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I deadnamed someone which is incredibily transphobic, but uwu im the real victim here, they were rude to me when confronting me.

why do you continually forget the fact that I stopped calling her Cat the instant she asked me to

like how stupid are you, kiddo

how hellbent on continuing this demonizing narrative are you that you just keep continually stalking this blog? you really are pathetic, y’know.

Follow your friend’s advice: if you feel like you’re so right then get over it and leave me alone. Get a goddamn life and get off my blog lmao

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not really obsessed, i mean not as obsessed as you are to come onto a blog you hadnt been on in a while to attack someone venting and warning others of the bad experience she had and about how you got upset when she confronted you about dead naming and it was all uwu i wish they had informed me of my transphobic behavior in a so much nicer way, disregarding the discomfort or how upset it made them. but mmmmkay.

¯\_(ツ)_/¯ and yet you’re still here

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lel mutual victim complex. When you are making yourself the victim here.

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One last message for the night now that I’ve finally chilled out.

An explanation as to what I meant when I said “I don’t want to be lumped in together with people like Cade.”

I don’t want to be like Cade or anyone who acts similarly.

I don’t want to be a person who continually uses my mental health issues as a way of getting people to sympathize with me, or get what I want. I don’t want to associate with people who continually show signs of victim complexes. Because despite the issues I face on a daily basis, I will n e v e r fucking blame someone for actions that occur due to my diagnosis.

It’s not my friend’s fault I’m anxious.

It’s not my friends’ job to come to me if I want to talk to them. They cannot read my fucking mind.

I stand my ground when I start a discussion with someone, rather than falling back the instant I get an answer I don’t like. 

I refuse to let Cade cry-bully me. I’m not fucking buying it. I’ve been around the block for way too fucking long, and I’m s i c k of it.

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What’s wrong, Anon?

Not willing to own up to the consequences of your actions?

And this is why you and Cade find solace in each other; your mutual victim complexes. :^)

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washingtonCT (◕‿◕✿) 

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you never wanted to alarm me, but i’m the one that’s drowning now

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Anon asked for WashCT!!

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The fact that I was legitimately forced to speak about my diagnosis just to prove a point should show everyone how fucked up this whole situation is.

And I’m sorry to everyone who has still been following me through all of this, but I’m not backing down. I refuse to falter under these fucking cry bullies.

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Forever grasping at straws. Get the fuck over yourselves.

I’m allowed to be enraged at the stupid little girl who continuously dragged our names through the mud for MONTHS while we never fucking said a word about her once she was gone.

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"She told me I had to ask permission to call her that name, and fuck no. I’m not asking permission to do shit." Way to be a transphobe nice to know cades post about you was correct. (Yes, you do have to ask permission to call someone by their deadnane)

I’m not arguing with you about this. This is stupid. I know what I am, and my friends know what I am.

I refuse to be pushed around like a child. I call her by her preferred name, I just hate how fucking rude she was about it. I like how you conveniently negated that part that I never call her by her previous name anymore. I literally haven’t since she asked me not to.

THE PROBLEM WASN’T THE REQUEST

THE PROBLEM WAS THE EXECUTION. 

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I mean, even if they did share that info and it may have been wrong of them. It doesnt discount any of what you did to them. The point of the matter is that you still made someone feel like shit You used someones deadname and got upset when they politely asked you not to use it. Plus you shared convos and info with people not involved? which makes it kinda hypocritical that you are upset about someone doing something similar.

She made herself feel like shit.

She instigated fights constantly. We told her that if the group was causing her strife, then it was better for her mental health to leave BUT SHE STAYED. We are not responsible for a little girl who doesn’t know how to interact with the world around her. 

I had been calling her Cat for WEEKS after she came back and only told me not to call her that that day. And she did not politely do shit. She told me I had to ask permission to call her that name, and fuck no. I’m not asking permission to do shit. I called Cade by the wrong name. I realize that. I made note of it immediately as I was telling our admin about it. I have never called her Cat since.

And what the fuck are you even talking about, sharing conversations and information??? who the fuck do you think you are.

You don’t know the situation at all.

Grow some balls and confront me face to face.

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You left this world my treasured friend

The chapter closed

But love has no end

Farewell my angel

You’re with me always

Just close your eyes now

Next time we meet 

It’s forever

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Stuff kids on tumblr better relearn

1. You are responsible for your own media experience. 

2. There is such a thing as a healthy level of avoidance towards topics that make you feel unwell or even (in a real-life clinical definition of the term) trigger you - but you are the one to actively take care of what you view.

3. Avoiding does not mean policing others.

4. You have no right to tell artists to censor themselves - you may criticize what others do, you may dislike it, that’s fine - but actively asking for censorship when you could easily unfollow or block a person just makes you look incompetent in your use of the internet.

5. Do not give people on tumblr or /any/ website the responsibility for your emotional well-being. Because these people do not even know you so no, you have no right to ask them to take care of you.

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You made your bed. Fucking lay in it.

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Nope okay this is getting its own post because it’s worth noting.

Because totally me using a name I’d been calling her THE WHOLE FUCKING TIME is a crime

but her telling the entire fucking community about mental health issues I told her about in fucking confidence (I literally deleted those messages about it the morning after we discussed it, because I didn’t want our entire fucking group to know) IS A-OKAY

Yep. YEP. I’m totally a horrible human being and don’t deserve anything good in the world. Fuck off.

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You know someone has a sad life if they feel the need to bring down the lives of others around them. Especially when those people haven’t even been active on these blogs for weeks. 

When they feel the need to bring up petty bullshit instead of grow the fuck up and deal with your own shitty ass personality. The people reading this may not know how fucking shitty you are, but we know. We all fucking know. And y’know what? The best thing about not being on this blog anymore is that I couldn’t fucking care less. :^)