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peculiar gent

[ PT: peculiar gent ]

★ for when you’re a peculiar gent. this term isn’t inherently masc- or man-aligned, and can be used however the user chooses to interpret it. this can be a gender, but it doesn’t have to be.

[ image ID: a horizontal flag with 9 stripes. it’s a top-to-bottom gradient from dark blue to yellowish off-white. there’s a dark blue bowtie symbol in the middle with a yellowish off-white outline. /end ID ]

taglist ( ask to be added or removed ): @sapphic-horror @radiomogai @khaenriahplurals @rwuffles @somniabyte @fangpunk

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✦ BOYGIRLFRIEND ! ✦

pt: boygirlfriend. end pt.

☆ ‿‿ definition : a flag for anyone who uses the term boygirlfriend, exclusively or not, in place of boyfriend / girlfriend / other typical partner terms !

pt: definition, a flag for anyone who uses the term boygirlfriend, exclusively or not, in place of boyfriend/girlfriend/other typical partner terms. end pt.

Template by @rwuffles, colours taken from the most well-known boygirl flag.

No spoons for ID

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"we need more weird queers!!"

you start parroting TERF talking points the milisecond someone says they are a lesboy or gaygirl

you cry when mspec lesbians/gays exist

you refuse to use neopronouns or it/its, even when those are a persons only set of pronouns

you expect a-specs to experience attraction in some way (yes, that includes platonic attraction)

you exclude intersex people

you can't even accept furries.

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— ABERROREX

[pt: aberrorex, end pt]

("ah-berrow-rex", from latin "abhorrere" and "aberrare")

a neogender that defies any definition; it is paradoxical, indescribable, and incomprehensible. like a sentence that rewrites itself every time you look at it, it is both there and not there, and may be an undefined, liminal presence. it doesn't just exist outside the binary, but exists outside definition itself.

you might identify with —

- paradoxes, contradictions, and things that cannot be fully understood

- concepts that dissolve or change upon being observed

- cosmic horror and eldritch beings in the sense of vastness beyond comprehension

- liminal spaces; existing in-between, outside, or beyond any defined state

- breaking free from structure, identity as something that shifts rather than solidifies

- the feeling of something too big to grasp, like the universe, black holes, and the deep ocean

- timelessness, formlessness, and the dissolution of boundaries

- glitches, distortions, things flickering in and out of existence

- anemoia, nostalgia for a place/time never experienced or has never even existed

AEXiN - aberrorex in nature

Aberroine - masculine/feminine equivalent

Anom (from anomaly) - man/woman equivalent

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hater autism

[pt: hater autism /end pt]

Coining this new thing called hater autism for when your autism causes you to be a fucking hater

This can include but is not limited to

Being easily irritable/short tempered and snappy

Experiencing low or fluctuating empathy that makes understanding others emotions even more difficult

Coming off as blunt or rude in conversation even if it's unintended

Being easily overstimulated

Having a blunted/flat affect and/or not emoting strongly causing you to read as angry

This isn't intended to offend folks this is literally about my experience with autism hope this helps

[flag id: the autism pride flag edited to be darker and red. the colors top down are, dark red, red, dark orange, orange and gold. the infinity symbol is dark red /end id]

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label hoarder

a label hoarder is someone who collects / “ hoards “ labels. this can be for many reasons; having a complex identity, feeling comfortable with a variety of terms, find it fun to collect labels, etc. this goes for collecting any labels, including names and pronouns.

genderhoarder

a gender hoarder is someone who collects / “ hoards “ gender labels. this can be for many reasons; having a complex / fluid gender, feeling comfortable with a variety of terms, find it fun to collect genders, etc.

pronounhoarder

a pronoun hoarder is someone who collects / “ hoards “ pronoun labels. this can be for many reasons; preferring a variety of pronouns, being pronounfluid, finding it fun to collect pronouns, etc.

name collector / namehoarder

a name hoarder is someone who collects / “ hoards “ name. this can be for many reasons; preferring a variety of names, being nomifluid, finding it fun to collect names, etc.

this isn’t a coining / recoining post, simply alt flag designs for those who want to use them.

no IDs, help appreciated

taglist ( ask to be added or removed ): @radiomogai @rwuffles @somniabyte @fangpunk @khaenriahplurals

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*gripping my hands so hard on a young trans persons shoulders that their bones are about to break*

do not log on to 4chan.com. do not get involved in passing olympics. you will always lose. do not put afab/amab/tma/tme* in your bio, that is cisgender society trying to know your “real” gender. you do not exist to please cisgender people. there is no ‘right’ way to be trans. learn your goddamn history, listen to your elders. listen to other disenfranchised groups. listen to intersex people and check yourself for intersexism. listen to trans poc and check yourself for racism. listen to disabled people and check yourself for ableism. be open to learning always. labels are meant to fit you, not the other way around. you are not weird or predatory for simply being attracted to others. you’re fine if you’re not a skinny white twink or a barbie doll. you’re fine if your body is ‘weird’. you’re fine if you don’t have heavy or any dysphoria. it’s okay if you actually don’t want to transition or anything like that. life is worth living at any stage, you deserve to be happy. I SWEAR THAT YOU ARE OKAY!!!!!

