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Why am I only pretty at 2am

When you’re vision is blurred, your glass is empty

Enough to fall asleep next to

But not to wake up next to..

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Oh this aged well 😂

It's all about perspective.

(C) @titsay

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great lakes kids are like "you wanna go to the lake this summer" as if any of us have a fucking choice

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oh yeah heres my collection of 2021 headlines that i forgot to post when the year ended

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Instagram

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This is so much cooler now that I’ve bern to the museum and learned all about the stage setup and background info

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Me ignoring karma because this kid from my FIRST EVER JOB has been sliding in my dms for years politely asking for a chance and I’m literally giving every excuse right now.

It's all about perspective.

(C) @titsay

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Self soothing to keep away the destructive thoughts.

Do everything you can to keep it at bay

Keep it bottled

Nobody’s coming to save you

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every time i listen to “you’re a mean one mr. grinch” i can’t help but sit there and think “what did the grinch do to hurt you?” because dude just stands there for 2 minutes and 58 seconds and drags the grinch into the dirt

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Chosen families do not come to us in perfect packages; their very structure aims to resist the idea of family as something we are given and must accept. Holiday season, as much as any time of year, can be confusing and challenging for folks, especially for those who have been rejected/estranged from their biological families. It’s important for us as queer and trans people to remember that we CAN and DESERVE to create generative, healthy bonds, where we can experience abundant love, joy, safety, and belonging with people who allow us to feel valued and whole in their presence. How do you find chosen family? This can be done through mutual friends or comrades, community organizing spaces, or shared interests! This can look like asking for help or support, becoming accountability buddies on projects and day-to-day tasks, ordering take out or groceries for each other during the hard days, showing up when you have capacity, and being open to receiving from others when you don’t. The process of finding chosen family is like planting seeds and nurturing a garden. One day, you look up and realize they’ve bloomed, and there are simply too many to count.

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Really lost an amazing woman. My heart is hurting

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I care about you more than you’ll ever know. You’re literally the only sibling I have. I love you 💕

I love you too ❤️ forever and always

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Nobody cares about me, they just say they do

When it comes down to it, I’m the only one there for myself

It’s only when they need something

I’m not important anymore

They’ve all moved on without me

And I can never say anything

Just keep holding it all in

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What a terrible day. Finally over..

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Water art done right