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[bisluthq]

is it true Taylor liked tweets poking fun at Joe's mental health struggles? I know she liked and then unliked a post on Instagram, but did she do it on Twitter too? I have hundreds of people blocked there so if it was one of those it might not be showing up for me

I didn’t see anything like that. The Betches post she liked didn’t have the ranking at the start of the carousel so I think she didn’t look properly and that’s a lesson right there. The shadiest thing I’ve seen Taylor like re Joe is that tweet implying Sweet Nothing is inspired by Paul McCartney (which fwiw it well may be since both Joe and Tay are Beatles fans but obviously if it was they were applying it to themselves).

[bisluthq]

I went to the dm website and didn't see the he wrote songs about her article. Where did anon see that? I only saw an article from two days ago saying he supposely listened to the album, and is disappointed but not surprised, that he's not going to react because she really didn't trash him, they don't have any contact and she didn't run the songs through him but he didn't expect her to. Also that he moved on, is focused on work and he knows about her way of writing songs só he's not holding grudges

that’s the article I read also but also not his team lmao because they say fuck all except that People article where they said it’s a personal matter.

[bisluthq]

I don't necessarily believe what deuxmoi said but between that and the rumor about the email, I do think there is some truth there and it's getting twisted and blown up to these crazy stories. like who knows exactly how it went down but it does seem like she basically cut ties with him very suddenly and made sure he got NDA-d within an inch of his life.

that sounds likely lol I do think it was sudden and harsh from her end and I would believe he had to sign NDAs wrt her financials etc. but like also obviously it was a long time coming and she’d preferred for him to just go lol. He just… didn’t.

[bisluthq]

Why would you be disappointed if he’s filming when she tours?//

omg just saw this ask you answered over a year and half ago or maybe more and if this was not a prophecy to some degree i don't know what will be 💀💀

🤷🏻‍♀️

I am a prophet.

[bisluthq]

not the dailymail saying that joe wrote songs FOR taylor…he’s being messy. but i don’t blame him? I think he was thinking she would trash him but instead she basically called him a cuck and wrote a song abt masturbating at the mere thought of the guy she would date afterwards. like it’s quite humiliating?

Joe’s team doesn’t talk to DM (or anyone ever and when they did it was People). This is a source relatively close to Joe (obvi or they wouldn’t publish) but it’s not… Joe. But he was cucked lmao like that’s legit what happened to that homie. Like irl. Bestie got cucked by Matty Healy which is ngl super funny to me, probs less funny to him. Doesn’t mean his team suddenly decided to reach out to DM.

[bisluthq]

no offense but i don’t believe the ‘taylor has anxiety and depression’ stuff. like her life is GREAT, she’s so social, and she is always calm. like there would be signs and none have been seen in 16 years.

lmfaoooooo no. Just no. This is just stupid and untrue and a harmful stereotype to perpetuate (which she has actively been trying to combat, as she should, by being more open about her mental health). You’re just wrong. This is like when a person says 1 + 1 = 3 like I can’t even begin to explain where you went beyond you… don’t know how to do the sum and you’re wrong.

[bisluthq]

It’s kinda hilarious to me that on April 8 2023 (happy birthday Matty) when the breakup news broke swifties and basically the world was completely in shambles, people were crying, they were in denial, mourning Cornelia street, deeply worried about Taylor and if she’ll be okay… meanwhile Taylor was like “freshh out the slamerr🤪😏 I know who my first call will be to😘🥰😜🥵”

it’s not surprising to me because Taylor fucking Swift would never be the dumpee in a 6.5 year relationship. How could ever leave her, darling yk? But who could stay? (Joe could stay but lol that sucked ass at the end).

[bisluthq]

While I do agree that your current partner should be the best sex you’ve ever had, I also believe people aren’t mind readers. So it’s possible that it could start out not being the best sex ever but get there

100% agree lol and I will solidly say my current partner has gotten BETTER (as have I) as we’ve been fucking for the last couple years, not worse - because we listen and we pay attention and we’ve done the masturbating in front of each other thing right and all that and we’ve paid attention to what we’ve done. He knows exactly where and in which order to touch me and he knows when I’m open to penetration and when I’m not, and I know exactly where and how to touch his dick and when he’s open to penetration and when he’s not (neither of us cum from that). We also do spice it up and try new things and sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn’t but it’s always fun to try new stuff.

that said, I will say - he was from the first go the best experience I’ve ever had lol. It’s gotten better for sure (and one day it might stop being that way and I might get bored idk) but like shit dudes the first time I fucked this guy I truly had a cosmic out of body experience lol.

I’m expecting future partners to live up to the hype.

[bisluthq]

I just remembered that during the summer, maylors found that like after the Mexico shows, Sabrina carpenter unfollowed matty and the 1975. and she actually had been following them too, she was a proper fan, had even just before then seen their set at some festival. so now I have the mental image of like, Taylor just like telling her everything in the dressing room.

lol.

