bitckupa
bitckupa
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bitckupa · 12 days ago
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Met J's new girlfriend at a party yesterday and now I'm even more convinced that he was into me
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bitckupa · 3 months ago
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J is suddenly responding/reacting to all my messages in the groupchat
which could mean nothing 🤔
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bitckupa · 3 months ago
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another person who I traveled with (who I'm closer with) went on a meetup with a few of the other people we traveled with aaaand apparently J asked about me hehehe
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bitckupa · 3 months ago
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Ok I'm back home after a few weeks of traveling (with some people I know well and some who I knew less well and, ohhh god)
There's this one guy who we were traveling with, let's call him J, who's honestly one of the most attractive people I've met, but godddd was he obnoxious. Like he's the type of guy who knows he's attractive and can and will hit on every woman he'd wanna sleep with.
I knew from the get-go that I'm not his type, and even if I were, he's not the type I'd wanna get involved with. So anyway, we met these girls who were traveling aswell and we decided to spend a few evenings together just hanging out. J was obv interested in one of them and went full on pick-up mode, buuut she wasn't interested and decided to talk to me the entire time. Big win for me tbh. 😌
After that something changed, and I noticed J started taking more of an interest in me. First small things like zooming in on my face whenever we took group pics or insisting we taste eachothers food and drinks. Then saying semi flirty (but still innocent) things. One night I went to bed early because I was very cold, and he just barged into my room to play some song. Ik it was done in a joking manner, but it felt sort of intimate in a way.
The flirty comments got flirtier and flirtier. We started hanging out more in general. I accidentally saw him naked at one point. Can't really describe what the vibes were after that. Not awkward in any way but things were a bit different. Oh and I had horrible period cramps one day and for some reason got to use his bowl of noodles as a heating pad, so now he has a picture somewhere of me laying down, pants unbuttoned with a bowl of noodles on my stomach.
Had a dream one night that I made out with him, and after that I started.. playing along with the flirty comments I guess?
In the end nothing happened, idk if we'll keep in contact now that we're back home. It's probably for the best that I don't get involved with someone like him. But it was fun and a bit of a confidence boost to have someone I find very attractive show an interest in me, even if it was most likely because I was the only woman in close proximity to him during most of the trip. 🤷‍♀️
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bitckupa · 7 months ago
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he brought homemade donuts today aaa
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bitckupa · 8 months ago
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Ik I only come on here to talk abt my next new coworker crush but like
There's this one guy who I found attractive from the start but who I was a bit intimidated by bc he's very straight forward and even when he tried to be helpful it could come off as a bit rude.
I've pretty much been avoiding him for a year straight unless I had to interact with him for work reasons. But we started talking more this summer bc most ppl who we regularly talk to were on holidays the weeks we were working, and ever since then we've been friendly. And since I got my new position in another department, we've been hanging out during breaks instead.
Anyway... smth is going on
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bitckupa · 10 months ago
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When I was younger and was attracted to older men I thought "well at least I'm gonna become their age one day too and the age difference won't be weird anymore"
WRONG as I aged the men I'm attracted to just got older aswell
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bitckupa · 1 year ago
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had one slightly romantic dream about a coworker and suddenly I'm developing a crush what the hellllllll
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bitckupa · 2 years ago
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Found a bald man attractive for the first time in my life, is this a sign of aging
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bitckupa · 3 years ago
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he just told me what he likes in bed and uhhh we're not compatible™
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bitckupa · 3 years ago
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He didn't tell me good night :(
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bitckupa · 3 years ago
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bitckupa · 3 years ago
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bitckupa · 3 years ago
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I told him about the crush and he said he has a crush on me too ahhh
thinking abt him.....
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bitckupa · 3 years ago
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He just messaged me good night 🤭
thinking abt him.....
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bitckupa · 3 years ago
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thinking abt him.....
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bitckupa · 3 years ago
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My type in men is the baker from Kiki's delivery service. Unfortunately men irl are more complex, so in order to get a beefy, dark, quiet guy I also have to deal with the emotional unavailability that comes with it
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