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Met J's new girlfriend at a party yesterday and now I'm even more convinced that he was into me
#she's just like me fr like we have the same haircolor same build same interests same humor even the same diagnoses#not the type he was dating before we met#super nice girl I wish them the best
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J is suddenly responding/reacting to all my messages in the groupchat
which could mean nothing 🤔
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another person who I traveled with (who I'm closer with) went on a meetup with a few of the other people we traveled with aaaand apparently J asked about me hehehe
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Ok I'm back home after a few weeks of traveling (with some people I know well and some who I knew less well and, ohhh god)
There's this one guy who we were traveling with, let's call him J, who's honestly one of the most attractive people I've met, but godddd was he obnoxious. Like he's the type of guy who knows he's attractive and can and will hit on every woman he'd wanna sleep with.
I knew from the get-go that I'm not his type, and even if I were, he's not the type I'd wanna get involved with. So anyway, we met these girls who were traveling aswell and we decided to spend a few evenings together just hanging out. J was obv interested in one of them and went full on pick-up mode, buuut she wasn't interested and decided to talk to me the entire time. Big win for me tbh. 😌
After that something changed, and I noticed J started taking more of an interest in me. First small things like zooming in on my face whenever we took group pics or insisting we taste eachothers food and drinks. Then saying semi flirty (but still innocent) things. One night I went to bed early because I was very cold, and he just barged into my room to play some song. Ik it was done in a joking manner, but it felt sort of intimate in a way.
The flirty comments got flirtier and flirtier. We started hanging out more in general. I accidentally saw him naked at one point. Can't really describe what the vibes were after that. Not awkward in any way but things were a bit different. Oh and I had horrible period cramps one day and for some reason got to use his bowl of noodles as a heating pad, so now he has a picture somewhere of me laying down, pants unbuttoned with a bowl of noodles on my stomach.
Had a dream one night that I made out with him, and after that I started.. playing along with the flirty comments I guess?
In the end nothing happened, idk if we'll keep in contact now that we're back home. It's probably for the best that I don't get involved with someone like him. But it was fun and a bit of a confidence boost to have someone I find very attractive show an interest in me, even if it was most likely because I was the only woman in close proximity to him during most of the trip. 🤷♀️
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he brought homemade donuts today aaa
#so nice of him#accidentally made eyecontact with him and it gave me butterflies#<- very autistic almost never look ppl in the eyes#oh and I talked about how i'm not very assertive and that a guy at work had been creepy towards me and that I'd been scared to tell him off#and he was like that's fucked up tell me if next time someone does smth to you I'll have your back#he can't say shit like that i'll catch feelings
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Ik I only come on here to talk abt my next new coworker crush but like
There's this one guy who I found attractive from the start but who I was a bit intimidated by bc he's very straight forward and even when he tried to be helpful it could come off as a bit rude.
I've pretty much been avoiding him for a year straight unless I had to interact with him for work reasons. But we started talking more this summer bc most ppl who we regularly talk to were on holidays the weeks we were working, and ever since then we've been friendly. And since I got my new position in another department, we've been hanging out during breaks instead.
Anyway... smth is going on
#i've always thought that he's attractive but that didn't really matter to me when I was intimidated#i focused on other people who were nicer to me but who werent my type physically#he's so painfully my type but speaking from history ik someone like him would just run me over#bc i'm not very assertive#i also suspect my other friend at work is suspecting that i like this guy bc I told him what I find attractive#and it's all just physical attributes that this guy has... like... i didn't even think of him when i said that#anyway i hope nothing happens between us bc i know it's gonna be a disaster but it's fun to have a lil crush
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When I was younger and was attracted to older men I thought "well at least I'm gonna become their age one day too and the age difference won't be weird anymore"
WRONG as I aged the men I'm attracted to just got older aswell
#me at 13 attracted to 30 year olds and now that I'm at an age where dating someone who's 30 isn't weird I'm attracted to 50+ year olds#I have a coworker who I have a little bit of a crush on and he's def older than my dad#his son is older than me#he showed me a pic of when he moved to my country in the fucking 80's#he mentioned my birth year as just some year he moved and started a new job like
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had one slightly romantic dream about a coworker and suddenly I'm developing a crush what the hellllllll
#he's not my type at all#but we work together in a small group and hang out during lunches and after work sometimes#and send memes and stuff in a gc#but now all of a sudden I can't act normal around him I get shy and smile and stuff when I think abt him#which I do a lot#I think it's that I think he likes me but he doesn't show it at all except by normal friendliness and knowing myself that's exactly what#i tend to like#but yeah he's cool as a friend and coworker but knowing him ik a relationship wouldn't work like at all so this is not worth exploring
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Found a bald man attractive for the first time in my life, is this a sign of aging
#it was probably his mustache let's be real#I'm also in love with an anime character with a buzzcut which is very out of character for me :/
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he just told me what he likes in bed and uhhh we're not compatible™
#called me a cowboy cus I like riding aw fuck off 🙄#'it explains the cowboy jokes'#no tf it does not it's not relevant to my bed habits#I just like cowboys damnit#I give him the same energy tho he's my dog
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I told him about the crush and he said he has a crush on me too ahhh
thinking abt him.....
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He just messaged me good night 🤭
thinking abt him.....
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thinking abt him.....
#he's tall he's fit he's softspoken he's intelligent he's able to express his feelings and can communicate really well#he's not my usual type but ahh he's handsome#he's learning my language which is just so so sweet (I learned his in school so I can ish understand it)#I mentioned I like cheesecake once and now he calls me his cheesecake in my language 😭#too bad we live in different countries almost neighboring countries luckily but it's still a long distance#ahhh I'm developing a crush fr
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My type in men is the baker from Kiki's delivery service. Unfortunately men irl are more complex, so in order to get a beefy, dark, quiet guy I also have to deal with the emotional unavailability that comes with it
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