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shout out to all the kids who aren’t good at what they’re passionate about, and who aren’t passionate about what they’re good at

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Reblog with your favorite track off of Clé 1: Miroh, your bias, and sun sign

Mine is “Maze of Memories,” Woojin, and taurus

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reblog if you think chan’s bare face is beautiful because i can’t believe this man thinks he doesn’t look good without makeup on and i want him to know stays think he’s beautiful without it

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some fucking resources for all ur writing fuckin needs

* body language masterlist

* a translator that doesn’t eat ass like google translate does

* a reverse dictionary for when ur brain freezes

* 550 words to say instead of fuckin said

* 638 character traits for when ur brain freezes again

* some more body language help

(hope this helps some ppl)

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Y'all better tag yourself

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Urgent

Hi so im having problems with my mom and shes currently living somewhere else for a bit and wont help me with bills when its her home i still need to fix the heater and do many other things and it’s taking a toll on my body please help me if you can

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THINGS TO BE WARY OF: THE MOMO CHALLENGE

I just heard of this from my brother, whose children are terrified of it. It’s so grotesque.

So essentially, this “Momo Challenge” made its way onto YouTube Kids videos (much like the self harm one you might’ve seen going around). In the same manner, it comes up about halfway through a video, when parents are more than likely not paying attention, and tells the kid they can’t tell anyone about the challenges or their friends/family/themselves will be killed or seriously hurt. Then it gets into the challenges.

They start out simple. Break a toy, make a mess of your room, etc. But then they gwt more and more disturbing. Things like self harm and suicide make their way into the challenges, once the kids have become invested.

And I need to stress this: they aren’t allowed to mention this to anyone under threat of harm or death to the people they love.

My niece burst into tears when my brother asked. My nephew, who’s 13, was scared out of his mind and begged my brother to drop it, because he can’t talk about it.

My brother is cutting his kids off from YouTube, and if you have children, I strongly suggest you do the same. YouTube Kids is no longer safe. Period.

Even if you don’t have kids, please, by god, reblog and share. People are ending their lives. They’re scared senseless. YouTube needs to own up and do something, and until then we need to protect the children.

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You could argue that all people have good parts and bad parts of childhood. And that much is true.

But your bad parts should be like, sometimes feeling you fucked up, or sometimes noticing your parent was a bit upset about something and didn’t react towards you the best way they could. Sometimes feeling like things aren’t best at the moment but you know it’s all going to be alright.

Bad parts should never go as far as you feeling terrified of what your parent might do to you next. It should never be you crying in your room alone because of what your parent did and said to you. 

Bad parts should never go as far as you bending backwards to somehow try to deserve to be good enough and always failing, your effort never acknowledged, your permission to exist as you are never given to you.

Bad parts shouldn’t include violence, threats, slurs and heavy insults.They should never include ultimatums, your paths in life blocked, your desires sabotaged, your resources taken away, you being isolated and feeling like the entire world doesn’t care about you. It should never be as bad as you feeling like nobody in the world could possibly love you.

Bad parts should never go as far as you feeling despised, abandoned, worthless, like things would be better if you were dead.

Whenever you think there were good and bad parts of your parents, remember that when things are this bad, no good parts could ever justify it. Nothing could ever make up for this. And also remember, actual good people would never allow it to get that bad. And your parents were capable of never making it that bad either. There was always a possibility of only treating you good, and never hurting you so bad. If your parents didn’t go for that, they were no parents at all.

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Please everyone, start talking and posting about #JusticeForAteen.

ATeen is a 10 member KPop boy group which debuted this year. Recently 6 of the members have reported that they were sexually abused by the CEO’s Wife from their Company (DS&A)

Not much information has been released because many of the large sites haven’t posted about this story. The group has taken a hault on all activities to fight for justice, even taking over their instagram and deleting their posts on social media, then posting a photo pleading for help and support in their battle.

(These posts were translated, since I do not speak korean, and were confirmed by many fluent/native speakers)

I also included the more informative post that is attached under the same picture in the comments.

The members age range is from 1992-2001. Majority of members being 1996 and under.

Please spread awareness on this issue. Women aren’t only the victims, and it can happen to anyone in any industry.

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hey

hey friend

dont kill yourself tonight ok

you have a really pretty smile and i know its not always easy to manage one but itd be a bummer if we never had the chance to see it ever again

youre really important and you matter a lot so stay safe and try and have a nice sleep

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Abusive parents constantly undermining your accomplishments until you no longer believe in yourself is such a specific and insane experience. You’re going thru life and you’re doing what you’re supposed to do, you work hard, you try to do your best and get acknowledged for at least something, and it’s already hard because your confidence is awful and you don’t feel yourself able of much, but then you do something for what everyone else is celebrated for! You win an award, or you finish school, or you win a contest, or you gain a title, or you learn to drive a car, you get thru a difficult course, you start creating something people like and admire, you get a job, you manage to get something done despite huge obstacles and low resources, you get thru exams even tho you’re all sick and stressed, you actually manage to do all the things your parents were telling you from the day one you wouldn’t be able to do, and then what happens?

