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the era of twinks is OUT. this character design must reign supreme.

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Third Party Reading Protection. Yesterday something extremely unsettling happened to me which is the basis for this post. Being someone who was in a very abusive relationship, privacy and protection are of the utmost importance to me. Yesterday, I ran into my abusive ex-partner at the local Trader Joe’s. They smiled smugly and said that they were doing readings to check up on me and what a surprise it was to find me there. My ex is a fellow Tarot reader who used spiritual scare tactics and Tarot readings to control me in our relationship.  I felt sick and quickly left the store. I went to go visit my parents crying, feeling so scared and violated. My mother created a protection charm to shield me and block third-party readings done without my consent even if the information that is being uncovered or asked about is public knowledge. I begged her to share what she did for me with all of you, but she refused at first. I began to explain that there are so many people like me online who are dealing with something similar, in which she obliged and left out a few things in the original charm, in which I will explain below.  I believe everyone should have a right to their privacy, especially in readings. While I understand that not everyone feels this way about third party readings, and even I have my exceptions,  I still feel strongly that when it concerns a case of someone protecting themselves from a volatile situation or person,their personal information should not be accessible without prior consent or be violated by a third party reading. 

Items Needed:

A small vial - To contain the charm.

Candle Wax - To seal the vial.

Faux tag lock - A string that matches your hair color to create a fake link/representation of yourself.

Cascarilla (powdered eggshell) - To create a barrier of protection.

Coffee Grounds - To ground the protection to the physical world.

Cotton - To cloud the truth.

Broken Glass - To deflect intruding energies from third-party readings.

Seven Small Pins - To safeguard your own energies.

Black Salt - To ward off a physical and spiritual assault.

Brown Mustard Seeds - To create confusion and false truths in readings done without your consent.

Last Four Items - It is believed in my mother’s practices to never share a complete recipe of proactive protection, for doing so could give someone the ability to disarm it. Put four items of your choosing that relate to boundaries, protection, personal power, and warding. 

Post Notes: Please do not remove the captions. Title: Third Party Reading Protection Copyright: © Ivan Ambrose 2017 Disclaimer: I am not a witch. My mother also does not identify as a witch. This post is comprised of folk traditional practices and methods she has been taught by our family and elders. Please make sure the ingredients provided in this post are safe for you to use. Please be mindful of fire safety and hot wax when sealing your vial. You are free to substitute anything and everything if needed. I will not provided substitutions or further explanation of this charm. As with all of my posts and content, this post in no way, shape, or form is intended to tell you how you must go about this topic. The intention of this post is to share my experiences. This isn’t the only way, the absolute right way or the way that you “should” approach this topic. I encourage you to use what you find useful and tweak or dismiss what you do not find useful. I am sure there are various other people in the world who choose to do things differently regarding this topic and that is perfectly okay. I can only speak from personal experience and what has worked for me. I encourage you to do your own research, to do what you are comfortable with and to tailor any advice provided henceforth to your specific needs and individual situation. Safe Space Tags: Long Post, Abuse, Spiritual Abuse Navigation: Table Of Contents | FAQ | Contact   

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Offerings to Hecate

Hecate is the Greek goddess of witchcraft, spirits, herbalism and the crossroads. She is frequently worshiped by practitioners of witchcraft.

Offerings to Hecate include: -candles (especially dark colours) -fire -moon water -herbal teas -ritual knife or athame -garlic -horse shoes -keys -animal bones -horse hair (specifically a mare) -snakes skin -dirt of a crossroads -graveyard dirt (from the yard itself, not a specific grave) -multiples of 3

Feel free to add more.

More about Hecate

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like your blog but no offense how are you on Tumblr in ur late 20s?

Good question anon! Here’s my secret: the old folks home lets us out for an hour of water aerobics every day and while the other residents are huffing and puffing like a bunch of suckers I’m off to the side of the pool with everything I need for posting quality content to Tumblr Dot Com.

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I officially hate among us.

I've never played it.

I will never play it.

All I want

Is

To

FUCKING

SLEEP!

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Dormant Predators

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Aphrodite of the Sea

This aspect of hers deserves some more attention. As someone who was raised by the sea, grand-daughter of a sailor and one who fell for an ex-sailor, I’m terribly biased. Aphrodite’s association with the sea is not ignored, and I see it come up often through aesthetics, but I’ve more rarely seen the cultic aspect being brought up. So here we are.

The birth of Aphrodite and the epithets Her birth is obviously a given when talking about Aphrodite’s link to the sea. Hesiod, in his Theogony, informs us that she was born out of the white seafoam generated by Ouranos’ mutilated testicles which were thrown in the sea and carried by the waves. From this birth, Aphrodite was given the epithet Anadyomene “Rising from the Sea”. While this myth alone could be enough to explain the goddess’ natural intimacy with the marine world, the other epithets she has give a glimpse of a deeper association. First, we can list the basics: Pontia “of the Deep Sea”, Pelagia “of the Open Sea”, Thalassai “of the Sea”, Galenai “of the Calm Sea”. More interesting are Euploia “of Smooth Sailing” and Limenia/Epilimenia “of the Harbor”, because they explicitely refer to her impact on mortal’s lives, and especially the lives of those for whom sailing is essential.

