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I totally believe Joe could have been checked out from the relationship, emotionally, not know it and still not believe Joe made her pick Matty as her next. Swifties robbing Taylor of her agency is so infuriating to me. Taylor could have or probably should have dumped Joe, taken a second, and then persued Matty if that was what she wanted but she went a different way due to a lot of complicated feelings in that time. I just don't think what Taylor has said so far (about Joever) doesn't imply true toxicity or even bitterness. A thing can just run it's course. A thing can be a great time and stop being so great. Two poeple can fall out love together gently and one person has to pull the trigger and it was Taylor.

I think you mean what she’s said on Joever DID NOT imply true toxicity. I agree. I do think there was a lot of bitterness at the end on her side because she wanted him to be different to how he is lol and I think he had bitterness when he found out about Matty because otherwise this man would be a saint akin to none lol ever but I think both have now moved on and are living the lives THEY individually want and it’s not the same thing at all so they can’t have worked out in this timeline. If Taylor’s career had actually declined like she’d thought, it could’ve worked maybe. Not because he resented her success imo but because he wants a largely normie life and she did tell him that’s also what she wants and for a long time it was. But Joe is genuinely not the person to do Taynaissance Mr Swifting. He doesn’t want that kind of lifestyle. He doesn’t have to. And Taylor doesn’t have to want his lifestyle. Also again the lack of structure and scheduling was a big issue for her, aside from the fame stuff, and that level of structure and scheduling clearly doesn’t work for him.

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Travis’ friend Ross is again with him at this Tahoe golf event. I’ve seen people say he is getting paid to train with him. I’m like I don’t think so? He isn’t a professional trainer he is a retired NFL player. He is clearly getting paid just to be a friend. He is the only friend of Travis who follows him around everywhere his other friends actually have a life outside of him even if some work for him.

Well no I mean a retired player is exactly the person u want to train with you daily like for extra motivation and to have someone spot you and stuff. So Ross might well train Travis/with Travis. But that’s not why he goes to random events with Travis, that’s just because he’s his friend and has fuck all better to do.

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She looks so good here

https://x.com/moonlithoax/status/1944057467547398470?s=46&t=xMMngN7BChew5LSA5QxxuA

she really does

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I think she would’ve because they were in the process of buying a house and everything? She was holding out hope until the last second

well ya but it’s good they didn’t waste more time - and at the end imo it *was* wasting time because it was riding out something that HAD to end - and didn’t get locked into co-owned property and/or a marriage. Because that stuff would’ve still had to go eventually and it would’ve been harder, messier, and ultimately less amicable in the end imo.

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Me: people that take TTPD as gospel are so silly

Also me: omg Jack Antonoff hates Miley Cyrus whaaaaa

😂😂

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I saw superman and wow Nic Hoult killed it as Lex, I went with a friend who was like omg I didn’t know he could do that and I was like lol babe he was Tony Stonem in Skins he’s very good at playing psycho men 😂😂😂 I also came out with a crush on David Corenswet too, like I always thought that Henry Cavill was more like handsome in a waxwork way that’s not approachable (and I do think he has a sucky personality tbh). David’s handsome in more of a normal way? Like he more has the vibe of “nice man who helps old ladies cross the street and would sincerely ask me about my day” also Rachel Brosnahan is also hot so seeing them make out really was great for my bi ass lmao

I’m looking forward to it!

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I need to know why Joe raw-dogged his first time in USA because I’m pretty sure Ang Lee and team did give him the time to properly pack? And ofc he gotta fly from London to Atlanta so it’s not like they want him to apparate a la Harry Potter right there and then? No thoughts behind those eyes, just vibes and knowing he’s going to be a working actor after that

Not to defend his utter stupidity in that case because no excuses for it - and I’ll explain now why it’s extra stupid in a second - but he didn’t think he’d go to Atlanta. They booked that ticket for him once he was already in New York. He didn’t think he’d get it. He thought the opportunity was just to meet Ang tbh.

that said lol like… idk why he only brought a backpack. I’d get bringing carry on only because ok he didn’t think he’d stay that long but like… by definition… he didn’t know what’d happen so you’d think he’d pack a lot of random outfits lol not like one set of extra clothes and one extra underwear.