Nothing. Your parents skim across it as if it was nothing. They refuse to pay attention to it at all, and act like it didn’t even happen. Or even worse, they immediately create a diversion, some family drama or start celebrating some dumb accomplishment of their own to make it all about them, and completely bury anything you’ve done. If you dare remind them that they acted like you could never do it, they act like you still didn’t do it, you just got lucky, it must have not been hard at all if even “you” have managed to get it done. You see your friends, other people you know, being congratulated, being thrown parties, given presents, patted on the back, being told they’ll go far and accomplish much, them getting it done is a Big Deal! But why not you? How come when you do it, it suddenly doesn’t count? How come when someone else finishes school or a difficult course they’re being regarded as smart and capable, but you’re still proclaimed dumb and incapable of anything? What it is about you that makes even your accomplishment invisible, unworthy of attention of praise, unable to reclaim you from the supposed dumbness and incapability you’re always accused of? What are you supposed to do then, to no longer be stupid and inadequate? And you chase bigger things, bigger accomplishments, maybe if you’re the best, the best of everyone, they’ll be forced to acknowledge you, they wont be able to pretend anymore that you’re nothing. But no matter what you do, it’s just snorted upon, and you’re brutally reminded how you’re nothing, how you wouldn’t even be able to live if your parents didn’t feed you. As if everyone else wasn’t fed by their parents. 

This pushes you either into insane perfectionism and feeling like nothing you do is ever good enough, or into helplessness, no longer wanting to even try anything because it’s painful, and scary to do so much and still not move from one spot. You end up believing what they tell you, that it’s impossible to redeem yourself, that nothing you could do could make you not dumb, not incapable, not unworthy of praise. 

It’s infuriating because the reason parents do this is nowhere near “trying to help you be better” or “because they know you the best and can tell you the truth about you”, most often it’s precisely to put you in the state of helplesness so you would stay dependent on them! They want you in the state of belief that there’s nothing you can do right, and that you’re only alive because of them, and cannot survive on your own, because then they can control you and blackmail you with your life on line! And there’s two more reasons and they’re disgusting, the first is jealousy, abusive parents are actively jealous if their child manages to succeed where they couldn’t! They will readily bury and humiliate a child just to feel better about their own capabilities, to convince themselves that they’re still better, superior, that their accomplishments count more than children’s ever will, they do it to reassure themselves that the child is dumb compared to them, when the reality is everything but. 

And the last reason is, to push the child so far into achievement it destroys the child, but then they can take credit. They can brag to everyone how their child’s incredible results are of parent’s making! They get to act like they’re amazing parents and that’s why their child is achieving high results! If they can, they will even make money and gain fame from a talented child, and if they can’t, then the talent is worthless and should be repressed and insulted for not bringing anything to them.

Your parents lied. Even they know your accomplishments aren’t nothing. If they were nothing, they would never be a threat to them. They would never have to talk them down. They would never try to take credit. They would never spend time convincing you that you’re dumb or inadequate. They would never have to convince you that you cannot live independently. They would never feel the need to out-shine you or to make it all about themselves. Their actions show they knew. They consciously tried to keep you down, not because you were down, but because you were going up. And they didn’t like that.

Even as I write this, I know it wont make it better, not until you get proper acknowledgment, credit, congratulations and praise from people you believe in, you wont be able to believe in yourself. We are social creatures who need social feedback to believe in ourselves. We should get it. And those who deny it to us do not want us good things.

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changbin + 179.07cm

reblog with your stray kids bias and your height I’m trying to prove a point here

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Daydreaming about alternative lives to escape my own has become a coping mechanism which I have internalised so much that it happens unconsciously throughout the day. I’ll be always daydreaming in the back of my head no matter what I do

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Songs 3RACHA Sampled From

3RACHA - The Dreamz : J.Cole - Wet Dreamz 

3RACHA - Complain : Pusha T Feat. 2 Chainz & Big Sean - Who I Am

3RACHA - ₩1,000,000 : Young Money Feat. Tyga & Nicki Minaj & Lil Wayne - Senile

3RACHA - 42 : Post Malone - Too Young

3RACHA - Cloud -9 : Ca$hfromtheb Feat. Lilyoungstunnal - Killas

3RACHA - Don’t Touch Me : Nas Feat. Will.i.am - Hip Hop Is Dead

3RACHA - Bucket List : Taisto Tapulist & Amp; Ällä - Fresh

3RACHA - If (SpearB Solo) : Tajahmad - Best Of Me

3RACHA - If There’s a Shadow, There Must Be Light : Primary Feat. Beenzino - Too Far

3RACHA - Sesame : Aminé - Caroline

3RACHA - ID:a : Logic - Fade Away

3RACHA - Subway Pt. II : JeterCt - After Surgery Thoughts (Cole Summer Remix)

3RACHA - Cypher I : Tyler The Creator - Yonkers / Travis Scott - Butterfly Effect / Isaiah Rashad - Soliloquy

3RACHA - Wallet Room : Logic - 44 Bars

3RACHA - Alchemistry : 7influential Feat. Truth - These Haters

The only one I couldn’t find was J.One’s Solo ‘I See’

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