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How To Make Littles Feel Small

•Generally baby them

•Lots of petnames (baby, little one, prince/ss, etc)

•Don't let them do things for themselves (cook for them, tie their shoes, get them their drinks, etc.)

•Do things like hold their hand while you're walking, help them down and up stairs, carry them if you can, etc.

•Tell them how teeny they are. (ex. "You're such a cute little baby", "aw, is someone feeling small", "my little one", etc)

•Encourage their little space. It goes a long way

•Get them their little things. A stuffie, paci, bottle, etc. Anything that helps them feel small.

•Pick out their outfits for them or help them pick out their outfits

•Give them rules or enforce your rules

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💞 ↳˗ˏˋ routine for regressors ˊˎ˗ ↴ 💞

routine to help out the babies who need help! ૮꒰ ˶• ༝ •˶꒱ა - you're doing great!

┊ ˚➶ ｡˚ morning! ☁️

🥛 || make your bed, and make sure to make sure all your stuffies are nice and comfortable!

🥛 || morning self-care! make sure to brush your teeth, wash your face, and take a shower if needed!

🥛 || eat a delicious and filling breakfast to get you ready for the day!

🥛 || time to get dressed little one! pick out a nice little outfit for the day that makes you feel out of this world!

🥛 || if you have to go somewhere little one make sure you have everything and have your shoes on!

🥛 || repeat after me, "today is going to be a good day, I am needed, and I am loved!"

🥛 || daily goal is to be nice to yourself and others!

┊ ˚➶ ｡˚ evening! ☁️

🥛 || snack time! make sure to have a yummy snack today to help with the tummy!

🥛 || time for lunch! have a nice, healthy, yummy lunch so you can keep moving and have enough energy to work and/or play!

🥛 || daily playtime! if you have a break or have free time, take time to have a little fun! you can watch fun videos, play a little game, and so much more! just make sure when playtime's over you clean up if you made a mess!

🥛 || if your day is going south or is stressful, take time to do breathing exercises and remember that you are worth it and the day will be over soon. tomorrow will be better!

┊ ˚➶ ｡˚ night! ☁️

🥛 || make sure all work is done and organized!

🥛 || time for some nightly self-care! have nummy dinner, brush your teeth, take a shower if needed, wash your face, and relax!

🥛 || make sure to go to bed before 10:30 pm! we can't have you staying up too late, you're too small for that!

🥛 || put any electronics down 1 hour before bed unless using them to listen to music for sleep!

🥛 || time to get comfy little one! it's night night time! get your stuffie and/or another comfort item and let's get ready for bed! goodnight!

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Cutest Stuffies $10 and under

Soft purple lamb- $12

Baby Red Panda- $6

Baby Hippo- $8

Brown Stegosaurus- $8

Raccoon- $8

Baby (Hedwig Probably) Snowy Owl- $8

Fuzzy Clown Fish- $8

Barn Owl- $8

Chubby Bat- $8

Opossum with softest face- $8

Pink Octopus Rattle- $8

Llama- $8

It’s a tiny squirrel- $9

Sea Otter- $9

Fluffu Skunk <3- $9

Green Stegosaurus- $9

Triceratops- $9

Peacock- $9

Boxer Puppy- $9

Bulldog Puppy- $9

Deer Fawn- $9

Arctic Fox- $9

Capuchin Monkey- $9

Hummingbird- $9

White Kitten- $9

Siamese Kitten- $9

Persian Kitten- $9

Tummy-up Hedgehog- $9

Bobcat - $9

Piglet #1- $9.5

Piglet #2- $9.5

Piglet #3- $9.5

Bigger Squirrel- $9.5

Super Fluffy Skunk- $9.5

Red Fox- $10

Wolf- $10

Raccoon- $10

Husky Puppy- $10

Corgi Puppy- $10

Jack Russell Puppy- $10

Dalmatian Puppy- $10

Golden Retriever Puppy- $10

Australian Cattle Puppy- $10

Dachshund Puppy- $10

Chihuahua Puppy- $10

German Shepard Puppy- $10

Great Dane Puppy- $10

Bichon Frise Puppy- $10

Beagle Puppy- $10

Chocolate Lab Puppy- $10

Yellow Lab Puppy- $10

Black Lab Puppy- $10

Pug Puppy- $10

Cocker Spaniel Puppy- $10

Lion- $10

Manatee- $10

Rainbow Lion- $10

Pink Whale- $10

Green Baby Dragon- $10

Pink Baby Dragon- $10

Moochy Faced Stingray- $10

Fox Rattle- $10

If any of the links are broken please let me know so I can update them <3

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Perfect place to watch Disney movies or shows:

http://kisscartoon.me/

this website has basically every cartoon or animation, for FREE!

yes, for FREE! no ads either. it has all the princess movies from Disney and ahhhhhh i love this website! 

