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it’s not fair that Wen is so wonderful and amazing

i wish i didn’t fall for someone who’s leaving so soon

everything feels so right when i’m with them

if i’m this devastated from not having seen them for just a day…

i know i’m just borrowing happiness from the future

i don’t think anything can prepare me for how much i’ll break

i’m gonna cry

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Della

I don't really feel comfortable around her the way I used to. It really feels like I was tricked into thinking she saw and understood who I was. But with such a poor understanding of transphobia, she also has a poor understanding of what trans is and as a result, what I am.

After her first comment, I figured she probably just had some internalised transphobia (but what cos person doesn't

Mmm i don't know how I feel about dicks on women

TO A TRANSWOMAN WTF

But my (soft) confrontation on her views went super South and kinda revealed just how ignorant she was on trans stuff

I like cis men and I like cis women

It's just my own preference so how is it harming anyone

That's not transphobic

I see trans ppl as they're own gender...trans women are in a different category to men

Granted she did take back the last one but it's kinda clear that she definitely doesn't understand or accept trans identities even if she thinks she does.

Moreso to tell ME of all ppl what is and isn't transphobic is a bit 😶

But even after all that bs I still thought I might be able to get through to her since she was willing to learn (or at least saying so).

The third time we spoke I only just wanted to make sure she was fine after crying the other night and not actually discuss the contents of the discussion. So of course we ended up discussing the contents of the other night where Della doubled down on only liking cis women (like you'd think it was a joke at this point)

I'm not attracted to obese ppl, is that fatphobic? I don't think so

WHAT literally what the fuckk is fatphobia if not literally that!!!

She wasn't very receptive to me telling her that was fatphobic and I suspect she won't be very receptive to learn she's very transphobic.

I don't really feel comfortable around her anymore and I feel super uncomfortable about letting her know anything more about my queer life. I don't think I'll be introducing her to anymore of my queer friends, she's not safe.

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i miss wen

this sucks