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So you tell me sometimes you need a reminder to be there. Maybe a Signal or sign like a cartoon playing or pacifier in hand.

Ok. I was told to keep telling you ok by someone who loves me.

I look to you for comfort and love, hugs and cuddles that barely last for time, and for the actions of your words. But you said you not that person.

You won't check up on me, even if you knew I had a painful day or a scarier day already. You'll tell me your in pain everyday. Your not going to ask me if I need help or just walk up and hug me instead of grabbing me first.

I was pumped full of promises of my dreams. Trapped in the country, in my declining mind, just here until Im gone.

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I said please 🙏🏽

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Like actually tho why

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DOLL ANNOUNCEMENT: these dating questions are getting ridiculous! your life should NOT revolve around a man... if you find yourself devoting too much time to a man and his shenanigans, you have got to cut him loose. you have to let a grown man lead HIMSELF into healing... stop trying to do it for him based off of potential - the habits he developed are his own until he decides to do better. you are NOT his therapist.

i'm speaking from experience. like are you enabling the drama because you enjoy the thrill and chaos? are you tolerating it because you conflate abuse with "relationship struggles"? are you crying about it because you fear being alone? it's so, so valid but you have to shift your focus to what you CAN control right now. and you can control how you move on.

i hate to say it, but sometimes WE are the problem. like... some of y'all are dumbing yourself down and ignoring your God given intuition. i'll admit that the cult of domesticity has us fast forwarding to trying to build a home. but with NO foundation? we all need a home, but remember, it starts with the SELF first. if you got no routine, no accountability, no faith... a partner/situationship becomes nearly like a God - your answer to anything and your purpose for everything. and that's unfair to both of you.

you have to dedicate your free time to being a better woman. we gotta touch grass. linkedin, indeed, traveling, self improvement, knowledge, doing silly girl things, devoting time to build your beliefs and morals, following your dreams, reinventing/creating a vision, getting healthy, relearning yourself... i don't know. just stop making excuses and do better. and i'm saying this as your big sister from experience. take a break from dating and focus on you until it's time again.

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I dreamed that I had a lovely baby girl and a husband, I miss that little life I had... It was so perfect

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🖤 Reminder that you don't need to dress in light colors to be classy or feminine, you can still wear your darker colors 🖤

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I love my wife's thinking.

My wife: Babe, I bought bath bombs… These are on sale…

Me: That's wonderful, honey.

My wife: There were two in the set. One is for you.

(I'm getting suspicious.)

Me: Oh, really?

My wife: Yes. One is pink… The other is blue. Which one do you want?

Me: sigh Pink.

My wife, clearly happy: Really?

Me: Yes, honey. I know you hate pink. I'll risk.

My wife: What if you turn into a unicorn after using a pink bath bomb?

Me: Then you can still ride me.

My wife:… Okay! :D

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Things I can't wait to say to my future wife:

Darling I'm home

why don't you sit on the floor and rest your head in my lap while I read us this book

Thank you for the meal love. It was delicious

would you dance with me?

go make sure that the kids are asleep and fallow me to the bedroom

you're the light of my life

never seen a pregnant woman looking this gorgeous

Wanna take a shower?

I make the decision here and you fallow them.

You and the kids are my responsibility.

Get the picnic stuff ready. I took tomorrow off so I can spend the day with the most important people in my life. You and the kids.

I love you

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ladies we need to start frantically and obsessively reading books in less than 24 hours again..remember how happy we were

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There is truly nothing like sitting your little princess on your lap so she faces you and embracing her tight with your arms. Just as she wraps herself around you and clings onto you, then buries her face deep into your shoulder. You rub her back and gently swap side to side, while giving her the occasional kiss on the cheek.

Sometimes a little needs that, to feel safe, to feel secure, to feel innocent, to feel like the little girl that she is, and to feel the love her Daddy has for her.

Sometimes Daddies need that to feel like he is her gentle nurturer, to feel like he is her protector, to feel like her emotional rock, to feel the trust his little one has for him, and to feel the love his little one has for him.

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So the good little baby can crawl nicely.

Damit das brave kleine Baby schön krabbeln kann.

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what do you look like?

Like a gorgeous kitten princess with a hijab 🧕🏾✨

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