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the trials and tribulations of evan buckley is actually so much funnier in hindsight cause his entire storyline for this season really was just. emotional distress. like HE didn't do anything but first he got into a weird psychosexual relationship with his ancient bigot boss then he got cursed with boils then his first boyfriend broke up with him then his sister got kidnapped then his two best friends/husband and child moved 800 miles away then his dad died. evan buckley and the year-long tummy ache. I hope his first storyline in 9a is getting on anxiolytic drugs

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a printer error is an attempt from god to get you to kill yourself but you must be stronger and you must must must beat the printer to death with a large object like object

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when you grew up as a lonely uncool girl it will never stop haunting you by the way. you will meet a cool person at a bar or the train station or at a friend's party and you can wear your most stylish outfit and striking eye makeup and you will swear that they can see through all of the facade and see the lonely terribly insecure teenage girl you used to be who desperately wanted to connect and you will swear that they know that there is like an insurmountable gap between you. this will happen forever

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I need someone to make a buddie edit to 'i'm not in love' by Tate McRae please and thank you

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Things people don't say about giftedness (and it bothers me):

•Giftedness is not just being smart, it's a neurodivergency that affects the speed of braink links

•Being gifted doesn't mean you're a genius, it means you have an easier time learning and seeing alternative paths

•Most (neurologist approved) IQ tests are not to see how able you are in math or (native language), they're about how you solve problems (social and logical)

•Gifted people experience sensory problems

•Gifted people experience social problems

•Gifted people may experience emotional imbalance (or too rational, or too emotional, can be a mixture of both sometimes)

•People can be gifted in non academic areas (visual arts, sports, music, feelings)

•Gifted people also struggle academically (much like ADHD, giftedness may lead some to a lack of focus on topics they don't find interesting, making it almost impossible to pay attention at all)

•Gifted people need positive stimuli in order to function, or else they won't be able to enjoy and make the fullest out of their abilities and special interest

•Gifted people need as much help in school as other neurodivergent kids, but not necessarily in the same way

•You can't be a "former gifted kid", it'd be like saying you're a "former autistic kid", you're born with it and you'll die with it

• Being gifted =/= being smart, being gifted==being creative and having an easier time then most with specific topics

• Not all gifted kids are nerds

•BEING GIFTED IS NOT BEING A GENIUS

•Gifted people NEED help with certain things, but do not get them due to "being more able than others"

•Gifted people ARE shamed and mocked for being gifted, being called things like "know-it-all" and "nerd", getting mocked by getting overly excited about a few topics or being bullied for being socially awkward

•Gifted people are very likely to hide their giftedness in order to be socially accepted, and that is alarmingly common with girls (who get called bossy or argumentative for talking about things they like or taking the leader position on situations)

•(Most) Gifted people have a hard time with senseless hierarchies and have a strong sense of justice.

That's a bit of it, you can tell me about your experience as a gifted person if you want, or ask any questions about it, I am open to answer them.

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how am i supposed to know my sexuality and stuff if i have no idea how it works

"do you like girls or boys" excellent question. i have no idea

"do you have sex drive" i dont have a driving license

"do you experience romantic attraction" what the hell is that

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Alice in Wonderland (1951) dir. Clyde Geronimi, Wilfred Jackson and Hamilton Luske

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I think you act up to fit in.

Noah Valentine & Adam Ali as Preston Walters & Kai Sharif “Episode 6” — Waterloo Road (11.06)

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CHENFORD SCENES Season 5 Episode 10 “The List”

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inspired by this post “To be seen, to be found, isn’t that what we’re all searching for?”

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we are collectively manifesting karen and eddie besties in s6

for the doodle prompt “eddie and karen wine night that exists only in my head and my heart” from @eddiediazes (when i showed him a wip he said that it looks like karen is pointing out all the gay nonsense in buck and eddie's text thread which is absolutely correct)

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Nick "I have no chill when Charlie touches me" Nelson

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sassy!charlie

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So all I can do now is…live the best life I can.

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dog energy + cat energy ➤ heartstopper couples

{insp}

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Buck and his “I’m in love with my best friend” smile throughout season 5

BONUS:

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My mom pointed out the intimacy of Buck using the phrase “it’s me” before breaking down Eddie’s door and honestly, I can’t stop thinking about it.

“If you’re not gonna be honest with Frank at least be honest with me”

“You don’t have to pretend with me.”

“It’s me. Can I come in.” It’s just me. It’s okay. I know you wouldn’t open the door for anyone else, but would you do it for me?