and Joe’d traveled internationally before (not to America but he’d traveled) and is supposedly educated so I feel like he should have known that lolllll.

but also boys pack so stupidly for trips. I’ve traveled with my best guy friend and one time he didn’t even bring toiletries. Dude was genuinely stunned that he should’ve done that. When I asked why because I was truly like “what the fuck” about it lol - it was to a conference and the issue became that he couldn’t find a shop to buy himself a toothbrush and I was like my fucking guy HOW did you come to a RESORT for a CONFERENCE and not pack a toothbrush or a hairbrush and he was like “because I thought the hotel would have that stuff”. That was mind blowing to me. And he was like can’t he share my toothbrush and I was like “ew fuck no” ijbol.

FG also travels regularly with like two outfit changes or even one set of jeans often on him and a pair of tracksuit pants and two tops (granted lots of underwear and socks and toiletries, he’s not that bad) and is always like “but there’ll be a laundry service, it’ll be fine” and I’m always like “but WHY not just pack your fucking shit along???”

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but he could’ve passed on the brutalist to support Taylor. That part is true.

and i’m glad he chose the brutalist over taylor because that film is a MASTERPIECE 🤌🏻 the relationship was already dying by then anyway so ehh

he could’ve but better he did the movie.

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clearly to who lol? Because I don’t think he thought this lol. I think Taylor felt that but also again Taylor wanted to fuck her ex so likeeee……. // taylor wanted to fuck her ex BECAUSE joe checked out and was giving her nothing at that point 😭. by the end of 2022 both taylor and joe were half foot out the door but they loved each other so much at one point that it was hard to pull the plug. it was also like a huge inconvenience? especially to joe - he was working in hungary, not really thinking about the state of his relationship, the last thing he wanted was to arrive home to an empty house but oh well

idk, their relationship was rocky for a long time. taylor was just kinda the only one who seemed to care about fixing it? makes sense why she was the one who actually ended it

but how do you know this? You’re basing this entirely on her take. She doesn’t know his take. I’ve never met two rocky/unsure people who both think the same thing happened. Actually even with THE MOST amicable breakups there are always two sides. No one tells the objective truth about what went wrong because WE INDIVIDUALLY DO NOT KNOW. We only know how WE felt and WE perceived stuff. It’s weird to take how Taylor felt and say that is how Joe felt. Her feelings are valid but they’re HER FEELINGS dude. It’s not a “believe women” thing - it’s that interpersonal stuff always has two sides. My friends hear different versions of what’s wrong or right in my love life to my partners. Always. Not because anyone’s lying but because we don’t know what the other person really thinks/feels until they explicitly tell us (even then often not 100% true or changes) and given Taylor’s issue with Joe was lack of communication (an issue since Rep lyrics actually) he evidently didn’t tell her fucking anything about how he felt. That was a big part of her issue with him. So unless you’re Joe’s bestie idk how you can confidently say - without an “I think” or “Taylor felt” - how Joe felt or feels tbh ever. Except via interviews I guess where ok let’s mostly believe his own version from his pov.

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Oh god I totally disagree Taylor in march 2023 would have jumped to marry Joe. A year earlier, sure, but by 2023 she had already wilded out mooney eyed at the 1975 London gig, experienced big success with midnights, and her tour was sold out and then some. Girlie was living large! Look maybe if Joe had been willing to blow up his whole life in some romantic gesture (ironically like Matty did until he fled) it would have delayed the inevitable in 2023 but that wasn’t him and instead it would have been some half/hearted passive aggressive ask/declaration which Taylor would not respond to well. Taylor was waiting for a reason to put the plan in motion of separating their lives she had been thinking about for awhile. This is so clear to me??? From even the concept of midnights as a sleepless night album?? Ruminating on the past?

agree but a big ooc grand gesture would’ve dragged it all out (for worse and leading to a nastier breakup).

