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having ocs is so fucked .... i miss them so bad but im the guy who has to create new content. but im sleepy

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Imagine you and your f/o

Proshippers + variants DNI

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im a huge fan of not exactly love at first sight but thinking we’re both kinda cute at first sight and getting to know each other better and we come to a point that we’re really good friends with sickening and heart clinchingly horrible crushes on each other that we don’t know what to do with ourselves and we pine for each other so bad that it makes us want to hurl

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Your F/O noticing you’re upset, giving you a hug and murmuring “Aww, sweetheart…” while gently shushing you and wiping your tears away

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⊹ ࣪ ˖ helping your f/o's heal,

even when the process isn't "pretty". . .

...because they help you more than they know.

They’ve held you together on your worst days, steadied your mind when you couldn’t trust yourself to, listened when the words were hard and stayed when they didn’t have to.

But love goes both ways.

You see the weight they carry, too. The parts they don’t talk about unless it’s late and quiet. You see the way they take care of others so easily, yet flinch at being cared for. You know what healing can look like: uneven, unglamorous, sometimes hard to watch.

There are days when their armor slips, and you catch the truth of it all. Their trembling hands, the tired crescents beneath their eyes, the unspoken storms that flicker in their gaze; and you learn that love isn’t rushing to mend but standing beside the cracks, letting light through.

That's your only aim. To know they feel seen, especially when their own world fails them.

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Today marks three months together 🥰 may not seem like a lot, but to me, it means everything!! I love my wife so so much!!! 💕

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Hmm. Am I allowed to be a bit of a hater today

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a question for other self shippers: do you have any fictional places that feel like home? a world, a town or city, a house, a spot of wilderness, etc. maybe you don't even have an f/o in this media, but the place is special enough to draw you back in?

i think this is a special and interesting concept, because universes, settings and times have the power to invoke as much emotion and even a sense of love as fictional characters

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Headcanons for an f/o dating an s/i with ADHD!

(idea courtesy of @bitweird1, hope you like! I’ll also go into a few seperate aspects of it bc it’s so different for everyone)

- accidentally repeat a conversation? f/o doesn’t mind at all and listens like it’s the first time!

- f/o won’t hesitate to gently remind s/i of things s/i forgot about, and they’ll insist (truthfully!) they aren’t annoyed by it. Because that’s just how s/i is and they love s/i for all they are!

- f/o will notice if there’s any stim toys that catch s/i’s eye, and get them for s/i as little surprises

- hyperfixation time for s/i? There’s nothing f/o likes more than to listen to them infodump! Even if it’s something they’ve talked about before! F/o will get really into the conversation, asking all sorts of questions.

- they’ll probably get into the same thing too!

- got rsd? F/o will always talk about how much they love you, especially if they notice s/i’s been getting hit by it lately

- got executive dysfunction? F/o will find ways to encourage s/i to start or continue tasks

- if s/i likes weighted blankets, f/o will sometimes lay on top of them to act as a blanket. Cuddles? Yes. Pressure stim/grounding? Yes.

- if s/i doesn’t want physical contact, f/o is more than happy to just chill next to them!

- if s/i gets overstimulated in public, f/o will do their best to get them somewhere quieter or back home as quickly as possible, they won’t ask any questions and just try to get s/i either calmed down or safely away

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Hello and welcome to my irregularly unscheduled morality crises.

Anyways, played the Date Everything demo and there are some cute characters

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If you romantically F/O one of my platonic F/Os: Oh my gosh, they were just gushing to me about you! They love you SO much! Thank you for making my friend so happy!!!

If you platonically F/O one of my romantic F/Os: They were just telling me that they consider you an amazing friend and that they cherish you! Thank you for being such a great companion to my beloved!

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who does your f/o consult for relationship advice, if any?

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do you ever see a character that’s worshipped by a fandom and go “you’re not that great”

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OK I have a hard time telling who does and doesn’t like it so reblog this if you’re a selfshipper who is ok with getting anonymous f/o messages, notes, letters, greetings, etc in your inbox

(and to anyone who likes writing them, you can use this post to find people who enjoy accepting them)

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Reblog to have prev’s romantic f/o kiss them