suggestion: talk like an elcor

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aetherviber · 4 years ago

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THROUGH A RAPIST’S EYES” (PLS TAKE TIME TO READ THIS. It may save a life, It may save your life.)

An Article from Neena Susan Thomas

“Through a rapist’s eyes. A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interview…ed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:

1] The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle. They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun! , braid, or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.

2] The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women who’s clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors around to cut clothing.

3] They also look for women using their cell phone, searching through their purse or doing other activities while walking because they are off guard and can be easily overpowered.

4] The number one place women are abducted from / attacked at is grocery store parking lots.

5] Number two is office parking lots/garages.

6] Number three is public restrooms.

7] The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to a second location where they don’t have to worry about getting caught.

8] If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn’t worth it because it will be time-consuming.

9] These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas,or other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands.

10] Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you’re not worth it.

POINTS THAT WE SHOULD REMEMBER:

1] If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time is it, or make general small talk: can’t believe it is so cold out here, we’re in for a bad winter. Now that you’ve seen their faces and could identify them in a line- up, you lose appeal as a target.

2] If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you and yell Stop or Stay back! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they’d leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY target.

3] If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever he goes,) yelling I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.

4] If someone grabs you, you can’t beat them with strength but you can do it by outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the attacker either under the arm between the elbow and armpit or in the upper inner thigh – HARD. One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle strands the guy needed stitches. Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it; it really hurts.

5] After the initial hit, always go for the groin. I know from a particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy’s parts it is extremely painful. You might think that you’ll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause him a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble, and he’s out of there.

6] When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without using much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.

7] Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior, don’t dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feel little silly at the time, but you’d feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.

FINALLY, PLEASE REMEMBER THESE AS WELL ….

1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do it.

2. Learned this from a tourist guide to New Orleans : if a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you…. chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or purse than you and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!

3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car: Kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won’t see you but everybody else will. This has saved lives.

4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping,eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DON’T DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side,put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU CLOSE the DOORS , LEAVE.

5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage:

a. Be aware: look around your car as someone may be hiding at the passenger side , peek into your car, inside the passenger side floor, and in the back seat. ( DO THIS TOO BEFORE RIDING A TAXI CAB) .

b. If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.

c. Look at the car parked on the driver’s side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)

6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot).

7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!

8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked “for help” into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.

Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the world we live in has a lot of crazies in it and it’s better safe than sorry.

If u have compassion reblog this post. ‘Helping hands are better than Praying Lips’ – give us your helping hand.

REBLOG THIS AND LET EVERY GIRL KNOW AT LEAST PEOPLE WILL KNOW WHATS GOING ON IN THIS WORLD. So please reblog this….Your one reblog can Help to spread this information.

THIS COULD ACTUALLY SAVE A LIFE.”

#tw r/pe #signal boost

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aetherviber · 4 years ago

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Reblog to save a Muslim

As you probably know, Punish A Muslim day is coming up on the third of April. Any Muslim who lives in England is in danger so please stay home. Don’t send your children to school. DON’T GO OUT on the 3rd of April. My non Muslim friends, please reblog this, one of your followers could benefit from it.

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aetherviber · 5 years ago

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rock lee vs gaara but…. more

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aetherviber · 5 years ago

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commission a girl so she wont have to starve or move back 2 abusive mom <3

so hii im soli your favorite disabled lesbian bimbo and my future is looking kinda. bad. due to some circumstances im living by myself instead of sharing an apartment and i wont have the money for both rent and basic necessities like food, gas and other necessities i might need to live by myself

i cant work so i rely on welfare money n the norwegian government hates us so its barely anything and its also super expensive to live here. i dont have to pay for this months rent all by myself but im not gonna have much money after that and its just going to get harder to survive for me later unless i manage to save up money now. if i dont i’ll have to move back to my parents and itd just ruin all the effort ive done to get out of that place cus i cant stay there without ruining my mental health

if youd like to help me by commissioning something itd mean the world to me and help me out so much.

sketches r $10, detailed drawings are $20, color is +$5 and shading/lightning is $3. im also up for a reasonable price negotiation if its a very simple drawing, everything helps;;

i’ll draw abt anything, sfw, nsfw (only for 18+ clients n only of 18+ characters), furries, simple mecha etc. any content i wont draw of i’ll tell u if u ask for it !

if you just want to donate you can do so thru my paypal or kofi ;w; if youre norwegian i also use vipps so just dm!

if you cant donate please reblog ! thank you so much;;

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aetherviber · 5 years ago

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commission a girl so she wont have to starve or move back 2 abusive mom <3

so hii im soli your favorite disabled lesbian bimbo and my future is looking kinda. bad. due to some circumstances im living by myself instead of sharing an apartment and i wont have the money for both rent and basic necessities like food, gas and other necessities i might need to live by myself

i cant work so i rely on welfare money n the norwegian government hates us so its barely anything and its also super expensive to live here. i dont have to pay for this months rent all by myself but im not gonna have much money after that and its just going to get harder to survive for me later unless i manage to save up money now. if i dont i’ll have to move back to my parents and itd just ruin all the effort ive done to get out of that place cus i cant stay there without ruining my mental health

if youd like to help me by commissioning something itd mean the world to me and help me out so much.

sketches r $10, detailed drawings are $20, color is +$5 and shading/lightning is $3. im also up for a reasonable price negotiation if its a very simple drawing, everything helps;;

i’ll draw abt anything, sfw, nsfw (only for 18+ clients n only of 18+ characters), furries, simple mecha etc. any content i wont draw of i’ll tell u if u ask for it !

if you just want to donate you can do so thru my paypal or kofi ;w; if youre norwegian i also use vipps so just dm!

if you cant donate please reblog ! thank you so much;;

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aetherviber · 5 years ago

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kinda surprised this even needs to be said, but here we are. for the record, this is not kink-shaming or putting anyone down for having preferences. this is simply drawing the line where i feel people may disrespect mine or those of others. please respect that.

1) please do not attempt to place or otherwise assume geno is into anything sexual. ships are not inherently sexual, and the assumption that all shipping equates to sex is ace erasure. geno is demiromantic and asexual. so far, the only ship that has developed on this blog has been with his mario (love u loserbundt, support byte and his wahoo man), and they are and will never be involved in any sort of material like that. please understand that and be mindful of it. do heckle them about when the goshdarn heck mario is gonna put a ring on his finger tho. coughs

2) please do not attempt to do that with any character that is stated to be ace, or in fact, any character at all unless it’s clear that the mun is okay with this sort of material. this is why rules and about pages are important! a lot of muns are all game for sinday shenanigans and sexual nsfw material, and that’s a-okay! as long as there’s nothing involving paraphilia (incest, pedophilia, etc.) or anything like that, much like any other ship material, i 100% support people doing what they want. that’s great! you do you! no shame, wave that flag and fly it high! however, encroaching upon muns who do not want this content on their blog with this exact thing can be very uncomfortable. not all of us are here for smut. considering people are shoving this in the faces of muns in the nintendo rpc of all places, too —— a place sure to attract the attention of minors —— is… extra disconcerting.

3) don’t act like a child and throw a fit because a sexual ask you sent a mun is perceived with discomfort. no ‘please’ and niceness in this one, buckaroo. if you’re going to be a piece of shit and act like a total fuckbasket because you breached boundaries, something that you did and is your fault, take a step back and maybe take a cold shower. no one is wrong for being uncomfortable with a sexual ask, especially when their rules/about are very explicitly clear about where they/their character stand on sexual topics. that is all on you.

4) look at this fucking rabbit. splendid. spectacular. serendipitous. no neck. the neck does not exist.

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aetherviber · 5 years ago

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