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I've rolled my signature blunt, I call it the Stuart Little. It's about the size of a grain of rice and is plenty to get me high. I'm the most fuel efficient drug friend you'll ever have.

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ribbon seal moodboard ⋆｡𖦹°⭒˚｡⋆

inspired by posts comparing them to various desserts

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Im all for accommodating people whenever necessary and possible but also some of you have clearly never lived a day in discomfort in your life and have also never been outside in the real world

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BRING BACK LESBIAN PRIDE

Same day as London Pride – Saturday 5th July 2025 – 11:00am Victoria Tower Gardens South, Westminster (Meet at the Emmeline Pankhurst Statue)

Women only. No men. No brands. No apologies.

WHY WE’RE MARCHING

Because London Pride doesn’t speak for us. Because lesbian visibility is collapsing. Because no one’s coming to save us – so we’re showing up ourselves.

THE PLAN

• Meet at the Emmeline Pankhurst statue • Walk to Parliament Square (short speeches) • Return to the park for drinks and fun • Pub fallback if it rains

No slogans. No gatekeeping. Just lesbians. In public. Together.

WHAT’S ALREADY COVERED

Permits, security, stewards, first aid

Megaphones, banners, flyers

This is entirely self-funded. No salaries. No sponsors. No middlemen.

Want to quietly back it? https://thelcommunity.com/back-us

RSVP NOW

Even if you're unsure, RSVP now. It shows others this space is real:

Sign Up on Meetup

No Meetup account? Use this instead: Quick Sign-Up Form

Coming alone or nervous? Start here: Join the WhatsApp Entry Group

Want to move into the private WhatsApp groups? Become a Member of L Community

WE ALSO NEED VOLUNTEERS

The ground crew is nearly set. We’ve got a few key roles left to fill.

Stewards – walk the route, stay visible Calm presence – arrive early, hold the line if needed

WHEN: 10:30am sharp – same location Quick briefing on arrival. No training needed. Just presence, reliability, and backbone.

Reply to this email or DM in the WhatsApp grouo step in.

50+ women are already coming. Many are arriving alone.

If you’re nervous about coming alone and have a straight female friend who truly gets it – email us first. No masks. Just truth. If you’ve ever asked, ‘Where are the lesbian spaces?’ – This is it. And it only works if we show up.

They erased us from Pride. We’re marching anyway. We move.

Can’t come? Make it louder. Send the flyer to someone who needs to see it. Jenny

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Frogs were had.

Dogs were had.

Also laughed at these socks for a few minutes.

Oh, that's kinda cute! I didn't know there was going to be a Harry Potter shop opening up either. If anyone wants to go, hit me uppp, it's been a while since I've had a chocolate frog.

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Sorry for infodumping about my special interest out of nowhere, you said a keyword and it activated my unskippable dialogue

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found a rock in the kitchen and as I was about to throw it in the trash I thought "wait this is cruel I should let it outside" as if it was a living thing

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My morning glory doesn’t like the wind chime

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i really admire your commitment to real feminist action, but i’m a baby radfem and i don’t have as many resources as some adults :,) do you have any advice for things that might be accessible for me/other girls my age to do? i hate just sitting on tumblr or reading in my room

hi :) I strongly believe that it's really not healthy for young girls (or really anyone if it's to the point of obsession) to spend a lot of time in these online spaces, which can focus very heavily on male violence and the horror of patriarchy. my biggest suggestion to you would be a version of what is my biggest suggestion to all women and girls - do your best to surround yourself with other women who you have fun with. friendship, fun, idea exchange, being in each others lives, this is the core of feminist community. in a passion for friends, Janice Raymond says women together are not women alone.

as far as more general ideas, volunteering at an animal shelter, seeing what events your local library has, starting a book club, starting another social gathering with your interests (video games, cooking, crafts, etc).

feminist activities you can do with friends: fundraising with your crafts or baked goods to make money to send to feminist organizations, making feminist art together, stickering, making and taking food to homeless women

it's always good to learn and feminism is a rich and complex ideology with a lot of texts to explore. but a feminist practice is about being women together figuring out a way to thrive in a patriarchal world

also i'm in a bit of a rush because I'm getting ready to go to a woman's event, so I'm sure other women might have more ideas for you too :)

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kissa you.....

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rapture of the party people

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To never have to rely on a man for anything; there will always be plentiful female-only options. Doctors, mechanics, shopkeeps, etc, and that's not even getting into the non-business side of things.

I, myself, have some of these options now, but it's not true liberation until it's for ALL women.

@ radfems: what is your personal ideal of women's liberation look like?

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I have such passionate opinions about cartoons. I wish my brain latched onto something a little more distinguished but this is what I'm stuck with.

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If you remove the desire to have children from your “must do/life accomplishment” list, I’m realizing how much slower life can be as a result. Like you don’t have to rush to find someone to settle down with or have your life in order by 25 if having kids before x age isn’t a concern.

No wonder we’re all rushing when there’s this time limit.

If you stop planning for children, you have all the time in the world to get your degree, get your license, fall in love, make mistakes, etc. I’m just now realizing how this pressure to have kids is at the core of youth obsession, the aging out of women from certain spaces (especially beauty/aspirational type spaces), and just the overall timeline obsession we have.

If you take kids out of the equation, there are no timelines. Just lives to live. Childfree isn’t just a choice some women make; it’s true freedom from everything our society tells us to prioritize and how to live. Literally none of it matters when having children is never your goal.