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its ok. 

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I care. I always care. That is my problem.

Unknown

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its ok. 

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ahh … ha ha. oh god. ye good ole fear of abandonment. 

also, for the record, you can reblog even if you don’t have bpd. I understand a lot of people with different disorders may feel these things, even though we experience them differently. so you are allowed to reblog! 

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When friend is clearly upset but they don’t wanna talk about it but you wanna help but don’t know how and you just kinda

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I have survived. I am here. Confused, screwed up, but here.

Laurie Halse Anderson

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The worst trick a childhood anxiety disorder pulls is, you spend your early years being applauded for being so much more mature than your peers, because you aren’t disruptive, you don’t want any kind of attention, you don’t express yourself, you keep yourself to yourself - this makes you a pleasure to have in class, etc etc - and you start to believe it’s virtue. But you’re actually way behind your peers in normal social development, and who knows if you can ever catch up.

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What’s Hard About Depression

1. You feel as if you’re judged - and that you’re rarely understood.

2. You know that others love you – but you didn’t feel like they care.

3. You want to feel you’re wanted – but you feel you’re in the way.

4. You want to just be normal but you’re shrouded by despair.

5. You wish you could be happy – but you can’t stop feeling bad.

6. You want to make the effort – but you don’t energy.

7. You feel that things are hopeless - as they never seem to change.

8. You’ve heard that life gets better – but it’s so hard to get there!

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im a fucking clingy ass person so i love when other people are clingy too like yes please reassure me that you don’t hate me and you actually enjoy being around me