*ok editing this bc i think there are some major misunderstandings here and also ignorance on my part so lemme clear the air. when i wrote “don’t put tme/tma” in ur bio i did NOT mean to say that discussions around transmisogyny aren’t important or that tme/tma cannot be helpful terminology, and i’m super sorry that it came off that way. i will admit that i was unfamiliar with the history of tme/tma as a term and was introduced to it through some really bad online queer discourse. but it’s always been of my opinion that discussion around all forms of bigotry, including transmisogyny, are important and need to be had. i explained in a rb, which i’ll link when i have more time, that my issue was with the way the term is used as only identification/oppression olympics rather than genuine nuanced discussion about the ways that transphobia/transmisogyny/transandrophobia/etc function and interact with each other. i advised young trans people to not put tma/tme in their bios, bc i know that the wrong people (not just cis people, but transphobes and assholes who just want to get under your skin) would use any indication of your direction of transition to try and misgender you. or specifically in the case of tma/tme, tell you that your experiences/thoughts are not valid or reasonable bc you were tma or tma.

i realize how not originally clarifying that makes me look stupid (and a transmisogynist), so seriously, i’m sorry for that major mishap. tma/tme are not inherently bad words and you are 1000% allowed to use whatever terminology fits you and your experiences best. so as another word of advice: please do not let some rando on the internet tell you how you should talk about your experiences

(also idgaf if you don’t “log on” to 4chan or that it’s “not a website”, the fact that any of you know that is shameful and upsetting)

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I remember going through a blog and seeing this post about POC in kink spaces and wanted to know what people thought about the situation in general (OP is Bengali themself). I don’t go here a lot so idk the overall climate on this topic, feel free to explain in tags or direct posts

I am only posting this for discussion reasons and not for any callout or anything, since it was a question I had myself and want to see what other ppl in the space had to offer to the discussion

DISCLAIMER: PLEASE do not contact the OP as this was made in 2019 and the situation might’ve changed since then. She has directly said that you should do what you want and not let random people’s opinions online control what you do. She does not use Tumblr anymore and does not want to be contacted anymore.

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Fauxboy & Fauxgirl

Only identifying as a "boy" because it makes it easier to explain to people who wouldn't understand your true gender, only being a "boy" for safety reasons, or your gender feels like a fake, false, made up boy!

Only identifying as a "girl" because it makes it easier to explain to people who wouldn't understand your true gender, only being a "girl" for safety reasons, or your gender feels like a fake, false, made up girl!

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need a robotic nun to lightly rap me on the knuckles every time i chase temptation out of Compulsion rather than Desire, "if you're gonna Sin, at least do it through Agency and Intention rather than Base Impulse," she would say, "do it because you Want It, not Just because you Don't want to do Whatever You're Currently Doing"

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these are my cats i don't have a problem

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Posting on a side blog also I’m too scared to ask this in a community chat so I hope this reaches the tag..

Large vent about my own personal identity:

Under the cut bc it is a LOT of explaining/venting

I don’t know where else to put this but I kinda have a weird apprehension with referring to myself/identifying with any less “mainstream” lgbt term. Like I found the term aegosexual and it fit me perfectly, but I felt kind of apprehensive to refer to myself as that like I wasn’t even sure, like I had to meet some criteria to do so ?? It fits but I feel kind of like I’m not actually it, it’s weird!! Maybe bc of how I saw ppl act towards stuff like this, idk

Like right now, I kinda feel like being a woman gives you a lot of constraints on your appearance and how you should act, and I do sometimes wonder what that makes me because I don’t have dysphoria, I just find being a woman tiring, but at the same time I know I’m not a *man*, I just want to do stuff like feel like I shouldn’t have to shave my body hair or wear dresses over pants since fancy dresses that are form-fitting and have cuts for the leg made me feel self conscious, plus pants are more comfortable to me, but I’m afraid that doesn’t make me need a label and like I’m looking for excuses? I don’t even know because I’m so uncertain and feel like I’m looking for excuses to be in a group, but I don’t see that many lgbt people or any groups in Southwestern USA so I have no ppl to compare with so I have no idea!

Like, I sometimes have something happen to me and I have an internal flash of “this wouldn’t happen if I wasn’t a woman” but at the same time I know that being a man isn’t what I want. Like what I really want is to just want to be not held down by feminine stereotypes and only feel like that when I want to. But. I don’t know if that necessitates a label or if I’m just complaining about something ghrgrggrrgrhrggr But at the same time I don’t want to change my pronouns I don’t know!!!