[bisluthq]

Yeah but in your defence (relationship hopping) would you ever have your new (latest SO) immediately posting, “feeling happy” and you commenting below saying they make you happy, only due to the mere fact that it’s been like 2 or 3 months tops, maybe 1 month in already launched. It’s so unhinged and no healing prior like, least you don’t do that. If you gotta tell ppl ur happy on ur Insta in a post caption doubtful, and doubt you’re stalking your exes Nat like this person, and or wanting to meet up with an ex “as friends” 🤦

yeah no that's exactly why I'm saying this person is unhinged lol. I don't hard launch online until it's been a year at least because I'm not like convinced it'll get that long and if I hard launched every person I've ever seen like it'd be messy as shit and I just can't be arsed to have such a mess follow me online. I also never say shit like "feeling happy" because ew lol like when I do eventually post like everyone knows that's who I'm with - it's not a surprise. I had a lot of "finally!" comments when I posted my current partner which was well over a year after we'd started seeing each other and after we'd moved in (I had posted his cat before tho when we were just dating but that was like iykyk because I post shittons of cat content like that’s the bulk of my personal Insta is my cats/random cats I come across in my day to day life lol so a recurring cat is a Thing™️ but you’d have to be reading into it or know that it’s his/now my cat to know anything - he was never in the pics). I also don't stalk exes lol that's weird. I do watch and react to stories of ones I'm still friendly with but that's about it and I don't really reply except to say like "congrats!"

that chick you know is bananas.

[bisluthq]

where did dm say people harassed joe on a date? i can’t find it on her insta

in her pod lol and they didn’t harass him per se. Him and his date sat down at the communal table at a restaurant and the people next to them were Swifties and started asking him stuff about Taylor and his date - who the eyewitness assumed was more of a gf than a casual date - got really upset so Joe and her got up and left.

[bisluthq]

What’s your perspective/views on people who relationship hop and hate being alone? This girl I know literally was in a situtationship (mind u she was in talking stages with someone else BEFORE love bombing them) and ran off to have a relationship with the situtationship. Didn’t last 1 month, cuz situtationship picked someone else. Mind u this was all December. Now they are IN another relationship that just started and on IG it’s posts like “happy lately” w a couple pic, and new girl posting “<3 u make me so happy” lol … girlie was even telling my friend “I need to heal, not ready for a relationship” ????? Byeeeee it doesn’t make sense. And STILL watches my besties stories, every single 1 of them, and wants to meet up with my bestie. Rebound or that’s genuine love cuz what the fuck??? Lol

I mean I relationship hop but it’s embarrassing and so I don’t post pics of people I’m seeing and am super reluctant to let them post pics of me until I know it’s LEGIT a real thing. To me, if you’re gonna relationship hop, admit most of it is not that deep and wait until you’re sure before you hard launch.

[bisluthq]

do all the bislut icons have anxiety and depression lmao💀

makes sense bc don’t most of us have anxiety or depression or both? 🤷🏻‍♀️

[bisluthq]

Do you think Jack found sex with Saoirse as mind blowing as she seemingly found it?

I think if you’re not finding the sex with your current partner better and more mind blowing than any sex you’ve had before, get a new partner. That’s tbh my rule. I didn’t enforce it before because I’d be like “ok so I’ve had better sex but a relationship is more than just that” but I did kinda always knew and if I were to break up with my current partner I wouldn’t actually date anyone who didn’t blow my mind MORE lol like 🤷🏻‍♀️ that is what I think you should do. Like I’m not saying the next fuck will be better but I wouldn’t get into a new relationship until it is 😅😅

[bisluthq]

Can someone recap what deuxmoi said about Joe’s management? I can’t bring myself to listen to her lol like I try but my ears bleed but i just wanna know

nothing. She said a friend of a friend for someone who worked for Joel’s management team knew intimate details of the breakup down to how him and his brother’s phone plans were cut off (which brother and why lol and like it was all just such nutty fanfic like don’t bother).

the sighting where Swifties harassed him and his date and his date got upset seems legit tho like I think Swifties would fr do that.

[bisluthq]

This is unrelated to the couples but on the anxiety and depression topic. In my head, two anxious people get each other so they could make things work. I don’t think they would get mad at each other when one of them is going through something. While I feel like two people with depression wouldn’t have the energy to deal with each other? I think a person with depression would work better with someone who has minimal mental health issues, who can be mentally strong enough to be there for them. While I feel like a person with none/minimal mental health issues wouldn’t get someone with anxiety and would find them annoying? I just feel like depression looks and sounds more serious while anxiety sounds like you’re just being annoying because you’re always stressing over things that don’t matter

I hope this doesn’t sound like I’m judging anyone; both are very real and hard to deal with but I’m assuming all of us struggle with some form of either and I think we can joke about it

idk my ex struggled with mood sometimes and had major anxiety and I would take her pills for that sometimes because they’d make me feel chill if I wasn’t feeling chill (never been diagnosed with anxiety). Anxious/moody x depressed/ED/subsequently diagnosed pda didn’t gel (I mean it did for a long time when we were new and exciting lol). Mental health challenges are hard. See a therapist. If you’re in a relationship, see a couples therapist also - I see both every week.

I know that’s not necessarily affordable but 🤷🏻‍♀️ if you can. It’s good.

[bisluthq]

“She’s the best actress of her generation”, “as long as we’ve got each other we’re alright with any of that”, “she’s a force of nature on and off screen”, are all things he’s said in interviews (and he also called her his best friend at one point but I don’t remember the quote ) why did they have to choose the Ferrari one to keep reposting 😭 Maybe that’s why he deleted all his instagram posts and has barely done any promo since, he’s too embarrassed to go outside again

I mean if I said that I’d be embarrassed ngl 🤷🏻‍♀️