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Reblog to donate 1 year of your life to Wisp

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IM FLIRTING WITH A GIRL HOLY FUCK WHAT DO I DO

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hrghh another long and difficult day... TUMBLR!! fetch me a photo of The Fictional Character .....

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me when the fan service services me, the fan

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can’t stop thinking about my friend’s cishet partner who said last night that he doesn’t think anyone is the same gender. god-tier take.

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"I'm fem-presenting!" "My presentation is masculine!" "I present androginously!" well I forgot there was a presentation today and it's too late to put anything together

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me, halfway through listening through a song: hmm this might have otp potential

*restarts song but this time listening with Blorbo Intent

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psst. hey

people who are legal adults who want their tubes tied or top surgery etc etc should be able to do so full stop.

"oh but what if they regret it for the rest of their lives"

okay. so what.

Adults make decisions about our lives, that's what being an adult is. We may decide to get a face tattoo, or quit a promising job, or join the army, or move to another country.

That's practically all we do as adults. We make decisions that effect the rest of our life, and then we live, or sometimes die, accordingly. Maybe i'll spend the rest of my life regretting telling my influential boss he doesn't know his ass from a hole in the ground, but, as an adult, that's the kind of life decision i am allowed to make for myself. And after all, it might be the best thing i ever did. It's my life, and i get to do all the fucking around and all the finding out i want to.

surgical transition, or sterilization, or whatever... is exactly the same. If you aren't going to let a legally adult person decide for themself about that stuff, then you can't let them get a tattoo or move to Florida either

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modern social media should stop offering "sync with your phone contacts to follow them" options and start offering "block all your phone contacts so they never see your account" options

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I did an illustration for Trans Day of Remembrance today at work.

Our little community contains so much anger and grief, but it's because we love each other so fiercely. We remember our dead because their memory keeps us stubborn.

I love all of us today, and I hope you do too.

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I would just like to say that if we’re mutuals you’re automatically my best friend. welcome to my blog get friendshipped idiot

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Oh no, oh no, he is seducing me with his deep passion for his field of study and his genuine joy at teaching people about it

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^ This this this this this this this this

Keeping this here for future reference

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I love it when people tell me about me because I have no idea who I am

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Im not affected by a lot of the liminal space themed scares in stuff nowadays because I love star trek too much. Every single star trek set i find comfort in looks like that

God damn I am calm right now. tranquil as fuck. Mmm dingy carpet smell : - )