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i think everyone needs to adopt "i didnt say it was good, i said i liked it" into their vocabulary right now. it did me wonders

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“how could you have forgotten that” i forget Everything. unless i remember

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Certain words can change your brain forever and ever so you do have to be very careful about it.

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i literally never check my messages but i deeply appreciate seeing things like this on the rare occasion i do. its like reading animal crossing letters from people i may or may not know after not playing the game for months. could be anything. its a surprise.

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give me two characters who are each other’s home. two characters who feel completely safe, warm and protected in each other’s presence, and who are completely respected by the other. two people who, on some level or another, were missing that little extra spark they needed to feel fully confident and accepted as their whole selves until the other came along. they don’t “fix each other” or “make each other better”–they give the other the support they need to build on what was already inside them. sure they might kiss, or make goo-goo eyes, but they can also just…talk, and make each other laugh and smile, because for once they feel comfortable enough in themselves and with each other to be vulnerable in that way. two complete people who finally find someone to share all of themselves with. and no matter what they do or how far they go, they’ll always have each other to come back home to. 

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💜 Novias! 💜

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shout out to people who's family isnt entirely bad or entirely good, but something in between and you dont know how to feel about them. you feel angry but you also feel guilty, because you know they genuinely love and care about you, but sometimes they show it in a way you know its not okay. your feelings are valid, your anger and sadness and grief are valid, and you dont have to prove this to no one. bigger shout out to those with memory issues who know something isnt right but can't recall all of the bad events, only the feelings, which only increases the guilt.

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if youre chronically ill and struggling with finishing things then i want you to know its ok!!

its ok if your progress is slow or small because any progress is important! take your time and know that you will finish whatever you are struggling to finish even if it takes a really long time dont beat yourself up even if it gets frustrating because youre not a failure and its ok to struggle!!

youre moving at your comfort pace and you will get there

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Just realized that the reason I love making friends on tumblr is because it’s exactly how you make friends on the playground as a six year old. No, I don’t know their name but they love mermaids too and built this awesome sand castle. No, I don’t know their age but their imaginary cheetah is friends with mine. You like this show? You like this character?? You can sing the theme song really loud??? Here is a flower crown. Here is a juice box. You can share my time and I might never see you again but part of you stays in my soul forever. In my mind we’re still on the swing set and the sky is blue and nothing will ever be wrong again.

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I’m 35 now. Also here’s the original doodle

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summer to-do list: unlearn internalized shame, sunbathe, read some good books

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Reblog if it’s ok for people to give you $599.99