againstmogai

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"It’s often unhealthy to hyper-analyze your sexuality to the point where how you experience it changes where you belong. This is why the idea that broader terms are somehow more restrictive is baffling. Continuously breaking labels down and creating terminology for each facet of one’s identity shrinks communities until it’s just one person convinced that they’re the only one who relates to their experiences. It isolates people and ignores the importance of individuality within a collective identity."

On Hyperpersonalized Sexual Identity

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Proship: totally not an echochamber

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That isn't "targeting POC" you mush brain. If you had any braincells you'd notice I have issues with the racism persistent in M*gai shit. Anyway.

I mean, all it really does is reveal your naiveté and lack of awareness of others. But I already knew white mog*is don't care about that

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Where the fuck did I police POC? Show me examples. Give links and screenshots.

I mean, all it really does is reveal your naiveté and lack of awareness of others. But I already knew white mog*is don't care about that

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Have you stopped to consider assuming I'm white is also a weird racist move

I mean, all it really does is reveal your naiveté and lack of awareness of others. But I already knew white mog*is don't care about that

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What the fuck are you talking about how does this have to do with narc being a term by and for drug users are you fucking stupid

I mean, all it really does is reveal your naiveté and lack of awareness of others. But I already knew white mog*is don't care about that

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I mean, all it really does is reveal your naiveté and lack of awareness of others. But I already knew white mog*is don't care about that

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??????????

I genuinely think gender binary existing would be fine if it wasnt for people thinking that since there is a gender binary thats more popular then the others, that it means no other gender binary is correct.

Oh and it also makes people get upset at gender NONbinaries

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Narc is a word already lmao and it doesn't mean narcissist

NARC LESBOY

[id: a 6 stripe flag. the very top stripe is black, the following stripe is a dark-ish purple, the following stripe is a dull hot pink, the following stripe is a light, almost pastel pink, the following stripe is a very light yellow. the last stripe is black. end id]

a lesboy who is a narcissist!

pls don't use this flag if you don't have npd.

requested by @saw-lesbo :3

as always, gaybians/lesboys/anyone else can use this label!

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“sexuality is so complicated and impossible to label” - annoying tumblr person about to describe what is literally just bisexuality

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It's now cool to misgender transmascs and recycle TERF rhetoric if you do it in a faux self aware fashion

i don't feel nearly as ashamed or hesitant to talk about my queer tgirl attraction to men as my tguy brothers would feel talking about their attraction to women

obligatory "if you're a trans guy and your attraction to women is het, that's real and okay! your trans experience isn't a monolith and other trans people being different doesn't make you different or wrong"

like, think about it: hardly anyone bats an eye when a tgirl uses grindr or calls herself a faggot, but as soon as a man calls himself a lesbian, everyone gets on his ass. anything for an excuse to shit on lesbians, i guess. it makes me angry that nobody sees this hypocrisy or these ties back to the lesbian separatism that infected the community post-70s. it's not gone, it never went away

this isn't exactly profound news to anyone who gives a shit about lesbian history. just something i find interesting

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just saw someone employ the amazing rhetorical maneuver of saying 'wow you're really just accusing me, a Queer, of being a pedophile, how are you not just parroting conservative rhetoric' to defend the consumption of child porn

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yeah let's defend the TERF sexuality good job

Genuinely bizarre to me that "I don't want to have sex/be physically intimate with someone unless I have a deep emotional connection with them" is considered by some to be a whole sexuality instead of like. Normal.

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this truly is the piss on the poor website. where did OP call anyone abnormal freaks. project your insecurities somewhere else

Genuinely bizarre to me that "I don't want to have sex/be physically intimate with someone unless I have a deep emotional connection with them" is considered by some to be a whole sexuality instead of like. Normal.

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No comment necessary

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when the survey caps out at 45 years old you know it's bullshit

Friendly reminder that LGBTQ+, Queer, and LGBT+ are the preferred terms for the community (x).

Friendly reminder that Queer is approved by 72.9% of the people, and the groups who don’t prefer it’s use as an umbrella term are straight people, exclusionists, transmeds, truscums, sex-negative people, and sex work critical people (x).

Friendly reminder that aros and aces are excluded only 9.2% / 8.1% of the time respectively while being included  78.9% / 81.2% of the time (x)

Friendly reminder that exclusionists are in the minority and aro/ace people are included in the LGBTQ+ community by the people within the community.