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Post Partum Depression ain’t got shit on me...🙄
- Tierra 💕
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I went to post partum depression after having Londyn. I was a new mom doing everything by myself. What really got me was when i was trying to breast feed her she wasn’t latching on & my babyfather got so upset he went & bought formula for her. I felt like i failed & he had no faith that i could get her to latch. I stopped eating so i started to lose weight & i felt like everything i did wasn’t up to anyone standards. So yes i did go thru post partum depression.
- Zakiiyah 💕
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Yes I’ve dealt with postpartum and here and still do. While it is getting better, becoming a mother was something I’ve always wanted but I didn’t realize the struggle of giving all my love to one person and no longer having any for myself. Also dealing with a miscarriage after my daughter made things worse because I placed all blame on myself but didn’t have much time to mourn my lost child. It made me even more depressed because I had to be a full time mom and strong for my daughter that was already here. It wasn’t until my current pregnancy that I began taking steps to get over and deal with my PPD. Being a single mother and weighing everything on my chest while being pregnant almost ended the life of my current child and at that point I realized that I had to do daily mediations and find time throughout each day to reflect and evaluate. Also to make short term goals and plan more things so that I would already know what’s next.
- Tianna 💕
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Sex after motherhood.
Since having my daughter, I’ve actually been very sexually active, i feel that I’ve become most comfortable with my sexual preferences after having my child. I’ve come in contact with things that i have limited myself from in the past due to the circumstances. It doesn’t help that I’m milfing all crazy... my snap back was REALLY REAL. I love myself, and i love pleasing myself. After having my child I’ve been really about pleasing me. Sex 👏🏾 after 👏🏾 motherhood 👏🏾 lit 👏🏾 asf! 👏🏾👏🏾
I don’t have trouble being intimate, but i do have trouble showing emotions or being emotional towards any significant other I’ve had after having my child; but never being intimate. 😌
- Tierra 💕
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Host: Have you had any problems being intimate with your significant other since having the baby?
Latasia 💕: Is it sad that I only have a one word answer to this?? Nah ☺️😉😏😜❤️
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At first there were a few problems mostly because we couldn’t be intimate for 6 weeks after having Londyn. My attraction for him started to wither away so after the 6 weeks was up we barely touched one another. He was more into partying & i was more into taking care of our daughter. We didn’t get intimate until after we broke up the first time & he got out of jail when my daughter was 6 months. 3 months without the touch of a woman can really make a man into a horndog lol. Our sex drive was high but after a while it was over i no longer was attracted to him sexually nor emotionally .
- Zakiiyah 💕
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After having Serenity being intimate was very hard for me after a while. At first it was so easy to just want do “it” frequently but then I was so focused on being a mother that for the most part I forgot to be a girlfriend and that really took a toll on my relationship. When you’re a first time mom and this is something you’ve wanted it’s a different feeling, everything else gets put on a back burner including your own personal needs. You have to learn how to find a balance in it all.
- Tianna 💕
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No i havent had any issues being intimate after havin a baby. To keep it 100 with yall i started having sex 4 weeks after i had my son. I needed to make sure it still worked because my whole pregnancy i didnt have sex. It wasnt because i didnt want to but i was attracted to my partner and we were havin issues so i really didnt want him to touch me. Back to the task at hand though, having a baby does not ans should not mean your sex life disappears. even if u dont feel comfortable or sexy, do something that does or allow your partner to do something to make you feel like your the hottest tamale walking. I personally was still poppin it after grey and i didnt even feel sexy alot of the times but i was givin that lil push of you look gorgeous or your so beautiful and boom almost made another baby plenty of times.
- Yonika 💕
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Though being a new mom do presents it’s own challenges I did not experience postpartum. With the great support I received after giving birth I was more happier than ever. Postpartum is real. If you feel sadness or hopefulness speak up. Let your doctor know as soon as you see the symptoms so you can receive the self care you need.
- Ashley 💕
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My mind set has changed 100% since becoming a mom. While I have always been mature and more responsible than most of my peers, having to be responsible for another being has matured me in ways of not being so hot headed. I’ve had to learn to let things go where that’s not usually like me. All my long term goals have become my short term goals in order to give my kids a better life now instead of waiting and prolonging things further.
-Tianna O.
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Since becoming a mother my mind set has changed. No longer am I worried about the next party happening, or drinking and hanging out late. My main priority is my son. He comes first now in my life. I feel like the world revolves around my baby and everything else around me can wait.I’m more concerned with his happiness than my own or anyone else. For my son I have changed for the better. I cut back drinking so heavy like I use to before he came in the picture. I’m still trying to eat healthier for him so I can be in his life as long as possible. My goals for the future hasn’t really changed, I’ve always wanted to be successful in life. I can say that having my son pushes me to complete that goal sooner rather than later. I know that I want to add to my family so I need to grind,grind, grind. With my son King there to motivate me I’m absolutely sure all my goals will be accomplished.
Ashely V.
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my mindset has completely changed since bwcoming a mom. I more so now think about how my actions are going to affect my son and his livelihood. Im more mindful if how i present myself also. Before being a mom i legit didnt care, it was either you like me or you dont, we friends or u an enemy. Its still kinda that way but im more open to giving people chances to know and learn me before appointing them as a friend or foe. My future goals and mindset have also change because im now thinking of how ima set my son up to be a wealthy man and not just how ima get rich so i can be a house wife. My main focus now is making sure my son has all the tools and know how to become the greatest he can become.
Yonika M.
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