Full offense but if you get upset at or no longer support your 오빠 or 언니 (that’s oppa and unnie for those of you who don’t know) because they get in a relationship, you’re not an actual fan. If even the idea of them dating someone makes you upset, you are not a real fan. You don’t really respect who the idol is as a person and you only care about what they can give to you. If this sounds harsh to you, I’m sorry. But the problem lies in you. Especially since relationships are supposed to be a happy, sweet, enjoyable bond between two people. Why would you want to ruin that for someone who you supposedly support?