apollodnasty

[apollodnasty]

sometimes you go down the rabbithole of online kink so far you have people being like “you think inner ear oviposition is a ‘weird’ kink? wait until you hear the nasty shit i, a real pervert, am into” and blog posts that are like “it’s so hard to find someone to dig a nine foot deep hole with when all the doms i can find want to dig a five foot deep hole max :/“ and then you remember that a sizeable portion of the population consider liking anal to be freaky

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sometimes i have to make jacking off more sexual intentionally because honestly most of the time it’s just like. idk getting my oil changed but im the car

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sometimes you do forget that the general population doesn't necessarily find a guy cumming prematurely in his pants hot

[apollodnasty]

do it scared. do it whimpering. do it whining and pleading. do it with a raging hard-on

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can i come over and watch it twitch

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dick from a girl who looks at me like im food

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how do intox scenes work? how can you be sure that whoever's intoxicated isnt so out of it they can't say the safeword?

Ive been meaning to answer this! Ok so for me ive only done actual intox with my partner, ive had like tipsy hookups before i was with him, but i wouldn't consider that the same as an intox kink scene. You need to actually talk and establish boundaries ahead of time while sober. You should already know likes and dislikes generally, but its also worth asking while youre both sober if yall want to go along with new things that might come up during the scene. Like maybe when ur sober and not in a kink headspace you dont really love degradation, but for some reason when ur high and in subspace you want it really fucking badly. Ask each other ahead of time if you feel comfortable playing along with a situation like that or if you wanna side step it until you're not intoxicated.

How do you know if theyre too out of it to safeword- 1) start small 2) make them practice

1) dont get super crazy drunk/ high for sex, especially when starting out.

2) literally most underrated foreplay ever is making ur partner practice saying no. Touch them, kiss them, do your standard foreplay stuff, and instruct them to randomly safeword or tell you no. As soon as they do, you stop everything and praise them for it, like "Thank you so much for stopping me, you're such a good boy. Wanna keep going?" And then continue as you were. Have them practice safewording like 3-5 times over the course of kinda intensifying foreplay as a good clarity check. Then signal the "game" is over somehow, like saying "ok, ready to go for real now?" This is fun even just for any new kink endeavor btw (i did this a lot with bondage at first!). Its really just to make it feel less scary for both of u to safeword/ react to a safeword, and build trust that youll actually stop immediately, plus it reminds them its an option even if theyre a lil out if it.

YOU SHOULD DO MUCH MORE RESEARCH THAN READING THIS POST TO RNGAGE IN INTOX KINK IRL PLS GOD ok thanks

[apollodnasty]

i feel like we dont appreciate 69ing nearly enough for how often its talked about!! what do you mean you'll eat me out while i choke on your dick thats so hot!!! totally dont hogtie me there so i have to keep cumming over and over while you leak salty precum into my mouth haha whaaat

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okay but are you going to be understanding if your dom is a little nervous and not as suave as you'd expect their first few times when domming you? are you going to make them feel comfortable enough to slip into the role without making them feel stupid about it? are you going to accept that real sex is not always as rigid as it would seem in text posts or your fantasies and that it is okay if there are some unserious moments in between the intensity? do you understand that we are all just people having fun and we need to be gentle with each other when showing this vulnerability?

[apollodnasty]

Stop buying toys and gear from Am@z0n. Support LITERALLY ANYONE ELSE instead.

This is a repost from my old blog–with updates! Here is a massive list of recommendations of shops across the board. I put an emphasis on queer- or women-owned/focused shops but not all have been vetted or verified. Starred (***) shops are ones I have personally shopped at or my friends recommend. I focused on quality materials and reasonable (but not always cheap) pricing.

You have no excuse to be buying sex toys off of Am@z0n when all of these shops exist. Most Etsy shops offer free shipping on purchases over $35!

GENERAL

Shops that sell a variety of toys, tools, and gear

Stockroom***

The Pleasure Chest***

Good Vibrations

Babeland***

Sugar

Good For Her

Come As You Are

Smitten Kitten

Wet For Her

Early To Bed***

She Bop

Knotty Vibes

New York Toy Collective***

Oxy Shop Shibari

Oh My Butt Plug

SheVibe

STANDARD TOYS

Shops that sell realistic or standard-shaped toys

Tantus Inc.***

GODEMICHE

Uberrime

Portland Toy Company

Seductive Stones TR

Lee Nee Mee Nee

Gem’s Little Pink Box

Dong Deals NY

FANTASY TOYS

Shops that sell fantasy-themed or non-standard toys. Alternatives to B@d Dr@g0n.

Qimera Forge

Twin Tail Creations***

Primal Hardwere***

Fantasy Dangus

Xeno Cat Artifacts

New Folklore Silicone

Strange Bedfellas

Pleasure Forge

Shapely Toys

Sinnovator

Pheonixflame Forge

Northern Fantasy Toys

JoyFlex Toys

Geeky Sex Toys

Lovecrafters Toys

Frisky Labz

Nerd Climax

Bad Wolf PL

Nameless Angel Works

Fantasticocks***

Self Delve

Concocktions

The Crafty Hedonist

Built Up Beasts

Fairy Lust Fantasy

Nawty ToyBox

Wandering Bard Toys***

Senmurv Studios

Deep Fantasies

Wildo’s Dildos

Vaa Char

HC Fantasies

Cultured Fiction Labs

Zlotech

Masterwork Toys

Love Smiths

Neotori Customs and Hoard

Desire Toys

Manufuktory

Top Notch Dongs

LEATHER

Shops that specialize in leather tools and gear

Blue Velvet Leather

Leather or Knot

Decoria Belle

Spill Adornment***

RACK Leather Goods

Harness by Olga Ku

Gestalt Fetishwear

RHEA Leathercrafts***

Xenolux

The Brig Leather Co.

Unicorn Collaborators

Dirty Darlings Leather

Ideologia

Bound Aries Leather

Simply Kink

Leather or Knot

Restrained Grace***

NON-LEATHER

Shops that specialize in leather alternative gear and tools–vegan friendly!

Beastly Bootique

GNAT***

Liquorice And Lace

PlayVegan

Kinky Nerd Toys

LINGERIE

Shops that sell lingerie and other undergarments

Origami Customs***

Gender Bender LLC

Shapeshifters***

GC2B***

TomboyX***

Rebirth Garments***

Carmen Liu Lingerie

JBC Lingerie

PlayOut Apparel

Pyramid Seven

Marco Marco Underwear

Girls Will Be Boys Clothing

RodeoH***

Cantiq

Rogue & Worthy

Create Havoq

[apollodnasty]

just wanna put a prettyboy in a mating press and fuck him stupid 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫…. playing with his clit as i fuck into him, calling him “my good boy…my pretty boy…” over n over again, have him make a mess all over my cock….

…yeah anyway….

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inspection is so hot, like fucking me n cumming in me n then pulling out n holding my legs apart so you can see how wet n puffy i am while ur cum drips out of me. running ur finger over my swollen n sensitive dick.

[apollodnasty]

He’s having a good time. ❤️

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i was gonna ask why everyone's so horny tonight but that happens every night

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So empty not even a big sweaty bear could fill the hole inside of me

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mounting you and starting to hump but like an overly excited dog but i keep missing the hole and rubbing my cock and swelling knot against the entrance