The goddess of seafarers More than the sea itself, Aphrodite’s home is the harbor and the sea coast. In fact, her sanctuaries and temples were commonly built on the sea side, on the harbor or the beach (especially on island towns): in many cases, Aphrodite’s cult was brought from the sea to foreign lands. Greek mariners took her with them where they sailed and as such, have brought her cult a bit everywhere around the Mediterranean, whether through trade or war. 

As the patronness of ship’s crews, mariners, ship owners, traders, fishermen, immigrants and seafaring tourists, it is natural to find her on the harbor when back on land, and especially under the epithet of Euploia. This was the case in Athens, of course, but also in Knidos, Olbia, Cilicia, Mylasa and Delos. In Corinth, Kechries and Aegina, it is the epithet Epilimenia that is prefered. Finally, other seaside temples and sanctuaries simply refered to her as Pontia. I simply wish to highlight, with this long list, that we are not dealing with an obscure aspect of Aphrodite. Her cult amongst seafarers is an important and widespread one. Her most important sanctuaries were in Cythera and Cyprus, as both location tie into the birth story as told by Hesiod. Cythera being where she first touched land, and Cyprus being her main cult site and permanent “residence”. Cyprus is, in fact, covered by hundreds of sanctuaries dedicated to her. I could go on and on about the mythical associations between certain spots in Cyprus or even Rhodes, but this is not the focus for today.

Aphrodite protected sailors in many ways. Being both of the sea and the sky, she righteously has dominion over the winds necessary for sailing. Epigrams found in the Palatine Anthology give us some insight about what the sailors prayed her for:

“Cypris, if you save those at sea, save me, beloved goddess, who perish ship-wrecked on land.” - Book 5, epigram 11

“Guardian of the surf-beaten shore, I send you, Cypris, these little cakes and simple gifts of sacrifice. For tomorrow I shall cross the broad Ionian Sea, hasting to the bosom of my Idothea. Shine favourable on my love, and on my bark, you who are queen alike of the bedroom and of the shore.” - Book 5, epigram 17

“This is the place of Cypris, for it is sweet to her to look ever from the land on the bright deep, that she may makes voyages of sailors happy; and around the sea trembles, looking on her polished image.” - Book 9, epigram 144 “This passing fair statue did Aeximenes erect to Aphrodite, the protectress of all navigation. Hail, sovereign Cypris! And if you give gain and welcome wealth you shall learn that a ship is most ready to go shares.” - Book 9, epigram 601

translations by W. R. Paton, modernized by me. 

Those epigrams give us interesting examples of offerings given to Aphrodite as well: cakes, statues, and a promise of giving back some of the wealth gained from trade. These are far from being the only sources we have on the matter. For example, Plutarch tells in Life of Theseus (18.2) how Theseus sacrificed to Aphrodite a female goat before setting sail to Crete. While it is unlikely that Plutarch had sources to back up this claim, he is using a logical association rooted in cult practices.

It is important to point out that the liveliness of the harbors also made it a prime location for sex workers, another part of the population under Aphrodite’s protection. Herodotus, for example, tells us about the greek colony in Egypt, Naukratis, and how the sex workers there were successful in their business (Histories, 2. 135.5). The Piraeus port in Athens has also been described as a sex work hot spot (cf. Aeschines, Against Timarchos, 40), and it would be quite logical to consider this a widespread phenomenon, especially when the association between sex work and mariners has lasted through time. Between sex workers and sailors, harbors really do unite two worlds of Aphrodite: love and the sea. 

The case of Naukratis is otherwise notable, as excavations have shown that the temple in the sanctuary of Aphrodite was one of the oldest structures of the city, dating back to 600 BC and founded by East Greek traders. Several vases were dedicated here to Aphrodite Pandemos, which makes sense, as the colony was composed of immigrant citizens from varied backgrounds. 

Aphrodite’s fish

Athenaeus of Naukratis tells of how the gilt-head bream is particularly sacred to Aphrodite in Cythera, as this fish has scales that have a golden shimmer to it. The local fishmermen considered it a good omen to see a bream appear to them, and a confirmation of the goddess’ protection on sea. Athenaeus also mentions the pilot-fish, probably naucrates ductor, which tends to follow sharks, but is also known to follow boats. Still according to Athenaeus, the pilot-fish was born directly from Ouranos’ blood at the same time as the birth of Aphrodite. In a similar fashion than with the bream, seeing a pilot-fish swim besides the ship was considered a good omen of divine protection. More generally, the dolphin is also sacred to her, an animal she shares with Apollo and Dionysus, among others. For Plutarch, all sea life is sacred to her and should not be killed.

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Further reading: (note that this post is long and could have been way longer. I’ve made major cuts to make this digestable)

Blakely S., Collins J. B., Religious Convergence in the Ancient Mediterranean, 2019

Cyrino S. M., Aphrodite, 2010

Demetriou D., Tῆς πάσης ναυτιλίης φύλαξ: Aphrodite and the Sea in: Kernos 23, 2013

Pirenne-Delforge V., L’Aphrodite grecque. Contribution a l’etude de ses cultes et de sa personnalite dans le pantheon archaique et classique, 1994