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portraits of utility poles

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i am dumber & smarter than u think. do not estimate me

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i’m at the point where watching tv shows i haven’t seen before qualifies as being productive

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they need to invent a word worse than procastinating just for me

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Nocticula - Demon Lord & Redeemer Queen

Nocticula Lady in Shadow then Redeemer

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why dis 👿 look so mad?

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A quick Isabela sketch between commissions and other work cause I love her 😭😭😭

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“Eyes up here, Zevran.“

I have been told to draw more both Isabela and Zevran so here u go ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

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help i've been thinking about replaying dai of all games for a week already. and it doesn't go away

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you have a disgusting storytelling addiction

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I really do love when men fuck each other I get kinda emotional about it sometimes

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"black people are seen as hyper-masculine and face a lot of violence for it, so yes you can be oppressed for seeming or being masculine"

AHT!! lets talk! black people are not actually hyper-masculine. hyper-masculinity is a projection by people trying to justify anti-black fear and violence. it is not a true and then demonised observation about black existence. the hyperfocus on the masculinity of black people is itself racism!

when you call this issue of racism anti-masculinity or misandry or whatever, you are obfuscating the bigotry at play. ESPECIALLY given that it is overwhelmingly just white women's fear about black people's supposed hyper-masculinity that actually gets listened to & acted upon.

in addition, there are other addendums people tack onto their anti-blackness that completely cause this logic to fall apart when applied. Namely, adultification! black people, black children get adultified by white society.

We are assumed to be older & more independent, and thus less in need of the safety, care, sensitivity, accommodation one would give to a child, and this results in violence and neglect. it is directly observable in the way black children are more likely to get detention, suspended or expelled for the same behaviour as their white peers, s/a rates for black youth, and the arguments that 40 y/o cops give for brutalising & murdering black 20, 16, 12, 8 year olds who so much as breathe in their line of sight.

Given this then, following the misandry logic, we can say being recognised as older or as an adult is a form of oppression.

"black people are seen as older/more mature and face a lot of violence for it, so yes, you can be oppressed for seeming like or being an adult"

we can for the sake of this post name this oppression adultery.

i kid. but do you see the problem. being recognised as an adult is obviously, not itself a form of oppression, in fact quite the opposite, being recognised as adult can grant you a lot of privileges that children do not have.

and black kids are evidently, not adults or people who act like adults. they dont mature faster. black 18 y/os will also face the problem of adultification to justify violence against them. black maturity is not a true and then demonised observation about black existence. the form of oppression is racism, and adultification is the deployed means of enacting racism.

the means of combatting the adultification of black people would not come in creating adult positivity or "advocating" for adults or telling children not to fear adults. it comes in the form of learning about anti-blackness, unlearning anti-blackness, and actually directly combatting anti-blackness.

similarly the means of combatting the hyper-masculinisation of black people comes in the form of learning about anti-blackness, unlearning anti-blackness, and actually directly combatting anti-blackness.

Racism explains both of this phenomena far better than "misandry" ever could.

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happy make a terrible comic day. i think ive been using this dandelion guy as a sona since well before i started going by the name dandelion

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sanctified in my lover's eyes // (alt)

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I'm not so sure about this "having a hobby or 'special interest' is not the same thing as having an academic degree in a subject in terms of expertise" take