When your partner has a praise kink but you're Montessori trained so you know that praise is an ineffective way to encourage development and it's much more productive to acknowledge their effort so that they learn to effectively give themselves feedback so they can develop a healthy intrinsic motivation instead of deriving their self worth from labels put on them by other people .... "baby it's amazing how much you could last today compared to last week"
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here is the life i've always longed for.....!!
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love you red love you red wings love you winged red person love you little red dog love you geryon love you ancash love you volcano love you red singlet with white letters that read tender loin love you belugas floating in the moonless tank at night love you maria love you red winged loveslave love you dickinson #1748 love you evil whitman love you lava man love you lava bread that makes you passionate love you photographs love you stesichoros love you red meat appendix love you geryon love you geryon love you geryon
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Literally what did olivia laing say about loneliness leading to more loneliness. Loneliness being so repulsive that people sense it from you and stay away. Crazy crazy
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I miss everything and will never get any of it back. whatever
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The Garden of Palàcio Fronteira, Lisbon-Portugal.
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im Feeling very sorrowful i Am going to drag hector’s corpse around patroclus’ funeral mound for 3 hours to calm down
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Grouchy Simplicity
Fran Lebowitz by Caterine Milinaire
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everything i like about people's behavior is human nature and everything i don't like about people's behavior is capitalist brainwashing. this political economy shit is easy
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PJ Harvey, Nick Cave, 1995
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Fran Lebowitz, 1975 by Peter Hujar
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