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I’m honestly so sad right now. Like, I’m engaged. I love him. But.. in little space it’s more like having a babysitter than it is a Daddy.

And we’ve TALKED about it. And talked about what I need. But it’s just never consistent and that’s what I need.

And it’s so depressing to have to beg for rules and punishments and playtime and routines like..

Am I just never going to be able to have what I need?

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Things that little girls can like too:

-rocket ships 🚀

-dinosaurs 🦕🦖

-toy robots and cars 🤖🚕🚒

-aliens 🛸👽

Things that little boys can like too:

-flowers 💐🌷🌼

-fairys and mermaids 🧚‍♂️🧜‍♂️

-unicorns 🦄

-bows and ribbons 🎀

-painting their nails 💅

-dresses and heels 👗👠

Age regression doesn't have to follow gender roles! little boys, girls, or anyone in between can like all kinds of things!

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It’s sad because I don’t think I could be with someone who doesn’t at least try to understand my regression. Or at least try to learn how to support me or encourage me. And that makes me feel like I’m bad because while my regression is a part of me, a big part of me, I shouldn’t base my relationships or potential relationships off of that feeling alone, right?  (How do you show someone you’re not difficult just cause you’re small?)

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💕 How to Be A Good Caregiver to Yourself💕

Since not all of us have one!

💙Understand your littlespace. Learn your preferences, likes, favorite movies and foods. Being aware of these things can help you plan how to keep yourself in littlespace.

💚Spend some time prepping. Set aside snacks or drinks where you can get it later when you regress. Take out toys that are tucked away so little you can get to them easily.

❤Make a playlist of songs you like in littlespace. If you only listen to these songs when in littlespace, they may help you regress or stay regressed.

💙Use bookmarks. Bookmark tabs with videos and games little you will like so you can easily access them when you're smol.

💚Keep your gear clean. Clean sippies, bottles, teethers and pacis after each use. Diaps need to be thrown out after use. Stuffies, blankies, and toys should be cleaned occasionally. We don't want babie getting sick!

❤Try recording your voice reading caregiver posts, saying comforting things or reading a children's book for you to listen to when little. If your voice doesn't work, ask a friend to record themselves reading a kids' book

💙Buy toys that talk to you. Toys that sing, talk or interact with you can make you feel like someone else is there, even if they're a toy. Bonus points if they're soft and cuddly!

💚Don't force yourself to regress. Let your little out when you feel safe, but don't make yourself if you're not comfortable. Don't push yourself.

You don't need a caregiver to regress or be an age regressor, so don't stress yourself out over it! Regression is supposed to make you feel good!

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Okay, but like does anyone else get anxiety about being little with their partner? Like my boyfriend is still v new to it, and he’s down, but I’m anxious about asking for things I really want. And he’s very like sweet to me, but he pulls me out of baby space a lot, and I find it hard to ask for things like rules or discipline or playtime. Idk. Idk.

Like Ik I’m traumatized from past situations but I feel like if I really communicate what I need, it’ll be a mess. I just wanna be a baby but I’m so anxious all the time.

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Really having issues regressing in a way that doesn’t make me panic from guilt after an abusive relationship where he made me feel like a freak, and I just want someone to talk to who understands agre.

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Why I need regression

Big me: *is too depressed to take care of myself or treat myself right*

Little me: *brushes teeth “because daddy said to”, eats healthy food so they can go to the party in my tummy, takes a thousand pictures of myself because I’m cute and happy when I’m tiny*

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It’s sad because I don’t think I could be with someone who doesn’t at least try to understand my regression. Or at least try to learn how to support me or encourage me. And that makes me feel like I’m bad because while my regression is a part of me, a big part of me, I shouldn’t base my relationships or potential relationships off of that feeling alone, right?  (How do you show someone you’re not difficult just cause you’re small?)

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this is so me

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Painful regression

Sometimes, regression isn’t cute dresses and stuffies and a loving caregiver

Sometimes its sleepless nights with an aching heart for a childhood that was never yours

Listening to lullabies and children’s songs with tears streaming down your face, longing for something so tantalizingly familiar but completely unreachable

Not wanting to act like a baby, but to be one, in the eyes of everyone, not just your own

Chewing your pacifier or silicone teething necklace to shreds, not to be destructive, but to accomplish that feels real, tangible, an achievement, only to be left with aching jaws and no soother

Downloading kids games to your phone to play when the only other option is disassociating Into nothing

Forcing yourself to brush your hair because no one is going to do it, and it needs to be done

Making yourself a warm drink and crying into it because you’re sure the chance to be little again would make you feel this warm

Understanding when caregivers or friends are busy and reminding yourself that you aren’t a burden for being little but you sure feel like it and that feeling wont go away

Crying

Crying

Trying

Crying

Stuffies are absorbent

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Baby Rule #1

If I say “I baby” then I don’t have to do any work. That’s a rule.