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Magical girl transformation where I look exactly the same by the end except my posture and speech are different and I have to be reminded of several details on the conversation we just had

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anti-endos 👏 do not 👏 own 👏 the rights 👏 to 👏 plurality 👏

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it’s so important for your health to regularly interact with people at least a decade older than you who aren’t family, especially as a young person.

When my 45 year old teammate gives me advice on mental health and I know she understands because she’s had a tough adult life.

When my 32 year old friend tells me his life started improving for the first time the year she turned 30.

When the 60 year old man at the soup kitchen gives me permission to grieve by telling me I’m ‘just a baby’ with only gentleness in his voice.

It’s so much easier to abandon and break out from the cultural idealisation of youth when you surround yourself with wonderful people in all stages of their lives.

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I can disagree with the diagnostic criteria because its typically a collection of symptom that a psychologist usually without the disorder decided was repetitive enough that it was real. An objective fact would be the chemical composition of water. Psychology and medicine is a practice and because it isn’t tangible or physical. Stop acting like bias, mistakes, and misinformation isn’t rampant in medicine. Abnormal psychology at its very foundation is built on “different bad.”

Now for an example:

I think that Autistic criteria should be rephrased. Autistic people have abnormal amounts of empathy which can mean less or more. But is typically phrased as and received as not having empathy. I also think the criteria should be more inclusive to those masking. Questions like the following should be rephrased. Rather than saying you are unable to read body language, it should say that reading body language takes effort and has to be done manually.

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Hi friend! Genuine question. I would love to follow, but before I do, I wanted to check if proshippers or radqueers are allowed on your profile? If not you may politely block or simply say no. Thank you, have a pleasant day dear. :)

IM GONNA ANSWER THIS HONESTLY. THIS IS NOT AN INVITE FOR DISCOURSE. I AM VERY SOLID IN MY VALUES AND OPINIONS AND IF YOU DISAGREE WITH THEM, EITHER SHUT UP ABOUT IT OR BLOCK US, WE DONT CARE /lh /srs

Oh buddy the day has come where I must reveal my stance on proship and rad queer (not like I ACTUALLY have to but yk rent lowering gunshots or whatever, this account has gotten bigger than I wanted anyways)

AHEM (don’t be scared asker I have very nuanced opinions)

First things first, short answer is yes, you can interact, anyone’s allowed to interact, I don’t really give a shit and many of my headmates give even LESS of a shit. If I disagree with or dislike you, as long as you’re not causing problems or make me specifically and directly uncomfortable in some way then I don’t care, and if I do care, I will simply block and move on. I don’t really like having too much hate or discourse on my page (especially from other people, yes I know I post about discourse fairly often, it’s because people annoy me and I have a lot to say lol) no matter who it’s targeted towards so honestly I’d have more of an issue with anyone of any stance causing problems than anyone of any stance just like…existing

Second, everyone in my system has different opinions on LOTS of things, including this, so like anyone who’s not comfortable with ANY opinion on ANYTHING either needs to be prepared to be civil or just block us tbh

Third, I and most of my system personally align with what we understand to be the original meaning of “proship” which is the whole “ship and let ship” “don’t like don’t read” kind of thing. I believe anything that exists anyways has a right to and if I dislike it I will simply not engage because good lord it’s not that difficult guys 🙏🙏🙏

Fourth, on the topic of radqueer, that is something that is EXTREMELY varied opinion wise in our system. I personally, and probably the most common opinion in our system, is that we kind of simply don’t care. It’s none of our business, we don’t fully understand it enough to have a super concrete opinion on it, I think trying to label our (personal, not general) extremely nuanced opinions is pointless. As long as you are not directly, knowingly, and intentionally hurting people, I do not care. I absolutely support all non-harmful paraphilias, and any paraphilias that COULD be harmful, I still support the people who have them, because they are people, many of whom cannot control their thoughts and feelings, just like anyone else. Again, as long as you are not directly, knowingly, and intentionally hurting people (which includes any form of non-consent) then I don’t care. If people can experience it, it’s part of life, and the second we put a line on where an experience is “too far” we open up more avenues for marginalized and oppressed people to get hurt.

