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I just found the Nude I took before my weight loss surgery in 2018. Some introspection and TMI under the cut

So I took it for many reasons. One I really did want a comparison. I had already lost 100lbs at that point and I wanted to see the real difference. And I didn’t want to worry about clothes distorting or hiding.

There is also a dick pic somewhere in there because I knew that would get bigger* and I was curious to see the difference 😂

It’s a crazy visceral view to see your body so different. The drop in size, the change from a full “belly” to loose skin. To my round face to jaw line is great but to see definition and muscle tone under skin is lovely. It nice too because I get in my head and feel like I’ve not done shit and the photo is just PROOF that’s wrong.

Im glad I took it. I’m glad I found it. I feel good

*yes you are right it technically doesent grow from weight loss, however, given the fat hiding it, blood flow, the ammount you can use DOES “grow” though only as much as it “shrunk” from gaining. In my case it basically doubled in size and let me tell you that is just an ego boost lolll

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Local man accidentally stumbles in to the point.

"If tampons should be free, then so should my diabetes meds."

Yes? Yes they should be? Your life-saving medication that you need in order to live for a condition you were born with should be given to you at no cost?

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jd vance killed the pope

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Genuinely hope "JD Vance killed the pope" becomes a legit, widespread rumor. I hope the whitehouse has to make a statement, thus only adding fuel to the fire about it.

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Being the friend that isn’t married at 38 is kinda lonely. I don’t love it. It’s hard to stop your brains being an asshole

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something interesting is happening

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ADHD can’t sleep and anxiety is being the worst but it’s too late to take anxiety pills cuz I gotta wake up in three hours WOOOOOOO

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I don’t know what the key to success if on dating apps but it is NOT “good responses and questions”

Literally my hinge is always people who responded to a good prompt I sent, or just liked…. And then never put in effort again.

I’m putting in effort and fucking no one else is. And maybe yeah, they just weren’t interested it happens. We’ve all swiped on someone and changed our minds.

. What the fuck are we supposed to do??? I’m not shitty or ugly. I have personality out my ass. I show my responses and prompts to my girl friends and literally the responses is always “yeah I wish any of my matches out that effort in”

But it does. Not. Matter. None of them have led to anything. I’ve gotten dates BUT ONE had to do with my prompts or effort. The others were just luck?

There is no point to this post other than I’m lost ranting to the void the frustration of dating In world where Apps are completely broken but how we do things

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I gotta say this one would really get to me

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When I was my heaviest I weighed over 460lbs. When I started working on my health, mind, and body I kept getting asked a goal weight

I had no idea. I had no idea what my body was like when it was healthier I didn’t know my body type. I thought I was stockier (I am) but BMI sucks and it was hard to tell where I will be.

So I just said under 200. That was like 7-8 years ago. I lost and gained some back over pandemic…

But I’m back down to 209. Guys I may do it. I may ACTUALLY get there.

I’m going to fucking cry.

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Listen not to throw stones from my glass house of Single Life but “honey bunches of oats” is the worse pet name.

I hate it. I hate them. I may even hate love now

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Endorsed.

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Someone wife me up.

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This my baby girl Sky. She is the sweetest Sith puppy

Anakin Skywalker.

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I am really not ok and I’m having such a struggle fixing it god damn