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Elena vs Katherine

In the TVD books, Elena kills Katherine.  Katherine was going to kill Stefan and Damon, so Elena took off her daylight ring(?) so that she could get close enough to Katherine to yank her daylight necklace off.  I think they went up in a ball of fire. When I read that, I nearly fell off my chair.

There was no need for Stefan to die and for Bamon to not happen.

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So, Someone’s dying on TVD Series Finale!

I sincerely wish it to be Elena Gilbert, but it’s probably going to be either Bonnie or Damon :|

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Don’t you find it funny that with each Bonnie ship that comes along, that fans of that ship will go on about how their fave male character is better for Bonnie (because they ship Delena or because of the Elena factor) and they are so sure of that.  Yet time and time again they need validation or to prove this to Bamon fans....

Like coming into the Bamon tag and writing long lectures and metas on why they ship Bonnie with *insert male characters name), why *insert male characters name* is better for Bonnie over Damon.  Writing metas bashing Damon/Bamon while uplifting their fave male character/ship.  And telling is why they ship whoever.

It always happens and Bonenzo being the latest ship with their Stans needing to prove something to Bamon fans.  JP giving them their ship and writing for Bonnie to lose her mind/self confidence/self worth and everything to uplift Enzo ain’t enough, they need Bamon fans approval/validation too.

The power of Bamon and the Bamon fandom for a ship that some claim will never happen.  Bamon may indeed never happen, yet the Bamon fandom has left our mark on the TVD fandom and JP.

No matter what other Bonnie ship that there is Bamon fans are always looked to, in order to ship it and support any new ship that comes along. or for fan wars to be started.

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Delena isn’t right-Bamon is!

 NOTE: Major Non-Delena Post!

If Damon says he truly loves her, well, maybe he likes the idea of being married, etc. But I don’t feel that he can truly handle it. How is he, of all people, going to be human again? First of all, anytime he’s frustrated or upset, especially with Elena, he goes out and kills two people! Remember when he killed Aaron in season 6? Or in season 7, since he was so heartbroken over the fact that he would not see Elena for many decades, and thinking that he accidentally killed her, he ambushed an innocent person, got in their car, and killed them! By the way, his humanity was still on while this was happening.

And even Stefan tells him that is he that dependent on Elena holding his hand, that he can’t even function without her? This isn’t love-it’s infatuation. He’s mostly in love with the idea of being in love with her, the same way he was with Katherine. Now, Katherine does later admit that she did love both of them after all, but had a preference for Stefan. Why? She saw that Damon was too desperate-and obsessed with her. In season 5, as Katherine was aging and dying, on her death bed, what does Damon do? He mentally torments her, and says that she’s deserved all the suffering she underwent in her life. Yes, you can grow to hate an ex, but is it possible for an ex you were unhealthily obsessed with for 145 years? No. Elena is really the replacement for Katherine.

That leads me into the next topic: why Bamon was a better ship. With Bonnie, he truly learned what love was. He had the will to become a better person, and was able to live without her standing right by him. Because she was always in his heart, and that’s what mattered. He felt belonged with her, and he could be himself. Bonnie and Damon made each other better people. Damon could not resist Silas’ compulsion against Elena, yet he could sacrifice so much for Bonnie.

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Bonnie burning herself over Enzo is not out of the ordinary, I mean didn’t she literally die to bring Jeremy back? And didn’t she basically put Damon before herself so that he could get back to mystic falls when they were trapped in the prison world?

Bonnie is constantly sacrificing herself for the people she loves, the only time she was really selfish and chose herself over someone else was when she trapped Kai in the the other prison world.

And didn’t Bonnie say that Damon was stuck with her in season seven? Well look at them now, distant very distant.

All this you’re stuck with me bull that she was yelling at Enzo doesn’t mean a thing. Doesn’t mean shit to me 🌚

Bonnie’s relationship with Enzo is obviously a pity relationship because no one truly gives a fuck about Enzo and we all know Bonnie was always for the under dog. Everyone’s so focused on Damon so Bonnie feels like she needs to focus on her pity bf so that he doesn’t feel alone 😂😂😂

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Preach

I’m not fighting with people over Bozo in the Bamon tag. 

I’m not here for people trying to play the “why can’t you be happy that someone wants to be her” like what. the. actual. fuck?

Go away with your bullshit rhetoric please go away.

Since when should we settle for piss when you want your character to be treated right and not being used and abused or being in a relationship where she don’t have any self respect or self esteem anymore for that man but that same man won’t act that way for her or even kill himself for her? 

I don’t even want her to have him to do this to prove that he is worth shit to her, nope, because respect and love should be enough to begin with. But since he treated her like shit at first, I expect something more than him destroy the only relationship she got that was worth her thinking she was actually worth being put first just because that guy couldn’t stomach to see people happy. Do you think I will forget how Enzo to make himself important said to her Damon abandoned her and push her to not read the letter. HE did this out spite and then force himself in her life by kidnapping her? Then when she decided she wanted to die already, he didn’t even try to save her, he was like okay to let her die until Damon search the shit out of a way to save her but okay.

