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your outwardly violent attitude towards any and all romantic & sexual arrangements that don't mirror your good wholesome vanilla monogamous ideal is actually not made quirky and lovable by your queer identity. people who do the "if my partner even asked about polyamory i would buy a gun" schtick on here are pretty functionally identical to straight people who joke about murdering their partners if they came out as bi

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Like, oooookayyyyyyyyy

So, its bad to be gay and you cant be called gay but youll let comrade dicksuck carry the entire weight of the violent stigma? Why should you get your dick sucked then asshole

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hint: if you spend time every day looking at a specific type of fet porn…it isn’t to make fun of it no matter what you tell yourself.

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I feel bad for the scientists who spent years and years getting their degrees only to eventually end up dressing up rats in lingerie.

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I feel bad for the scientists who spent years and years getting their degrees only to eventually end up dressing up rats in lingerie.

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Wow i just glossed over how incoherent this advice seems.... like, what kind of build-your-own-seeping-boil-farm ass'n regime?? "Shave the hair off daily and slap alcohol and deoderant stick all over it, itll be great"?????

Laser it, you have stripper money!!! Wtf!!!!

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SWERFs: ‘97% of sex workers would leave the industry if they didn’t need the money to support themselves’

Ah yes, as opposed to every other job where people are just there for lols and it’s neither here nor there if they get paid

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To younger broke adults getting into sex work here’s some common scams:

“I’ll pay you $ every week for feet/genital/fetish pics” they start a long conversation about this. Then they convince you to send some sample pics. They will try to get you to enact their fetishes with promise of later payment. Then they cut and run. They will be kind, promise large things, but become aggressive when you refuse. Lesson: never give things for free unless you’re specifically doing it for marketing. Personalized fetish content should require payment upfront.

“I want to be your sugar mommy/daddy” These are insanely common and will use a variety of tactics. They prey on vulnerable broke people who are desperate for stable cash. They may try to use a BDSM dynamic to make you feel sexy and submissive. They’ll start a long flirty conversation that makes you feel good and desired and confident. Then they might send a link…. Don’t click it! Or they might ask you to “prove your loyalty” as their sub/babygirl/whatever. Proving your loyalty will probably involve sending them money in some way. The most common way is to buy a gift card and tell them the code. If a stranger ever asks you to buy them a gift card that’s pretty much always an instant block.

The same thing goes for “pay pigs”. There are very few people out there actually into financial domination. Chances are people promising you access to their bank accounts are liars trying to get dommed by a stranger, or scammers trying to get money from you.

There’s essentially two main categories of scams in sex work: 1. Traditional scams (trying to get money, personal info, account access) and 2. Freebie scams (trying to get your SW content for free)

Freebie scams can involve someone trying to piss you off so you curse them out and they can go jerk it to being rejected by someone hot. You can just block people being weird.

As a new or established SWer you literally don’t owe anyone anything unless they’ve specifically paid for a service you offer.

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