And I get that labels aren’t everything! And many find them restrictive, but this has always been how I’ve done things, I personally categorize things like feelings because it helps me pinpoint and describe what they are better. But I can’t bring myself to do it when it comes to something as integral to your identity as sexuality or gender. It’s too much pressure so to speak

But at the same time I feel like if I do choose a label I feel like I’m not actually feeling it and that I’m just picking one to be part of a group or something and this is really hard 😭 I keep seeing ppl say that when they know they are something, the term makes something in their mind just click, I think im just trying to look for that but im too scared ppl will say im faking or dont count or something. Like. someone accusing me of faking it is a PRIMAL fear I have.

And honestly? That’s how I feel about if I should use the term bisexual! So, there were a lot of times where I’ve fallen in love/had crushes on men, real and fictional. But. There’s also MULTIPLE accounts of me being into women/fem aligned ppl. But the thing is they were all fictional. Like nearly 98% were fictional women. But they weren’t anything short lived, I remember having a crush on one fem character for nearly a year, a legitimate crush, as in reading “imagines”, “x reader” fanfics, looking at art, and listening to fanmade voice acting of the character for days in a row like it was a ritual (if you’re curious, it was Spinel). This also happened AGAIN recently, but with a friend’s OC that I just gravitated to since August of last year, and I still feel infatuated, just to a lesser extent. I’ve made at least 2 lesbian couples as characters when I was in grade school. I still have a lot of feelings for some of my own female characters to this day!

But I feel like that doesn’t count. Like what, I’m bisexual just because I like fictional women but not actual real-life women?? I feel like a NEET, I have to be attracted to IN REAL LIFE women in order to actually consider myself bisexual. It ALSO feels like I’m looking too hard to be in a group when I think this but it’s obviously something if it’s still happening! Do fictional women count if it’s only fictional women and not irl women??? But I also do sometimes find some real life women attractive aesthetically or have attractive qualities to me, but I don’t feel infatuated towards them bc they’re actual ppl… maybe I am aegosexual aldgskdjl I WANT TO GO TO A MORE DIVERSE PART OF THE US THAN THIS SO I CAN ACTUALLY GET A FOCUS GROUP!!!

Anyway yeah, I just needed to get this off my chest because my own insecurities are holding me back from exploring, I wish my mind would just get a grip already and figure it out. Like “hmmmmm I wonder if I’m bisexual or not, I guess I’ll never know :(“ <- (literally thought about making/drawing a butch lesbian ursula character today and yesterday, has said they would date their own masc-aligned nb character) like come the fuck onnn

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Did you know that in English, there is actually a class of words that look completely alike, but actually mean completely different things and the correct meaning can only be found through context, or clues about what the person means? These words are called “homonyms” or “homographs”!

For example, the sentence “I went to the bank” can have two meanings despite the seemingly straightforward nature. You could either mean “the river bank” or a building known as a bank. All it comes down to is the context, since there’s no way to tell when the person is talking about which location by just looking at the sentence.

But “contronyms”, words that have meanings that are direct opposites of each other, make the tool of context much less useful, since some English-speakers get confused that they mean the opposite meaning of what the speaker actually meant, which undermines the point of context as a whole.

Gotta start treating english like monolinguistic english speakers treat other languages

Did you know English doesn't have a word for the Irish word 'mar'? Instead they have to say 'is the cause' of or 'because' for short

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Candy Flags [Ace, Ply, Aro, Demi Ace, Bi, Demi Aro, Lesbian, Pan, Gay Man]

All flags are free to use and requests are always open ~

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So I bought these tiny plush dinosaurs today and decided they were gfs, so of course I had to make a dinosaur lesbian flag. enjoy!

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so everyone is making a lesbian flag redesign due to the creator being a piece of shit (racist, ableist, biphobic, and even lesbophobic against butches), so i made mine for fun and I ended up really liking it!

(TIP FOR PEOPLE WHO WANT TO MAKE FLAGS: as a graphic designer student please ask yourself: will it be printable? will it show up good on screens or on printed stuff? Neon colors won’t end up neon at all on a flag or on paper! you have to make sure that your flag looks good on CMYK)

i used a Pantones CMYK Coated palette i made

here are the meanings i put into it!

1. gender nonconformity, dreams, fighting for rights and future

2. violet flowers! a symbolic gift that would represent love, i also thought it could be for lesbians who dont fit into the “butch or femme” categories

3. for trans and nonbinary lesbians!

4. femme lesbians, feminity and romance

5. butch lesbians, passion and strenght

i hope yall like it

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i made a pride flags set for a pride flags blog i like! @joyfulflags

guaraná jesus pride flags

lesbian | gay | bi trans | nb | agender

guaraná jesus is a brazilian soda :3 my friend was making pride flags based on different sodas so i decided to make some too, based on a soda from my country. guaraná jesus looks like this!