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I really hate “liberals” trying to get one up on conservative women who have a lot of kids by saying they have a breeding kink. First of all, they’re clearly saying it because they see these women as religious and “prude-y,” missionary-sex-with-the-lights-off types, and are saying this sexual thing to make them uncomfortable, and second, it’s not even true. There’s no breeding kink, there’s just misogynistic, religious indoctrination. Way to turn a necessary conversation into just a lewd sex joke about these women.

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You're not allowed to get angry. But they are.

You don't even have to mention veganism. Sometimes you're just talking about the environmental cost of the animal industry. Or you're just sharing your experience of quitting cheese. How you stop missing it after a while. You really do.

You can see it in their faces. There is a wall. A complete block. Nothing will get in. Anything you say gets sidetracked and ignored. Filed away as irrelevant.

The truth is that it's too relevant. Mustn't be confronted. But they won't admit that. They'll just laugh at you at the mention of it.

It's hardest with the people you love. You know them to be kind. Thoughtful. Intelligent. Empathetic. Yet every day they choose to partake in an industry that is responsible for the unnecessary suffering of billions of others. It's incredibly painful to realise. To know. It breaks your heart ten thousand different ways. The reality of it will make your blood boil.

But you cannot get angry. Only they can. Because you told them they are Bad.

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you called him a gc right here then when I sarcastically called him gc you agreed 😭

"Just as many AGP transwomen associate womanhood with submission, masochism, fragility and inferiority (and enjoy it!). Many AAPs do the same, however they often prefer to be the dominant and masculine, and regard womanhood/femaleness as disgusting, inferior, and humiliating... when you realize what AAPs regard womanhood as, and contrast it with how many blackpillers regard womanhood, it is hard to not see similarities."

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You can't call yourself a feminist if you demonize pregnancy and motherhood

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I accept your concession that Ray Blanchard is not GC

"Just as many AGP transwomen associate womanhood with submission, masochism, fragility and inferiority (and enjoy it!). Many AAPs do the same, however they often prefer to be the dominant and masculine, and regard womanhood/femaleness as disgusting, inferior, and humiliating... when you realize what AAPs regard womanhood as, and contrast it with how many blackpillers regard womanhood, it is hard to not see similarities."

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No I can't, can you quote it for me?

If you think its transphobic abuse that's fine. But transphobia ≠ being gender critical! Especially if someone critiques GCs and says they are not a GC!

"Just as many AGP transwomen associate womanhood with submission, masochism, fragility and inferiority (and enjoy it!). Many AAPs do the same, however they often prefer to be the dominant and masculine, and regard womanhood/femaleness as disgusting, inferior, and humiliating... when you realize what AAPs regard womanhood as, and contrast it with how many blackpillers regard womanhood, it is hard to not see similarities."

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I'll always have much more respect for self aware agp/aap trans ppl then the deniers and the copers

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so gc!!!!

"Just as many AGP transwomen associate womanhood with submission, masochism, fragility and inferiority (and enjoy it!). Many AAPs do the same, however they often prefer to be the dominant and masculine, and regard womanhood/femaleness as disgusting, inferior, and humiliating... when you realize what AAPs regard womanhood as, and contrast it with how many blackpillers regard womanhood, it is hard to not see similarities."

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Tell that to all the self identified aaps and agps 🤷‍♀️ I thought we respected identities around here....

"Just as many AGP transwomen associate womanhood with submission, masochism, fragility and inferiority (and enjoy it!). Many AAPs do the same, however they often prefer to be the dominant and masculine, and regard womanhood/femaleness as disgusting, inferior, and humiliating... when you realize what AAPs regard womanhood as, and contrast it with how many blackpillers regard womanhood, it is hard to not see similarities."

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Trans ppl have found the why I'm not a female separatist post which is actually so crazy to me

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tumblr is ground zero for something i like to call soft mens right’s activism (or uwu mra) and it makes me want to tear my hair out

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I cannot stress enough how important it is to do silly, frivolous things that serve no other purpose than making you happy.

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why am I finding out from REDDIT that Trump removed guidelines instructing hospitals to perform emergency abortions to save a woman's life in America over a week ago

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I'm happy you found it interesting!

I don't think all blackpillers are AAP, or that its the only factor. I just think it's something interesting to note, one of the motivations for some to hold the beliefs they do.

Sarah Blaffer Hrdy says something similar about how agriculture pushed patriarchy, you may find her interesting. She is one of my favorite evolutionary anthropologists.

"More important, patriarchal ideologies that focused on both the chastity of ­women and the perpetuation and augmentation of male lineages undercut the long-standing priority of putting children’s wellbeing first. Customs such as sequestration of ­women, chaperoning, veiling, and suttee took a huge toll on ­women, but they also took a toll on children. With settled lifestyles, intervals between births were already growing shorter. At the same time, the need for competing clans to outman rivals put even greater emphasis on large numbers of heirs, particularly males. The fecundity of ­women took priority over the health or quality of life of any individual child. Conventions that kept men separated from ­women and children discouraged the development of the nurturing potentials of fathers, depriving children of yet another source of allomaternal care."

-Mothers and Others

I used that blog just bc it seemed comprehensive, and it did link several studies as sources. I think this table and study is very useful.

This description from he book The Lifeways of Hunter Gatherers is also useful. (I have this book myself, I could post excerpts from it if you are interested?)

I'm not sure if I would call blackpillers pick-me, I dislike the term by itself but also it's usage is supposed to be about women who want men to "pick them" Blackpillers are just misanthropic and conceited, they hate men too.

When it comes to fetishes/paraphilias, I think they are innate OR that their is an innate predisposition that makes some people very likely to form them. Autism seems to be one of these innate predispositions, especially in males.

https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.31887/DCNS.2017.19.4/dschoettle

This study has some percents of autistic ppl who said they have a paraphilia. 30% of autistic males said they had an interest in pedophilia....

There are also studies examining how paraphilias can run in families

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3658696/

I am happy to expose you to new ideas 🩷 tysm for the feedback!

"Just as many AGP transwomen associate womanhood with submission, masochism, fragility and inferiority (and enjoy it!). Many AAPs do the same, however they often prefer to be the dominant and masculine, and regard womanhood/femaleness as disgusting, inferior, and humiliating... when you realize what AAPs regard womanhood as, and contrast it with how many blackpillers regard womanhood, it is hard to not see similarities."

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Jessica Pin is the clitoris activist woman, and she seems to have a male typical relationship with sex (higher drives, seeking variety, lack of emotional investment). Doesn’t realize she’s an outlier & thinks other women can/should be the same

Thank you for clarifying! And yeah looking at her twitter she does seem atypical

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Why doesn't tumblr embed links in text 😭😭

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