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Jack spent like 2 months in Louisiana for Capone and he’s barely in it but now he gets to do a film in the middle of a season of slow horses even though he has much more screen time. Being the lead changes the game (unless you are in all the scenes, then you’re also stuck there)

yup and I just witnessed that firsthand. Supporting actors do not come and go. They’re stuck there unless they beg for exceptions but it’s a hassle and “I need to go to Eras and yes I know there will be 100 shows but it’s my gf” is an unprofessional excuse and no not really feasible unless he used the jets and back and forthed real quick which… would’ve also not been so good.

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And Travis has started complaining about how he didn't like the scheduling and stuff when he did acting last year. Maybe that's 100% all genuinely his opinion or maybe Taylor was like deep-sighing about it all because we know that every time Joe went to work, their relationship suffered more than usual

I think also Travis loves planning (same as Taylor) and Joe does not (he went to America for the fist time with a backpack and like one pair of underwear). Fans love to say Trav’s chill but he’s not. He likes things to be organized - season, side quests, weekly pod. Joe dgaf. Taylor’s a planner.

I think at first she found Joe’s spontaneity exciting but she works better alongside Trav’s planning. And I don’t think Trav is changing for her, I think he likes to know what’s coming up for him. When Taylor isn’t depressy and thinking of quitting pop stardom, obviously the two of them are a better team.

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Joe is just too British and Taylor is too American. Period. 😂 Travis’ personality fits Taylor’s more

cultural differences were def a factor yes

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Lena is so so good, too much is perfect

when she tries, she is. Some of the shit she writes is complete trash. Tbf she did say she also had writer’s block a long time. Too Much is back on form tho.

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Joe was in Hungary filming The Brutalist when Taylor was rehearsing and when the Eras Tour started right? I just wonder if she felt not really supported by Joe at that time? Because there’s no way he was filming 7 days a week in Hungary for a supporting role for him to not even attend the first weeks of the Eras Tour.

the thing is - and I know this now for a fact from Children of Blood and Bone which is a way bigger production than The Brutalist was budget wise - supporting cast who aren’t huge names actually have less flexibility and are expected to be on call for the whole production. My main kid I taught has a smaller role than Harry is and she was stuck here for 3+ months because they’d last minute want her based on weather and vibes tbh and scheduling bigger names. Same was true for quite a few other people. A+ listers came and went literally whenever they wanted. This girl missed the start of GCSEs because they wouldn’t release her and in that week they didn’t release her for, she worked ONE half day. Shitty. She also had to come back in that break mid session. The going and coming was for her own account. Extra shitty but good pay and we move.

Joe could’ve come and gone but wasn’t offered time off tbh realistically and would’ve had to ask and had to use the jets (which were busy with Eras actually) because getting to and from Hungary isn’t direct or anything. So no. He couldn’t really do much more than he did except if he REALLY begged Brady and pulled drama queen stunts.

but he could’ve passed on the brutalist to support Taylor. That part is true.

He should not have had to. He didn’t. C’est la vie.

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Joe is your typical London boy (no pun intended) who grew up rich and went to private schools and wants to come across as prim and proper and very reserved. Taylor is your typical American girl next door who is goofy af. Yes she also grew up rich but just different upbringing. Taylor’s parents are risk takers while Joe’s parents aren’t imo based on the info we’ve got about their professions and how they’ve worked in the same field their entire life after uni.

Not totally true, Liz was an occupational therapist before becoming a psychotherapist but she specializes in EDs and sex actually so I think brings the OT stuff to it. Richard is in film yes. Scott has only ever done finance (and some businesses he bought I guess but that’s related) and Andrea only does marketing/m brand management (Taylor for the latter part of her career). Difference is Swifts want to be THE BEST at their jobs and rich af, and the Alwyns want to be good at their jobs and seem to take for granted just how rich they are and want to just stay THAT level of rich.

Which is why Taylor also wants to be the best ever and super rich and Joe I think… wants to be financially comfortable and good at his job. Both have/are getting what they want but they’re not a good fit anymore.

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David Corenswet follows Jack on Instagram which feels quite random to me because he doesn’t really follow any of the other British actors I follow apart from Florence who is huge and Daisy and Nic who he worked with. Jack doesn’t even follow him back. I think we might have another white boy of the month that is randomly a Jack fan, or maybe he’s a Saoirse fan that followed Jack for the Saoirse content 😂

random af 😂