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Devastated that rbs were turned off. I need this on my blog.

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i hope luigi mangione is proven innocent & gets to sue a ton of companies for slander and win & i hope he gets enough money to rebuild his life and get any help for his chronic pain that he needs & i hope he’s able to disappear from the public eye entirely if that’s what he wants

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...what is the "sex is just rock climbing" category

It was kind of a joke between me and a friend ("you wouldn't judge someone for having gone rock climbing with a bunch of different people") but honestly the more I thought about it the more I bought into it unironically because:

It is a physical activity done with one or more partners

You should only go rock climbing with people you trust to not let you fall

You should not go rock climbing with someone who is drunk or currently incapable of rational decision-making

Some people get super super super into rock climbing and do not shut up about all the places they have climbed and how many are left on their bucket list and these people are usually men between the ages of 20 and 35 and like it's fine dude I'm glad you're happy but I don't know what most of those mountains even are

While many consider it a fun activity, pressuring someone into climbing when they don't want to (or ignoring their feelings and just dangling them off a cliff,) could cause both psychological and physical trauma

There is no moral value to it whatsoever. Who you have gone rock climbing with (or whether you have rock climbed at all) has no bearing on who you are as a person. Imagine telling someone "it's not that heights make you nauseous, it's just that you haven't found the right person to belay you!" or "you need to save your first time rock climbing for someone special." That would be absurd.

For some people it is a deep and moving personal experience.

historically I have not asked myself "will this aggravate my hip flexor injury" before participating when perhaps I should have 😔

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let’s go kill dracula, take his teeth and turn them into earrings

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so i wore a pride flag pin to work the other day and the kids were all interested (obviously) (find me a classroom of preschoolers who are not obsessed with rainbows) (i'll wait) so they crowded around to see.

"aww!" they said, "it's a flag!!"

but the thing is: they're little. a lot of them don't really have a handle on all their mouth sounds yet.

such as, notably, that tricky tricky "L" sound.

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It's really funny to take Spanish with people from different Spanish-speaking countries, because the ones from South American countries are like "Yeah no one uses vosotros, we don't know what it's doing here" and the ones from Europe are like "If you don't give our beloved second-person plural its due respect, the Hounds will find you"

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AND WHEN THE WHOLE WORLD WAS AROUND JONATHAN AND EVERYONE THOUGHT HE WAS THE SUPERHERO SUPERSTAR BUT THESE TWO WERE STILL ALL OVER EACH OTHER????? HE LIT CASTED A SPELL SO EVERYONE ADORED HIM BUT ALL SPIKE COULD THINK AB WAS BUFFY??? TO TOUCH HER??? TO FIGHT HER?? CALL HER NICKNAMES???

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YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

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WOO its been a minute! Finals have absolutely destroyed me but im finally done with them so i decided to draw something short and sweet since its also been a while since ive drawn them. Plus my lil headcanon on how dwarves and hobbits show affection! Hope you guys are having a fun summer!

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i need to talk about oz wearing xander's 25 cent peep show t shirt in season 3 episode 1 ("anne"). this is the biggest mystery of what went down in summer '98 is how did oz end up borrowing this shirt.

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these are KILLING me

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Proposal for new fandom etiquette:

If you read a fic because it was linked/recced somewhere, you leave a comment saying "came from XXX" and that comment doesn't need to include anything else.

Because when all of a sudden there's a lot of activity on one particular fic I WANNA KNOW WHY!!!!!

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sporadically giffing my favourite LGBT characters for pride month ➟ tara maclay  

There’s just so much to work through.  Trust has to be built again, on both sides…  You have to learn if… if we’re even the same people we were, if you can fit in each other’s lives.  It’s a long… important process, and… can’t we just skip it?  Can–can you just be kissing me now?

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Grave offerings and burying the dead with tools and goods is actually such a deeply human thing to do. It's not really even necessarily about how much you believe in a literal afterlife or them taking the tools with them. It's also just going Wait, I'm Not Done Taking Care Of You, let me make you one more pair of socks so your feet won't be cold when you go wherever it is where I can't follow.