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Reblog if you're shorter than 5'8.

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I’m so sorry to be that person, but what happened? And are you okay??? People can be so cruel and you don’t deserve whatever is happening to you.

Hi darling! If you're referring to the doxxing situation, I can happily report that I was not involved in that. As a writer in the TGM fandom, it was definitely scary to learn that someone used information shared privately to hurt someone in the community, but I'm okay on that front.

I saw you liked an ask where I talked about getting death threats. This was about a year and a half ago, and I'm okay! Some anonymous persons didn't much like that I made a post asking people to use the read more tool when posting fics. They went on a harassment campaign with 30+ vile asks in the span of a few hours and eventually a death threat. I turned off the option to send anonymous asks for a while after that. Staff did nothing and were incredibly dismissive of my concerns. It was discouraging, and I took a break from Tumblr for a while to recover. I still get a little anxious when I see that grey icon, but I'm better at not engaging with hateful anons now.

Thank you so much for your kind ask and for checking in. I appreciate you!

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YESSSSSSS I MISSED YOU BABES

GUESS WHO IS BACK, BITCHES!!! 💃🏻

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Finally did that thing I've been dreading and putting off for months even though I really shouldn't, and it took all of 20 minutes to do. Why am I like this.

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Hannah Dodd for Fabric Magazine (May 2024)

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"He was, he realized, comforted by her presence. They didn't need to talk. They didn't even need to touch (although he wasn't about to let go just then). Simply put, he was a happier man — and quite possibly a better man — when she was near." - An Offer from a Gentleman, Julia Quinn 🐝 ✨

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With the new season of Bridgerton approaching, I've been in the mood to revisit my Benedict fic 🤭

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sorry just one more question, but what even made them do that?? i'm not saying anything justifies doxxing at all; afaik May was very sweet. is it just because she wrote fic?? was the person just insane and does that mean anyone who is a writer in this fandom is at risk bc we still don't know who did it???? feel free to ignore i know these past few days have been a lot but i'm just worried

I’m going to answer this and then I likely won’t talk more about it publicly. I’m not directly involved. I don’t have all the facts. Everything I say is speculation and conjecture.

I don’t know why the person was doxxed or who did the doxxing. We don’t know the details of what happened and what led to it. That being said, there is no justification for doxxing, no matter the circumstances. I know there’s talk of a potential HIPAA violation, but as there is no definitive proof, I’m not comfortable speaking on it any further.

I understand that you’re worried. I’m worried too. With that said, as long as you conduct yourself in a way that protects your personal information, you should be okay. Don’t share your full name or address, don’t share the name of your workplace or the name of your employer. Don’t give out your phone number or email or anything along those lines. With the rise of social media, we’ve become more lenient with what we share online, and I think that’s played a certain part in this situation. That’s not to say that the victim holds any of the blame. They don’t. What I am saying is that information we share, even with people we deeply trust, can be used against us. It’s terrifying to think that anyone would, but it’s an uncomfortable truth we have to live with.

On a decidedly lighter note, I'm not going anywhere. Considering I received death threats at one point, it’s going to take a hell of a lot more to scare me off. I’ll continue writing and sharing my fics.

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Burgundy, lavender, emerald and void 🤍

Biting you right back

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“i can fix him” girl you are WORSE than him

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Burgundy, emerald, and void! ✨

It is most definitely ride or die at this point, you got that right ✨

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Hey you. Yes, you, new follower. I’m happy to have you, but please, put your age in your bio so I know you’re not a minor. If you don’t, I will block you, and I really don’t want to.

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burgundy, emerald, sapphire, and void ✨

pucker up babe

what color am i to you?

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The person I reblogged this from deserves to be happy

I tried to scroll past this. I really did

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tell me

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I have two arranged marriage AU with Rhett asks sitting in my inbox right now, but with everything going on, I haven’t had the energy to answer them yet. I hope to get to them tomorrow or Monday at the very latest. Thank you so much for indulging me and my current obsession with this AU. You’re all darlings!