And for TransIDs (or whatever alternative term people might use), to be fully honest, 95% of the time they are not harmful at all, they’re hardly different from xenogenders or literally just like…wanting to do something you currently don’t for whatever reason, and anything that possibly could be harmful, in our opinion, is more about how the person actually acts and understands the experience/identity/etc. they’re identifying as rather than…simply identifying as it. Idk if it’s an autistic thing but genuinely outside of people misusing or misunderstanding things, I don’t really get the concept of appropriation or gatekeeping on any front. I UNDERSTAND THE REASONS BEHIND IT, I understand a lot of it stems from people misunderstanding or misusing things, it stems from racism and colonization, it stems from ableism, it’s a way to protect your culture/experience (I guess??? I truly do not get it on a disability/neurodivergence/mental illness front tbh like yall are bordering on eugenics here with half your arguments just being “why would you want this???” You sound like a trans med that’s embarrassing) I get it. But your race and ethnicity and body and brain are all things you’re born into without say just like anything else is, and so many experiences overlap, and so many cultures have unknowingly made extremely similar practices/religions/clothing/make up/food/etc all throughout history. I feel like culture and experience is something that should be shared, and if someone resonates with something, they shouldn’t be blocked from it just because of the circumstances of how they were born

Tbh a lot of our opinions boil down to these key values and opinions:

1: don’t directly, intentionally, knowingly, and non-consensually hurt others

2: do whatever the fuck you want forever. If everyone was kind to each other it literally wouldn’t matter. Life is meant to be lived, experiences are meant to be had and shared and understood

3: anything that DOES exist has a RIGHT to exist, otherwise it wouldn’t exist, and again, the second you start trying to control that is the second you let controlling ANYTHING ANYONE disagrees with be ok, and that puts all of us in more danger

4: be kind and empathetic and understanding. Be open minded and LEARN. Stop shit talking when you don’t even know what you’re talking about. Way too many people, especially online, make half-baked opinions based on what they hear other people say and then are deathly stubborn about it, and that doesn’t help anyone. That’s what creates echo chambers and kills progress, creativity, individual thinking, and general kindness and understanding

5: I’m not god. I’m not omnipotent. I cannot and will not ever know, understand, or be able to control everything, it is pointless to try

6: at the end of the day we could all just fucking put our phones down and be people. People with varied experiences and feelings and thoughts and opinions, all of which are inherently valid, because they exist

I probably have more to say idk this is a very nuanced and honestly interesting topic to me but I’ve already got my block button locked and loaded for anyone trying to argue with me. I don’t care if you disagree, this is how I feel, and unlike a lot of people, I don’t let strangers on the internet dictate how I’m “allowed” to feel. If that were the case then literally I’d be a fucking neonazi because that shit is all over the internet. But I’m not, because I have critical thinking skills, confidence in myself, and arguably life ruining levels of empathy and thirst for knowledge (having low empathy is not a bad thing this is just part of the context for ME)

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Tbh the more “weird” a person is, the more I get confused when they don’t support other “weird” people

Like how can you be a system and alterhuman and objectum and autistic and trans and queer and schizophrenic etc etc but then be anti endo or anti “contradictory” labels

Like

Like dude those are our cousins what are you talking about

You’re weird as fuck why are you complaining about other people being weird in different ways tf

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Some cool art about some cool deep mystical stuff, yall wouldn’t get it /silly

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I can disagree with the diagnostic criteria because its typically a collection of symptom that a psychologist usually without the disorder decided was repetitive enough that it was real. An objective fact would be the chemical composition of water. Psychology and medicine is a practice and because it isn’t tangible or physical. Stop acting like bias, mistakes, and misinformation isn’t rampant in medicine. Abnormal psychology at its very foundation is built on “different bad.”

Now for an example:

I think that Autistic criteria should be rephrased. Autistic people have abnormal amounts of empathy which can mean less or more. But is typically phrased as and received as not having empathy. I also think the criteria should be more inclusive to those masking. Questions like the following should be rephrased. Rather than saying you are unable to read body language, it should say that reading body language takes effort and has to be done manually.

