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I remember years ago when I was still in therapy I told my therapist that I felt bad asking my friends for help because a lot of them were also going through some bad stuff and she told me

“You know, sometimes people in crisis will enjoy helping. It can be a distraction from their own problems.”

And then the next week I reached out to a friend who was in the middle of going through something about what I was going through and my therapist was right. That friend jumped at the opportunity to help.

And I’ve realized since then that my own problems rarely have anything to do with my ability to help others with theirs unless I am literally having an attack of some kind at that moment. In fact, it is actually refreshing to work on other peoples problems with them sometimes. Listening to problems you’re not soaking in constantly and helping your friend is often something you just want to do because you care about them. And you don’t stop caring about people because you’re having a hard time right now.

So I guess sometimes inviting someone into your sinking ship does work actually.

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Some of my favourite moo-deng photos so far because she's so adorable and silly.

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Alarm cock is this anything

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Fresh memes here, get 'em while they're hot

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Shed some genuine tears thinking about James Fitzjames on the way home from work. Such a miserable and horrible way to die, but I wish I could go back in time and tell him that it’ll take some time, but in the future when you’re found, thousands and thousands of strangers will cry for you. Out of sadness partly, yes because no one deserves to die like this, but also out of relief! Out of a genuine happiness that we finally found you after all these years!! That you will no longer waste away in an unknown grave!! And that thousands of people not only remember your name 176 years in the future, but celebrate when you’re found again!! I am so deeply unwell about James Fitzjames right now!!!!!

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are you really telling me i can order a poster of sir john franklin's meat to hang in my home

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Thanks Google, just what I wanted!

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Bi-donna you moved me

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top is moo deng (recent), bottom is her older brother moo wan from several years ago

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i hate people who know highways. “i’m heading south on I-65” okay man. i’m moving my rook to c2

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thinking about that one wordless calvin and hobbes sunday strip thats just calvins dad ditching his work to go play in the snow... its going to make me cry

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playing erdtree with my pal we get invaded by someone named "Drip Inspector" and im like "waitwaitwait. ok lets just pose leaning back to back and wait for them to show up maybe our outfits will be so good they wont kill us"

so we wait until they show up and then they get reaaaal close to us . and then pull out their telescope and start circling around us and zooming in for a good 30 seconds. then they clap, use the "wonderful" and "youre beautiful" prattling pates, and jump off a cliff. invader vanquished

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Zoom Town Hall in Hope County pt 2

part two to this post

when jacob does speak there’s always a judge going feral offscreen

a strict no zooming and flying rule has been implemented

kim is very tired

tammy is camera on muted but you can always see her talking with people off screen

because mary may is never muted you can hear her bitching about the others, she does not care that you can hear her regularly calling john a little bitch

eli shows up but is camera off and muted, wheaty shows up and always sets his laptop in a way that you can clearly see eli not paying attention in the background

wheaty, jess, staci, sharky, and hurk all spam the chat

jess always posts links for memes and joseph always clicks on them even though he knows he’s going to get offended

john spams it as well but mainly with scripture

joey spams it when she gets muted

honestly everyone spams it when they get muted

except for dutch who just flips the camera off until he’s unmuted

crude gestures and profanity are prohibited but no one listens

faith lights a joint on screen once and everyone loses their shit

addie joins the call while xander is doing naked yoga in the background and the noise that the call makes can only be described as the screams of hell

everyone always gossips and bitches about what happens in the meeting as they’re happening with no care about if their camera and mic are on

tammy is one of the worst offenders

joseph begins to incorporate tech lingo into his speeches and he learns it all from these zooms

jacob absolutely gives his little powerpoint presentation during one of these

he doen’t understant screen sharing so he just turns his whole desk around to give it

eli turns his camera on and unmutes long enough to call jacob a bitch during this before he goes dark again, it’s the only time he ever participates

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got chased by a skeleton but when they caught me they just gave me a kiss and hug. turns out it was an xoskeleton.