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is this blog still active? 🤡

Yes! But barely. Not enough serotonin to go around for more than one blog atm. Y’all can head over to my main @daincrediblegg for the time being I keep that one up pretty regularly

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bruh the imagine your f/o prompts with examples of speech hit different when WOA is your love language like, can you IMAGINE your f/os say some of these things??

Like, ok watch and visualize along with me for a second:

"Is that you, love? Oh, you're finally home!" [pulls you closely and whispers gently] "I was hoping that I wouldn't have to wait any longer...Seems like my wish was granted..."

"I was hoping to get your opinion on this...It looks good? I'm so happy to hear that! I knew I could count on you, babe!"

"I just can't stand to be without you. Every second you're not here is torture! I want you with me...all the time. Don't go anywhere, okay?"

"They did what to you?! Alright, that's it! No one is allowed to treat you this way! Let me at 'em! I'll kick their ass!"

And of course the classics:

"Your smile, your touch, your eyes....Everything about you is what makes me heart beat. You're everything I adore, darling. I love you."

"Everytime I feel down, I always know what to think about. It's you, of course! There's nothing else that makes me smile. I love you!"

"Heh, you're making that cute face again. It's not like I mind it. In fact, it's one of the many, many reasons I love you."

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Sometimes you might feel like you're not "good enough" for your F/Os. Like you don't deserve them.

That! Is! Not! True!

First off... you are good enough for them. You don't need to be perfect or genius or a supermodel - they fell in love with you for you; the way you smile when they do something you find funny, the way you care for them even at their worst moments. They don't need perfection, they don't need you to be the best at every hour, at every turn, they only need you - whatever that looks like, and however you might change in the future.

Secondly... love never, has never, will never depend on what someone "deserves". Even at your lowest hours, your darkest days, they'll still love you deeply, they'll still look at you with wonder and admiration.

After all - you're the same way with them, right?

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Concept: sleepy kisses in the dark, smiling against your lips.

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A f/o taking care of you series:

Imagine your f/o moisturizing your dry, sensitive hands for you. Gently taking the cream from your hand, pumping some onto their own and massaging both your hands - lathering as many coats as needed for your skin.

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Imagine sitting in a field of flowers with your favorite character on a warm, sunny day. You enjoy the breeze for a long time before lying down, and soon you realize your favorite character has fallen asleep beside you…

You watch them for a while before leaving a small kiss on their lips, and they open their eyes in surprise, blushing. Suddenly, your favorite character embraces you and pulls you onto them to return your kiss.

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Ideas on how to connect with your f/o 💋

Make a playlist for your f/o - use spotify or youtube.

Re-watch their scenes.

Write a fanfic about them and post it online.

Write poetry for them and post it online.

Draw the two of you together if you’re an artist.

Write a song about them, imagine yourself singing it to them.

Look at pictures of them, perhaps save them as your lockscreen/wallpaper.

Purchase their merchandise.

Create all kinds of headcanons for them. They don’t even have to fit their canon story- because canon doesn’t have to matter or exist!

Read other people’s headcanons about your f/o. 

While lying in bed, imagine them curled up next to you, perhaps spooning you and whispering sweet nothings into your ear. Picture them talking about their day as you fall asleep. Bunch up some blankets or place a pillow behind you to make it feel realistic. Imagine them kissing your neck and sighing as they inhale your scent.

Imagine taking a shower with them. Picture them standing behind you washing your hair.

Plan dates in your head, picture how they’d unfold. Think of questions you’d like to ask them so you can get to know them better.

If you need to reconnect with your f/o, imagine new headcanons or decide to take things to a higher level- Engagement, marriage, moving in etc.

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Reblog if you’re ok with receiving random letters from your f/o(s) via anon messages!

That way other self-shippers will know that you’re ok with it and won’t have to awkwardly wonder “is this creepy or will they enjoy it?” :’D

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Y’know the chivlary thing where they kiss your hand. Yeah.

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i hope i can bring you all the happiness you will ever need; i want to wash all of your insecurities away. please, i want to be the one you choose to let do these things. i hope i’m the one you will allow to wipe your tears, the one you let to take care of you when you’re sick, the one you will crush as you sleep on top of me. i want it all, every last bit of it 💕

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Imagine your F/O seeing you so sleepy that you’re barely able to keep your eyes open and stay awake. How do they react? Do they try and help you wake up or do they try to convince you to rest?

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Hold me… hold me closer and closer to you…

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““I’m lonely,” he says aloud, and the silence of the apartment absorbs the words like blood soaking into cotton. He is so lonely that he sometimes feels it physically, a sodden clump of dirty laundry pressing against his chest. He cannot unlearn the feeling.”

— A Little Life, Hanya Yanagihara (via juderagnarsson)

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“This is my simple religion. There is no need for temples; no need for complicated philosophy. Our own brain, our own heart is our temple; the philosophy is kindness.”

— (via goodreadss)

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imagine your f/o knowing your body in every single state. knowing what your skin feels like both smooth and unshaven, knowing what your stomach feels like first thing in the morning and knowing what it feels like at the end of the day, knowing how your hands feel when they’re clammy and cold and knowing how they feel when they’re soft and warm, knowing what your eyes look like when you’re happy and when you’ve been crying, knowing every scar and freckle and mole and stretch mark and dip and bump and curve. imagine them having you completely memorized and not thinking one negative thing about any of it. imagine them feeling content with the familiarity of your body next to them, completely accepting of every inch of your physical form.