But now she tries to set herself in fire but I have to be cool with that shit? And be okay because “oh look that random white dude want to be with her so you have to be okay with this even if she is acting he is her world and should die if he dies” but that same guy will continue to live if she dies? What the actual fuck?

I refuse. You hear me, I fucking refuse. I’m never praising that asshat of Enzo. I’m never going to settle for this bullshit. And don’t expect praise from us in here.

You ship Bamon and Bozo good for you, use the proper tag, better use the Bonnie Bennett tag but don’t tag Bamon, it has nothing to do with Bamon, you just want us to feel bad because we don’t support every single nonsense ship Bonnie is involve, it’s like when Kai tortured Bonnie and Bonkai shippers were all over our asses. I’m not here for this shit. 

If you want to take this bullshit relationship, good for you but please don’t bother in the Bamon tag.

LET US BE ALREADY.

I swear to GOD go away. 

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The suggestion that Bonnie moved on and found someone better in her relationship with Enzo is…it’s just false, lol…

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Another Disappointment of a Episode

You guys… I don’t know where to stop , yeah I said STOP. I’m officially ready to give up, let’s recap… Episode 1: We found them, oh they don’t want to be saved. GREAT! Episode 2 Delena 2.0, Damon is lose. GREAT! Episode 3: Finally something about Bonnie. WRONG CHOICE. EVEN BETTER! Episode 4: She devil’s life story. BORING! Episode: Weak Elena 2.0 , Damon is lose. Cade. IM OVER IT ! Episode 5 : Caroline’s kids. Damon is lose. NO!

Now Dear Writers,

I understand you guys are mentally ill, retarded stupid and so on. But is it not obvious you guys are 40 and older. In my book , on the verge of death. So I say let’s make this easy , just retire get some , say YOUNGER writers, perferably TVD fans that haven’t gave up yet. We have 11 more episodes left and all you dumb asses did was make half your fans log out 30 minutes into the show. Cause you don’t know what the fans want. Delena happened, Bonenzo happened . We were excited but you just made us hate them even more. And ENOUGH WITH THE STEROLINE ! We’ve seen to much of it into the pass 5 episodes here are other ships , cringy but other ships.

We the fans want the Bamon, the one relationship out of 2 that isn’t poisonous, is healthy and the one ship that could ,if it could get through your thick skulls. to happen . We want dullena and the most depressing Gilbert to not be mentioned in every episode. She’s Gone , she Quit , she is DEAD, and BYE! I don’t see what is so hard about not hiring Nina lookalikes to play important roles. Cause guess what Kat and Candice are still here. And Candice isn’t just some sappy , half momish figure that is engaged to the brother that doesn’t know when to give up on the brother that stole his girl twice, went rouge about 1 trillion times and is hell-bound. Bonnie is the figure that demonstrates strong and hope , you just made her into vamp Elena 2.0 , sad , depressing and male dependent. You writers , YOU FULL OF SHIT WRITERS RUINED TVD FOREVER !

- I’d like to see you try and fix it now.

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so we didn’t get bonkai and now we ain’t getting bamon either do i seriously live in a world where people are so stupid and clueless??? so you would force down people’s throat a bunch of different totally not worth it temporary ships and waste screentime but you wouldn’t give a chance to a ship like bamon that people have been rooting for since season one or a ship like bonkai that immediately captured people’s attention and thanks to which your season kind of wasn’t the piece of shit it would have been otherwise logic and common sense??? none!!! respect and appreciation of your fans who put up with all your bullshit for years? non-existant!!! i just can’t wrap my head around this reality no matter how hard i try. like i just can’t accept this fuckery and pretend i’m calm and indifferent. in fact, i refuse to be calm and indifferent. some would say that this is just a tv show, but things aren’t really that simple just because you want them to be or it’s easier for you to believe so. what you’re telling me is that they would randomly bring klaus back so he can have random sex with caroline because the klaroline fandom is huge and because they deserve at least some kind of “closure”, but for so many years we didn’t even get a kiss on the cheek?? well, guess what, if you ever count every single person who’s ever shipped bonnie with another character, you’ll realize that the bonnie bennett fandom is just as huge as klaroline’s and delena’s. but oh hey i forgot that some of us are privileged and others not, i forgot that some people’s opinions matter and other’s not.

