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Therapy App ➤ Stay Motivated ➤ Visit: PsychologyDaily.com

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Therapy App ➤ Stay Motivated ➤ Visit: PsychologyDaily.com

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Therapy App ➤ Stay Motivated ➤ Visit: PsychologyDaily.com

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Yo seeing the phrase "you need therapy " and getting insulted by it might be a reflection on you and what you believe therapy is by default but idk

Not everyone is trying to be a dick

(source: @amy_lee)

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an executive dysfunction thing nobody talks about

when you try to force yourself to do something against your brain’s will and your brain just refuses to focus and you get a headache and feel so tired you could pass out. no, neurotypicals, i cannot just “try harder” or “push through it”. there are literally physical obstacles to doing the thing even if you don’t see them and i don’t have to justify how my brain works to you.

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I think it's important to remember that sometimes self care is doing something you don't really want to do but will help you in the future.

getting that glass of water, doing your laundry or starting that project that's been looming over you might not be the most romantic thing to do but your future self will thank you for it.

by making life that tiny bit easier for future you you are giving yourself a gift, just like you would a friend, partner or loved one. you are as worthy of an easier future as everyone else and showing yourself that kindness is like offering a guiding hand. you deserve to care for yourself.

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being strong does not mean...

...that you will never get tired.

even strong people face moments of emotional, mental and physical turmoil where they feel unable to cope. that's okay. strength doesn't mean being indifferent. things can affect you too and that's totally normal.

the real sign of your strength is your ability to bounce back. to work up your courage, gather all your strength and stand again. it could take some time sure, but it WILL happen. you can do it ✨

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EMOTIONS THAT PARALYZE YOU?

What an easy, lazy way to dismiss emotion as being out of your control

They paralyze us, they are responsible for us not being productive!

Lmfao. Take a mindfulness class and get off twitter

You can control your thoughts

Science proves if 🔬🧪

*this goes especially for people who are neurodivergent

***using your illness to trap yourself and put you in a barrier is only hurting yourself

I am not neurotypical :) and if I did not try I'd be even worse :)

Effort is good actually!

thisisyolandarenteria ~ Instagram

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been away from tumblr for awhile forget how much they excuse and romanticize bad habits as personality traits

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you: hi I like to call this m/m pairing queer platonic because it makes me feel better about fetishizing gay men and David Tennant gets me hot

me: go watch gentleman jack you ugly nerd

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This is the post to get rid of fetishization in 2019.

Likes charge the spell.

Reblogs cast.

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In the year of 2019 this will Stop

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In the year of 2019 this will Stop

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I guess the long answer, cause I'm pretty curious

alright. let me take you back, anon. let me take you back to a time that was nearly precisely 5 years ago - back to March 2nd, 2012. on this date, the movie The Lorax came out. it was an adaptation of the classic dr. suess story, albeit with heavy creative liberties taken and an arguably much less poignant environmental message.

but that’s not what you need to know.

what you need to know is, the main character of the original book, the Once-ler, was given a face in this movie - the face of a young, skinny, baby-faced man with the voice of Ed Helms.

for reasons still unknown to me, the internet at the time developed an incredibly deep and immediate fixation on him - most likely due to his nonthreatening, attractive appearance and voice. a fandom began to develop around the movie, but most specifically, around this character. the most prevalent place of operation this fandom took to was tumblr, in the wake of the rapidly receding superwholock fandom.

as with most fandoms comprised of sexually frustrated teenage girls, there was a heavy emphasis on shipping. however, this movie’s main cast aside from the once-ler were either vaguely off-putting, too young, or had absolutely no interaction with the object of their desires - the once-ler. their solution to this was the most surreal and bizarre fandom uroboros that many innocent souls have ever witnessed.

they started shipping him with himself.

later in the movie, the once-ler adopts this appearance while singing the only significant musical number from this movie, How Bad Can I Be? and undergoes a pretty striking character shift as he’s blinded by his own greed. hence, the fandom began to view this green suit-wearing once-ler as a completely separate entity than the previous, innocent, vest-wearing once-ler. they subsequently dubbed this double as The Greed-ler.

past that, things began to spiral quickly and violently out of control.

how many different ways are there to cook an egg? you can ponder on this for a very, very long time - but eventually, you’ll just get bored of the taste of eggs. how many different ways are there to ship someone with themselves? if you ask the once-ler fandom, they wouldn’t be able to tell you. because they tried literally every way imaginable.

there were high school AUs. there were wolf AUs. there were countless different ways to ship this character with his own self, in every single way you could possibly stretch it, to the point of absolute unrecognizability from the source material.

and even that became tiring.

they began to ship individual body parts with each other. they began to ship articles of clothing. there were RP blogs for each and every single AU and scenario, and then some. there was an RP blog dedicated to playing AS the once-ler’s semen.

here is a list on the once-ler fandom fucking wiki of but a fraction of the number of once-ler ask/rp blogs there were. it’s endless.

for a time, the blue hellsite was the green hellsite. the green man was inescapable. after a time, it eventually faded and died down over the course of these 5 long years - active once-ler blogs are now considered cryptids. rightfully so.

the idea of shipping junkrat skins with each other is a disturbing echo of the hellish period that was once-ler fandom. best we nip it in the bud now before we enter a new era.

then again, we’ll never reach heights like this again, right? we could never even come close to doing this all over again…

how bad can we possibly be?

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Request:

Tom Holland defending his partner’s pronouns.

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WHY IS NOBODY TALKING ABOUT THIS

THERE ARE GAY CONCENTRATION CAMPS BEING SET UP CHECHNYA, RUSSIA

GAY PEOPLE ARE BEING TORTURED AND PUT INTO CONCENTRATION CAMPS AND IT’S NOT EVEN IN THE TOP TEN IN THE TRENDING SECTION ON TUMBLR

WHAT THE HELL CAN WE PLEASE TALK ABOUT THIS

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This is so angry I don't know where to start.

I am against the alt right for the record. I am well aware that they dug up old tweets to fit their narrative. But it doesn't matter who found them, honestly. If someone is making pedophilic jokes no matter who they are or what their political ideology is I am going to be against them. I didn't know about Gunn six years ago. Or I would have been against it then.

It has been trending quite literally everywhere so that is why I am speaking about it now. Because it is when I have found out.

Disney is a company that is associated heavily with children. I do not think a person with that kind of mindset should be working there.

I. Care. About. Kids. When it comes out someone is a pedophile these are the types of signs that were there. I am not saying he is, I am saying he shouldn't work for a network that made their brand name off content for children.

I don't care at all literally zero if he is liberal, conservative, or whatever. It should not ever have mainstream acceptance and I will die on this hill.

In my opinion none of that is a legitimate apology. Not only did he write about this for years on his public twitter account but his deactivated website shows things that really couldn't even be considered jokes about children. More creepy comments that sexualize them which a "ISN'T THIS HILARIOUS?!" added as if it gives some comedic effect.

As a side note I don't think Gunn should be "cancelled" from ever directing again. Just films involving children. And the same should be done to any other Hollywood talent under Disney or working with children media. Every last one of them.

Superhero movies gotta die by 2020