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Saw some dickheads on TikTok shitting on endos and their supporters again and acting like anyone who supports them is a bad person and any resource or site or whatever that supports them is spreading misinfo so

Hi just here to say that your experience is valid no matter what. You don’t need medical professionals to back it up to be real, and even if you did, medical professionals do in fact back up endos

Other people’s experiences are none of your business (unless they decide to share it with you) and it’s especially none of your business if you’re just gonna be a dick about it

The plural community was made by and for endos, us traumagenic and disordered systems should be more grateful that they treat us with such kindness and they deserve way more kindness back

It’s definitely not as prevalent here as platforms like TikTok but it certainly still exists and it’s saddening

It costs absolutely nothing to be kind. Someone experiencing something different(ly) from you does not and will not ever inherently invalidate your experience, but you making the choice to be mean or fake claim absolutely invalidates theirs and that’s not cool

Peace out weirdos /aff

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Saw some dickheads on TikTok shitting on endos and their supporters again and acting like anyone who supports them is a bad person and any resource or site or whatever that supports them is spreading misinfo so

Hi just here to say that your experience is valid no matter what. You don’t need medical professionals to back it up to be real, and even if you did, medical professionals do in fact back up endos

Other people’s experiences are none of your business (unless they decide to share it with you) and it’s especially none of your business if you’re just gonna be a dick about it

The plural community was made by and for endos, us traumagenic and disordered systems should be more grateful that they treat us with such kindness and they deserve way more kindness back

It’s definitely not as prevalent here as platforms like TikTok but it certainly still exists and it’s saddening

It costs absolutely nothing to be kind. Someone experiencing something different(ly) from you does not and will not ever inherently invalidate your experience, but you making the choice to be mean or fake claim absolutely invalidates theirs and that’s not cool

Peace out weirdos /aff

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do you still make Kandi? If so what’s your favorite thing you’ve made?

We haven’t made a lot of Kandi ourselves cause we don’t have a ton of supplies (and frankly we’re not that good at it) but here’s a bracelet I made in honor of Apollo recently !!

And here’s some brackets our friend made us a while back !!

In order they’re fronting bracelets for: Tabitha(🍓), Tommy(🚫), and Cody(🚭) :33

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hi so I did some research and I want to make sure I got this right. You talk about endos some so I thought I’d ask you. Feel free to delete for any reason. being endo is being plural without trauma, right? I had to sue urban dictionary bcs there’s rest of the internet doesn’t know ☹️

I know that many cases of plurality (but not all) are bcs of DID which is formed because of trauma.

Endogenic plurality is plurality that was not CAUSED by trauma

Common misconception, this does not mean that endogenic plurals never have any trauma or can’t be disordered

However disorders like DID and OSDD are cause by trauma. An endogenic system can develop said disorders if they experience trauma and it causes the other non-plurality symptoms

Hope this answers your question :33

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If I have to defend or explain myself for this post one more fucking time I’m actually gonna lose it

Can people not comprehend the fact that weird is not inherently an insult.

I am not saying these things necessarily have anything in common past being ostracized by general society

I am not saying any of these things are wrong or bad

I AM most of these things

Literally ALL I’m saying here is that I PERSONALLY don’t understand exclusionist culture because PERSONALLY I would never look at someone who is ALSO ostracized or oppressed or marginalized and tell them that their experience is wrong or fake, because I KNOW HOW THAT FEELS AND IT SUCKS

ALL I’m saying is that I PERSONALLY think it would be better if we were all more kind to each other

THATS what people are getting mad about, because either they’re misunderstanding what I’m saying or they’re straight up putting words in my mouth

Get your heads out of your asses, not everything is about you

“Here’s my bean soup recipe!!” “What if I don’t like beans?” Or “I like waffles” “oh so you hate pancakes?” Ass responses like get out of my face this post was NEVER that deep IM LITERALLY JUST ADVOCATING FOR KINDNESS AND COMMUNITY WHY ARE YOU MAD ABOUT THAT

Tbh the more “weird” a person is, the more I get confused when they don’t support other “weird” people

Like how can you be a system and alterhuman and objectum and autistic and trans and queer and schizophrenic etc etc but then be anti endo or anti “contradictory” labels

Like

Like dude those are our cousins what are you talking about

You’re weird as fuck why are you complaining about other people being weird in different ways tf

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I’m plural and older than most on this site. Being anti-endo is usually just misguided boundary maintenance (like in group out group stuff, not boundary setting). The part that is sad though is that lots of us pretend we are endo because otherwise people love to entitle themselves to the details of our trauma.

Mhmm mhmm very true, that’s why we’ve partly stopped mentioning our origin, both because like solidarity and principle, like it doesn’t matter, but also ITS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS !!

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OMG KITTIIIIEEESSSSSS

Do you like cats?

-Onyx from @reveriestarsystem

We love cats :33

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Do you like cats?

-Onyx from @reveriestarsystem

We love cats :33