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Not Letting You Go...

The Day You Broke My Heart..,

Will Be The Day That I Will Never Forget.

I Re-Read Our Old Text Messages Repeatedly,

Just To Reminisce On The Good Times We Had.

We Were Two People Of The Same Kind,

And What We Shared Was Beautiful..,

Now All I Got Is Memories

And A Heart Full Of Pain ): (._.')

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Y does love happen?

Because we need someone so true and special to be wish us, care for us, support and love us. If love was just a word without and feeling, people would miss the chance of experiencing a beautiful phase of life. Loving someone and being loved is the most beautiful gift don’t hurt these lovely hearts that loves you. Never hide your feelings, you may miss the person who suits u the best.

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Un-breaking our Grieving ♥ heart.

 We are all hurting, we are all in pain. Let's come together and hurt a little less. There is something about using the lens of someone else's words that soothe our aching hearts. This is how humans cope. They share and they tell. Even the best of us can only bear so much pain. And, the need to depend on someone else to help us cope with the pain is not new. It is something that has been happening ever since humans exist. Mourning together is cathartic. 

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I_never_thought_i_would_love_u_so_much

कोई तुमसे मेरा नाम जो ले,कह देना पागल

लड़का था,,

इसझूठी दुनिया में मुझसे,जो सच्ची मोहब्बत

करता था,,

मेरे रूठने पे वो रो देता,मेरी डांट पे भी खुश

हो लेता,,

जब सारे साथ छुड़ा लेते,चुपके से साथ

वो हो लेता,,

हिम्मतवाला था यूँ तो पर,मुझको खोने से

डरता था,,

कोई तुमसे मेरा नाम जो ले,कह देना पागल

लड़का था,,

मुझसे मिलने की खातिर वो,बारिश में भीगकर

आता था,,

जिस रोज मैं खाना नखाऊं,उस दिन उपवास

मनाता था,,

कोई और नहीं था उसका बस,मुझसे ही जीता-

मरता था,,

कोई तुमसे मेरा नाम जो ले,कह देना पागल

लड़का था,,

गलती मेरी भी होने पर,माफ़ी की गुजारिश

करता था,,

हर हाल में मैं हंसती जाऊं,इस कोशिश में बस

रहता था,,

मैं कैसे उसकी हो जाऊं,हर पल ये

सोचा करता था,,

कोई तुमसे मेरा नाम जो ले,कह देना पागल

लड़का था,,

मेरे लाख मना करने पर भी,मेरा नाम जोर से

लेता था,,

मेरी एक हंसी की खातिर वो,कुछ गाने

भी गा देता था,,

मेरा हाथ पकड़ दुनिया से वो,लड़ने की बात���ं

करता था,,

कोई तुमसे मेरा नाम जो ले,कह देना पागल

लड़का था,,

मुझसे मिलने से पहले वो,दुनिया में बहुत

अकेला था,,

जब पहली बार उसेदेखा,चेहरे पे दर्द

का मेला था,,

मेरे साथ में थी वो बात की वो,हरदम

ही हँसता रहता था,,

कोई तुमसे मेरा नाम जो ले,कह देना पागल

लड़का था,,

जब नींद मुझे आ जाती थी,वो डांट के मुझे

सुलाता था,,

अपनी पगलाई बातों से,अक्सर वो मुझे

रुलाता था,,

उसका जीवन बिखरा था पर,मेरा ख़याल

वो रखता था,,

कोई तुमसे मेरा नाम जो ले,कह देना पागल

लड़का था,,

कुछ मजबूरी के चलतेजब,मैंने उससेहाथ

छुड़ाया था,,

उसनेनकोई शिकायत की,बस धीरे से

मुस्काया था,,

मेरी यादों में रातों में,उ�� उठकर

रोया करता था,,

कोई तुमसे मेरा नाम जो ले,कह देना पागल

लड़का था,,

वो पागल लड़का तन्हा ही,मेरी यादों से

लड़ता है,,

मेरे बिन जिंदा रहने की,नाकाम वो कोशिश

करता है,,

वो आज भी मुझपे मरता है,वो कल भी मुझपे

मरता था,,

कोई तुमसे मेरा नाम जो ले,कह देना पागल

लड़का था,

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Long Distance Relationship : A Mistake

Long distance relationship hehehe whenever i see something like this or even hear anything of this sort i literally laugh for a moment. The reason is quite obvious as the success rates in these types of relationships depends upon the mutual understanding of each genders which is let's say one in thousands. See, Because of this digitalisation era,Nowadays its quite usual for a boy (I'll go with Boys as i have no idea about the mentality of girls) to get attracted with a beautiful face. Untill there isn't any interaction, the interesting thing here is as boys we always initiate with a Hi or hello as it is bcz we find the other person quite attractive. Now if somehow we manages to trigger a healthy conversation and find out a several things which is quite likeable we fall for them instantly. 😂 I'll say it's natural, Liking someone is pure natural thing for a short span of time untill we completely get to know each other,. So i won't use that we fall in love instantly, It only happens in movies or it only happens when we find the other person interesting enough and that drives us to talk them on an usual basis. Once fallen for them, there is so much of insecurities, we kinda revolve around this insecurities related to her.. That whether i should confess or not. What if she rejects me. What this what that,What will our future be like ?? So many questions. So the very first problem in LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP is the word "INSECURITIES"... somehow we manages to confess and if it's a YES then there comes this "DESPERATION"... Desperation to talk, Desperation to meet and now we start revolving around this word DESPERATION without even thinking for once that there might be possible situation that she is not been able to give her time all the time...... Then we go completly mad and here comes this fear of losing so we become familiar with this word called "POSSESSIVENESS" nd we starts showing off that look there is no one better than me.... Now if not been able to receive a perfect answer the Word "DOUBT" make an introduction in our life and we start doubting at every small things that actually is the reason for her to be happy. Later we become "JEALOUS" as there are others things too that is the reason for her to smile. There comes this uninvited guest i.e..,the word "QUARREL"... Hence we starts fighting for stupid reason and starts hurting each other because the main reason is we are getting out of conversations, we haven't been able to talk as we don't have anything now to talk. We are actually running out of it. So we are "GETTING STUCK IN A RUT". See the thing is, the reason we are giving so much importance to make things work out for us is actually doing the harm in other forms as well, we are neglecting our other relationships. So, We are causing problems to us in both ways, by ruining something that is actually infront of us. "MISCOMMUNICATION", "MISUNDERSTANDINGS" starts to make their presence and we experience this in a frequent basis... See sharing your day to day activities can turn out boring over Social sites. Anyone of you will get irritated after a few months. So miscommunication and misunderstanding are quite natural in this process. Though there is a urge to talk but sometimes what we do we put a stop, "we refuse to talk, we play silent. " It's frustrating, it's starts killing us from inside that why isn't she is replying, why there is a sudden change in behaviour of hers. Dude, the thing is you have lost ur charm, she has experienced all your shit, now there is nothing left to experience except your taunt, ur anger, ur frustration, ur irritating behaviour, and all your negativity that you tried to control over the years. Combining all this the result we experience is in the form of "CHEATING"... Yeah it happens in long distance relationship. You made it happen, Or let's just say she found someone better than you. Congratulations, Now you have officially torn apart urself in pieces as you choose to.