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the number one thing i’m shifting for is my own peace of mind. i’m tired of constantly being at war with myself and i want to feel satisfied for once in my life.

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ur in a different reality to the one you were in this morning btw 🤷‍♀️ always shifting, always changing

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𝘀𝘁𝗼𝗽 𝘁𝗿𝘆𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗼 𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗳𝘁.

when you're trying to open a door, do you shout at it louder and louder saying "𝗼𝗽𝗲𝗻!!" until it does ? well no, 𝗼𝗯𝘃𝗶𝗼𝘂𝘀𝗹𝘆.

Instead, 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘄𝗮𝗹𝗸 𝘂𝗽 𝘁𝗼 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗱𝗼𝗼𝗿, 𝗽𝘂𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗱𝘀 𝗼𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗱𝗹𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝗼𝗽𝗲𝗻 𝗶𝘁, right ?

𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁'𝘀 𝗲𝘅𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗹𝘆 𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗳𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸𝘀.

𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗳𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗶𝘀𝗻’𝘁 𝗮𝗯𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝘀𝗵𝗼𝘂𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 "𝗼𝗽𝗲𝗻" 𝗮𝘁 𝗮 𝗹𝗼𝗰𝗸𝗲𝗱 𝗱𝗼𝗼𝗿. it’s about walking up to it, gently turning the handle, and realizing 𝐢𝐭 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐧𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐥𝐨𝐜𝐤𝐞𝐝 𝐚𝐭 𝐚𝐥𝐥.

you don’t 𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗰𝗲 your way through. you remember you had the key all along. or maybe, 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝘄𝗮𝘀 𝗻𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗻 𝗮 𝗸𝗲𝘆. just 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗼𝘄𝗻 𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗱, and the knowing to use it.

what i want you to remember is that 𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐟𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐝𝐨𝐞𝐬𝐧'𝐭 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐜𝐢𝐧𝐠, it comes with 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝘀𝘁. see the hand as surrender. it’s the part of you that already knows 𝗶𝘁 𝗯𝗲𝗹𝗼𝗻𝗴𝘀, 𝗜𝘁 𝘁𝘂𝗿𝗻𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗱𝗹𝗲 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗶𝗹𝗹𝘂𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗳𝗮𝗱𝗲𝘀.

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i’m actually in hogwarts rn my eyes are just stupid

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i am, once again, reminding everyone that you’re not lacking if you want to shift. wanting something does not equal lack. i don’t ever want to hear that shit again, thank you!

the amount of limitations people put on themselves day in and day out, while also spreading it to others, is ridiculous to me. like, yes girl you can shift if you simply want to. like ??? 😭 you don’t need to decide that you’ve already shifted in order to shift, because that is nothing more than someone’s assumption and is not some secret requirement.

end of story!

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i wasn’t destined to stay true to just one universe. i was made to explore, to love, to experience my soul belonging to multiple different fingerprints.

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You’ve rewritten your script 20 times.

You’ve visualized every possible outcome.

Now stop worrying and SHIFT.

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I was about to complain but I think instead I'll just get my shit together and shift

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i think i finally grasped the loa ???????

like . it settled in. i got it

i have shifted. i’m not here waiting for anything and the 3d is not catching up. i have already shifted, i’m always in my dr. there is no reason for me to think “i’m stuck” bc it’s simply not true.

i decide so, and it’s done. that’s it. there are no other possible options for me.

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i will wake up in my home reality the moment i fall asleep tonight. i will wake up in my home reality the moment i fall asleep tonight. i will wake up in my home reality the moment i fall asleep tonight. i will wake up in my home reality the moment i fall asleep tonight. i will wake up in my home reality the moment i fall asleep tonight. i will wake up in my home reality the moment i fall asleep tonight. i will wake up in my home reality the moment i fall asleep tonight. i will wake up in my home reality the moment i fall asleep tonight. i will wake up in my home reality the moment i fall asleep tonight. i will wake up in my home reality the moment i fall asleep tonight. i will wake up in my home reality the moment i fall asleep tonight. i will wake up in my home reality the moment i fall asleep tonight. i will wake up in my home reality the moment i fall asleep tonight. i will wake up in my home reality the moment i fall asleep tonight. i will wake up in my home reality the moment i fall asleep tonight. i will wake up in my home reality the moment i fall asleep tonight. i will wake up in my home reality the moment i fall asleep tonight. i will wake up in my home reality the moment i fall asleep tonight. I WILL WAKE UP IN MY HOME REALITY THE MOMENT I FALL ASLEEP TONIGHT.