also, don’t get me wrong. i do appreciate bonenzo. but let me tell you something my problem with bonenzo is the same one i had with delena both of these ships are forced also, another very important thing to me is that i always felt like damon fell for/chose elena because katherine was no longer an option same thing with bonenzo - bonnie chose enzo because damon wasn’t there they both settled for what was easier for them for what was safer, not for what they craved in the first place because they felt hurt, they felt drained and tired so they chose the path that would spare at least a little more their hearts and what was left of them some would say that damon winning elena over wasn’t an easy task oh yea, really? but guess what, he’s been trying to earn katherine’s affection for hundred years and some and he still didn’t succeed. so ask yourself now what seemed easier to him

people act as if damon fighting to earn elena’s love was such a big deal and such a long journey but it was not. four years are nothing to a vampire, in fact, this drained her more than it drained him damon actually started developing any serious feelings for elena the moment he realized katherine wasn’t in the tomb and elena just happened to be there so all his feelings for katherine were transferred to elena same thing with bonnie when bonnie was alone and disappointed enzo happened to be there the problem with damon is that he feels too much and he needs a container for his feelings where to put them otherwise they get scattered and he becomes reckless elena was it while bonnie refuses to be it and because of that right now he is completely out of control like he’s never been before because he saw bonnie with enzo, he saw that this would have been him he saw that he ruined what they had together and it’s never going to be the same because of him, he saw that bonnie is done dealing with his bullshit then she chose to save enzo instead of him, and this was his ultimate undoing now he’s stuck with all these feelings he has for her but he doesn’t want to nor knows how to deal with them because he feels like the person they belong to won’t want them back anymore the truth is that damon is the way he’s because inside his head he believes he lost what he used to have with bonnie and she was his last and only hope, the spark that kept him going

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Bonenzo is so toxic omg I can't even !!!! They are DULLENA 2.0 ffs !!!!

Bonnie was ready to burn herself alive over a man coz she feels worthless without him and her life is all about him. She didn’t even go to Tyler’s funeral (her childhood friend since forever) because she was babysitting Enzo and she has no life outside of him. I saw the synopsis of ep 7 and Bonnie won’t be at The Christmas Eve dinner with everyone coz like always she misses all the events and I bet she will be babysitting Enzo AGAIN.

It’s DE 2.0. like I said with Elena blowing herself up with Damon without a care in the world for her brother Jeremy in s5 and in s6 she took drugs to hallucinate Damon coz she couldn’t leave without him and she became a monster. It’s not “true love” or “epic” or “romantic” people !!! It’s selfishness, abuse, codependency, obssession and toxic and unhealthy af !!!

True Love is supposed to make you a better person and embrace life not make you the worst version of yourself and embrace death.

BE and DE bring the worst out of each other and people wonder why I want Enzo away from Bonnie he is destroying her character. The badass Bonnie who is strong and powerful with Damon is so weak and pathetic with Enzo. Why is she allowed to be the best version of herself only with Damon? She doesn’t even value herself or her own life because of Enzo and it’s pissing me off. That’s why I won’t be sorry when Enzo dies.

They assassinated Elena’s character for DE and they are doing the same with Bonnie’s character for BE.

I really hope they did DE and BE this ugly because they want to show it’s not okay to be in a toxic and unhealthy relationship where the woman needs to put her life in danger and bend all her morals and beliefs again and again to be with a dude. Bonnie is so ooc since s7 ep 18 I barely recognize her.

I need strong and badass Bonnie Bennett back !!!!

I really hope it’s a sign Bamon is endgame coz THEY ARE AN HEALTHY AND EPIC RELATIONSHIP. They bring the best out of each other and Damon values Bonnie’s life so much that he makes Bonnie values her life too. He puts her first and makes her feel powerful and worthy while Bonnie inspires Damon to be a better person without even trying because “he admires her, believes in her and loves her.”

BAMON IS LIFE WHILE DE/BE ARE DEATH.

I really hope it means Bamon is on his way to show people how an epic, healthy & happy relationship looks like. I need 1994 Bamon fluff back on my screen but as a couple this time.

God bless Bamon please !!!! Amen.

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Bonnie changed Damon!

The first time you fall in LOVE, it changes you FOREVER and no matter how hard you try, that feeling just NEVER goes away. And that’s what happened with Damon and Bonnie. She changed him! She’s precious to Damon in every way, the sunshine in his day, the joy in his soul and the love of his life. They’re soulmates and they will be endgame!!! ♥♥♥

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Thinking about turning OBD into an episode story 🤔🤔

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You’ve been so many things, Bonnie. A witch, a human, a ghost, a corpse, an anchor to the afterlife, and now the woman who’s gonna kill me. And every time, you come back stronger. Do you know how incredible that is, Bonnie? Do you know much I envy you? […] And if you kill me right now, it’s not your fault. I did this to us. But please, forgive me….before you do what you have to.

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Me

So I was planning to eventually download tvd each week but every time I look in the Bamon tag I’m drowning in the frustration. I don’t think I even want to watch a scene right now. I don’t even want to think about how CD and JP have written Bonnie’s last scene of the series. As a fan of Kat Graham, a Bonnie lover and a Bamon shipper, I hurt. Sigh…

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Over It.

So your telling me that steroline can get fucking ENGAGED, but bamon can’t even get one scene together?!? Racism at its finest.