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It's nothing that hasn't been said before but now it's my turn to say

if you are a cis boy who is following me and a dozen other transfem blogs and are attracted to us in a weird way that you can't exactly quantify and have a weird everpresent guilt that doesn't seem to go away but also doesn't seem to actually have a source every time you interrogate it

maybe you should try estrogen. Just for a month or two. It doesn't have to be committal. Just see how it feels. Who knows, you might discover that you really enjoy being a girl

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incase it wasn’t clear - i am and my blog is anti-terf 👍

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One fun thing that has come from my now ex girlfriend breaking up with me is that I've realized that there was a few things I should not have put up with I mean hell, one of the things she said to me when I came out to her was straight up "It feels like you killed my partner" At the time I dismissed that, justified it in my head because I didn't want to believe that that'd be her response to me coming out specifically I told myself that it was because her and I hadn't talked much in the prior 3 months (whole nother story), that I had changed in some other way that upset her or something... But looking back, I don't think I did. The only major change I can think of was just me realizing I'm trans And going back further, to the first time I questioned my gender, she told me that I couldn't be trans, that I was "too boy-brained", that it was just a kink or a fetish, that there was no way I'd actually want to live my life as a woman And I believed her And I cried over that because it felt like I was never going to get to have this thing I wanted And when I told her a couple days later that I couldn't shake the feeling of "but what if?", she accused me of being stubborn and unwilling to let go of "an option", that it was actually kinda misogynist of me to decide I had to be a woman because I wanted to wear skirts and dresses She told me that I was allowed to just be a boy who wears skirts sometimes And I cried again, because deep down, I knew I didn't wanna be a boy of any type, even if I didn't realize it at the time But what she said to me still ended up stopping me from realizing that I was in fact a woman for a couple years And she claimed she was just trying to protect me, that she didn't want me "making a mistake that I'd regret" and hurting myself in the long run... But hey, I'm free of her now and working on processing all this shit and more and I've never felt happier in my life

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"what's the worst thing you can do as an artist" is not "shade with black" or "not use references" or whatever the worst thing you can do as an artist is hate yourself. and that includes the person you used to be

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wawa!

The chain of wawa will continue.. And you will join us, wawa... 🌸

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How many gifted young "boys" turned out to be puppy girls who don't want to be valued for their intelligence at all anymore? Cause I know it's not just me

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do you feel like you wasted your teenage years?

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Hey has anyone talked about how when neurodivergent people give an apology alongside a justification for their behaviour, it's usually a sincere attempt to explain why they acted incorrectly, but is usually dismissed by NTs as "making excuses" and attempting to escape responsibility

But NTs will often provide an "apology" accompanied by an excuse that absolves them of any actual responsibility in their incorrect action, and then get upset if any ND person points this out

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replace one word of your url with bitch

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100% agree, and seeing as the kerbals already seem to be beyond capitalism, I don't know how much the affini could really change their way of life

When people talk about Affini and what Sci Fi could survive against them, they neglect that there is exactly one sci fi species that the Affini would have no power over : Kerbals

They have 2 stats, Courage and Stupidity. Their entire society is centred around building rockets and going into space. Kerbals are happiest when launching themselves at mach 12 into a planets surface. Their greatest joy and honour in life for a Kerbal is being selected to go live on a cramped probe 50 metres away from falling into the sun.

There is nothing the Affini can provide that would make them happier than flying around their solar system in tin-can rockets and cardboard capsules

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Every now and again I think of this Sarah tweet and just stare into the middle distance.

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the transgender urge to curl up like a small fluffy animal against someone you love’s warm body and make little mewling and sighing and whining sounds as they pet you and praise you for having tried so hard to be human until you fall asleep

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One more joke hate: You may claim to be a woman but biologically you are a featherless biped and thus a man.

Finally a good argument for why I'm actually a man

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Ik someone has made a similar version of this meme but I'm doing it anyway.

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YOU hate JK Rowling!

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💙 Daily reminder to shame and obliterate terfs 💙