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POV:me shifting back to my dr after the most minor inconvenience

!!!EVERYONES SHIFTING TONIGHT!!!

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Honestly, some people explain shifting methods like we’re not even allowed to feel anything. They're the first ones to say "nothing can stop you from shifting," but then if you're sad or angry, it's suddenly a problem. Like... we're not robots.

What really gets me is that l've been thinking the exact same thing since last night. I'm going through a rough time right now, and I still shift. That's not an obstacle. But when people talk about it, they make it sound like it is.

I was literally planning to post about this today, but honestly? You said everything that had to be said😭

you know what irks me that i see happening in the shifting community?? this entire concept that you have to be this sort of perfect zen master or totally healed to shift. come on? seriously. no one's strolling around 100% present and centered 24/7. i see this as procrastination almost, making it all glossed and deceptive so you won't have to actually do the work. ???? there will always be some random part of you to improve on bcs you are human.

i swear i've shifted when i was a hot mess !!!!!!!!!!!!!! exhausted, stressed, unfocused, literally feeling like i had no control. and guess what? it still worked. but some of you get caught up in this mentality "oh no i'm not ready yet, i gotta get everything sorted first, gotta meditate for hours, gotta be perfect" like??? noooo. stop waiting around for it.

how can you possibly be ready when you're literally waiting to get ready?? with this mindset, there always something to do. something to script. a piece of content to absorb like a mad man. it’s endless. it's a trap. a mindfuck.

and it's just so infuriating bcs it makes shifting feel like this enormous impossible mountain instead of this simple thing that you're already doing but don't want to acknowledge. you can be messy, mad, even afraid.

there's no such thing as the so called "perfect" moment or place. stop holding yourself captive to it. pls. just jump into it already.. stop standing in the way with your own "i'm not ready, i have to script blah blah blah" horse crap.????

like i just want to yell at times. shifting doesn’t require you to be ready at. all. it's about doing it regardless. just shift. that's it.

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𝑆𝐻𝐼𝐹𝑇𝐼𝑁𝐺 𝑃𝑅𝑂𝑃𝐴𝐺𝐴𝑁𝐷𝐴 𝐼𝑀 𝑵𝑶𝑻 𝐹𝐴𝐿𝐿𝐼𝑁𝐺 𝐹𝑂𝑅

i. “you have to use a method” sybau

ii. caring what other people do in their drs (idgaf unless you’re hurting people)

iii. kill drs

iv. “shifting isn’t scientific” there’s so many scientific explanations but ok

v. needing an s/o in every dr

vi. scripting out every imperfection (js a personal thing — i like flaws in my drs as it makes me enjoy the good even more)

vii. judging people who “over-script” or don’t script at all.

viii. thinking it’s cheating if your partner shifts for someone else … (get a grip)

ix. “original reality”

x. “you can’t be religious whilst also being a shifter”

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stop idolizing shifters who already shifted like they’re better than you.

they are not. they’re not special. they’re just proof it’s possible. you can get there too. focus on your own path.

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note to self cause I need it: your DR isn’t waiting for you; it already exist. It’s not a reward or something you need to “earn’’ It’s not “someday’’. It’s now It’s already yours. You’re already there. You are just remembering. And while you’re remembering, it’s okay to cry. To ache. To hate the old reality. That doesn’t make you ungrateful or negative. It makes you honest. Cause of course you will hate something that lie. you have a beautiful soul and heart, and have so much awareness of it all. You are okay. You’re in your dr. So just breath, and relax, please.